Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye ateet ko karz bhi bana sakta hai, jaise use maanne ka tareeka uske jitna qareeb ho sake, rehna ho.
“Jinhone paala-posa, unhein mat bhoolna.”
Andar ek maanyata ban sakti hai: “Badlav ka matlab bhool jaana hai,” ya halki: “Wafadaari ka matlab hai apne purane roop ke qareeb rehna.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Turant koi purani yaad suna dena, ye dikhane ko ki wo ab bhi hai
- Kuch samay aaram se zyada baar ghar jaana
- Behas kar lena, phir lautte hue aur bura lagna
- Hanskar baat doosri taraf mod dena
- Tippani ko kai din dohrana, dhoondhna ki bhula kya
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Mamaji ke yahan chai par
Bengaluru mein ek saal bitakar Ujjain mein Mamaji ke yahan weekend hai. Chai par aap batate ho ki Monday ki deadline ke karan Sunday subah nikalna hai. Mamaji cup rakh dete hain: “Jadein bhool gaye ho.” Do-teen rishtedaar sir hilate hain. Aap hans dete ho, phir baaki dopahar purane padosiyon, bachpan ke khelon aur aam ke ped ka zikr karte ho, jaise aisa exam de rahe ho jiske liye haami hi nahi bhari thi.
Yaad saabit karni padegi
Pehle saaf baat: kahin aur zindagi banana bhoolna nahi, aur ye tippani koi jaayaz faisla nahi. Par iske baad ek niyam panap sakta hai, jo apna ho jaata hai: “Yaad saabit karni padegi, warna apnon ko nirash kiya.” Ye seedhi kritagyata aur wafadaari jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har nayi kaamyaabi samjhane ki cheez ban jaati hai, aur har mulaqat ek exam.
Ghar ki izzat ki chaah kyun
Hum aisa niyam isliye pakadte hain kyunki jinhone hamein paala, unke prati shukraguzaar hain aur unhein peechhe chhoota mehsoos nahi karwana. Ye bahut insaani chaah hai, aur aam hai. Zyadatar logon mein iska koi roop hota hai. Shayad aapko unki bahut yaad aati ho. Jo bhi ho, jahan se ho uski izzat karne ki chaah galat nahi. Wo pyaar se aati hai, aur use narmi chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Mulaqat ka bhaari hote jaana
Har “jadein bhool gaye” agli mulaqat ko thoda aur bhaari kar deta hai. Sab dheere-dheere judta jaata hai, aur dheema hone ki wajah se dikhta nahi. Aap apni khabrein chhoti karne lagte ho. Har baatcheet ko ateet ki taraf modte ho. Saabit karne ki thakaan hoti hai, aur kahin aur ghat rahi achhi baaton par halka apraadh-bodh. Jis ghar se pyaar hai, wo kachehri jaisa lagne lagta hai.
Kya saabit karna is layak hai?
Khud se sach-sach poochhiye: kya is niyam ko pakde rehne se ghar ke aur qareeb mehsoos hua? Ya zyadatar laga ki kathghare mein khade ho? Log apni jadein jahan bhi rahein, saath le jaate hain, aur naya shehar unhein nahi mitata. Ek tippani aapki kritagyata ka paimana nahi. Yahan koi galat jawab nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna iski keemat ke layak hai?
Yaad rakhna aur aage badhna
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki tippani jaayaz thi. Matlab ye ki aap kahin aur zindagi banakar bhi yaad rakh sakte ho. Poora hissa ghar la sakte ho, puraani kahaniyan bhi, nayi bhi, apni raftaar se. Shuruaat chhoti ho sakti hai, ek sachche vaakya se. Pehle kuch aur badalna zaroori nahi. Yahin se thoda sukoon lautta hai: saabit karna chhootta hai, aur dono jagah apnapan bachta hai.
If building your own life is ever met with threats, being hurt, frightened or controlled at home, that is not okay and is worth taking seriously; keeping some things private can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleYaad saabit karni padegi, warna apnon ko nirash kiya.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleKahin aur zindagi basakar bhi yaad rakhna mumkin hai.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Ghar ki koi ek cheez yaad kijiye jo aaj bhi aapke saath hai
- Kadam 2
Ghar ki ek yaad ka anand lijiye jo aapko pyaari hai
- Kadam 3
Jab tippani chubhe, ek dheemi saans lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aapki zindagi ka kaun sa badlav tippani ki taraf tha, aur uska aapke liye kya matlab hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Kuch shabd jo jadon par faisle jaise lagte hain #
Ujjain mein Mamaji ke yahan ka weekend Monday ki deadline ki wajah se chhota karna padta hai. Chai par aap nayi routine ka zikr karte ho, ye bhi ki puraani gali ab chhoti lagti hai. “Jadein bhool gaye ho,” koi kabhi dheere se kehta hai, kabhi sabke saamne, aur baat sambhalkar kahin aur mud jaati hai.
