Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Offer ke baad bhi bechaini bani rahe toh wo galat choice ke saboot jaisi lag sakti hai.
Kuch log ise un mummy-papa se jodte hain jo dashkon ek hi job mein rahe aur use parivaar ke neeche ki pakki zameen batate the.
Shabdon ke neeche kuch aisa niyam rehta hai: “Sahi choice fauran sahi lagti hai,” ya “Bechaini hai toh choice galat thi.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Zyada ghante kaam, ye dikhane ke liye ki choice sahi thi
- Raat ko chupke se purani job listing dekhna, bas yun hi
- Unse tulna karna jo jhat se jame lagte hain
- Rules pakke hone tak meeting mein chup rehna
- Ghar lautte hue chhoti chooken dohrana
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Teesra hafta, ab bhi bechaini
Nayi job ka teesra hafta, Gurugram, Sector 44. Aapne yahan pahunchne ke liye bahut mehnat ki: interviews, intezaar, ghar par mithai ka jashn. Socha tha ab set lagega. Par Sunday ki raat wahi gaanth pet mein hai, ki kya aap kaafi ho, kahin pol na khul jaye, kahin ye kadam galat toh nahi tha.
Nayi job mein set lagna chahiye
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Nayi job lagte hi sab set lagna chahiye.” Ye ummeed bhara lagta hai, job hi toh manzil thi. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har bechain pal ko nakaami bana deta hai. Agar job ko sab sahi karna tha, toh bechaini ka matlab zaroor kuch gadbad hai, job mein ya aapmein.
Job milna pahunchna kyun laga
Hum ye niyam isliye pakadte hain kyunki job milna pahaad ki choti par pahunchne jaisa laga. Bahut se log iska koi roop seekhte hain, aur us waqt iska matlab banta tha. Shayad mahinon raahat ki kalpana ki. Shayad aas-paas ke logon ne kaha “ab aaram karo”. Set hone ki chaah nasamjhi nahi, mehnat vasool hone ki chaah hai, aur use dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Har bechain din ki chinta
Har bechain din ke saath chinta judti jaati hai. Ye dheere hota hai, isliye pakadna mushkil hai. Aap un colleagues se tulna karte ho jo aaram se dikhte hain. Choice par shak karte ho. Sunday ki raaton mein jaagte ho. Jis job ka jashn manaya tha, wo imtihaan jaisi lagne lagti hai, aur milne par hua garv theek dikhne ke pressure mein dab jaata hai.
Kya abhi set lagna zaroori hai?
Imaandaari se khud se poochiye: kya set hone ki ummeed ne kabhi jamna jaldi karaya? Ya zyadatar har bechain din ko nakaami jaisa bana diya? Nayi job ko aam lagne mein aamtaur par mahine lagte hain, lagbhag sabke liye, unke liye bhi jo aaram se dikhte hain. Bechaini iska paimana nahi ki aap wahan ke ho ya nahi. Kya ye niyam itne kasakar pakadne layak hai?
Naya lagna jamne ka hissa hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki job mein ghar jaisa lagna chahna chhod dein. Matlab ye ki bechain hone ka matlab kuch galat hona zaroori nahi. Aap naye bhi ho sakte ho, seekh bhi rahe ho sakte ho, aur sahi jagah par bhi. Shuruaat chhoti ho sakti hai, ek pal se. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: jamna dheere ugne wali cheez banta hai, aur har hafta uska hissa hai.
Being threatened, harassed, singled out for who you are, unpaid, or having your pay or papers held back is something else; it is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleJob lagte hi sab set lagna chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleJamne mein waqt lagta hai. Naya lagna uska hissa hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Mann mein ek cheez ka naam lijiye jo nayi job mein seekhi
- Din 2
Sunday raat sone se pehle ek shaant karne wala kaam kijiye
- Din 3
Ek colleague ko notice kijiye jo dostana raha
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aapki zindagi ki kaun-si nayi shuruaat sabse pasandida chapter bani?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Offer letter wala hissa toh khushi ka tha #
Offer aaya toh ghar mein mithai banti aur doston ke messages aaye. Ab teesra hafta hai. Aapko ab bhi nahi pata ki achha printer kahan hai, team chat ke jokes upar se nikal jaate hain, aur raat ko mann poochta hai ki kahin galat decision toh nahi tha. Khayal: “Nayi job lagte hi sab set lagna chahiye.”
Ye padhai ke baad ki pehli job ho sakti hai, kaam ke liye kisi aur shehar ya desh jaana, ya line badalna. Mushkil hissa toh ye maana gaya tha ki job mil jaye.
