Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Number ek raay se zyada thos tathya jaisa lagta hai, aur shayad isiliye baat us cheez se zyada der tikti hai jiske baare mein kahi gayi thi.
“Is umar mein to padhai pehle aati hai.”
Kuch logon ko neeche ek niyam baitha sunayi deta hai: “Cheezein shuru karne ki ek umar hoti hai, aur wo nikal chuki,” ya “Is umar mein kuch naya chahna zara bewakoofi hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Saath mein hans dena aur admission page baad mein chupchaap band kar dena
- Plan ki safai mein aisa bhaashan de dena jo kisi ne maanga nahi
- Phir bhi naam likha lena, aur har class mein nazron ke neeche mehsoos karna
- Vichaar ko “Kabhi baad mein” jaisi dhundhli jagah rakh dena
- Har nayi chaahat ko pehle apni umar se milakar dekhne lagna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Drum class mein likhaya naam
Kota mein ek Saturday. Aap batate ho ki aapne drum class mein naam likhaya hai. Didi hanskar kehti hain, “Is umar mein drum? Ab kya band banana hai?” Aap bhi hans dete ho, par baad mein hall mein nayi drum-sticks haath mein liye sochte ho ki class cancel kar dein. Subah wali umang sharm mein badal chuki hai. Chhota-sa pal hai, par socha se zyada der tikta hai.
Kuch cheezein bas jawaanon ke liye
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Kuch cheezein sirf jawaan logon ke liye hain.” Ye seedhi samajh lagta hai. Bahut log bina soche isi se chalte hain. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: un cheezon ke darwaaze band kar deta hai jo aapko achhi lagtin. Shauk, kapde, sair-sapate, sab aapki umar se milaye jaate hain, aur jo nahi jachta wo rakh diya jaata hai.
Hamein umar ke niyam kyun bataye gaye
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki aksar hamein bataya jaata hai ki kis umar mein kya jachta hai. Bahut log aise hi kisi niyam ke saath bade hote hain, aur tab iska matlab bhi banta tha. Shayad aapne “Apni umar ka to khayal karo” pehle suna hai. Shayad aapko hansi udne ka darr hai. Sochna galat nahi. Ye apnapan chahne se aata hai. Ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Har baat jo darwaaza band karti hai
Har “Is umar mein?” ek darwaaza band karta hai. Dheere-dheere sab judta jaata hai, aur ye itne dheemey hota hai ki pakadna mushkil hai. Aap class chhod dete ho. Nayi cheezein aazmana band kar dete ho. Waise kapde aur bartaav apna lete ho jaisa sochte ho sabse ummeed ki jaati hai. Life tang lagne lagti hai, jaise maze ki cheezon ki expiry date nikal chuki ho.
Kya umar ka niyam iske layak hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochhiye: kya umar ke niyam maanne se kabhi aap zyada khush rahe? Ya zyadatar duniya chhoti hui? Log har umar mein seekhte, khelte aur nayi cheezein aazmate hain. Yahan koi jawab galat nahi. Chahein to ek pal is par thaharaiye. Ek number is baat ka paimana nahi ki aap kisme khushi le sakte hain. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna iske layak hai?
Maze ki expiry nahi hoti
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki sab kuch karna hai. Matlab ye ki aapki umar tay nahi karti ki aapko kisme maza lene ki ijaazat hai. Class jaari rakhiye, thoda ladkhadaiye, aur hansiye. Chhote se shuru ho sakta hai, ek pal se. Iske liye kuch aur badalna zaroori nahi. Wahin se kuch chain lautta hai: life phir khulti hai, aur maza har umar mein aapka rehta hai.
If anyone mocks, threatens or frightens you for the choices you make at your age, that is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleKuch cheezein sirf jawaan logon ke liye hain.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMaze ki koi expiry date nahi hoti.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Is hafte ek aisi cheez aazmaiye jo mazedaar lage
- Din 2
Gaur kijiye ki koi insaan kisi bhi umar mein kuch enjoy kar raha hai
- Din 3
Jab umar ka niyam aaye, mann mein poochhiye: kisne kaha?
