Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye aur chubh sakta hai kyunki din hamesha chamakte nahi: paper, pehli naukri, paison ki tension, ghar ki zimmedariyan, thaka hua badan.
“Ghoom le, naukri lagi toh chhutti kahan.”
Neeche-neeche ek niyam ban sakta hai: “Maze karne ka bas yahi mauqa hai,” ya “Abhi jee nahi liya to sab bekaar gaya.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Muskurakar sir hilana, phir baad mein halka bojh mehsoos karna
- Har weekend plan se bhar dena taaki koi waqt barbaad na ho
- Chupchaap baithi shaamon aur aaram par apradh-bodh karna
- Mann hi mann sochna ki maze theek se ho bhi rahe hain ya nahi
- Mushkil din chhupa lena taaki wahi line dobara na aaye
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Pyaari line, chupchaap bojh
Aakhri paper khatam hua hai. Indore mein Bua ke ghar lambi table par lunch hai, aur Phupha kandha thapthapakar pyaar se kehte hain, “Jawani ke din hain, maze kar lo.” Poori table sir hilati hai. Aap muskura dete ho, par chhaati mein kuch kas jaata hai. Plan tha chupchaap weekend aur lambi neend ka, aur ab wo plan barbaadi jaisa lagta hai.
Bas yahi achhe saal
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Yahi ikloote achhe saal hain.” Ye shukraguzaari jaisa lagta hai, aur salah bhi bhali lagti hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har aam din ko imtihaan bana deta hai. Shant shaam nuksaan lagne lagti hai, aur aap apni hi zindagi ko aise number dene lagte ho jaise ghadi ulti chal rahi ho.
Pyaar se kyun kahi gayi
Hum ise isliye thaame rehte hain ki aksar pyaar karne walon se suna. Bahut log is niyam ka koi roop sunkar bade hote hain, aur wo aksar garmjoshi mein lipatkar aaya. Shayad aas-paas ke bade thake the aur apni azaadi yaad kar rahe the. Shayad wo aapke liye khushi chahte the. Achhe waqt ki parwah galat nahi. Use narmi chahiye.
Apne dinon ko number dena
Har “jawani ke din hain” vartamaan ko thoda kas deta hai. Ye dheere hota hai, isliye pakadna mushkil hai. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par aapko mehsoos hota hai. Zyadatar din aaram mein thoda apradh-bodh rehta hai. Plan maza saabit karne ke liye bante hain. Saade, achhe din sunehri jawani ke paimane par taule jaane se chhoot jaate hain.
Kya deadline kaam aati hai?
Khud se sach-sach poochhiye: kya sabse achhe saal pakadne ki jaldi se din behtar lage? Ya zyadatar homework jaise lage? Bahut logon ko har umar mein achhe din milte hain, aur saade din bhi gine jaate hain. Ye aap hi bata sakte ho, aur koi galat jawab nahi. Maza karne ko deadline nahi chahiye. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna theek hai?
Bina ghadi wala maza
Chhodne ka matlab maze chhodna nahi. Matlab ye ki maza halka aur bina jaldi ka ho sakta hai, deadline ke bina. Aap aaram kar sakte ho, bahar ja sakte ho, aur aam Tuesday ko aam rehne de sakte ho. Ye ek baar mein nahi hota, aur hona zaroori bhi nahi. Wahin se kuch chain lautta hai: achhe din aapke rehte hain, umar jo bhi ho.
If speaking up or resting at home is ever met with threats, anger that frightens you, or being hurt, keeping quiet can be the safe choice; that is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleBas yahi ikloote achhe saal hain.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleAchhe din kisi bhi umar mein aa sakte hain.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Ek aam din ko bina apradh-bodh aam rehne dijiye
- Kadam 2
Aaj ki ek chhoti-si achhi cheez par gaur kijiye
- Kadam 3
Ek plan isliye chuniye ki pasand hai, saabit karne ko nahi
Is par baat karni hai?
“Pichhli baar jab kisi ne maze karne ko kaha, tab aapki zindagi mein kya chal raha tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Tohfa jo ginti ban gaya #
Indore mein aakhri paper ke baad Bua ke ghar lunch. Phupha kandha thapthapate hain, “Jawani ke din hain, maze kar lo.” Bhopal ki city bus mein koi anjaan muskurakar kehta hai, “Enjoy karo beta.” Pyaar se kahi baat, sabke saamne.
Aksar ye bhalai mein kaha jaata hai. Phir bhi ye aaj ko ginti bana sakta hai, jaise zindagi ka ye hissa bas thodi der ka mauqa hai aur iska har aam Tuesday ya to kaam mein aa raha hai ya barbaad ho raha hai.
Pichhli baar jab kisi ne kaha, “Ye umar phir nahi aayegi,” tab aapki zindagi mein kya chal raha tha, aur wo baat kaisi lagi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Ginti shuru hone ke baad ka pal #
Koi muskurakar sir hila deta hai, phir bhi ek chhota bojh baith jaata hai. Kisi ko sofa par beetne wali shaam ka halka-sa apradh-bodh hota hai. Kisi ko meethe lehje ke neeche chetavni sunayi deti hai, aur wo chupchaap ginne lagta hai ki kitna bacha.