Ye baat naye shehar ke baad, nayi job ke baad, khane, pehanne ya Sunday bitane ke dhang ke badalne ke baad aa sakti hai. Dhaancha wahi rehta hai: badlav ko bhoolna padha jaata hai, aur badalne wale par saabit karne ka zimma aa jaata hai ki use yaad hai.
Sabse taaza baar se shuru kijiye.
Aakhri baar kab kisi ne kaha ki aapko apni jadein yaad nahi rahin, aur tabhi kya badla tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Jadon par tippani itni jaldi kyun lagti hai #
Kai logon mein yaad saabit karne ka mann uthta hai: koi purani kahani jaldi-jaldi suna dena, bachpan ki koi baat beech mein daal dena, zyada aane ka vaada. Kuch bilkul chup ho jaate hain, ya hanskar baat taal dete hain. Pehle pal mein inmein se kuch bhi ho sakta hai.
Jadein insaan ke apne hone ke ehsaas ke paas baithi hoti hain, isliye un par tippani sochne ka waqt milne se pehle lag jaati hai. Saaf soch baad mein aati hai, lautte hue raaste mein, har us yaad ke saath jo jawab ban sakti thi.
Wo pehla khinchaav aksar kisi taraf ishaara karta hai.
Tippani ke baad ke pehle kuch second mein aapne kya kiya, aur aap chahte the ki wo kya dekh lein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ye aage jeene ko peechhe chhodna bana deta hai #
Log apni jagah ko kai tarah yaad rakhte hain, aur sab tareeqe aana-jaana, bolna ya wahin rehna nahi dikhte. Ye aam baat hai. “Jadein bhool gaye” aadaton ke badlav ko yaaddaasht ka daava bana sakta hai, jaise alag tarah jeene ka matlab kam yaad rakhna ho.
Ye ateet ko karz bhi bana sakta hai, jaise use maanne ka tareeka uske jitna qareeb ho sake, rehna ho. Kuch ko sabse zyada yahi chubhta hai ki tippani ye andekha kar deti hai ki koi dekh nahi raha hota tab wo ghar ko kitni baar yaad karte hain.
Tippani shayad hi batati hai ki aakhir kya bhulaya gaya.
Aapki zindagi ka kaun sa badlav iske nishane par lagta hai, aur ghar ka wo hissa aapke liye ab bhi kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab munim ghar mein aa baithe #
Kuch baar sunne ke baad ek munim ghar mein aa baith sakta hai. “Purane mohalle ki baat chhedna.” “Nayi jagah ke baare mein zyada mat bolna.” “Phone zyada kijiye, warna phir wahi baat uthegi.” Kabhi ginti wahan pahunchne ke safar mein hi shuru ho jaati hai.
Kehne wala shayad minute bhar mein aage badh chuka ho, par munim ki bahi chalti rehti hai: chuni hui kahaniyan, tasalli ke liye tay ki mulaqat, nayi zindagi ka zikr jo chhaant diya gaya. Ye lihaaz jaisa lagta hai, isliye pehchanna mushkil hai.
Wo munim awaaz kahin se udhaar leta hai.
Jaanchte waqt ki aapko ab bhi yaad hai ya nahi, wo kiski awaaz mein bolta hai, aur sabse zyada kya saabit karne ko kehta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch ke liye yaad rakhne ka matlab ruke rehna tha #
“Jinhone paala-posa, unhein mat bhoolna.” “Jisne mushkil mein saath diya, use yaad rakhna.” “Aakhir mein sab bhool hi jaate hain.” Aisi baatein kuch logon ne station, shaadi ya rasoi ki table par suni hain, kabhi pyaar se, kabhi chubhakar, aur dekha hai ki un shabdon ne unse kya maanga laga.
