Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye ek hi tarah ki boli ko pass hone ka number bhi bana deta hai: samajh aa gaya to kaafi nahi, lehja bhi sahi chahiye.
Aisi baatein kuch logon ne bazaar, school ke gate ya khane ki table par suni hain, kabhi pyaar se, kabhi chubhakar, aur dekha hai ki chuppi kitni jaldi chha jaati hai.
Bheetar ek maanyata ban sakti hai: “Theek se bolna na aaye, to apnapan nahi banta,” ya usse halki: “Jitna aana chahiye tha, utna nahi aata; maine unhein nirash kiya.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Boli kam bolna aur sir hila dena
- Doosri bhasha mein jawab dekar baat mod dena
- Agli baar jaane se pehle vaakya ratna
- Hans dena aur apne upar hi mazaak kar lena
- Sawaal ko kai din dohrana aur chhoote shabd ginna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Nani ka birthday, Indore mein
Nani ka assiwaan birthday, Indore ki purani gali wala ghar. Nani apni Malwi mein pyaar se kuch kehti hain aur ruk kar dekhti hain. Aap shabd dhoondhte ho, jo aata hai, par nikalta nahi. Cousin hansta hai: “Apni boli bhi aati hai, ya bahar ki hawa lag gayi?” Sab mudkar dekhte hain. Aap muskurakar doosri bhasha mein “bahut achha hai” keh dete ho, aur baaki dawat wo vaakya ratte beetti hai jo kabhi bole nahi jaate.
Theek se bolo, warna chup raho
Pehle saaf baat: kisi bhasha mein daayra chhota hona pyaar ki kami nahi, aur ye sawaal koi jaayaz paimana nahi. Par iske baad ek niyam panap sakta hai, jo apna ho jaata hai: “Theek se bolna na aaye, to apnapan nahi banta.” Ye adab jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har vaakya imtihaan ban jaata hai, aur chup rehna koshish se zyada safe lagne lagta hai.
Hum ise kyun nibhana chahte hain
Hum aisa niyam isliye pakadte hain kyunki jo log wo boli bolte hain, unki parwah hai aur unhein nirash nahi karna. Ye bahut insaani chaah hai, aur aam hai. Zyadatar logon mein iska koi roop hota hai. Shayad aap chahte hon ki boli aur aati. Shayad kisi ko chook par chidhte dekha ho. Jo bhi ho, unki izzat karne ki chaah galat nahi. Wo pyaar se aati hai, aur use narmi chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Vaakya jo aur bhaari hote gaye
Har “boli aati bhi hai?” agla vaakya thoda aur bhaari kar deta hai. Sab dheere-dheere judta jaata hai, aur dheema hone ki wajah se dikhta nahi. Aap kisse chhodne lagte ho. Jawab doosri bhasha mein dene lagte ho. Sambhalkar chalne ki thakaan hoti hai, aur jis parivaar se baat karni thi, usi se thoda bahar feel hota hai. Jo boli baantni thi, wo aisa phaatak lagne lagti hai jisse guzra nahi jaata.
Kya chuppi is keemat ke layak?
Khud se sach-sach poochiye: kya is niyam ko pakde rehne se aapki boli kabhi badhi? Ya zyadatar aap bas aur chup hote gaye? Log bhasha wahin se uthate hain jahan unke din le jaayein, aur chhota daayra ye nahi mitata ki aap kahan se ho. Ek sawaal aapke apnepan ka paimana nahi. Yahan koi galat jawab nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna iski keemat layak hai?
Seekhne wala jo phir bhi apna hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki sawaal jaayaz tha. Matlab ye ki aap seekhne wale bhi ho sakte ho aur apne bhi. Ek vaakya kachcha bolkar, sabke saath hanskar, apni raftaar se aage badha ja sakta hai. Shuruaat chhoti ho sakti hai, ek-ek shabd se. Pehle kuch aur badalna zaroori nahi. Yahin se thodi dheel lautti hai: pehredaari chhootti hai, aur jinhein aap chahte ho unse bas baat hoti hai.
