Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Dikkat ye hai ki niyam mein beech ka raasta nahi.
Kuch logon ke liye ye ghar ya school se shuru hua: “Dhindhora mat peeto.”
“Apni kaamyabi ki baat karna shekhi baghaarna hai” ke neeche aksar ek aur shaant niyam hota hai: “Mere chamakne se koi aur chhota lagega.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- “Shabaash” ke jawab mein “Arre kuch nahi” ya “Bas tukka lag gaya” kehna
- Achhi khabar tabhi batana jab koi poochhe, aur chhoti-si
- Poora shrey team ko de dena, apne hisse ka bhi
- Doosron ko khabar baante sunkar halki chubhan feel karna, bina wajah jaane
- Boss ko andaaza lagane dena ki kya kiya, batane ki jagah
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Wo promotion jo bataya nahi
Agra mein Sanjay Place ke ek rishtedaar ke yahan Sunday ka khana. Isi hafte aapka promotion hua hai, jiske liye do saal mehnat ki. Chachery behen apni nayi car ke baare mein der tak bolti hai. Mausi poochhti hain, “Kaam kaisa chal raha hai?” Aap kehte ho, “Bas, waisa hi,” aur baat badal dete ho. Ghar lautte hue ajeeb-sa soonapan hai, achhi khabar jeb mein ankahi padi. Chhota-sa pal hai, par saath rehta hai.
Kaamyabi baantna shekhi baghaarna hai
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Apni kaamyabi ki baat karna shekhi baghaarna hai.” Ye vinamra aur adab wala lagta hai. Upar se seedhi-saadi samajhdaari jaisa. Par dekhiye ye kya karta hai: aapki achhi khabar par taala laga deta hai. Jo log aapki parwah karte hain, unhe kabhi pata nahi chalta ki aapko kis baat par garv hai, aur aapki kaamyabi ajeeb tarah se akeli reh jaati hai, jise koi nahi manata, aap bhi nahi.
Vinamrata ki tareef kyun hui
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki vinamrata ki tareef hoti thi aur dhing ko bura maana jaata tha. Bahut log is niyam ke saath bade hote hain. Shayad sikhaya gaya tha ki apna dhol mat peeto. Shayad kisi ko dhing maarne par mazaak bante dekha. Jo bhi ho, vinamrata ko maan dena galat nahi. Ye dayalu hone aur doosron ko chhota na dikhane ki chaah se aata hai. Ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Ankahi jeet ki chamak
Har ankahi jeet ki chamak thodi kam hoti jaati hai. Ye dheere hota hai, isliye pakadna mushkil hai. Aap achhi khabar ko halka kar dete ho. Tareef milne par baat badalte ho. Doosron ko khulkar khabar baante dekhte ho aur halki jalan feel hoti hai. Aapki kaamyabiyan kam asli lagne lagti hain, kyunki unhe zor se kaha nahi gaya, aur sabse kareebi log aapki zindagi ka ek hissa chook jaate hain.
Kya ye chuppi iske layak hai?
Imaandaari se poochiye: kya jeet ko chup rakhne se wo kabhi behtar feel hui? Ya zyadatar wo aur chhoti aur akeli lagi? Parwah karne walon ke saath achhi khabar baantna shekhi baghaarna nahi. Yahan koi galat jawab nahi. Jo bhi ho, kisi ko achhi khabar batana ghamand ka paimana nahi hai. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar thaame rakhna us keemat ke layak hai?
Achhi khabar, saadgi se
Chhodne ka matlab dhing maarna, ya sabko chillakar khabar sunana nahi. Matlab ye ki koi jeet saadgi se, khush hone wale logon ke saath baanti ja sakti hai. Aap keh sakte ho, “Mera promotion hua hai, mujhe bahut khushi hai.” Ye chhote se shuru ho sakta hai, ek-ek pal karke. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: aapki kaamyabiyan asli, baante gaye pal ban jaati hain, aur aap bhi unka maza le paate ho.
