Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Meeting un gini-chuni jagahon mein se hai jahan team sach mein saath hoti hai, isliye usse bahut ummeed rehti hai: saaf baat, disha, ye ehsaas ki hum ek hi cheez ka hissa hain.
Kuch logon ke liye ye aise manager se shuru hui jo har meeting chhoti rakhta tha: saaf maqsad aur paanch minute mein kiske zimme kya.
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Jab log ikatthe hain to kuch nikalna chahiye”, ya “Waqt wo cheez hai jo kabhi wapas nahi milti.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Call mein doosra kaam saath le aana, ki baat bhatke to kaam chalta rahe
- Dhyaan se taiyaari karna, aur phir agenda ko chhootte dekhna
- Chup rehna, ye sochkar ki kehne se kuch khaas nahi badlega
- Ghadi mein bache minute ginna
- Asli kaam shaam ko nipatana, calls ke baad
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Thursday ko slides ka ek ghanta
Gurugram mein Thursday, hafte ka all-hands. Slides ka ek ghanta jo paanch minute mein padhi ja sakti thin, teen log bolte hue, chaalis log mute par. Aapka asli kaam doosri window mein intezaar kar raha hai. Aap screen ke kone ki ghadi ko dekhte ho, minute rengte hain, aur mehsoos karte ho ki jo dopahar aapne sochi thi, wo ek-ek slide ke saath dheere-dheere beh rahi hai.
Meeting waqt ke laayak ho
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Office ko meetings waqt ke laayak banani chahiye.” Bilkul samajhdaari ki baat lagti hai. Waqt qeemti hai, koi use barbaad nahi karna chahta. Par dekhiye ye kya karta hai: aapka mood is par tika deta hai ki doosre log kamra kaise chalate hain. Aapka din kaam ka lagega ya nahi, ab un meetings par hai jo aapne nahi rakhin, chhoti nahi kar sakte aur aksar chhod bhi nahi sakte.
Barbaad waqt kyun chubhta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki apna waqt apna lagta hai, aur uska barbaad hona galat lagta hai. Shayad aapko sikhaya gaya tha ki har ghante ki qadar karo, aur khaali waqt bechain karta hai. Shayad aapko asli kaam nipatana pasand hai, aur lambi meetings uske raaste mein aati hain. Jo bhi ho, meetings ke kaam ki hone ki chaah besabri nahi hai. Wo achhe kaam ki parwah se aati hai. Use narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Ghante se kahin mehnga ghanta
Har bekaar meeting ghante se zyada le jaati hai. Aap chupchaap bheetar hi bheetar khaulte ho. Jis kaam ke beech mein the, uska sira chhoot jaata hai. Peeche ka kaam nipatane ko der tak rukte ho, phir ghar par thakaan aur chidchidapan rehta hai. Dheere-dheere calendar dushman jaisa lagne lagta hai, aur hafta un meetings se chidhkar shuru hota hai jo aapko aati dikh rahi hain.
Kya ye kheej faayde ki hai?
Khud se sach-sach poochiye: kya meeting mein khaulne se wo kabhi chhoti hui? Ya zyada-tar ghanta aur lamba laga? Meetings aadat par chalti hongi, ya aisi wajahon par jo koi samjhata nahi, aur unhein chalane wale bhi shayad chahte hon ki wo chhoti hon. Jo bhi ho, ek uubau meeting aapke din ka paimana nahi hai. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna, isse milne wale se zyada leta hai.
Uubau meeting, achha din
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aap apne waqt ki qadar karna chhod do. Matlab ye ki aapka mood ab is par nahi tika ki meeting kaise chali. Uubau ghante mein aap dimaag ko aaram de sakte ho, chai ki chuski le sakte ho, ya kisi achhi cheez ke baare mein chupchaap soch sakte ho. Yahin se thodi shanti lautti hai: meeting uubau rahe, par aapke din ko uske saath doobna zaroori nahi.