Kuch families mein yaad rakhna chupchaap qareeb rehne se aur ek jaise rehne se jud jaata hai, aur wajahein har ghar ki alag hain. Nateeja ye ban sakta hai: aage badhne se rishta khatre mein padta hai, isliye use chhota rakhna ya samjhana padta hai.
Ghar chhodna, ya bas bada hona, ek ankahe vaade ke saath aa sakta hai.
Chhodte waqt aapse yaad rakhne ke baare mein kaun sa vaada maanga laga, aur kisne maanga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Yaad rakhne ke ird-gird banne wala niyam #
Andar ek maanyata ban sakti hai: “Badlav ka matlab bhool jaana hai,” ya halki: “Wafadaari ka matlab hai apne purane roop ke qareeb rehna.” Kuch logon ke saath “gharwalon ko nirash nahi karna” bhi chalta hai.
Aisi maanyatayein elaan karke nahi aatin. Ye kritagyata jaisi lagti hain, jaise bachpan ka ghar ka naam rakhe rehna seedha-saada pyaar lagta hai. Isiliye inhein nikaalkar din ki roshni mein dekhna kaam ka hai.
Kisi ke liye ye niyam saalon purana hota hai, kisi ke liye naya. Dono mein ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Apne purane roop ke qareeb rehne wala niyam aapke liye kahan ab bhi sahi baithta hai, aur kahan baithna band ho gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Ek saal yaad saabit karne ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai nayi zindagi ki safayi dete beeti mulaqatein, aaj ki kahaniyan jo ateet mein fit karne ko chhaanti gayin, aur kahin aur ghati har achhi baat ke baad halka apraadh-bodh. Kuch paate hain ki zindagi ke naye hisse kisi ke chune bina family baatcheet se khiskate jaate hain.
Ek khamosh keemat aur hai. Yaad saabit karne mein mehnat lagti hai, aur ghar wale shayad bas sambhala hua roop dekhein, jabki aaspaas wale doosra roop kabhi na dekhein. Saal bhar mein dono jagahein thodi kam ghar jaisi lag sakti hain.
Ye kamzori se nahi hai: do zindagiyan ek saath nazar mein rakhna asli mehnat hai.
Pichhle ek saal mein ye saabit karte rehne se ki aapko yaad hai, aapko kya ganwana pada?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, yaad saabit karte hue #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, aise din ki jab purane roop ke qareeb rehne wala niyam zor se baj raha ho. Phone, messages, agli mulaqat ki taiyaari dekhiye. Ye bas dekhne ke liye tasveer hai, sudharne ke liye nahi, aur ismein koi bhavishyavaani nahi.
Shayad har hafte ka phone jisme puraani gali ka zikr pehle aata hai, mulaqat jo aaram se zyada tasalli ke liye tay ho, office ka achha hafta jo maafi ke saath sunaya jaye, naya dost jisne ghar ke qisse kabhi sune hi nahi.
Abhi kisi ka jawab nahi chahiye.
Yaad saabit karne wale Tuesday ko aapki zindagi ka kaun sa hissa sabse kam paata dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Bhoola, kiski tulna mein? #
“Bhool gaye” ko ek tika hua bindu chahiye, jahan se naapa jaye: solah ki umar wala insaan, purana pata, pehli baar jaane se pehle. Kamre mein baaki log bhi shayad aise badle hain jise kisi ne bhoolna nahi kaha.
Kuch ko do cheezein alag karna kaam ka lagta hai jinhein ye baat jod deti hai: aadaton, kaam ya jagah ka badalna, aur jo kisi ko yaad hai aur jo use qeemti hai uska badalna. Pehla doosre ke bina ho sakta hai, aur vaakya shayad hi batata hai ki wo kiski baat kar raha hai.
Bahar se dekhiye.
Agar koi cousin bataye ki ghar se door ek kathin saal ke baad us par ghar bhool jaane ka ilzaam laga, to us saal ke baare mein aap kya poochhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Dobara dekhne par kuch logon ko kya dikhta hai #
Us pal ko dheere-dheere dohrane par kuch log apna asal kiya aur mila hua thappa paas-paas rakhkar dekhte hain: chhota hua weekend, alag khana, ek naya shabd. Saaf rakhne par badlav aur us par tippani do alag naap ke nikal sakte hain.