If sharing good news has ever been met with mockery, threats or anger that frightened you, keeping it quiet can be the safe choice; that is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleApni kaamyabi ki baat karna shekhi baghaarna hai.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleAchhi khabar saadgi se baantna dhing nahi hai.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Is hafte ki ek achhi baat zor se kahiye
- Kadam 2
Ek jeet ka poori shaam maza lijiye
- Kadam 3
Dekhiye ki koi apni achhi khabar baante to kaisa lagta hai
Is par baat karni hai?
“Haal mein kaun-si achhi khabar aapne apne tak rakhi?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Achhi khabar, jeb mein rakhi hui #
“Apni kaamyabi ki baat karna shekhi baghaarna hai.” Ye kuch aisa sunaai deta hai: Sunday ke khane par paas kiya imtihaan jiska zikr nahi hota, kisi client ki tareef jo apne tak rakhi jaati hai, ya kisi ke “Shabaash” kehne par jhat se “Arre kuch nahi, bas ho gaya.”
Ye shor nahi karti. Ye ek chhoti-si ghoont hai. Achhi khabar aati hai, khushi ki ek jhalak uthti hai, aur phir kisi ke dekhne se pehle use samet liya jaata hai, jaise bachpan mein koi toffee jeb mein chhipa leta hai.
Aakhri achhi baat kya thi jo aapke saath hui aur kisi ko pata nahi chali?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapko kya roka?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Tareef par chaunkna #
Aksar ye kisi bhi khayal se pehle sharir mein dikhta hai. Office mein koi kehta hai “Bahut badhiya”, aur chehra garm ho jaata hai. Nazar jhuk jaati hai. Ek jhat ki hansi aur baat badal jaati hai, jaise tareef itni chamakdaar ho ki use dekha na ja sake.
Kuch log achhi khabar baantne ka sochte hi pet mein kuch feel karte hain. Family group mein message type hota hai, teen baar padha jaata hai, aur delete ho jaata hai. Ek chhoti raahat, phir ek chhoti udaasi.
Jab koi office ya ghar par aapki tareef karta hai, to aapka sharir kya karta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya aap tareef ki or jhukte ho, ya usse door, aur kitni jaldi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Vinamrata sachmuch achhi cheez hai #
Ye yaqeen sachmuch kisi achhi cheez se aata hai. Doosron ko chhota feel na karana. Apne munh miyan mitthu na banna. Un logon ki parwah karna jinhe achhi khabar nahi mili. Ye asli narmi hai.
Dikkat ye hai ki niyam mein beech ka raasta nahi. Ye “Mujhe job mil gayi, aur mujhe khushi hai” ko ghante bhar ki dhing ke saath ek hi dibbe mein rakh deta hai. To zindagi ki seedhi baatein bhi dhing lagne lagti hain.
Aapke liye baantne aur shekhi baghaarne ke beech ki rekha kahan hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya wo rekha itni khisak gayi hai ki achhi khabar bhi use paar nahi kar paati?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo awaaz ghata deti hai #
“Iska kya bada dhindhora.” “Unhe ye sunne ki zaroorat nahi.” “Meri auqaat hi kya hai?” Awaaz tez aur dheemi hai. Achhi khabar aate hi bolti hai, aur khabar ka volume ekdam neeche kar deti hai.
Ye aksar doosron ki taraf se bolne ka dikhaava karti hai. Tay kar leti hai ki wo jalenge, ya oob jaayenge, ya ye sab unhe zyada lagega. Par un logon ne abhi kuch kaha hi nahi. Awaaz ne unki taraf se jawab de diya.
Awaaz ne aakhri baar kab aapko kuch achha baantne se roka?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapko kya lagta hai, agar aap baant dete to asal mein kya hota?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Aksar bachpan mein, pyaar se sikhaya gaya #
Kuch logon ke liye ye ghar ya school se shuru hua: “Dhindhora mat peeto.” “Doosre tumhari tareef karein.” “Kaam poora hone tak chup raho.” Kuch parivaaron mein achhi khabar ko chup rakhna use mahfooz rakhne ka tareeka tha, aur sabko pasand aane ka bhi. Kabhi “Nazar na lag jaaye” ka darr bhi saath hota tha.