Is par baat karni hai?
“Jab kisi ne kaha “Is umar mein?”, tab aap kya aazmana chahte the, aur uski taraf kya kheenchta tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Ek vaakya jo chaahat par taareekh chipka de #
Kota ki chhat par shaam, guitar case se nikalta hai aur Didi hanskar kehti hain: “Is umar mein guitar? Ab kaun-sa concert dena hai?” Office ke lunch mein weekend coding course ki baat, Chacha ke saamne dance class ka zikr, dost ke saamne phir se padhai ka, aur jawab wahi: “Ab wo umar nahi rahi.”
Ye tathya jaisa sunayi deta hai, halke se kaha hua. Par wo cheez ko nahi dekhta, class, shauk, nayi shuruaat ko; wo ek aankde ko dekhta hai, aur chaahat sawaal poochhe jaane se pehle hi almari mein laut sakti hai.
Jab kisi ne kaha “Is umar mein ye sab?”, tab aap kya aazmane, shuru karne ya naam likhane wale the, aur kab se soch rahe the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Sochne se pehle hi chaahat kyun sikud jaati hai #
Kuch log batate hain ki andar kuch girta hai: muskaan aadhi reh jaati hai, admission wala page band ho jaata hai, oopar se ek hansi jod di jaati hai taaki chaahat mazaak lage. Kuch fauran behes karte hain; kuch chup hokar baat mausam ya traffic par le jaate hain.
Kisi ki chaahat ko haath se hata diya jaaye, to ye ek second ke andar, sochne se pehle lag jaata hai. Soch aksar baad mein aati hai, jab laptop par tab khula hi rehta hai, ya class ka parcha bag mein muda pada hota hai.
Jis pal kisi ne kaha ki aapki umar nahi rahi, uske baad ke kuch minuton mein us yojana ka kya hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ye chaahat ka jawab ek number se deta hai #
“Ye kaam ke saath kaise chalega” plan ki baat hai. “Ab umar nahi rahi” plan ko chhodkar number se jawab deta hai, jaise har chaahat par kahin expiry date chhapi ho. Mann sawaal ki jagah taareekh sunta hai.
Number ek raay se zyada thos tathya jaisa lagta hai, aur shayad isiliye baat us cheez se zyada der tikti hai jiske baare mein kahi gayi thi. Ye niyam kahin likha nahi hota; bas pakka-sa lagta hua aa jaata hai.
Jab aapki kisi chaahat ka jawab aapki umar se diya gaya, to chaahat asal mein kis baare mein thi: kuch seekhne ke, kuch maze ke, ya kuch naya banne ke?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab calendar khud jawab dene lage #
Baar-baar suno to ye andar ghar kar leta hai. “Ab thodi der ho gayi.” “Log hansenge.” “Ye to jawaani ki baatein thin.” Kabhi jawab chaahat ke poora banne se pehle aa jaata hai, jaise haath badhate hi darwaaza band ho jaaye.
Kehne wale ko shayad baat yaad bhi nahi, par umar ki jaanch ab andar chupchaap hoti hai, kuch bhi bolne se pehle. Ye aapki apni awaaz jaisi sunayi deti hai, isliye kisi aur ka niyam maanne ki jagah samajhdaari lagti hai.
Aapke sir mein “Ab thodi der ho gayi” wali awaaz ne haal mein kis chaahat ko jawab diya, aur kitni jaldi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch logon ke liye umar ke niyam jaldi aa gaye #
“Ab cartoon dekhne ki umar gayi.” “Ye chitrakari kab tak karoge?” “Is umar mein to padhai pehle aati hai.” Kuch logon ke liye bade ho chuki cheezon ki list jaldi shuru ho gayi, aur jo shauk sabse pehle gaye wo aksar wahi the jo bas maze ke liye the.
