Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye isliye zyada chubhta hai ki lag sakta hai unhone aapke baare mein socha hi nahi.
Kuch logon mein ye us maa-baap se shuru hoti hai jo hamesha seedhi gaadi lagate the, seedhe peechhe lete the aur doosron ke liye jagah chhodte the.
Aksar neeche ek niyam baitha hota hai: “Bas apna hissa lo,” ya “Achhe padosi doosron ke baare mein sochte hain.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Dheere-dheere aage-peechhe karke nikalna aur poore raaste kudhna
- Windscreen par chit likhna, phir na lagane ka faisla karna
- Society ke group mein bina naam liye likhna
- Ghar se thoda pehle nikalna, kahin zaroorat pad jaye
- Parking ki photo kheench lena, bas rakhne ko
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Aapki jagah ke aage SUV
Monday ki subah, Gurugram ki ek society, kaam ke liye pehle se der. Aap gaadi tak aate ho to dekhte ho ki padosi ki SUV phir aapki jagah ke sire par hai, nikalne bhar ki jagah bhi mushkil se. Paanch minute aap paseene mein aage-peechhe karte ho, sheeshe dekhte ho. Main sadak tak pahunchte-pahunchte poora sharir tana hai aur subah bigdi lagti hai.
Dhang se gaadi lagani chahiye
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Padosiyon ko dhang se gaadi khadi karni chahiye.” Ye bilkul vaajib lagta hai. Aakhir lines kisi wajah se kheenchi hain. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: kisi aur ki parking tay karne lagti hai ki aapka din kaise shuru hoga. Har subah aap tane hue gaadi tak jaate ho, aur ek bedhang parking office tak aapka mood rang sakti hai.
Chhoti baaton mein lihaaz ka matlab
Hum ye niyam isliye pakadte hain ki chhoti baaton mein insaaf aur lihaaz maayne rakhta hai. Shayad aap khud hamesha lines ke andar saleeqe se gaadi lagate ho. Shayad aapki subahein kaskar bandhi hain aur har minute gina jaata hai. Dhang ki parking chaahna chhotapan nahi. Ye apni jagah aur apne qeemti samay ke sammaan ki chaah hai, aur ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Roz subah parking par nazar
Har bedhang gaadi thodi aur jhallahat jodti hai. Aap khidki se parking dekhne lagte ho. Kahin zaroorat pad jaye, isliye jaldi nikalte ho. Raaste bhar mann mein gusse ke shabd dohrate ho. Jis parking par second bhar sochna chahiye, wo aapke din ka hairaan karne wala hissa lene lagti hai, aur subahein shuru hone se pehle hi ladaai jaisi lagti hain.
Kya jhallahat subah ke layak hai?
Imaandaari se khud se puchhiye: kya parking par gussa karne se wo kabhi behtar hui? Ya zyada-tar aapki subahein kharab hui? Log tarah-tarah ki wajahon se galat park karte hain: jaldi, der raat, lines na dikhna. Pakka koi nahi keh sakta. Bedhang khadi gaadi aapke din ka paimana nahi. Is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna kya sahi hai?
Bedhang parking bas wahi hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki parking theek hai. Matlab ye ki ek gaadi ab tay nahi karti ki aapki subah kaise shuru hogi. Aap nikal sakte ho, ek dheemi saans le sakte ho, aur drive mein apni pasand ka kuch baja sakte ho. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: subahein phir aapki ho jaati hain, shaant aur befikr, aur ek bedhang parking bas ek bedhang parking rehti hai.
Threats, harassment, damage to your car, being followed or watched, or being singled out for who you are are something else. They are worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleUnhein dhang se gaadi khadi karni chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleBedhang parking bas bedhang parking hai. Meri subah meri hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Gaadi tak jaane se pehle ek dheemi saans lijiye
- Din 2
Drive par kuch aisa bajaiye jo aapko pasand ho
- Din 3
Apni subah ki ek achhi baat par gaur kijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aap kahan rahe ho jahan sab kuch sachmuch saleeqe se chalta tha, aur kyun?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Subah saat baje unki gaadi ke chakkar #
Gurugram, Sector 56 ki society, subah ke saat baje, pehle se der. Unki gaadi phir aapki aadhi jagah mein hai, aage se nikli hui, ek pahiya line ke bahar. Aap kai baar aage-peechhe karke nikalte ho, aur gate tak pahunchne se pehle hi shabd nikal padte hain: “Padosiyon ko dhang se gaadi khadi karni chahiye.”
Kuch log kahenge ki baat saajhi jagah ke sabke liye chalne ki hai. Parking, gali ya society ka ahata tabhi chalta hai jab har koi zara-sa dhyaan rakhe. Jab ek nahi rakhta, to baaki sab minuton aur mood mein uski keemat dete hain.
Aisi koi jagah sochiye jahan saajhi parking bina kisi jhanjhat ke chal gayi.