If your language or accent is ever met with threats, being hurt, frightened or controlled at home, that is not okay and is worth taking seriously; keeping some things private can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleTheek se bolna na aaye, to apnapan nahi banta.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleSeekhte hue bhi main apna hoon.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Us boli ka ek vaakya chuniye jo aapko apna lagta hai
- Kadam 2
Usmein koi ek shabd ya gaana suniye jo aapko pasand hai
- Kadam 3
Jab sawaal chubhe, ek dheemi saans lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Sawaal kis shabd ya lehje ki taraf tha, aur us boli ko bolne ka aapke liye kya matlab hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Kuch shabd jo zubaan ki pareeksha ban jaate hain #
Nani ka assiwaan birthday hai, Indore ki purani gali wale ghar mein parivaar juta hai. Nani Malwi mein pyaar se kuch kehti hain aur jawab ka intezaar karti hain. Shabd dimaag mein hai, zubaan par nahi aata. Koi cousin hanskar kehta hai: “Apni boli bhi aati hai, ya bahar ki hawa lag gayi?” Sab mudkar dekhne lagte hain.
Ye sawaal use bhi milta hai jo doosre shehar mein pala, jisne gaon jaldi chhoda, jiski padhai kisi aur bhasha mein hui, ya jise bolne ka mauka hi kam mila. Kabhi chhedne ke liye, kabhi chubhane ke liye. Baat ek hi rehti hai: sabke saamne zubaan ki pareeksha.
Sabse taaza baar se shuru kijiye.
Aakhri baar kab kisi ne poochha ki apni boli aati bhi hai ya nahi, aur tab kamre mein kaun-kaun tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Zubaan ki pareeksha itni jaldi kyun chubhti hai #
Kai logon ka dimaag theek usi shabd par khaali ho jaata hai jo unhein aata hai. Koi hadbadi mein bol deta hai aur atak jaata hai. Koi us bhasha mein palatkar jawab deta hai jismein pakka hai, koi muskurakar baat nikaal deta hai. Pehle kuch seconds mein ye sab ho sakta hai.
Boli ghar ke sabse kareeb hoti hai, isliye uska imtihaan apnepan ka imtihaan lagne lagta hai. Saaf soch aksar baad mein aati hai, ghar lautte hue, usi shabd ke saath jo pehle se wahin tha.
Wo pehla khinchaav aksar kisi taraf ishaara karta hai.
Sawaal ke baad ke pehle kuch seconds mein aapne kya kiya, aur aap chahte the ki kamra kya dekh le?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Kitna aata hai, kitne apne ho: dono jud jaate hain #
Boli unhi jagahon aur logon ke beech chalti hai jinke beech boli jaati hai, aur kisi ka daayra uske dinon ke saath banta hai. Ye aam baat hai. Par “boli bhi aati hai?” us kami ko wafadaari ki kami bana sakta hai, jaise har chhoota shabd apnepan ka ek tukda ho.
Ye ek hi tarah ki boli ko pass hone ka number bhi bana deta hai: samajh aa gaya to kaafi nahi, lehja bhi sahi chahiye. Kaiyon ko sabse zyada yahi chubhta hai ki sawaal unhi se aata hai jinse usi boli mein baat karne ki sabse zyada chaah thi.
Sawaal kabhi batata nahi ki wo naap kya raha hai.
Aapko lagta hai wo aapke kis shabd, lehje ya vaakya ke baare mein tha, aur us boli ka aapke liye kya matlab hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab har table par ek pareekshak baitha ho #
Kuch baar sunne ke baad har parivaarik table par ek pareekshak baith sakta hai. “Ye shabd rehne do.” “Jawab kisi aur ko dene do.” “Chhote vaakya hi bolo.” Kabhi number pehle hi katne lagte hain, ek shabd nikalne se pehle.
Poochne wala ek minute mein aage badh jaata hai, par number katte rehte hain: aadha chhoda vaakya, kahani jo doosri bhasha mein sunayi kyunki wahi behti hai, phone jo saamne wale ki chaah se chhota rakha. Ye sambhalkar chalne jaisa lagta hai, isliye pehchanna mushkil hai ki ye kisi aur ki awaaz hai.
Wo pareekshak awaaz kahin se udhaar leta hai.
Aapke shabdon ke number dete waqt wo kiski awaaz mein bolta hai, aur sabse zyada kya na bolne ko kehta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch ke liye boli par kabhi faisla sunaya gaya #
“Theek se bolo.” “Ye kaisi boli hai, kahan se seekhi?” “Maa ne kuch sikhaya nahi?” Aisi baatein kuch logon ne bazaar, school ke gate ya khane ki table par suni hain, kabhi pyaar se, kabhi chubhakar, aur dekha hai ki chuppi kitni jaldi chha jaati hai.
