Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Nirasha aksar us tasveer aur asal mein jo hua, in dono ke beech ke faasle mein rehti hai.
Kuch logon ke liye tasveer un thaliyon se aati hai jinke paas unka bachpan beeta: dadaji jo sabke aane tak pehla phulka nahi todte the, radio jo khaane ke waqt band ho jaata tha, Sunday ki lambi daawat jisme koi jaldi nahi uthta tha.
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Agar hum paas ke parivaar hain to sab kuch rakhkar saath khayenge,” ya “Khaane par phone ka matlab hai khaana kisi ko nahi chahiye.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Phone ka niyam bana lena, phir poora khaana uski nigraani mein bita dena
- Kuch na kehna, jaldi khaakar sabse pehle uth jaana
- Chamakti screen ki taraf sawaal phenkna aur ginna ki kitne jawab laute
- Apna phone bhi utha lena, phir khud par jhunjhlana
- Har raat wahi baat chhedna, jab tak khaana screen par tug-of-war na ban jaye
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Table par chamakti do screens
Indore, Vijay Nagar ka flat, hafte ke beech ki raat. Dal-chawal aur garam phulke bane hain, table lagi hai. Dono bachche glass ke sahare phone tikakar baithte hain. Aap din poochte ho, ek “theek hai” kehta hai, sir uthaye bina. Doosra screen dekhkar hans padta hai. Aap chupchaap khaate ho, unke sir ka upari hissa dekhte hue, aur apni hi table par akelapan chubhta hai.
Khaane par phone nahi
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Bachchon ko khaane par phone rakh dena chahiye.” Ye ekdum waajib sunai deta hai. Khaana saath ka waqt hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: ye aapke khaane ka maza unke haathon mein thami cheez se bandh deta hai. Judaav mehsoos hoga ya nahi, wo un kishoron par tik jaata hai jinke liye phone mein din bhar unki poori duniya bolti hai.
Khaana parivaar ka dil kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki khaana parivaar ke din ka dil lagta hai. Shayad lambe, baaton bhare khaano ke beech aapka bachpan beeta, aur us garmaahat ki kami khalti hai. Shayad khaana hi wo iklauta waqt hai jab sab ek kamre mein hote hain. Jo bhi ho, phone door chahna purane khayal ki baat nahi. Ye apnon ke paas aane ki chaah se ugta hai, aur ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Khaana jo khaali sa lage
Table par har chamakti screen khaane ko thoda aur khaali kar deti hai. Aap tokne lagte ho, phir khud bure lagne lagte ho. Jaldi-jaldi khaane lagte ho, bas nipatane ko. Phone par kheej aati hai, phir is kheej par bhi. Dheere-dheere khaana chhoti roz ki jung ban jaata hai, aur jo paas aana chaha tha, wo pakwaan kitna bhi achha ho, door lagne lagta hai.
Kya phone ki ye jung waajib hai?
Khud se sach mein poochiye: kya phone hatwane ki zaroorat ne kabhi khaane ko garam kiya? Ya zyadatar tanaav hi badhaya? In kishoron ke phone mein aksar unke dost aur unki duniya rehti hai, aur unhein shayad andaza nahi ki aapko kaisa lagta hai. Phir bhi table par phone aapke liye unke pyaar ka paimana nahi. Is niyam ko itne kasakar pakadne ki keemat usse zyada hai jitna ye deta hai.
Jab wo sir uthayein, wo pal
Chhodne ka matlab saath ke waqt ki qadar chhodna nahi. Matlab ye ki aapke khaane ka maza ab unke haathon mein rakhi cheez par na tike. Aap apna khaana sukoon se kha sakte ho, jab wo sir uthayein to wo chhote pal pakad sakte ho, aur nazdeeki doosre waqton mein bhi dhoondh sakte ho. Yahin thoda chain lautta hai: khaana shaant ho sakta hai, aur judaav apne dhang se aa sakta hai.