Kuch gharon mein har umar ki apni jachi-jachayi cheezein thin, aur wajahein har ghar ki alag hoti hain. Bachcha chupchaap ye seekh sakta hai ki chahne ka bhi schedule hota hai, aur be-mausam ki chaahat thodi sharm ki cheez hai.
Bachpan mein kaun si cheez aapko pasand thi jiske baare mein kaha gaya ki usse aap bade ho gaye, aur tab aapki umar kya thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Neeche baithi ek chupchaap deadline #
Kuch logon ko neeche ek niyam baitha sunayi deta hai: “Cheezein shuru karne ki ek umar hoti hai, aur wo nikal chuki,” ya “Is umar mein kuch naya chahna zara bewakoofi hai.”
Aise niyam niyam jaise lagte hi nahi. Lagte hain seedhi samajh, jaise dukaan ke darwaaze par band hone ka waqt. Isiliye inhein nikalkar dekhna theek hai, kyunki band hone ka waqt kisi ka faisla hota hai, jise qanoon ki tarah chhaap diya gaya.
Kuch log aise niyam ko shuru ke saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Is jaisa niyam aapke anubhav ke kitna kareeb aata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
“Cheezein shuru karne ki ek umar hoti hai” aaj kin kamron mein ab bhi fit hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Deadline wale niyam ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai kabhi book na hui classein, case mein band pada saaz, aadhe bharkar band kiye gaye form, ek hafte baad delete hua language app. Kuch log wo batana hi band kar dete hain jo seekhna chahte hain, use chahna chhodne se bahut pehle.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Life dheere-dheere sirf un cheezon se bhar sakti hai jo pehle se fit hain, aur jo utsukta thi wo screen par doosron ki nayi shuruaatein dekhne mein kharch ho jaati hai. Saal bhar mein aisi kai shaamein jud sakti hain jo aazmane ki jagah sochne mein beetin.
“Is umar mein?” wali line ne pichhle ek saal mein aapse kya liya, agar kuch liya: koi class jo book nahi ki, almari mein rakha koi shauk, koi nayi shuruaat jo sahi umar ka intezaar kar rahi hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Umar ki deadline zor se bolti ek aam Tuesday #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “Cheezein shuru karne ki ek umar hoti hai” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad daftar jaate hue kisi shaam ki class ka poster peechhe chhoot gaya, online kisi dost ka naya shauk dikha, wahi ghar ka jaana-pehchana raasta, aur khaane par aaya koi khayal jo plate uthne se pehle hi samjha-bujhakar hata diya gaya.
Yahan abhi kisi cheez ka jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer ko jab chahein kinare rakha ja sakta hai.
Usmein kya hai: routine, baatein, wo khayal jo dikhe aur kinare rakh diye gaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Tuesday ko dekhte hue, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Kis niyam ke hisaab se zyada umar? #
Niyam maangte hi wo aksar kisi ek insaan ka andaaza nikalta hai ki kis umar par kya jachta hai, jise aise bola gaya jaise wahi akeli raay ho.
Jo chaahat ek table par ajeeb lagi, wo doosri table par aam lag sakti hai: alag-alag umar wali class, aisi weekend team jo kisi ko bhi le leti hai, koi dost jo khud bhi kuch naya shuru kar raha hai. Koi plan jachta hai ya nahi, ye bahut had tak kamre par nirbhar karta hai.
“Zyada umar” ko naapne ke liye niyam chahiye: kiske hisaab se, kahan likha, kisne tay kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar koi kareebi dost aapko bataye ki is saal wo ek class shuru karna chahta hai, to aap usse sabse pehle kya poochhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Dobara dekhne par kya saamne aata hai #
Jab kuch log us pal ko dheere-dheere dohrate hain, to dikhta hai ki chaahat ke baare mein baat hui hi nahi: wo kyun kheenchti thi, usse kya milna tha, hafte mein kahan fit hoti. Bas number par baat hui.
