Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Jab career degree se match na kare, to lagta hai deal beech mein toot gayi.
Kai gharon mein ye papa ki is baat se aaya: “Degree wo cheez hai jo koi tumse chheen nahi sakta.”
Is khayal ke neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Sahi degree se sahi career banta hai,” ya “Job padhai se na mile, to kahin kuch gadbad hui.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Family get-together mein kaam ki baat taal dena
- Har baar kehna ki “ye to bas abhi ke liye hai”
- Seedhe raaste par lautne ke liye ek aur course shuru karna
- Un batchmates se comparison karna jinka kaam degree se match karta hai
- Degree bekaar lagna, aur phir aisa sochne par khud ko kosna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Kamre se aath mahine ke applications
Chaar saal ki padhai, achhi degree, ghar ki deewar par tangi convocation ki photo. Aath mahine baad Jaipur ke Mansarovar wale kamre se aap ab bhi applications bhej rahe ho, aur jawab mein ya to vinamra na aati hai ya kuch nahi. School ka ek dost, jisne college chhoda tha, team lead ban chuka hai. Aap der raat laptop band karke chhat taakte ho.
Wo degree jise darwaaze kholne the
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Achhi degree se achha career banna chahiye.” Ye nyaysangat deal jaisa lagta hai. Aapne apna hissa nibhaya. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: barson ki padhai ki keemat us job market se baandh deta hai jo aapke haath mein nahi. Wo saal ab kaam ke lagein ya nahi, ye hiring, mauke aur sanyog par tik jaata hai.
Humne is vaade par bharosa kyun kiya
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki humein bataya gaya tha ki padhai hi aage ka raasta hai, aur humne maan liya. Shayad ghar waalon ne aapki padhai ke liye bahut kuch kiya, aur aap wo lautana chahte ho. Jo bhi ho, degree se ummeed rakhna bholapan nahi. Ye chaah hai ki aapki mehnat kahin pahunche, aur ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Har inkaar degree ko chhota karta hai
Har inkaar degree ko thoda chhota kar deta hai. Aap apne faislon par shak karne lagte ho. Un doston se comparison karte ho jo doosre raaston par hain. Ghar par kaam ke sawaal se bachte ho, family get-together se bhi. Dheere-dheere convocation wala garv feeka padta hai, aur padhai ke wo saal galti jaise lagne lagte hain, jabki unhone kisi job description se zyada sikhaya.
Kya ye purana vaada rakhne layak hai?
Imaandaari se poochiye: kya is deal ko pakde rehne se sahi job jaldi aayi? Ya intezaar bas bhaari hua? Careers aksar ghumaavdaar sadkon se chalte hain, aur bahut se log dheemi shuruaat ke baad apna raasta paate hain. Jo bhi ho, mushkil job market aapki degree ya aapki kadar ka paimana nahi. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna aapko utna nahi deta jitna leta hai.
Raaste ko thoda ghoomne dena
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki degree bemaani thi. Matlab ye ki uski kadar ab agle offer letter par nahi tiki. Aap jaante ho ki kya seekha aur kitni mehnat ki. Aap koshish jaari rakh sakte ho, ghumaavdaar raaston ke liye khule reh sakte ho, aur apna raasta banne de sakte ho. Yahin kuch chain lautta hai: padhai ke wo saal aapke apne rehte hain, aage jo bhi ho.
Being held back for who you are, or harassed or frightened by anyone, is not part of this hope; it is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleAchhi degree se achha career banna chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleJo seekha wo mera hai. Mera raasta thoda ghoom sakta hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Teen cheezein sochiye jo aapki degree ne sikhayin
- Din 2
Ek shaam bina job search ke kuch maze ka kijiye
- Din 3
Is hafte ka ek chhota kadam ginye, aur uski khushi lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aapki padhai ki kaun si soch aap bina soche aaj bhi use karte ho?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Garv wali degree, aur door pada kaam #
Chhe saal pehle convocation ki photo ghar ki deewar par tangi thi, mithai baanti thi. Aaj Indore ke kisi office mein din bhar spreadsheet khuli rehti hai, aur kaam ka padhai se koi lena-dena nahi. Sunday lunch par chacha doosri roti parosate hue poochte hain, “Abhi tak wahi job?” Aur mann mein wahi baat uthti hai.
Koi science padhkar sales mein ho sakta hai, koi law padhkar ghar ki dukaan par, koi MBA karke aise kaam mein jo MBA jaisa lagta hi nahi. Degree sach hai. Jo career uske saath aana tha, wo abhi poora nahi aaya.
Jab aap padh rahe the, tab us padhai mein aapko kya achha lagta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur usmein se thoda-sa aaj bhi kahan dikh jaata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Sawaal sunte hi halki-si chubhan #
Kuch logon ko “Aajkal kya kar rahe ho?” sunte hi aankhon ke peeche halki garmi feel hoti hai. Kuch ke chehre par thaki hui muskaan aa jaati hai, aur ratta-ratayaa jawab munh tak taiyaar rehta hai.