Kai gharon mein boli bolna chupchaap apnepan se juda hota hai, aur wajahein har ghar ki alag hain. Kuch log ise kisi purane nateeje tak le ja sakte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ek nateeja ban sakta hai: boli mein atakne se rishta khatre mein padta hai, isliye koshish hi na karna safe hai.
Boli seekhne ya na seekhne ke saath ek ankaha waada bhi jud sakta hai.
Ghar ki boli bolna aapse apne baare mein kya waada karwata laga, aur ye kisne maanga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Boli ke ird-gird banne wala niyam #
Bheetar ek maanyata ban sakti hai: “Theek se bolna na aaye, to apnapan nahi banta,” ya usse halki: “Jitna aana chahiye tha, utna nahi aata; maine unhein nirash kiya.” Kuch logon ke saath “sabke jaisa banna hai” bhi chalta hai.
Aisi maanyataayein elaan karke nahi aatin. Ye adab jaisi lagti hain, jaise badon ke saamne awaaz dheemi kar lena. Isiliye inhein nikaalkar din ki roshni mein dekhna kaam ka hai.
Kisi ke liye ye niyam saalon purana hota hai, kisi ke liye naya. Dono mein ise dekha ja sakta hai.
“Theek se bolne” wala niyam aapke liye kahan ab bhi sahi baithta hai, aur kahan baithna band ho gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Ek saal chup rehne ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai nana-nani se baatein jo mausam aur khane se aage na badhein, jokes jo ek pal der se pahunchein, rishtedaar jinhein har kisse ka chhota version mile. Kuch ko sabse gehri baatein us bhasha mein hoti milti hain jo gharwale na chunte.
Ek khamosh keemat aur hai. Koshish na karne se sharmindagi door rehti hai, aur abhyaas bhi. Ghar par log bas sambhala hua roop dekhte hain, aur aas-paas walon ko mehnat nahi dikhti. Saal bhar mein dono jagahein thodi kam ghar jaisi lag sakti hain.
Ye kamzori se nahi hai: pareeksha se bachne ke liye chup rehna asli mehnat hai.
Pichhle ek saal mein parivaar ke beech shabdon ko chhota rakhne se aapko kya ganwana pada?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, chup rehte hue #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, aise din ki jab “theek se bolo” wala niyam zor se baj raha ho. Phone, messages, agli mulaqat ki taiyaari dekhiye. Ye bas dekhne ke liye tasveer hai, sudharne ke liye nahi, aur ismein koi bhavishyavaani nahi.
Shayad har hafte ka phone jo mausam par ruk jaye, Nani ko bheja card jo doosri bhasha mein likha ho, birthday ki badhaai mein chhoota toast, aadha vaakya jo safe laga isliye chhod diya.
Abhi kisi ka jawab nahi chahiye.
Theek se bolne ke niyam wale Tuesday ko aapke rishton ka kaun-sa hissa sabse kam paata dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Bolna aata hai, kiski tulna mein? #
“Aati bhi hai?” ko ek paimana chahiye: koi gaon, koi peedhi, koi khaas lehja. Table par baaki log bhi apne-apne dhang se bolte hain, udhaar ke shabdon aur shortcuts ke saath, jin par kisi ne ungli nahi uthayi.
Kuch logon ko do cheezein alag karna kaam ka lagta hai jinhein sawaal jod deta hai: kitne shabd mil jaate hain, aur saamne walon ki kitni parwah hai. Pehli chhoti ho sakti hai, doosri ke bina bhi. Sawaal batata nahi ki wo kiski baat kar raha hai.
Bahar se dekhiye.
Agar koi cousin bataye ki parivaarik dawat mein atke vaakya par use chheda gaya, to uske peeche ke saalon ke baare mein aap kya poochna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Dobara dekhne par kuch logon ko kya dikhta hai #
Us pal ko dheere-dheere dohraane par kuch log apna kaha aur us par mila faisla paas rakhkar dekhte hain: ek chhoota shabd, lehja, grammar ki chook. Saaf rakhne par chook aur us par uthha sawaal do alag naap ke nikal sakte hain.