Aapki zindagi ki kaun-si nayi shuruaat aakhir mein ghar jaisi lagne lagi, aur usmein kis cheez ne madad ki?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Sunday raat ki ghabrahat #
Kuch logon ko ye Sunday shaam ko lagti hai: Monday paas aate hi pet mein fadfadahat. Kuch ko office ke gate se andar jaate hue, kandhe upar, smile ready, jaise koi dekh raha ho.
Nayi jagah mein body din bhar chaukanni rehti hai: chehre padhna, naam yaad karna, rules andaze se samajhna. Aath ghante chaukanna rehna thakata hai, aur sab sahi chalne par bhi bechaini jaisa lag sakta hai.
Nayi jagah ke shuru ke hafton mein din mein kab ghabrahat sabse zyada aati thi, aur wo kaisi lagti thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Wahan pahunchna hi mushkil hissa maana gaya tha #
Is ummeed mein kaafi dam hai. Job paane mein mehnat lagti hai: applications, interviews, intezaar, kabhi shehar badalna. Offer ko anishchit hisse ka end maan lena swabhavik hai.
Offer ke baad bhi bechaini bani rahe toh wo galat choice ke saboot jaisi lag sakti hai. Isse shuru ke hafte zaroorat se bhaari ho jaate hain, kyunki har ghabrahat kuch bada kehti lagti hai.
Aapne socha tha is job ka pehla mahina kaisa lagega, aur wo uske kitne kareeb aaya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Nayi lift wali awaaz #
“Baaki sabko toh pata hai kya karna hai.” “Kahin mujhse koi galti toh nahi hui?” “Mujhe isse zyada khush hona chahiye.” Ye awaaz shaamon mein tez hoti hai, aur kuch achha hone par dheemi.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki awaaz aam nayepan ko khatre ki ghanti ki tarah padhti hai. Har ghabrahat saboot ban jaati hai, jabki wo bas naye hone ka ehsaas ho sakti hai.
Nayi-job wali awaaz bole toh kaun-si line sabse zyada aati hai, aur use chain aane ke liye kya dekhna hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Tiki hui job ki tasveer kahan se aayi #
Kuch log ise un mummy-papa se jodte hain jo dashkon ek hi job mein rahe aur use parivaar ke neeche ki pakki zameen batate the. Job matlab suraksha, aur suraksha matlab chain.
Kuch ke liye source films aur posts the, jahan nayi job happy ending hoti hai: badge, desk, pehle din ki smile. Kisi ko na jaanne wale hafte is tasveer mein kam hi aate hain.
Tiki hui kaam-kaaj ki zindagi ki tasveer aapko kisne di, aur unki apni kaam ki zindagi unhein kaisi lagti thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Set hone ke baare mein niyam #
Shabdon ke neeche kuch aisa niyam rehta hai: “Sahi choice fauran sahi lagti hai,” ya “Bechaini hai toh choice galat thi.” Ye tarksangat lagta hai. Saath hi aam nayepan ko faisle par faisla bana deta hai.
Kuch log ise bachpan ke school badalne ke saalon se jodte hain, kuch kisi ek job se jo pehle din se perfect lagi. Dono haal mein ise narmi se dekha ja sakta hai.
Set hone ka niyam kahan aapko zaroori cheezein notice karne mein madad karta hai, aur kahan har ghabrahat ko galat mod jaisa bana deta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Set mehsoos karne ki ummeed ki keemat #
Shuru ke hafte seekhne ki jagah shak mein ja sakte hain. Shaamein din ko dohrane mein chali jaati hain. Chhoti jeetein, jaise pehla achha kaam ya dostana lunch, ghabrahat ke muqable kam dhyaan paati hain.
Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki set hone ka pressure unhein aur kam set mehsoos karata hai. Jitna jaanchte hain ki ghar jaisa laga ya nahi, ghar utna door lagta hai.
Is mahine shak ke neeche nayi job ki kaun-si chhoti achhi cheez kho gayi, aur us waqt wo kaisi thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Pehla mahina, raat ko jaagte hue #
Pehle mahine ki ek aam raat sochiye jab “mujhe set lagna chahiye” zor se baj rahi ho. Alarm jaldi ka laga hai, naya raasta socha hua hai, aur dimaag ab bhi chal raha hai. Isme theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad jaagte hue sochna ki kahin galat toh nahi chuna, meeting ko dohrana, phone par purani job listing dekhna.
Ye ek raat hai, aage ka tay nahi, aur jab chahein band ki ja sakti hai.
Us raat mein, aur uske baad ki subah mein, aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapko kya alag dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Nayapan aksar aisa hi lagta hai #
Bahut se log paate hain ki kisi bhi nayi cheez ke pehle mahine dagmagate hain, tab bhi jab aage achha nikalta hai. Jab bahut kuch anjaan ho toh shak aam hai. Ye job kaisi jaayegi, uski bhavishyavani nahi.