Sharir ek saath do baatein utha sakta hai: degree ka garv, aur jahan tak pahunche uski halki sharmindagi. Ye mili-juli halat uncomfortable hoti hai, khaaskar shaadi-byaah ya family get-together mein, jab sab sun rahe hon.
Jab koi ek hi saans mein aapka kaam aur aapki degree poochhe, to sabse pehle body mein kya hota hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Degree ko raasta bataakar becha gaya #
Ye ummeed usi par tiki hai jo bahuton ko bachpan se sunaya gaya: achhi degree le lo, aage job apne-aap mil jaayegi. Isme barson ki mehnat, ghar ki ummeedein aur coaching ki fees lagi thi. Chahna ki ye kahin pahunche, asal mein chahna hai ki wo sab lagaya hua bekaar na jaaye.
Jab career degree se match na kare, to lagta hai deal beech mein toot gayi. “Kya ye sahi chuna tha?” wala sawaal sarak aata hai, jabki padhai ke wo saal apne aap mein maayne rakhte the.
Jab aapne ye degree chuni thi, tab aapko kya ummeed thi ki ye kahan le jaayegi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur khud ko kaisa banta hua dekhte the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Sunday lunch wali awaaz #
“Itna padhaya-likhaya isi din ke liye?” “Sabne to apni degree ka use kiya.” “Main peeche reh gaya/gayi.” Ye awaaz aksar kisi shishtachaar wale sawaal par jaagti hai, aur thaali hatne ke baad bhi bolti rehti hai.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki ye awaaz poore career ko atharah ki umar mein khinchi ek seedhi lakeer se napti hai, jaise us lakeer se har mod haar ho.
Jab ye awaaz bolti hai, to sabse oonchi kaun si line hoti hai, aur wo beete hue kiski awaaz jaisi lagti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Degree se job ka vaada kahan se aaya #
Kai gharon mein ye papa ki is baat se aaya: “Degree wo cheez hai jo koi tumse chheen nahi sakta.” Kuch ne ise rishtedaaron se seekha, jinki achhi jobs thi aur sabki degree ek hi tarah ki thi, to raasta seedha dikhta tha.
Kai families mein degree ko ek kaam ki seedhi sadak maan liya jaata hai. Asal kaam-kaaj ki zindagiyan mudti hain: interests badalte hain, nayi tarah ki jobs ban jaati hain, aur log pagdandiyon se raasta nikaalte hain.
Ghar ya school mein sabse pehle kisne aapke liye degree se job tak ki lakeer khinchi, aur use aapke liye kya dikhta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Degree aur career wala niyam #
Is khayal ke neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Sahi degree se sahi career banta hai,” ya “Job padhai se na mile, to kahin kuch gadbad hui.” Niyam saaf-suthra hai. Zyada-tar kaam-kaaji zindagiyan saaf-suthri nahi hoti.
Kuch log ise ghar ki ummeedon tak le jaate hain, kuch un classmates tak jo seedhe match karti job mein lag gaye. Source se zyada zaroori ye hai: degree ko khaarij kiye bina bhi is niyam ko dekha ja sakta hai.
Seedhe-raaste wala ye niyam aapko agla kadam chunne mein kahan ab bhi kaam aata hai, aur kahan har mod ko galti bana deta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Seedhi lakeer se napne ki keemat #
Ek keemat garv ki hai: degree ka garv, aaj ke kaam ka garv, raaste mein seekhe hunar ka garv. Sab kuch us raaste se tola jaata hai jo liya hi nahi gaya.
Doosri keemat curiosity ki hai. Kuch log ye dekhna chhod dete hain ki maujooda kaam unhein kahan tak le jaa sakta hai, kyunki wo kabhi “plan” mein tha hi nahi. Isse kuch achhe darwaaze bhi band rah jaate hain.
Aapka aaj ka kaam aapko kya deta hai jise aap shayad hi ginte ho, kyunki wo plan mein nahi tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Padhai se door ka kaam, aur kyun ka sawaal #
Ek aam kaam-kaaji din sochiye jab “Achhi degree se achha career banna chahiye” zor se sunayi de. Metro ya bus ka safar, inbox, screen par kisi batchmate ki nayi post. Ye bas ek khaka hai, dekhne ke liye.
Shayad aisa kaam ho raha hai jiska padhai se koi vaasta nahi, aur mann mein kyun ka sawaal hai, phir lunch mein kisi classmate ki khabar scroll ho rahi hai.
Ye bas ek din hai, bhavishyavani nahi, aur jab chahein band kiya ja sakta hai.
Us din mein aur kya hai jis par kam dhyaan jaata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iska kaun sa hissa aapki nazar kheenchta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Kai career seedhe nahi, ghoomkar chalte hain #
Bahut se log us field mein kaam karte hain jo unki padhai se alag hai. Careers aksar ghoomte hain, lautte hain, pagdandi pakad lete hain. Degree aksar ye tay karti hai ki koi kaise sochta hai, isse zyada ki wo kis table par baitha hai.