Basic respect and safety at home are never too much to expect; being threatened, hurt or frightened by anyone is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleBachchon ko khaane par phone rakh dena chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMera khaana sukoon se ho, aur sir uthane wale pal pakde jayein.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Apna khaana sukoon se khaiye, table par jo bhi ho
- Din 2
Wo ek pal gaur kijiye jab unhone sir uthakar baat ki
- Din 3
Is hafte koi aur waqt chuniye, aaram ki ek baatcheet ke liye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kaun sa khaana, phone samet, ab tak yaad hai, aur us table par aap sabse zyada kya chahte the?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Thaliyon ke saath saji ek chaahat #
“Bachchon ko khaane par phone rakh dena chahiye.” Ye aksar haath mein dal ki katori liye mann mein aati hai: phulke tave se utar rahe hain, “Khaana thanda ho raha hai” ki awaaz do baar lag chuki hai, aur glass ke sahare tike do phone chamak rahe hain, us table par jise sajaane mein ek ghanta laga.
Jisne khaana banaya ho, use ye usi ek cheez ki maang lagti hai jiske liye ghar ka khaana hota hai: saath baithna, sir utha kar dekhna, ek-doosre ka din sunna. Isiliye thaali ke paas rakha chamakta phone kai baar poora khaana apne saath le jaata lagta hai.
Phone-rahit khaane ki ye chaahat aakhri baar kab mann mein aayi thi, aur us raat table par kya parosa tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Thaali ke paas ki wo ghanti #
Kuch maa-baap ko pehle seene mein kasaav jaisa lagta hai, jab phone thaali ke paas ghanghana uthe, ya apne din ki koi baat sunane par badle mein sirf “hmm” mile aur saamne wala angootha chalata rahe.
Ehsaas soch se pehle aa jaata hai: kaur plate mein zor se rakha jaata hai, “Phone!” jaisi teekhi awaaz nikalti hai, aur baaki khaane par chuppi baith jaati hai. Soch aksar baad mein aati hai, jab table saaf ho chuki ho aur kitchen shaant.
Pichhli baar jab khaane par phone nikla, to kuch bolne se pehle ke pehle kuch second mein aapko kya mehsoos hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Saath ki aadhi ghadi, ye chaahat jaayaz hai #
Ye ummeed waajib isliye lagti hai ki isme sachchi samajhdaari hai. Saath ka khaana parivaar ke din ke gine-chune thehraavon mein se ek hai, aur use bachane ki chaahat, aadha ghanta screen ki jagah chehre, purane khayal ki baat nahi, ek jaayaz chaahat hai.
Nirasha aksar us tasveer aur asal mein jo hua, in dono ke beech ke faasle mein rehti hai. Jo maa-baap table par baatein aur hansi dekhte hain, unhein ye faasla tab bhi chubh sakta hai jab sab sachmuch wahin baithe hon.
Agar aapke mann ke khaane ko ek seedhe drishya mein bayaan karna ho, to usme kaun bol raha hoga, aur kis baare mein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Screen ginne wali awaaz #
“Ek waqt ke khaane ki bhi kya itni maang hai?” “Itna kuch banaya, kisi ne sir tak nahi uthaya.” “Hamare zamaane mein khaane ki table par baat hoti thi.” Ye awaaz aksar tab bolti hai jab doosri baar roti parosi ja rahi ho aur kisi ne dhyaan na diya ho, ya phone phir chamak utha ho.
Kuch maa-baap paate hain ki screen ki taraf uthi nazrein ginna kisi aur baat ki or ishaara karta hai: phone nahi, balki sune jaane ki chaah, aur ye ehsaas ki khaane ki qadar hui.
Jab ye awaaz table par phone ginti hai, to use ummeed kya hai ki koi sir utha kar aapse kya kahe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Parivaar ki table ki tasveer kahan se aayi #
Kuch logon ke liye tasveer un thaliyon se aati hai jinke paas unka bachpan beeta: dadaji jo sabke aane tak pehla phulka nahi todte the, radio jo khaane ke waqt band ho jaata tha, Sunday ki lambi daawat jisme koi jaldi nahi uthta tha. Kuch gharon mein khaana din ka iklauta saajha ghanta tha.
