Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Jo nateeja ek minute pehle poora lagta tha, adhoora dikhne lagta hai.
Kuch logon ke liye chhoti jeet ke turant baad badi jeet ka sawaal aa jaata tha, aur mithai khatam hone se pehle agla target haazir.
Kuch logon ko neeche ek niyam baitha sunayi deta hai: “Mera kiya tabhi gina jayega jab wo kaafi bada ho,” ya “Log mujhe gambhirta se tabhi lenge jab main aur-aur paata rahun.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Jhat se jod dena ki aage aur kya-kya plan hai
- Doosron ke chhota karne se pehle khud halka kar dena: “Arre, kuch nahi”
- Us khaas insaan ko apni khabrein batana hi band kar dena
- Agli baar use aur bada karne ke liye aur jut jaana
- Muskura dena, aur khushi chupchaap apne paas rakh lena
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Sunday ki safai aur jalebi
Sunday ki safai chal rahi hai. Pankhe pooch chuke, gadde chhat par dhoop kha rahe hain, aur fafda-jalebi ki puriya khuli hai. Aap bataate ho ki promotion ho gaya. Mamaji jalebi uthate hue kehte hain, “Bas itna hi? Aur kya kiya?” Sab halke se hans dete hain. Aap bhi muskurate ho, “Abhi aur bhi plan hai” jod dete ho, aur jo chamak saath laye the, wo chupchaap kahin tah ho jaati hai. Chubhta hai, par dheere se.
Bada ho tabhi gina jaye
Ye shabd ek aise niyam par girte hain jo shayad pehle se wahan hai: “Mera kiya tabhi gina jayega jab wo kaafi bada ho.” Ye lagan jaisa lagta hai, samajhdaari jaisa bhi. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapki khushi ko ek aise aankde tak rok deta hai jiska naam kisi ne nahi liya. Har nateeja seedhi ban jaata hai, aur kisi seedhi par rukkar khade hone ki ijazat nahi rehti.
Hum ye niyam kyun pakadte hain
Is niyam ko hum pyaar se pakadte hain. Shayad ghar mein pichhle number se zyada agle number ki baat hoti thi, aur “Sharma ji ka ladka” har baatcheet mein aa jaata tha. Shayad kisi ne aapke liye bahut khatkar kamaya aur chaha ki aap aur aage jao. Ye niyam bewajah nahi. Ye qadar paane ki chaah se ugaa hai, aur ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Wo khushi jo kho jaati hai
Andar baitha har “bas itna hi” thoda chain khaata hai. Achhi khabar sunana chhod dete hain. Apni jeet ko doosron se pehle khud chhaant dete hain. Kaam ka din khatam hota hai aur yaad sirf ye rehta hai ki kya baaki hai. Dheere-dheere kuch kar dikhane ki khushi khone lagti hai, aur aaram karna pichhadne jaisa lagta hai. Ye ek chupchaap ki thakaan hai.
Kya ye niyam dhona theek hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: is niyam ko pakde rehne se aapke kaam ka poora hona aur mehsoos hua, ya kam? Unke shabd unke the, aur wo hi jaante hain ki kyun kahe. Jo bhi ho, khane ki mez ka ek sawaal aapke kiye ka paimana nahi. Kya aisa niyam dhona theek hai jo aapko kabhi us jagah khade nahi hone deta jahan aap pahunche ho?
Nateeje ko kaafi rehne dena
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aap achha karne ki parwah chhod do, ya ki wo sawaal pyaar se poochha gaya tha. Matlab ye ki nateeja nateeja rahe aur khushi khushi, kisi aankde ki ijazat ke bina. Yahin se kuch chain lautta hai: lagan bhi bani reh sakti hai aur Sunday ki dopahar bhi. Sawaal usi ke paas reh sakta hai jisne poochha.