Use itna aasaan kya banata tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Steering par kasti pakad #
Kuch logon ki pakad steering par gaadi dekhte hi kas jaati hai. Kuch ko garam chidh ka jhonka aata hai, phir ek aah jo pairon se uthti lagti hai.
Sharir dimaag se pehle harkat karta hai: jabda bhinchta hai, horn zaroorat se zyada zor se dabta hai, honthon mein kuch budbudahat. Lambe khayal office tak saath chale aate hain.
Pichhli baar jab bedhang khadi gaadi ne aapka raasta roka, to kisi bhi soch se pehle aapke sharir ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Saajhi jagah ko saajha dhyaan chahiye #
Padosiyon se dhang ki parking ki ummeed bahut insaani chaah hai. Subahein tang hoti hain, aur ruki hui jagah ka matlab chhooti hui bus, der se pahuncha bachcha, bhaagdaud wali shuruaat ho sakta hai. Chhoti laparwahi poore din mein phail sakti hai.
Ye isliye zyada chubhta hai ki lag sakta hai unhone aapke baare mein socha hi nahi. Parking chhoti baat hai, par isme bada sandesh aa sakta hai: “Meri sahuliyat aapki se zyada zaroori hai.”
Subah ki aasaan shuruaat aapko kya deti hai, kaam mein, ghar par ya logon se bartaav mein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Office ke raaste ki awaaz #
“Roz ka wahi tamasha.” “Kya inhone poori jagah apni samajh rakhi hai?” “Har baar main hi kyun inke hisaab se nikloon?” Awaaz gaadi peechhe lete hi shuru ho jaati hai aur har laal batti par chalti rehti hai.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki awaaz aadhi gaadi ke baare mein hai aur aadhi is ehsaas ke baare mein ki unka khayal nahi kiya gaya. Gaadi kuch minute mein hat jaati hai. Ehsaas poori subah reh sakta hai.
Jab office ke raaste mein ye awaaz bolti hai, to wo sabse zyada chahti kya hai ki padosi samajh le?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Tartib ki nazar kahan se aayi #
Kuch logon mein ye us maa-baap se shuru hoti hai jo hamesha seedhi gaadi lagate the, seedhe peechhe lete the aur doosron ke liye jagah chhodte the. Doosron ka dhyaan rakhne ki wo chhoti aadat achhe padosi ka matlab ban gayi.
Kisi aur mein ye barson tak purani colony ki bheed wali galiyon mein rehne se aati hai, jahan har gaj bhar jagah ki maara-maari hoti thi. Aise rehne se insaan unke prati bahut sajag ho jaata hai jo apne hisse se zyada le lete hain.
Aapki zindagi mein kaun saajhi jagahon ke baare mein sabse zyada sochta tha, aur usne aisa kya kiya jo aapne gaur kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Apna hissa lene ka niyam #
Aksar neeche ek niyam baitha hota hai: “Bas apna hissa lo,” ya “Achhe padosi doosron ke baare mein sochte hain.” Ye jaayaz niyam hai. Par log bahut wajahon se bedhang gaadi lagate hain: tang jagah, der raat, badi nayi gaadi, ya seedhi laparwahi.
Niyam reh sakta hai. Uske baghal mein ek aur sach reh sakta hai: zyada-tar bedhang khadi gaadiyan kisi ke liye sandesh nahi hotin. Wo aksar lambe din ke aakhir mein kisi jaldi mein aaye insaan ki hoti hain.
Saajhi jagah ka aapka niyam jahan aap rehte ho wahan kahan baithta hai, aur kahan har bedhang parking ko nijee chunaav jaisa bana deta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Parking kya le ja sakti hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai jhallahat se shuru hoti subahein, khidki se parking dekhne ki aadat, ya ek padosi ke liye thandapan jo poori building mein phail jaye. Chhoti baatein jo judti jaati hain.
Ye din ki shuruaat ka chain bhi le ja sakta hai. Agar har subah pehli cheez jhunjhlahat ho, to aage sab kuch uske rang mein aa sakta hai, gaadi nazar se ojhal hone ke baad bhi.
Pichhle mahine mein kaun si subah shaanti se shuru hui, aur usmein kya alag tha, aapmein ya aas-paas?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Saalon tak dheeme aage-peechhe karna #
Ek tasveer banne dijiye, bas dekhne ko. Saalon baad kisi din subah ke saat baje hain, aur unki gaadi phir aapki jagah ke aage hai. Aap dheere-dheere uske chaaron or se nikalte ho.
Shayad pehli meeting mein chidchidapan, society ke group mein lamba sandesh, shaam ko parking mein ek aah.
Ye dekhne ka ek tareeka hai, andaza nahi, aur jab chahein ise band kiya ja sakta hai.
Us subah ka baaki hissa kaisa hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar kuch, to aapki nazar kis par thaharti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Gaadiyan hain, sandesh nahi #
Aadhi raat ko bedhang khadi gaadi shayad kisi thake insaan ne kam roshni mein sone ki sochte hue khadi ki thi. Ho sakta hai uske dimaag mein aaya hi na ho ki subah saat baje kisi ko nikalna hoga.