Pyaar se kahi baat bhi sochne se pehle, ek pal mein lag jaati hai.
Uske baad aam din bhi imtihaan lagne lagta hai: kya ye maza kaafi hai, kya maze sahi tareeke se ho rahe hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us line ke baad pehle pal mein aap kya karte hain, aur jo plan pehle se bana tha uske baare mein kaisa lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Maza karna ek deadline wala kaam ban gaya #
“Maze kar lo” ek nyota hai aur “jawani ke din hain” usmein deadline jod deta hai. Mann deadline sunta hai, aur maza karna kuch hone wali cheez se kuch theek se nipatane wali cheez ban jaata hai.
Ye aur chubh sakta hai kyunki din hamesha chamakte nahi: paper, pehli naukri, paison ki tension, ghar ki zimmedariyan, thaka hua badan. Jo line jawani ko party maan le, usmein mushkil daur ka matlab ye nikal sakta hai ki aap jawani galat jee rahe ho.
Jab ye line sunayi deti hai, us hafte aapki thaali mein asal mein kya hai, aur kya wo party jaisa lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab ginti andar chalne lage #
Baar-baar suno to ye apne aap chalne lagta hai. “Yahi time hai, barbaad mat kar.” “Sabko haan bol de, phir nahi milega.” “Maza karna tha, to thakaan kyun?” Ghar par bitayi shant shaam shuru hone se pehle hi taule jaane lagti hai.
Kehne wale Phupha door hon, par ghadi chalti rehti hai: khaali shaam jo pressure lage, yun hi book kiya trip taaki saal bekaar na jaye, aaram ke din mein thodi sharm. Kyunki awaaz achhi salah jaisi hai, ye apni mahatvakanksha lag sakti hai, kisi aur ki kahi line nahi.
Aapke andar kiski awaaz kehti hai ki aaram karte waqt achhe saal phisal rahe hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch logon ke liye jawani ek chhoti achhi cheez batayi gayi #
“Yahi toh din hain aish ke.” “Ghoom le, naukri lagi toh chhutti kahan.” “Shaadi ke baad toh sab khatam.” Kuch log bade hote hue sunte rahe ki jawani sunehra, chhota daur hai jo aise darwaaze par khatam hota hai jise koi dikha nahi sakta.
Aksar ye pyaar se aaya, aur kabhi thake badon ki khoyi azaadi ki yaad se, aur wajahein har ghar mein alag hain. Jo chupchaap reh jaata hai wo bada khayal hai: ki jawani ke baad zindagi zyadatar bojh hai aur achha hissa beet raha hai.
Pehli baar kab suna ki zindagi ka sabse achha hissa wahi hai jismein aap abhi hain, aur kehne wala kaun tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Achhe saalon ke baare mein ek chupchaap niyam #
Neeche-neeche ek niyam ban sakta hai: “Maze karne ka bas yahi mauqa hai,” ya “Abhi jee nahi liya to sab bekaar gaya.” Kuch log ise un saalon ke baad bhi dhote rehte hain jinki baat ho rahi thi.
Aise niyam niyam jaise lagte hi nahi. Ye shukraguzaari aur samajhdaari jaise lagte hain, jaise pairon mein dum ho tabhi trip book kar lena seedhi aqalmandi lagti hai. Isiliye inhein nikaalkar kabhi-kabhi dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko shuruaati saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Zindagi ke kin hisson mein “abhi nahi toh kabhi nahi” ab bhi baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Ginti ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai ki achhi shaam ye sochte beete ki wo kaafi achhi thi ya nahi, koi aam Tuesday “bekaar gaya” likh diya jaye, aaram ke upar apradh-bodh rakha jaye. Kuch log chhoti khushiyan ginna chhod dete hain kyunki “asli badi” ka intezaar hai.
Ek shant keemat bhi hai. Har din ko sunehre paimane par taulna mehnat hai, aur aas-paas ke logon ko aksar bas maze ka dikhawa karta, vyast insaan dikhta hai. Saal bhar mein kai din jo theek the, achhe bhi the, kabhi gine hi nahi gaye.
Pichhle ek saal mein is ginti ne kya liya: koi aam din, koi shant shaam, koi plan jo chhodna pada?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, dinon ko number dete hue #
Ek aam Sunday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “in saalon ko sahi se bitana hai” zor se baj raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad saal bhara dikhe isliye book kiya trip, shant dopahar jo bekaar jaate waqt ki fikar mein beeti, raat ki party jo homework jaisi lagi, photo jo maza saabit karne ko kheenchi gayi. Kuch jaana-pehchana hoga, kuch bilkul nahi.
Is tasveer mein kuch bhi tay nahi, aur jab chahein ise neeche rakha ja sakta hai.