Threats, shouting, harassment, humiliation, being singled out for who you are, pay or papers held back, or being frightened at work, are something else, and worth taking seriously; staying careful can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleOffice ko meetings waqt ke laayak banani chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleUubau meeting ko mera din bigadna zaroori nahi.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Kisi uubau meeting mein kandhe dheele karke dheere saans lijiye
- Din 2
Lambi meeting ke baad do minute tahal aaiye
- Din 3
Meeting ke baad karne ko koi ek achhi cheez soch rakhiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kaun si meeting aapko sach mein achhi chali hui yaad hai, aur usme aisa kya tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Saadhe das baje ki weekly status call #
Calendar ki ghanti bajti hai aur screen par saath minute ka slot khul jaata hai, dibbon mein chaudah chhote chehre. Kisi ke bolne se pehle hi mann mein baat uth chuki hoti hai: “Office ko meetings waqt ke laayak banani chahiye.”
Kuch logon ki chaah ye hai ki hafte ke ghante kisi kaam mein lagein: ek faisla, ek plan, agla saaf kadam. Ye vyaavahaarik baat lagti hai, phir bhi Monday par bhaari baith sakti hai.
Aakhri baar kaun si meeting aisi thi jiske baad laga ki waqt theek laga, aur usme aisa kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Join karne se pehle ki aah #
Kuch log Join ka button dabate hue aah bharte hain, ya invitation aate hi gardan akadate hain. Kuch ki aankhon ke peeche pehli slide se pehle ek sapaat bhaaripan utar aata hai.
Raay banne se pehle hi body bol padti hai: to-do list par nazar, haath ka pen ki taraf badhna, dheemi palkein. Ghanta kaam ka tha ya nahi, ye thande dimaag se sochna screen band hone ke baad hota hai.
Pichhli baar jab aisi meeting ki reminder aayi, to join karne se pehle aapki body ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Waqt ki hifaazat jaayaz hai #
Ye ummeed samajh mein aati hai ki saath bitaye ghanton se kuch haasil ho. Kaam ka hafta utna hi lamba hai, aur meeting mein baithe har insaan ke hisaab se uske ghante ki keemat badh jaati hai.
Meeting un gini-chuni jagahon mein se hai jahan team sach mein saath hoti hai, isliye usse bahut ummeed rehti hai: saaf baat, disha, ye ehsaas ki hum ek hi cheez ka hissa hain. Jab wo kamzor padti hai, to ummeed aur ghante ke beech faasla bada lagta hai.
Kisi meeting ko kya karna hoga ki aap nikalte hue khush hon ki gaye the, aur aapke haath kya lage?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo ghadi dekhti rehti hai #
“Ye to mail par ho jaata.” “Wahi dhaak ke teen paat.” “Aur koi soch raha hai ki hum is call par kyun hain?” Ye tees minute ke aaspaas bolti hai, jab wahi mudda teesri baar uthta hai.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki ye awaaz thodi meeting ke baare mein hai aur thodi apna ghanta wapas paane ki chaah ke baare mein, ya is saboot ki chaah ki ghanta kisi ginti mein aaya.
Jab ye awaaz ghadi dekhti hai, to pehli shikayat kya karti hai, aur uski jagah kya chahti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kaam ki meeting ki chaah kahan se aayi #
Kuch logon ke liye ye aise manager se shuru hui jo har meeting chhoti rakhta tha: saaf maqsad aur paanch minute mein kiske zimme kya. Aisi ek sughad misaal barson tak tasveer bana deti hai.
Kuch ke liye ghar se aati hai: wo parivar jahan baat seedhi hoti thi, ya wo Papa jinhein lambi baatein napasand thin aur kaam pasand tha. Kuch gharon mein waqt barbaad karna halke se bura maana jaata tha. School ki wo assembly bhi yaad aa sakti hai jo June ki dhoop mein khinchti chali gayi.