Isse ye theek nahi ho jaata, aur dhang ki parking chaahna jaayaz hai. Matlab ye ho sakta hai ki gaadi laparwahi hai, aapke baare mein ya building mein aapki jagah ke baare mein koi bayaan nahi.
Agar aap sochein ki padosi der raat thake hue gaadi laga rahe hain, to subah wahi gaadi aapko kaisi dikhegi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Subahein pehle se kaise aasaan hain #
Ruki jagah ka jo bhi ho, kuch cheezein pehle se hain: padosi jo saleeqe se gaadi lagate hain, guard bhaiya jo peechhe lene mein madad karte hain, safar ka koi pasandida gaana, koi subah jab jagah khaali mili.
Parking ab bhi theek na lage to chalega; dhang ki parking chaahna ab bhi jaayaz hai. Ye bas aapki subahon ka hissa bhi hain, aur inhein dekhna kaam ka hai.
Ghar par ya raaste mein pehle se aapki subahon ko kya thoda aasaan banata hai, jise aap aur mehsoos karna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Soch ko gate par chhod dena #
Sulah ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki parking theek hai. Bas ek gaadi aapki subah par kam chalti hai. Jo gaadi ambulance, wheelchair ya nikalne ke raaste ko roke, wo suraksha ka maamla hai, dheela karne ki ummeed nahi.
Dhamkiyan, pareshaan karna, aapki gaadi ya saamaan ko nuksaan, peechha kiya jaana ya nazar rakhi jaana, ya aap jo ho uski wajah se alag nishaana banaya jaana (dharm, jaati, rang, aap kahan se ho, koi viklangta) kuch aur hai. Use gambhirta se lena chahiye.
Parking ki behes jaldi garam ho sakti hai. Apne ko surakshit rakhna pehle aata hai, aur saavdhaan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Jahan aap rehte ho wahan buniyaadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi hoti, na aapke liye, na aapke padosiyon ke liye.
Subah ki drive sochiye, ise thodi narmi se thaame hue: radio par kya baj raha hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Dheeme nikalne ke liye ek vaakya #
“Padosiyon ko dhang se gaadi khadi karni chahiye” ke baghal mein kuch log rakhte hain: “Kaash wo behtar khadi karte, aur meri subah phir bhi meri hai.” Pehla vaakya jaayaz rehta hai. Doosra din ka faisla parking mein hone se rokta hai.
Gaadi peechhe lete hue ye banawati lag sakta hai. Kuch log ise chhota karke “unki gaadi, meri subah” kar lete hain. Kuch apne shabd dhoondh lete hain.
Aapka apna sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo jaayaz chaah rakhe aur din ki shuruaat ko bachaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Gaadi parking mein hi reh sakti hai #
Har bedhang gaadi ko aapke saath office aana zaroori nahi. Use dekha ja sakta hai, bachkar nikla ja sakta hai, aur gate par chhoda ja sakta hai jahan uski jagah hai.
Dhang ki parking ki chaah reh sakti hai. Ruka hua nikalne ka raasta, dhamkiyan, pareshaan karna, nuksaan, nazar rakhi jaana, ya aap jo ho uski wajah se alag nishaana banaya jaana kuch aur hai. Unhein dhyaan chahiye, aur saavdhaan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Gate par chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki theek tha. Matlab ye ki aapki subah baaki din ke baare mein ho sakti hai.
Aap usmein kya rakhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar gaadi thodi kam maayne rakhe #
Wahi subah sochiye, ummeed ek darja shaant. Aap ab bhi gaadi ke chaaron or se nikalte ho. Par radio ooncha hai, aur soch gate par chhoot jaati hai.
Kisi ke liye ye achhe mood mein office pahunchna hai. Kisi ke liye us subah milne wale har insaan se naram baat.
Kisi aur ko isme se kuch jaanne ki zaroorat nahi. Aage: is ummeed se sulah, aur jo pehle se hai us par nazar.
Kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aap sabse pehle kya gaur karoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Dhyaan dijiye awaaz kis pal shuru hoti hai, aur kitni der saath chalti hai
- Dheeme nikalne ke liye mann mein koi gaana chun lijiye
- Kalpana kijiye ki padosi der raat thake hue gaadi laga rahe hain
- Ek aise padosi par gaur kijiye jo saleeqe se gaadi lagata hai
- Mann mein bas ek achhi cheez ka naam lijiye jo aaj aapka intezaar kar rahi hai
Shaant, nijee aur apni marzi se. Ek kaafi hai.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aap kahan rahe ho jahan sab kuch sachmuch saleeqe se chalta tha, aur kyun?
- Aapki subah ki achhi shuruaat kisse banti hai?
- Aapki jaan-pehchan mein saajhi jagahon ka dhyaan rakhne wala kaun hai?
- Agar parking thodi kam chubhe, to aapki subahein kaisi lagengi?
- Aapki subahon ko pehle se kya aasaan karta hai, chahe kitna bhi chhota?