Kuch un logon ko dekhte hain jo unke plan ko jigyaasa se lete hain: ek dost jo poochhta hai teacher kaun hai, ek colleague jo pehla lesson sunna chahta hai, ek bhatiji jo saath seekhna chahti hai. Wo awaazein hamesha thin, bas dheemi.
Aapke plan ka jawab umar ki jagah sawaalon se kaun deta hai, aur jo aap aazmana chahte hain uske baare mein aap use kya bataenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Number ko galat saabit karne ki zaroorat nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye maanna nahi ki chaahat ki taareekh nikal chuki, na ye dikhana ki baat chubhi nahi. Matlab bas itna ki ek number par kahi gayi ek line is par kam chale ki kaun se plan banein aur aaj ki shaam kaisi guzre.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo har chaahat se pehle uski daleelein taiyaar karna chhod dete hain. Wo daleel kabhi poori nahi hoti, aur jab tak banti rehti hai, plan kisi aur ke niyam ke haath mein rehta hai.
Kuch kamre sach mein nahi sunenge, aur kisi ko unhein aazmana nahi hai.
Kaisa lagega hafta agar “Umar nikal gayi” wali line kehne wale ke paas rahe, aur chaahat apne maalik ke paas?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Agli chaahat ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “Meri umar nahi rahi” barson se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe ladne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iske bajaye ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Chaahat chaahat hai. Aakhri baat calendar ki nahi.”
Ye sach lagna zaroori nahi. Ye bas ek line hai jo kuch log aazmate hain, aur koi naya khayal aaye to dheere se kehne par purani deadline ki thodi jagah le leti hai.
Jo aap aazmana chahte hain uske baare mein aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kaisa hoga, jismein khaane ki table par baithe kisi ki haami ki zaroorat na ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein khoonti par taangi ja sakti hain #
Har “Is umar mein?” ko jawabi daleel, udaharanon ki list ya use jhuthlane ka plan nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise din ke aakhir mein coat khoonti par taang dete hain.
Ye chaahat chhodna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki urja kahan lage, aur kuch log kehte hain isse chaahat ke liye zyada jagah bachti hai: uske baare mein padhne ki, sochne ki, pehli chhoti jhalak ki.
Aaj ki shaam ke liye baat neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo sahi thi, ya baat sulajh gayi. Bas itna ki wo aaj baaki har cheez mein, agle khayal mein, agle plan mein saath na jaye.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar deadline thodi bhi dheeli ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki deadline ka niyam ek darja dheema hai. Number bas number ho sakta hai, aur chaahat ko uski apni shartein par taula ja sakta hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: class ka timetable poora padh lena, ek gaana bas apne liye seekhna, ya purana shauk kisi shaant dopahar ke liye baksey se nikaal lena.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai, chahe kitna bhi chhota. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Agar niyam dheela pade, to sabse pehle kya alag lagega, chahe thoda hi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Niyam ke dheele padne ka aapka pehla chhota nishaan kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi is-umar-mein wali line”
- Chupchaap poochhiye: kis niyam ke hisaab se zyada umar, aur kiska niyam?
- Gaur kijiye ki kya zyada zor se bolta hai: chaahat, ya number
- Koi ek cheez sochiye jo aap bas maze ke liye seekhna chahein
- Aaj ki koi ek chhoti cheez gaur kijiye jo aapne chahi, kitni bhi chhoti
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Jab kisi ne kaha “Is umar mein?”, tab aap kya aazmana chahte the, aur uski taraf kya kheenchta tha?
- Aap kahan the aur kaun sun raha tha jab aapke plan ka jawab aapki umar se diya gaya?
- Kaun si chaahat aapne ek number ki wajah se rakh di, aur use nikalkar dekhna kaisa lagega?
- Jis aam din deadline wala niyam zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar deadline wala niyam thoda dheela ho, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?