Aapko kisne pehli baar dikhaya ki chhoti, kaam ki meeting kaisi hoti hai, aur usne kya kiya jo kaam aaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Sahi kharch hue ghanton ka niyam #
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Jab log ikatthe hain to kuch nikalna chahiye”, ya “Waqt wo cheez hai jo kabhi wapas nahi milti.” Pehli baat wahi hai jo log sunte hain; neeche ka niyam tay karta hai ki har invitation kaise padha jaye.
Aise niyam dhyaan ki qadar aur doosron ke waqt ke sammaan se aate hain, dono qadar karne laayak baatein hain. Inhein is daftar ke saath rakhkar dekha ja sakta hai, jaisa wo hai: uski aadatein, alag time zone, aur ye baat ki kuch meeting logon ko jode rakhne ke liye hi hoti hain.
Ye purane saalon se bhi aa sakta hai, is jagah se bhi.
Kaam ki meeting ka niyam kahan ab bhi baithta hai, aur kahan meeting ka maqsad bas saath hona hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Bhare calendar ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai asli kaam din ke aakhir mein dhakela jaana, do call ke beech khaya lunch, aur ye ehsaas ki bahut busy rahe par hua kam. Isme se bahut kam dikhta hai, par ghar tak peeche aata hai.
Din rukaavaton ki ek kadi jaise lagne lag sakte hain. Ek kaam par dhyaan lagane ki santushti ko agla invitation dhakel deta hai, aur wo din mein bahut jagah gherta hai.
Pichhle kuch hafton mein din ka kaun sa hissa sach mein aapka apna kaam ka waqt laga, aur aisa kyun?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Saadhe das ki call ke paanch aur saal #
Ek aam Tuesday ki kalpana kijiye, jab “Office ko meetings waqt ke laayak banani chahiye” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki ek tasveer hai.
Shayad call paanch minute jaldi khatam hoti hai, koi saathi dostana message bhejta hai, asli kaam lunch ke baad nipat jaata hai, aur shaam samay par shuru hoti hai.
Isme kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi, aur tasveer ko jab chahein rakh dijiye.
Usme kya hai: lambi call, chhote chehron se bhari screen, ungliyon mein ghoomta pen, aur ek taraf intezaar karti to-do list?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Tuesday mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isme aapko kya dikhta hai, agar kuch dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Kiske liye waqt ke laayak? #
“Waqt ke laayak” ka matlab ho sakta hai faisla hua, kisi ki baat suni gayi, plan tay hua, ya bas team ka ek-doosre ko dekh lena. Har ek alag aur chhoti ummeed hai, aur unmein se kuch poori ki poori chaah se zyada aasaani se meeting mein mil jaati hain.
Meeting ek saajhi cheez hai, usme baithe log use banate hain, aur jo ek ko barbaadi lage, wo doosre ke liye kaam ki ho sakti hai. Isse thakaan mitti nahi, aur chaah beja bhi nahi ho jaati.
Agar hafte ki ek meeting ko waqt ke laayak hona hi ho, to aap kaun si chunoge, aur use sabse zyada kis cheez ki zaroorat hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Meetings pehle se kya deti hain #
Jo meetings khinchin, unke bagal mein kuch pal aise bhi ho sakte hain jo nahi khinche: koi mazaak jis par poori call hans padi, kisi saathi ki kahi koi pyaari baat, koi faisla jo aakhri paanch minute mein aakhirkar ho gaya.
Inmein se kisi ko dekhne se behtar ghanton ki chaah wahin ki wahin rehti hai. Jo hai use dekhna aur ye kehna ki ummeed galat thi, do alag baatein hain.
Bas ek guzarti misaal bhi chalegi.
Kisi meeting ne aapko pehle hi kya diya hai jise aap aur dekhna chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Calendar, zara halka pakda hua #
Yahan shanti ka matlab ho sakta hai ki calendar din ka mood tay karna band kar de. Jo ghante hafton tak thaka dein, neend kam kar dein ya andar se bimaar jaisa mehsoos karayein, wo is ummeed se alag baat hai; koi bharose ka insaan use sun sakta hai.