Where someone's reaction to your news turns into anger, threats or fear, that is worth taking seriously, and keeping your good news to yourself can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMera kiya tabhi gina jayega jab wo kaafi bada ho.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMera kiya gina jaata hai, aur us par khush hona theek hai.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Is hafte ka ek kaam chuniye, use bina “bas” ke dekhiye
- Kadam 2
Jo ek cheez aapne poori ki, use ek minute dekhiye
- Kadam 3
Wo shabd lautein to koi khushi wali baat yaad kijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kis baat ki khushi thi jab kisi ne poocha “bas itna hi?”, aur wo pal kaise khatam hua?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Khushi ki baat par ek thandi line #
Sunday ki safai chal rahi hai: sofa ke cover wash mein gaye hain, gadde chhat par dhoop mein hain, aur fafda-jalebi ki puriya abhi khuli hai. Aap bataate ho ki promotion ho gaya. Mamaji jalebi chabaate hue poochte hain: “Bas itna hi kiya?” Mummy hans deti hain, aur khabar ka rang wahin utar jaata hai.
Kabhi muskurakar, kabhi mazaak mein, kabhi is irade se ki aap aur upar jao: “Bas itna hi?”, “Isme kaun si badi baat hai?”, “First kaun aaya?” Jo cheez ek minute pehle khushi de rahi thi, use ab safai deni padti hai ki wo aur badi kyun nahi thi.
Aakhri baar aapne koi khushi ki baat batayi thi, to un shabdon ke baad kya hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur wo khushi uske baad kahan gayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Khushi sabse pehle kyun baith jaati hai #
Andar kuch chupchaap baith jaata hai, jaise phoole gubbare ki hawa dheere se nikal gayi ho. Koi hanskar jod deta hai, “Arre, abhi aur bhi karna hai.” Koi chup ho jaata hai, baat badal deta hai, ya bas keh deta hai, “Haan, itna hi.” Isme kamzori jaisa kuch nahi.
Khabar sunate hi “bas itna hi?” sunna body pehle mehsoos karti hai, sochna baad mein aata hai. Chubhan isliye bhi zyada hoti hai ki usse theek pehle ka pal khula aur garv se bhara tha. Hisaab, ki aur kya ho sakta tha, aksar raat ko sir mein bajta hai.
Un shabdon ke baad ke do second mein aapne us khabar ka kya kiya jo abhi-abhi sunayi thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur khushi ka kya hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Pahunchte hi finish line aage sarak jaati hai #
“Bas itna hi?” ye nahi poochta ki kaam kaisa gaya ya kitni mehnat lagi. Wo nateeje ko ek aise aankde se taulta hai jiska naam kisi ne nahi liya, aur karne wale ko andaaza lagana padta hai ki sahi aankda kitna hota.
Wahi andaaza saath reh jaata hai. Jo nateeja ek minute pehle poora lagta tha, adhoora dikhne lagta hai. Kuch log khabar batana hi kam kar dete hain, ya use khud chhota kar dete hain: “Arre, kuch khaas nahi, bas aise hi ho gaya.”
Jab kisi ne aapke kiye ko aise aankde se taula jo unhone bataya hi nahi, to aapko kya laga wo aankda kitna tha, aur wo kahan se aaya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab sawaal andar basne lage #
Itna suno to ye apne aap chalne lagta hai. “Kuch khaas nahi hai.” “Ye to koi bhi kar leta.” “Abhi kisi ko mat bata, pehle bada ho jaane de.” Kabhi jaanch khabar sunane se pehle hi ho jaati hai, aur khushi pehle se kat-chhant jaati hai.
Kehne wale ko wo Sunday shayad kab ka yaad na ho, par andar jaanch chalti rehti hai. Aur kyunki ye aapki apni awaaz mein bolti hai, ye aadat nahi, sachchi humility lagti hai, jo kinhi kamron aur kinhi barson mein seekhi gayi thi.
Aapki taazi achhi khabar par ye awaaz kya kehti hai, aur kin jagahon par sabse pehle bolti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch gharon mein sirf badi baat gini jaati thi #
“Second? First kaun aaya?” “Pass? Kitne percent?” “Sharma ji ke ladke ko dekho.” Kuch logon ke liye chhoti jeet ke turant baad badi jeet ka sawaal aa jaata tha, aur mithai khatam hone se pehle agla target haazir.