Iska matlab ye nahi ki har job aapko suit karegi, na hi ghabrahat kam asli ho jaati hai. Bas itna ki teesre hafte ki bechaini aam ho sakti hai, aur akele ye nahi kehti ki choice galat thi.
Kisi jagah ke pehle mahine sochiye jo baad mein achhi lagne lagi: shuru ke hafte asal mein kaise the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Dheere-dheere kya pehle se jam raha hai #
Shayad pehle se chhoti cheezein hon: ek colleague jo aapke liye seat rokta hai, office ka raasta jo jaana-pehchana lagne laga hai, ek kaam jo bina poochhe ho jaata hai, canteen ka order jo ab “wahi wala” hai.
Ye milkar abhi set hona nahi banti. Ye bas jaan-pehchaan ke chhote dhaage hain, jo poora ehsaas dhoondhte hue aasaani se chhoot jaate hain.
Aapki nayi job ki kaun-si chhoti cheez abhi se thodi jaani-pehchani ya dostana lagti hai, aur pehli baar kab dikhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Jamna ek silsila hai, switch nahi #
Iska matlab ghar jaisa dikhawa karna nahi. Set mehsoos karna chahna jaayaz hai. Matlab ye ki ghabrahat ko faisla na maana jaye, aur jamne ko apna waqt mile.
Kaam ki jagah par izzat aur hifazat “zyada ummeed” nahi, aapke liye aur aapke naye colleagues ke liye. Dhamkaya ya pareshan kiya jaana, alag nishana banna, bina salary ka kaam, ya salary ya kaagaz roke jaana kuch aur hai; use gambhirta se lena chahiye, aur savdhaan rehna surakshit choice ho sakti hai.
Agar job vaade se bahut alag hai, ya din bahut waqt se bhaari hain, toh wo jamne se badi baat hai, aur koi bharose ka insaan sun sakta hai.
Agle Monday ki sochiye, is baar ummeed zyada narmi se pakdi hui: kaun-si ek chhoti jaani-pehchani cheez ka intezaar rahega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Sunday ki shaam ke liye ek line #
“Nayi job lagte hi sab set lagna chahiye” ke bagal mein kuch log aisi line rakhte hain: “Yahan sab naya hai, aur naya kuch waqt tak aisa hi lagta hai.” Ye kisi cheez ki jagah lene ke liye nahi hai.
Teen baje raat ye bahut shaant lag sakti hai. Kuch log apni line pasand karte hain, chhoti aur narm.
Aapke apne shabdon mein kya hogi, aisi line jo ghabrahat ke saath imaandaar ho aur nayi jagah ko thoda waqt de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Shak bedside table par rakha reh sakta hai #
Har ghabrahat aaj raat suljhaani zaroori nahi. Use pehchankar rakha ja sakta hai, jaise office ka ID badge bedside table par, abhi bhi aapka, raat bhar ke liye utara hua.
Set mehsoos karne ki ummeed saath reh sakti hai. Bura bartaav, bina salary ka kaam, ya kaagaz roke jaana alag shreni hai, aur gambhirta se lene layak.
Shak ko rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki choice tay ho gayi, ya sab sahi hai. Bas itna ki aaj raat aaram ki ho sakti hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar jamne ko apna waqt mile #
Wahi raat sochiye, ummeed thodi dheemi. Aap kuch der jaagte ho, phir hafte ki ek cheez yaad aati hai jo achhi lagi.
Shayad kuch chhota: aasaan neend, seat rokne wale colleague ke liye smile, kam bhaari Monday.
Isme se kuch bhi kisi ko batana zaroori nahi. Iske baad: sulah kaisi lag sakti hai, aur aapki zindagi mein pehle se kya hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapka kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Shuru ke mahinon ke liye chhoti cheezein #
- Din ke end mein ek cheez sochiye jo achhi lagi
- Ek cheez notice kijiye jo pichhle hafte se aasaan rahi
- Shak aaye toh use ek shabd mein naam dijiye aur shaam chalne dijiye
- Ek insaan ka naam seekhiye aur uske baare mein kuch
- Purani kisi nayi shuruaat ko yaad kijiye jo ghar jaisi lagne lagi
Jo aasaan lage wo aazmaiye. Har ek apni marzi ka hai.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aapki zindagi ki kaun-si nayi shuruaat sabse pasandida chapter bani?
- Nayi jagah mein kisne aapko apnapan mehsoos karaya, aur kaise?
- Nayi job mein abhi hi aapko kya achha lagta hai, thoda-sa bhi?
- Agar bechaini kam pareshan karti, toh pehle mahine kaise jaate?
- Aapki nayi routine mein kaun-si chhoti jaani-pehchani cheezein ug rahi hain?