Auron ke liye ye kisi ek pal se aaya. School mein sunayi gayi garv wali baat par hansi udna. Koi rishtedaar jisne kisi cousin ke baare mein kaha “Khud ko samajhta kya hai?” Ek ke neeche dabaye jaane ki baat sunna poore parivaar ko chhota rehna sikha sakta hai.
Bade hote hue aapne un logon ke baare mein kya seekha jo apni kaamyabi ki baat karte the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapne jo kisse sune, unke saath kya hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Niyam ke neeche ka niyam #
“Apni kaamyabi ki baat karna shekhi baghaarna hai” ke neeche aksar ek aur shaant niyam hota hai: “Mere chamakne se koi aur chhota lagega.” Ya: “Mere chhota bane rehne se log mujhe zyada pasand karte hain.” Ye niyam narm lagte hain. Par ye poori zindagi ko aadha chhipakar rakh sakte hain.
Kabhi ye niyam samajh mein aata tha. Numbers ke baare mein chup rehne wale bachche ko chidhaya nahi jaata tha. Dhing na maarne wala parivaar padosiyon ke kareeb rehta tha. Sir jhukakar rehna mahfooz rakhta tha aur sabka chahita banata tha.
Kya aaj, aapke aas-paas ke logon ke saath, ye ab bhi sach hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki zindagi mein kaun aapki khabar jaankar sachmuch khush hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Chuppi chupchaap kya cheenti hai #
Office mein iska matlab ho sakta hai aisa review jahan manager ko aapke aadhe kaam ka pata hi nahi. Wo promotion jo bolne wale ko mila. Koi achha idea jiska shrey kisi aur ko gaya, kyunki aapne kabhi nahi kaha ki wo aapka tha.
Ghar mein iska matlab ho sakta hai aisa parivaar jo kathin khabrein jaanta hai par achhi nahi. Dost jinhe khush hone ka mauqa nahi milta. Achhe din jo bina baante beet jaate hain, aur khushi jo isliye jaldi feeki padti hai ki use kabhi zor se kaha hi nahi gaya.
Pichhle saal kaun-si achhi baat ankahi rahi, office mein ya ghar par?Is par baat kijiye ›
Use jaankar kaun khush hota, agar use mauqa diya jaata?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Kuch saal baad, ek aam Tuesday #
Kuch saal baad ki ek aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, aise din ki jab “Apni kaamyabi ki baat karna shekhi baghaarna hai” ab bhi sab chalata hai. Ye sirf dekhne ki tasveer hai, bhavishyavaani nahi, aur isme theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad ek review jahan achha kaam ankaha reh jaata hai. Shayad ek family call jo sabki khabron se bhari hai. Shayad bus stop par chupchaap feel kiya gaya garv, jo ghar pahunchne se pehle phir samet liya gaya. Bas din, jaisa wo beetta hai.
Yahan abhi kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi.
Us Tuesday ko dekhkar, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kaun-sa hissa aapke saath rehta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Baantna aur shekhi baghaarna ek nahi #
Shekhi baghaarna khud ko doosron se bada dikhane ki baat hai. Baantna logon ko apni zindagi mein aane dene ki baat hai. “Aakhir mera driving test paas ho gaya” dhing nahi hai. Ye khabar hai. Ye logon ko andar bulati hai.
Bahut logon ko dost ki achhi khabar sunna achha lagta hai. Isse wo kisi ke liye khush ho paate hain. Saari kaamyabiyan chup rakhna bina chahe doston ko thodi doori par rakh sakta hai, kyunki wo kahani ka aadha hi dekhte hain.
Jab koi dost apni achhi khabar batata hai, to kya aapko lagta hai ki wo shekhi baghaar raha hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ya aap zyadatar uske liye khush hote ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par logon ko kya milta hai #
Gaur se dekhne par kai log paate hain ki unhe doosron ki kaamyabi sunna pasand hai. Cousin ki nayi job par wo taaliyan bajate hain, group mein dil bhejte hain, tafseel poochte hain. Niyam sirf apne par lagta hai.
Kuch ye bhi paate hain ki unki chuppi poori tarah vinamrata nahi hai. Uska ek hissa darr hai: ghamandi dikhne ka, jalan ka, baatein banne ka. Vinamrata aur darr bahar se ek-se dikh sakte hain, par andar se alag feel hote hain.