Kuch ke liye ye uski chaahat se aati hai jo unhein nahi mila: akele khaaye khaane, ya TV ke aage baithkar, aur ye mannat ki apne ghar mein khaana alag hoga. Kuch log aisi tasveer ko shuruaati saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi.
Apne bachpan ka kaun sa khaana sabse pehle yaad aata hai jab saath baithe parivaar ki tasveer banti hai, aur kaun kahan baitha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Mezposh ke neeche bichha niyam #
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Agar hum paas ke parivaar hain to sab kuch rakhkar saath khayenge,” ya “Khaane par phone ka matlab hai khaana kisi ko nahi chahiye.” Pehla vaakya wo hai jo sunai deta hai; neeche wala niyam tay karta hai ki har chamakti screen ka matlab kya nikala jaye.
Ye niyam jaisa lagta bhi nahi. Ye parivaar ki buniyaadi banavat jaisa lagta hai, aur kuch parivaaron mein ye aisa hi hai. Isiliye ise bachchon aur aaj ki shaamon ke paas rakhkar dekhna kaam ka hai, jaisi wo asal mein hain.
Kuch log aise niyam ko shuruaati saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Aaj ki shaamon mein khaane par phone wala niyam kahan ab bhi baithta hai, aur kahan nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Tug-of-war ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai chehron ki jagah haath dekhte hue beeta khaana, ek teekhe shabd ke baad chupchaap khaaya hua achha khaana, ya bachche ki koi mazedaar baat jo chhoot gayi kyunki pehle phone par behes ho gayi. Kuch dramatic nahi, phir bhi har raat table par laane ke liye kaafi bhaari.
Phir table par jo hota hai uska sawaal hai. Jab phone hi poore khaane ka mudda ban jaye, kuch parivaar paate hain ki table baatcheet ki jagah kam aur niyamon ki jagah zyada lagne lagti hai, aur jis aadhe ghante ko bachane ki chaah thi, wo usi ki safai dene mein nikal jaata hai.
Pichhle ek saal mein kis khaane par screen ki tug-of-war ka rang sabse gehra chadha, aur us shaam ki kya keemat rahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, ye tug-of-war #
Ek aam Tuesday ki kalpana kijiye, us din ki jab “bachchon ko khaane par phone rakh dena chahiye” zor se baj rahi ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad teen chehre neeli roshni mein, ek sawaal jo do baar poocha aur ek baar suna gaya, apne din ki wo baat jo rok li gayi, kisi ke baat karne se pehle hi uth chuki thaliyan.
Isme koi anumaan nahi, aur jab chahein ise hataya ja sakta hai.
Usme kya hai: pakana, table par bulana, screen, ankahi baatein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us shaam ko kya bharta hai, aur kya intezaar karta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us khaane ko dekhkar, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Suna jaana, ya bas phone-rahit? #
Table ke ek taraf jo bahut bada lage, doosri taraf shayad bamushkil dikhe. Maa-baap ko screen ki har nazar ek chhota munh pher lena lag sakta hai, jabki saamne wale ko wo nazar kuch bhi nahi lagti.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki “tumhara din sunna achha lagega” aur phone ka niyam bilkul alag dhang se pahunch sakte hain. Isse phone-rahit table ki chaahat na galat hoti hai, na sahi. Wo khaane ki kai tasveeron mein se ek hai.
“Khaane par phone nahi” in shabdon mein jo kuch bandha hai, usme aapke liye sabse ahem kya hai: shaanti, chehre, ya suna jaana?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Table par jo pehle se aata hai #
Kuch shaamon ko ye gaur karna achha lag sakta hai ki bachche pehle se table par kya laate hain, chahe thoda ya betarteeb: school ka koi chutkula, ek aur roti ki maang, hanste hue dikhayi gayi koi clip, kisi sabzi ki taareef.
Is dekhne ka karz kisi par nahi, aur ye chaahat ko waisi hi chhod deta hai: aur ki ummeed aur jo hai use dekhna saath-saath chal sakte hain. Table ke chhote, bin maange pal hi shayad sabse zyada dekhne laayak hote hain.