Zyadatar gharon mein ye sachchi ummeed aur sachchi mehnat se aata tha: jinhone khatkar paala, wo bachchon ke liye aur chahte the, aur kehna yahi aata tha. Bachcha chupchaap maan leta hai ki jo kiya wo bas seedhi hai, ginti sirf agli cheez ki hai.
Bachpan mein ghar par achhi khabar ka kya hota tha, aur uske turant baad aamtaur par kaun sa sawaal aata tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Neeche baitha ek chupchaap niyam #
Kuch logon ko neeche ek niyam baitha sunayi deta hai: “Mera kiya tabhi gina jayega jab wo kaafi bada ho,” ya “Log mujhe gambhirta se tabhi lenge jab main aur-aur paata rahun.”
Aise niyam niyam jaise lagte hi nahi. Wo lagan jaise lagte hain, ya humility, ya bas ye samajh ki duniya insaan ko kaise taulti hai. Isiliye inhein kabhi-kabhi bahar nikalkar dekhna theek hai, behas ke liye nahi, bas dekhne ke liye.
Kuch log is niyam ko kinhi kamron ya saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Kya “bada ho tabhi gina jayega” jaisa niyam aapne kabhi mehsoos kiya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
“Bada ho tabhi gina jayega” ab bhi kahan fit baithta hai, aur kahan nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
“Aur bada chahiye” niyam ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai ki achhi khabar kabhi sunayi hi na jaye, ki suhani dopahar agla kaam sochne mein nikal jaye, ya poora ho chuka project kabhi poora na lage. Kuch log jeet ka maza kaam rokne se bahut pehle lena band kar dete hain.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Jab har nateeja tabhi gina jaye jab use paar kar liya jaye, to aaram karna peeche rah jaane jaisa lagne lagta hai, aur paas ke log aksar mehnat hi dekh paate hain, use khushi se jeeta insaan nahi.
Pichhle ek saal mein isne aapse kya liya, agar kuch liya ho: koi jeet jiska maza nahi liya, koi chhutti jo nahi li, koi shaam jo agli cheez mein nikal gayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Ek aam Tuesday, jab sawaal zor se bole #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “bada ho tabhi gina jayega” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad ek task nipta aur pata hi nahi chala, kisi taareef par “arre, kuch nahi tha” keh diya, pehli cheez ka maza lene se pehle hi kisi badi cheez ka plan ban gaya. Kuch jaana-pehchana lage, kuch bilkul nahi.
Yahan abhi kisi cheez ka jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer jab chahein kinare rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usmein kya hai: kaam, koi chhoti cheez jo poori hui, khushi ka ek pal jo aaya aur nikal gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Tuesday ko dekhte hue, agar kuch, to aapki nazar kis par rukti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Kya waqayi “itna hi” tha? #
“Itna hi” kehne se lagta hai ki poori baat ek line mein napi ja sakti hai. Par kisi ke kiye mein aksar poori kahani hoti hai: subah jaldi uthna, beech mein kuch bigad jaana, arzi bhejne ki himmat jutana.
Nateeja wo hai jo bahar se dikhta hai. Mehnat, seekhna aur beech ke din zyadatar usi ko dikhte hain jisne unhein jiya, isiliye ek hi nateeja kisi ko bada lagta hai aur kisi ko chhota.
Agar aapke kisi kareebi ko yahi khabar sunane par “bas itna hi?” sunne ko milta, to raaste mein aap unse kya kehna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Poori kahani dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #
Jab kuch log us pal ko dheere-dheere dohraate hain, to asli cheez ko un shabdon ke baghal mein rakhkar dekhte hain: mehnat, wo din, wo hissa jo mushkil tha. Uske saamne wo tippani kisi aur fite se naapi hui lagti hai.