Usmein kya hai: plan, aaram, aur dono par apradh-bodh?Is par baat kijiye ›
Poore din ko number dene ki tasveer mein sabse zyada kya atakta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Maze karo, par deadline kyun? #
Zindagi ka maza har umar mein achha hai, aur line ka sabse bhala roop bas yahi kehta hai. Deadline alag se judi hai. Kabhi bolne wala apni khoyi azaadi yaad kar raha hota hai, aur shabdon mein aapki kahani se zyada uski kahani hoti hai.
Khushi koi quota nahi jo khatam ho jaye. Kuch log do cheezein alag karke dekhte hain: line ke peeche ki garmjoshi, jise khushi se liya ja sakta hai, aur uske andar ki ginti, jise table par hi chhoda ja sakta hai.
Agar aapka koi hamumar dost kahe ki uska aam Tuesday theek beeta, to kya aap usse kahenge ki jawani barbaad kar rahe ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Dheere se dohraane par logon ko kya dikhta hai #
Jab kuch log us pal ko dheere-dheere dohraate hain, to dekhte hain ki bolne wala kya pakadne ki koshish mein tha: koi yaad, aapke liye koi ummeed, kabhi apni thakaan. Ginti ke bagal mein rakhkar kuch ko dikhta hai ki garmjoshi sachchi thi, pressure nahi.
Kuch ko wo jagahein dikhti hain jahan khushi aasaan hai: bina maqsad ka khana, chahalqadmi, koi bewakoof show, aisa dost jise dheema din akhrta nahi. Kabhi wahi kaafi hoti hain, kabhi apradh-bodh asal mein aur ki chaah dikha raha tha.
Aapki zindagi mein kaun aam din ko kaafi lagne deta hai, aur aisa kya karta hai ki aap usmein aaram kar paate ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Theek se maze karne ki zaroorat nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye nahi ki line galat thi, ya ki uska koi wazan nahi tha. Bas itna ki ek meetha vaakya ye kam tay kare ki koi bhi shaam kaise beetni chahiye.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo apne dinon ko number dena chhod dete hain. Ye number dena kabhi poora nahi hota kyunki paimana khisakta rehta hai, aur har khaali ghante ke beech jawani ki kisi aur ki tasveer rakhe rehta hai.
Kuch daur sach mein mushkil hote hain, aur koi hansmukh salah use nahi badalti.
Kaisa lagega agar aam din aam rahe, aur phir bhi ginti mein aaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek vaakya #
Agar “abhi toh maze kar lene hain” saalon se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe behas ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Maza expire nahi hota, aur aam din bhi ginta hai.”
Ye sach lagni zaroori nahi. Ye bas ek line hai jo kuch log aazmate hain, aur weekend se pehle ya kisi bade faisle ke waqt chupchaap kehne par, unhein lagta hai ki purani ginti ki thodi jagah ye gher leti hai.
Apni umar ke baare mein aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jismein koi deadline na ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein bas neeche rakhi ja sakti hain #
Har “jawani ke din hain” ko jawab, bhari hui diary ya shaandaar weekend nahi chahiye. Kuch ko bas dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal feel kiya ja sakta hai aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise din ke aakhir mein bhaari bag utaar dete hain.
Ye garmjoshi ko andekha karna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki taakat kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain isse un dinon ke liye jagah bachti hai jo apne aap achhe beette hain, aur un logon ke liye jinke saath baithna achha lagta hai.
Aaj shaam ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo line galat thi, ya baat sulajh gayi. Bas itna ki wo agle weekend, agli rishtedaari ki dawat tak peeche-peeche na aaye.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar ginti shant ho jaye #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema hai. Achha waqt ab bhi achha hai, par us par deadline nahi hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: saadi shaam ko saada rehne dena, trip isliye chunna ki dilchasp laga, isliye nahi ki “time hai”, ya bina apradh-bodh ki jhapki.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Agar maza theek se karna zaroori na rahe, to sabse pehle kya alag lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar saalon ka bachav na karna ho, to aap pehle kya karenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi ginti wali line”
- Chupchaap poochhiye: bina deadline ke is hafte mujhe kya achha lagega?
- Ek aam din ko aam rehne dijiye, bina number diye
- Aaj ki ek chhoti-si achhi cheez par gaur kijiye, chahe kitni bhi saadi
- Wo ek plan chhodiye jo sirf maza saabit karne ke liye tha
Nijee, chhote aur apni marzi ke. Jo aasaan lage, wahi chuniye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Pichhli baar jab kisi ne maze karne ko kaha, tab aapki zindagi mein kya chal raha tha?
- Sabse pehle kisne in saalon ko sabse achhe saal bataya, aur uska matlab kya tha?
- Kaun-sa aam din aap chahenge ki bas kaafi gina jaye?
- Jis aam hafte mein ginti zor se baje, aap khud par kya karne ka pressure daalte ho?
- Agar deadline hat jaye, to aap sabse pehle kya karenge?