Kuch ko wo log dikhte hain jo usi koshish par alag tarah se jawab dete hain: Nani jo hanskar wahi shabd dohra deti hain, cousin jo kehta hai “main bhi aise hi kehta”, mausi jinhein bas aapka kissa sunna hai. Kabhi agli baatcheet darr se aasaan nikalti hai, kabhi darr usi insaan ke baare mein sahi tha.
Kuch log apne paas ke aur chhoote shabdon ko bina tippani ke rehne dete hain.
Kaun hai jo aapke jitne bhi shabd hon, unmein baat karke khush hota hai, aur uske saath kaisa lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Parivaar hone ke liye imtihaan paas nahi karna #
Sulah ka matlab ye maanna nahi ki kuch kam tha, ya ye dhong ki sawaal chubha nahi. Matlab bas itna ki ek mehfil ka ek sawaal agli baar boli ki taraf haath badhane par kam chale.
Kuch ko tab halka lagta hai jab wo pass hone ki koshish chhod dete hain. Wo imtihaan kabhi khatam nahi hota, kyunki paimana khisakta rehta hai. Kuch baatein kuch logon ke aas-paas achhi wajahon se chup rakhi jaati hain, safety samet, aur ye jaayaz hai.
Ek sawaal ko poori mulaqat ka rang tay nahi karna padta.
Agar boli par ek tippani niyam na banti, to khane ki table par kaisa lagta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Agli mulaqat ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “theek se bolna na aaye to apna nahi” chupchaap chal raha hai, to usse seedhe bhidna zaroori nahi. Kuch log iski jagah ek vaakya taiyaar rakhte hain: “Kuch achhe se aata hai, baaki seekhna baaki hai.”
Iska fauran sach lagna zaroori nahi. Ye bas ek vaakya hai jise kuch log aazmate hain, aur kuch ko lagta hai ki mulaqat se pehle chupchaap kehne par wo purane vaakya ki thodi jagah le leta hai.
Apna likha vaakya aksar zyada tikta hai.
Apni boli ke baare mein aapke shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jismein jo aata hai aur jiski taraf haath badh raha hai, dono ki jagah ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch baatein darwaaze par utaari ja sakti hain #
Boli par har sawaal ko safai, jaane hue shabdon ki list ya agli baar zyada fararedar banne ki yojana nahi chahiye. Kuch baatein bas dekhi ja sakti hain, ek pal feel ki ja sakti hain, aur rakh di ja sakti hain, jaise lambi shaam ke baad darwaaze par taanga coat.
Ye kisi ko chhod dena nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki shaam ki taakat kahan lage, aur kuch log kehte hain ki isse un baatcheet ke liye jagah bachti hai jo aasaan lagti hain, unke saath jinke saath aasaan hai.
Sawaal ko shaam ke liye rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek tha ya baat khatam ho gayi. Bas itna ki use agle phone, agli dawat ya lautti raah mein saath nahi chalna padega.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar theek se bolna kam maayne rakhe #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki theek se bolne wala niyam ek darja dheema hai. Atka hua shabd sirf ek shabd ho, aur apni chook par hansi garmjoshi wali.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: Nani se poochna ki ye shabd kaise kehte hain, muskaan ke saath shuru aur poora hua vaakya, ya adhoori yaad wali Malwi mein bheja voice note.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai. Agar theek se dekhna chahein to ek baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Agar niyam itna dheela ho, to pehli chhoti cheez kya alag lagegi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar bolna imtihaan jaisa na lage, to kaun-sa chhota pal sabse pehle dikhega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir boli ka imtihaan”
- Sochiye sawaal kis shabd ya awaaz ki taraf tha, aur wo asal mein kitna bada hai
- Us boli ka ek vaakya dhoondhiye jo pehle se apna lagta hai
- Aise ek insaan ko yaad kijiye jo aapki koshish par khush hota hai
- Aaj ek chhoti baat usi bhasha mein keh dijiye jo pehle zubaan par aaye
Sab chhote, nijee aur apni marzi ke. Jo jame, wahi ek chun lijiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Sawaal kis shabd ya lehje ki taraf tha, aur us boli ko bolne ka aapke liye kya matlab hai?
- Us pal aap kamre ko apne baare mein kya dikhana chahte the jo sawaal mein chhoot gaya?
- Boli ka kaun-sa hissa bina kisi ke dekhe ab bhi aapke saath har jagah jaata hai?
- Jis aam din theek se bolne wala niyam zor se baje, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar theek se bolne wala niyam thoda dheela ho, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?