Kuch shaamein aisi bhi hoti hain jab kuch yaad nahi aata, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Ek aam hafte mein aapke bachche khaane ki table par pehle se kya laate hain, jise aap thoda aur dekhna chahein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Sulah, aur table bhi salamat #
Is ummeed se sulah ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki ye zyada thi, ya ye ki sahi thi. Matlab ye ki jis khaane ki aap tasveer rakhte ho aur jo asal mein hota hai, unke beech ka faasla har shaam ka mood aur har niwale ka swaad tay karna chhod de.
Isme jo jaayaz hai wo bana reh sakta hai: saath ka ek aadha ghanta chahna, apni table par suna jaana chahna. Jo dheela pad sakta hai wo tug-of-war hai, taaki aaj raat ke liye ek sawaal aur ek jawab kaafi hon, aur baaki khaana bas khaya jaye.
Ghar mein buniyaadi izzat aur suraksha ki ummeed kabhi “zyada maangna” nahi hai, aapke liye bhi aur bachchon ke liye bhi.
Is chaahat se sulah ki hui ek shaam sochiye: table par kya hoga, aur us shaam ki kaun si baat aapko achhi lagegi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Khaane ki table ke liye ek sachchi line #
“Bachchon ko khaane par phone rakh dena chahiye” se bhidne ki jagah kuch log aisi line paas rakhte hain: “Meri chaahat hai ki hamari table baatcheet ki jagah ho, aur ek achha pal bhi ginta jaata hai.” Use jeetna zaroori nahi, bas purani ke baghal mein baithna hai.
Kuch logon ko apni likhi line shuru mein udhaar ki lagti hai aur istemaal se jaani-pehchani ho jaati hai; kuch ko wo kabhi poori tarah baithti nahi. Dono theek hain, aur koi doosri line hamesha aazmayi ja sakti hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein kaun si sachchi line hogi, jo saath ki table ki chaahat bachaye rakhe aur tug-of-war dheeli kare?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch baat thaliyon ke saath uth jaye #
Har shaam ko khaane par phone ka sawaal suljhana zaroori nahi. Kuch hissa bas dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur thaliyon ke saath sameta ja sakta hai, jaise Indore ki kitchen mein tah kiya hua mezposh.
Aisi chaahat jitni der chahein nijee reh sakti hai, aur parivaar ki table ki chaahat aaj raat jo bhi ho, jaanne laayak bani rehti hai.
Is khayal ko aaj shaam ke liye neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki sab sahi tha, ya baat sulajh gayi. Bas itna ki kal ka khaana aaj ki tug-of-war se shuru nahi hoga.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar tug-of-war thodi bhi dheeli ho #
Bas tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ye ummeed ek darja shaant hai. Saath ki table ki chaahat ab bhi hai, par table par ek phone bas ek phone hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: khaana khaana, ek sawaal poochna aur aaj raat ek jawab kaafi maan lena, apne banaye khaane ka maza lena, ya table par wo hansi jo kisi ne sochi nahi thi.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, chahe kitna bhi chhota. Agli baar dekhenge ki is chaahat se sulah ka matlab kya ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai, zara sa bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Sabko bulane se pehle dekhiye ki aaj ki shaam se aap kya chahte ho
- Table par screen chamke to gaur kijiye ki kaun sa ehsaas sabse pehle aaya
- Aaj ke khaane se jo ek chhoti cheez chahi thi, use pehchaniye
- Chupchaap khud se poochiye: ye phone ki baat hai, ya sune jaane ki?
- Ek pal ke liye aaj ka khaana table ke doosre chhor se dekhiye
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kaun sa khaana, phone samet, ab tak yaad hai, aur us table par aap sabse zyada kya chahte the?
- Aapke bachpan mein khaane ki table kaisi thi, aur usme se aapko sabse zyada kya yaad aata hai?
- Agar table par sabke chehre upar uthein, to khaane par aap sabse zyada kya sunna chahoge?
- Agar khaane par phone ki ye tug-of-war thodi halki ho, to aapko sabse pehle kya dikhega?
- Parivaar ki table ka kaun sa chhota, achha pal aap aur baar dekhna chahoge?