Kuch ko wo log bhi dikhte hain jinhone garmjoshi se kuch kaha: jisne bas “Arre wah!” kaha, jis colleague ne der raat ki mehnat dekhi, jis bhai-behen ne muskura diya. Wo awaazein bhi thi, bas us ek se dheemi jo chipak gayi.
Kise sirf isliye khushi hui ki aapne kuch kiya, aur us khushi ki awaaz kaisi thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Ise bada saabit karna zaroori nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye maan lena nahi ki wo chhota tha, na ye dikhana ki baat chubhi nahi. Matlab bas itna ki ek sawaal ko is par kam chalne dein ki kisi nateeje se kitni khushi milni chahiye.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo us aankde ko dhoondhna chhod dete hain jo aakhirkaar “kaafi” hoga. Us khoj ki koi finish line nahi, kyunki aankda sarakta rehta hai, aur jab tak wo chalti hai, har jashn ki sabse aage ki kursi par ek tippani baithi rehti hai.
Kuch kamre poochte rahenge, aur unhein badalna kisi ka kaam nahi.
Agli achhi khabar kaisi lagegi agar sawaal poochne wale ke paas hi reh jaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Apne kiye ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “bada ho tabhi gina jayega” barson se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe bhidne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Hua hai, maine kiya hai, aur aaj ke liye itna kaafi ho sakta hai.”
Iska sach lagna zaroori nahi. Ye bas ek line hai jise kuch log aazmate hain, aur kuch paate hain ki khabar sunane se pehle ya kisi tippani ke baad chupchaap kehne par wo purane sawaal ki thodi jagah le leti hai.
Apne kiye ke baare mein aapka apna sachcha vaakya kaisa hoga, aisa jise maanne ke liye mez par baithe kisi ki zaroorat na pade?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch baatein chai ki mez par hi chhoot sakti hain #
Har “bas itna hi?” ko jawab, safai ya agli baar zyada karne ka vaada nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, pal bhar mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise jalebi ki khaali plate khane ke baad uthakar rakh di jaati hai.
Ye uske aage jhukna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki energy kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain ki isse un kaamon ke liye zyada jagah bachti hai jo unhein pasand hain, aur un logon ke liye jo bas khush hote hain.
Aaj ise wahin chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki baat theek thi ya nipat gayi. Bas itna ki aaj ise agle project, agle nateeje ya agli achhi khabar tak saath nahi le jaana.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam thoda dheela pade #
Bas ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki “aur bada chahiye” wala niyam zara dheema pad gaya. Nateeja bas nateeja hai, aur khushi bas khushi.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: kaam poora hone par kuch achha kha lena, khabar batate hue “par” na jodna, aisa Sunday jo agle target se shuru na ho.
Isme se kuch bhi kisi se kehna zaroori nahi. Jo bhi ubhre wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne laayak, chahe kitna bhi chhota. Ise theek se dekhna chahein to ek chat bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagega, bhale hi thoda-sa?Is par baat kijiye ›
Niyam ke dheele padne ka aapka pehla chhota sanket kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi bas-itna-hi wala sawaal”
- Haal ki koi ek cheez chuniye aur use bina “bas” lagaye uske naam se bulaiye
- Dekhiye ki chubhan nateeje ki hai ya us pal ki jab wo baat kahi gayi
- Apna koi aisa nateeja yaad kijiye jo ab bhi chupchaap achha lagta hai
- Aaj ki ek achhi baat ke saath poora ek minute rukiye, phir aage badhiye
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kis baat ki khushi thi jab kisi ne poocha “bas itna hi?”, aur wo pal kaise khatam hua?
- Wo sunte waqt kamre mein kaun tha, aur kiska reaction aaj bhi yaad hai?
- Aapka koi nateeja aakhri baar kab poora laga tha, aur use kisne badal diya?
- Ek aam din jab “bada ho tabhi gina jayega” zor se bole, aap kya taal rahe hote ho?
- Niyam thoda dheela pade to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?