Jab aap koi kaamyabi chup rakhte ho, to usmein kitni vinamrata hai aur kitni fikr?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya aap dono mein fark kar sakte ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Vinamrata rakhiye, niyam dheela kijiye #
Is yaqeen se sulah ka matlab har kaamyabi post karna ya din bhar apni baat karna nahi. Vinamrata ek pyaari cheez hai. Bahut log uski qadr karte hain, aur use rakhna theek hai.
Ye zyada chunav karne ke baare mein hai. Kabhi aap koi jeet nijji rakhna chahein kyunki aapka mann hai. Kabhi baantna chahein kyunki wo seedhi, achhi baat hai. Niyam tabhi maayne rakhta hai jab chunav wo khud kar de.
Kaun-si kaamyabiyan aap sachmuch nijji rakhna chahte ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur kinhe aap chahenge ki koi jaane?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
“Apni kaamyabi ki baat karna shekhi baghaarna hai” ki jagah kuch log aazmaate hain: “Achhi khabar narmi se baanti ja sakti hai, aur vinamrata bhi bani reh sakti hai.” Purane niyam mein jo achha hai, ye use rakhta hai, aur khushi ko thoda bahar aane deta hai.
Shuru mein ye zyada bebaak lag sakta hai, sochna bhi lagbhag dhing jaisa. Barson purane niyam ke baad ye saamanya hai. Kuch logon ko kuch waqt baad ye aam lagne lagta hai. Kuch ko apne shabd zyada jamte hain.
Aapka apna sachcha vaakya kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kuch aisa jo aapki vinamrata bhi rakhe aur achhe din ko achha din bhi rehne de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch din purana niyam ab bhi bolta hai #
Kuch din purana niyam phir jeet sakta hai. Koi tareef taal di gayi. Koi achhi khabar ankahi reh gayi. Ye purani aadat hai, aur purani aadatein lautti hain, khaaskar jab log thake hon ya kisi kamre ko lekar anishchit hon.
Ise narmi se pehchanne se madad mil sakti hai: “Lo, phir wahi vinamrata ka niyam.” Khud ko daantne ya dohrane ki zaroorat nahi. Bas pehchan lena bhi, ise bilkul na dekhne se, ek chhota badlaav hai.
Aaj shaam ise rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki achhi khabar chhipana theek tha. Bas itna ki ye aapke peechhe-peechhe nahi chalna chahiye.
Baaki shaam mein kya ho sakta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam ek darja dheela ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema hai. Vinamrata saari wahin hai, par achhi khabar ko bhi thodi jagah milti hai.
Bahut log pehle chhoti cheezein sochte hain: tareef par seedha “Shukriya”, ghar lautte hue ek achhe din ka poora maza, ek chhoti jeet jo taali nahi, dekhi gayi.
Isme se kuch bhi kisi ko dikhana zaroori nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo logon ko kaam ki lagti hain #
- Aaj ki ek chhoti jeet par dhyaan dijiye aur use poore vaakya mein khud se kahiye
- Koi “Shabaash” kahe to bas seedha “Shukriya” kahiye, aur kuch nahi
- “Arre kuch nahi” kehne ki ichchha par gaur kijiye, aur ek baar use guzar jaane dijiye
- Ek aise insaan ko sochiye jo aapki achhi khabar par khush hoga
- Samet kar rakhne se pehle ek poore minute tak jeet ka maza lijiye
Chhoti, aur sab apni marzi se. Jo ho sake, wahi chuniye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Haal mein kaun-si achhi khabar aapne apne tak rakhi?
- Apni kaamyabi ki baat karne walon ke baare mein aapko kya sikhaya gaya tha?
- Jab koi aapki tareef karta hai to kaun-sa ehsaas aata hai: garmaahat, fikr, ya kuch aur?
- Jis aam din ye niyam zor se bolta hai, tab kaun-si achhi baatein ankahi reh jaayengi?
- Agar niyam thoda dheela ho, to aap sabse pehle kya notice karenge?