Boss, client ya saathi jo aapko dhamkaye, pareshaan kare, beizzat kare, ya aap jo ho uske liye nishana banaye (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi disability ya aap kahan se aaye ho), wo is ummeed se bahar hai aur gambhirta se lene laayak hai.
Isme bina paise ka kaam karwana, salary ya kaagzaat rokna, asurakshit kaam aur darr bhi jod lijiye; saath chalte rehna ya savdhaan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Kaam par buniyaadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi hoti, aapke liye bhi aur unke liye bhi. Ek aam Monday ki kalpana kijiye jisme ye ummeed dheeli pakdi hai.
Call mein aapko kya alag dikhega, aur khatam hone ke baad ka minute aap kise doge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Calendar wale dinon ki ek sachchi pankti #
“Office ko meetings waqt ke laayak banani chahiye” ke bagal mein kuch log ek pankti taiyaar rakhte hain: “Mujhe ummeed thi ye ghanta ginega, aur din ke baaki hisse se kuch banana ab bhi mere haath mein hai.” Ise purani pankti ko haraana nahi hai, bas uske saath khada hona hai.
Aisi pankti shuru mein udhaar ki lag sakti hai aur istemaal se baith jaati hai. Kuch logon ko apni saadi bhasha wali pankti zyada jamti hai, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachchi pankti kya hogi, jo ummeed ke baare mein imaandaar ho par poore din ka zimma calendar par na daale?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Call jahan khatam ho, wahin khatam ho #
Har lambi meeting par raat ke khaane se pehle faisla sunana zaroori nahi. Use dekha ja sakta hai, mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur us chai ke cup ki tarah shelf par rakh diya ja sakta hai jo dhul chuka aur khatam hua.
Sahi kharch hue ghanton ki chaah jitni der chahein nijee reh sakti hai. Dhamki, pareshaan kiya jaana, beizzati, aap jo ho uske liye nishana banna, bina paise ka kaam, ruki salary ya kaagzaat, asurakshit kaam ya darr alag baatein hain aur gambhirta se lene laayak hain; savdhaan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Aaj raat ise yun hi chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki ye theek tha ya tay ho gaya. Bas itna ki aaj ki shaam ko kisi faisle ki zaroorat nahi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar pakad zara dheeli pade #
Maan lijiye, bas kalpana mein, ki ummeed zara shaant hai. Kaam ki meeting ki chaah ab bhi hai, aur call mein baithte hue bas ek saaf faisle ki halki-si aas hai.
Ho sakta hai ek button dabate hi call peeche chhoot jaye, ya chai bina aah bhare ban jaye.
Isme se kuch bhi kisi ko batana zaroori nahi. Jo bhi nikle, wo aapka apna hai. Aage dekhenge ki is ummeed se sulah kaisi dikh sakti hai, aur kya pehle se maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmaate hain #
- Pichhli meeting ki ek cheez dekhiye jo kaam ki rahi, chahe kitni chhoti ho
- Sochiye, agli call se aapko kaun sa ek faisla sabse zyada chahiye
- Dekhiye, aaj kaun tez hai: mudda ya ghadi
- Us saathi ke baare mein sochiye jiski meeting mein kahi baatein aapko achhi lagti hain
- Call ke theek baad ka ghanta sochiye, aur usme kya hai
Chhoti, nijee aur apni marzi ki. Jo ho sake, wahi aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kaun si meeting aapko sach mein achhi chali hui yaad hai, aur usme aisa kya tha?
- Hafte mein kab aap kaam mein sabse zyada doobe hote ho, aur tab kya kar rahe hote ho?
- Kisne sabse pehle aapko chhoti, kaam ki meeting chalana dikhaya?
- Agar meeting ke waqt ke laayak hone ki chaah halki pade, to sabse pehle kya notice karoge?
- Kaam ki kisi meeting ne aapko pehle hi kya diya hai jise aap aur dekhna chahoge?