Kuch ko wo log dikhte hain jo usi badlav ko alag padhte hain: dost jo puraani gali ke baare mein sachchi utsukta se poochhta hai, Nani jo nayi photos dekhkar khil uthti hain, padosi jo kehte hain “raunak hai”. Kabhi agli mulaqat darr se aasaan nikalti hai, kabhi nahi.
Kuch log jadon aur nayi zindagi ko bina tippani ke rehne dete hain.
Kaun hai jo ye dekhkar khush hota hai ki aap aaj kahan ho, aur uske saath rehna kaisa lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Yaad saabit karne ki zaroorat nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye manna nahi ki kuch bhulaya gaya tha, ya ye dhong ki tippani chubhi nahi. Matlab bas itna ki ek mehfil ki ek baat agli baar aapke share karne aur dhyaan lagane par kam chale.
Kuch ko tab halka lagta hai jab wo yaad saabit karna chhod dete hain; saboot kabhi poora nahi hota. Kuch baatein family get-togethers mein achhi wajahon se, suraksha samet, chup rakhi jaati hain, aur ye jaayaz hai.
Ek tippani ko poore rishte ki shartein tay nahi karni padtin.
Agar bhoolne ki ek baat niyam na banti, to mulaqat kaisi lagti?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Ghar ke safar ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “badalne ka matlab bhoolna hai” chupchaap chal raha hai, to usse seedhe bhidna zaroori nahi. Kuch log iski jagah ek vaakya taiyaar rakhte hain: “Jahan ki mitti hai, wo mere saath hai, aur jahan aaj hoon, wahan poori tarah hoon.”
Iska fauran sach lagna zaroori nahi. Ye bas ek vaakya hai jise kuch log aazmate hain, aur kuch ko lagta hai ki milne jaate waqt raaste mein chupchaap kehne par wo purane vaakya ki thodi jagah le leta hai.
Apna likha vaakya aksar zyada tikta hai.
Yaad rakhne ke baare mein aapke shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jisme jahan se ho aur jahan ab rehte ho, dono ki jagah ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch baatein dalaan mein utaari ja sakti hain #
Jadon par har tippani ko safayi, yaad rakhi baaton ki list ya agli baar kam badle dikhne ki yojana nahi chahiye. Kuch baatein bas dekhi ja sakti hain, ek pal feel ki ja sakti hain, aur rakh di ja sakti hain, jaise lambe safar ke baad dalaan mein rakha suitcase.
Ye kisi ko chhod dena nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki mulaqat ki taakat kahan lage, aur kuch log kehte hain ki isse un baatcheet ke liye jagah bachti hai jo aasaan lagti hain, unke saath jinke saath aasaan hai.
Tippani ko shaam ke liye rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek thi ya baat khatam ho gayi. Bas itna ki use baaki mulaqat, agli call ya lautte safar mein saath nahi chalna padega.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar yaad saabit karna kam maayne rakhe #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki yaad saabit karne wala niyam ek darja dheema hai. Purana aur naya ek hi table par baith sakte hain, aur nayi routine bas ek routine ho sakti hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: puraani gali ki kahani bas uske apne liye sunana, office ka achha hafta bina maafi ke batana, ya nayi jagah ki photo bina dobara soche bhej dena.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai. Agar theek se dekhna chahein to ek baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Agar niyam itna dheela ho, to pehli chhoti cheez kya alag lagegi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar aage badhna chhod dene jaisa na lage, to kaun sa chhota pal sabse pehle dikhega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi bhool jaane wali baat”
- Sochiye tippani kis badlav ki taraf thi, aur wo asal mein kitna bada hai
- Ghar ki koi ek cheez dekhiye jo aaj bhi aapki roz ki zindagi mein basi hai
- Aise ek insaan ko yaad kijiye jo aapka purana aur naya, dono roop dekhkar khush hota hai
- Aaj ki ek chaah par dhyaan dijiye, chahe kitni bhi chhoti
Sab chhote, nijee aur apni marzi ke. Jo jame, wahi ek chun lijiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aapki zindagi ka kaun sa badlav tippani ki taraf tha, aur uska aapke liye kya matlab hai?
- Us pal aap kya chahte the ki wo aapke baare mein dekh lein, jo tippani ne chhod diya?
- Jahan se aap ho, uska kaun sa hissa bina kisi ke dekhe ab bhi aapke saath har jagah jaata hai?
- Jis aam din yaad saabit karne wala niyam zor se baje, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar yaad saabit karne wala niyam thoda dheela ho, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?