Isse nirasha kam nahi hoti, aur ummeed jaayaz bani rehti hai. Bas itna hai ki ghoomkar chalta career aam baat hai, aur is baat ka saboot nahi ki kuch bigad gaya.
Aapki degree ki kaun si soch aap aaj bhi use karte ho, bhale hi kaam mismatch lage?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Degree aaj bhi kya deti hai #
Shayad jitna dikhta hai usse zyada hai: college ke dost, dhyaan se padhne ki aadat, kuch mushkil seekhne ka bharosa, koi subject jiske baare mein Sunday ko padhna ab bhi achha lagta hai.
Inhein dekhne se career waisa nahi ban jaata jaisa socha tha. Ye bhi yahin hain, un barson ki shaant wapsi, jo Sunday lunch ke sawaal ke neeche aasaani se chhoot jaati hai.
Kisi bhi job se pare, aapki degree ne aapko ab tak kya diya hai jise aap thoda aur dekhna chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Degree aur career ka match zaroori nahi #
Samjhaute ka matlab ye maan lena nahi ki degree ka koi matlab nahi tha. Achhe kaam ki chaah jaayaz hai. Matlab bas itna hai ki barson pehle khinchi ek seedhi lakeer ab chale hue raaste par faisla nahi sunayegi.
Kaam ki jagah par izzat aur suraksha “zyada ummeed” kabhi nahi hoti, aapke liye bhi aur aapke saathiyon ke liye bhi. Agar aapko neecha dikhaya jaaye ya roka jaaye, gender, jaati, dharm, umar, disability ya aap kahan se aaye hain, is wajah se, to wo career ka sawaal nahi hai; use gambhirta se lena theek hai.
Agle family lunch ki kalpana kijiye, ummeed ko zara dheela pakde hue: koi aapke kaam ke baare mein poochhe, to aap uske kis hisse ki baat karna chunoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Sunday lunch ke liye ek line #
Kuch log iske paas ye line rakhte hain: “Meri degree ne mujhe gadha hai, aur mere career ko ghoomne ki ijaazat hai.” Ye purani line se ladti nahi. Bas uske paas baithti hai.
Chacha ke jawab ke intezaar mein ye shayad bahut aasaan lage. Kuch log apni line pasand karte hain, shayad thode mazaak ke saath.
Aapki apni kaun si line yahan baithegi, jo padhai ka garv bhi rakhe aur chale hue raaste ko jagah bhi de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Career wala sawaal khaane ki table par reh sakta hai #
Har “Abhi tak wahi job?” ka poora jawab aaj raat dena zaroori nahi. Use jaisa hai waisa dekhkar chhoda ja sakta hai, jaise khaane ke baad table par tah kiya hua napkin.
Achhe career ki chaah aapki bani rah sakti hai. Kisi wajah se, ki aap kaun ho, aapko peeche rakha jaaye, ye is chaah ka hissa nahi hai; use gambhirta se lena theek hai.
Use table par chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki sawaal jaayaz tha, ya ki kuch suljh gaya. Bas itna ki ghar lautte hue baat kisi aur cheez ki ho sakti hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar seedhi lakeer thodi dhundhli pade #
Ek pal ke liye wahi din sochiye, par ummeed thodi neeche rakhi hui. Aap kaam karte ho, aur dekhte ho ki aapne kya seekha: degree se bhi, aur is job se bhi.
Wo chhota ho sakta hai: koi kaam aise hunar se nipta jo aapko pata hi nahi tha ki hai, koi saathi jo aapki kadar karta hai, ya Sunday ka koi ghanta purane subject ko bas shauk se padhne mein.
Isme se kuch bhi kisi ko batana zaroori nahi. Aage ke cards is ummeed se samjhaute aur uski baat karte hain jo pehle se yahan maujood hai.
Sabse pehla chhota farq kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapka kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Chupchaap aazmane ki kuch chhoti baatein #
- Is hafte degree ki koi ek skill yaad kijiye jo aapne use ki
- Apne maujooda kaam ki ek baat notice kijiye jo aapko achhi lagti hai
- Career wala sawaal aaye, to us waqt ka ehsaas ek shabd mein naam dijiye
- Apne purane subject par kuch padhiye, sirf maze ke liye
- Dekhiye ki paimana kiski seedhi lakeer ka hai
Mann kare to ek aazmaiye. Har ek optional hai.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aapki padhai ki kaun si soch aap bina soche aaj bhi use karte ho?
- Kiska ghumaavdaar career aapko pasand aata hai, aur kyun?
- Kaam par aapne aisa kya seekha jo koi degree nahi sikha sakti thi?
- Seedhi lakeer kam maayne rakhe, to aapka kaam aage kahan jaa sakta hai?
- Aapka aaj ka kaam aapko pehle se kya deta hai jise aap aur dekhna chahoge?