Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Subah ki ek photo mein kisi ke din ka hissa banne ki poori chaah ho sakti hai, jabki jis screen par wo pahunchti hai, wahan wo dher saare messages ke beech bas gamlon ki ek tasveer banke aa sakti hai.
Kuch ke liye ye dekhne se aati hai: ek maa jo har hafte chitthi likhti aur phaatak par daakiye ka intezaar karti, ek chacha jo har shaam aath baje apne maa-baap ko phone karte, ek ghar jahan phone teesri ghanti se pehle uth jaata tha.
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Agar wo mujhe yaad karte hain to jawab denge,” ya “Jawab se pata chalta hai ki unke mann mein meri jagah ab bhi hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Baar-baar chat kholkar dekhna ki wo aakhri baar kab online the
- Doosra message bhejna, phir teesra, har baar thoda chhota
- Ek shabd ke jawab ko baar-baar padhna ki uska lehja kya hai
- Kuch bhi bhejna band kar dena, aur dekhna ki pehle kaun likhta hai
- Agli call ki shuruaat mein bina jawab wale message ka halka zikr chhed dena
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Monday ko dekha, Thursday tak chup
Monday ko aapne beti ko message bheja: chhat ke gamlon ki photo aur “Hafta kaisa chal raha hai?” Aaj Thursday hai. Do neeli tick batati hain ki usne dekh liya. Jawab nahi. Aap screen dekhte ho, “Sab khairiyat hai?” likhte ho, phir mita dete ho. Jaipur ki kitchen ki table par phone ulta rakh dete ho, aur seene mein ek halki, chup si tees reh jaati hai.
Bachchon ko jawab dena chahiye
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Bachchon ko mere message ka jawab dena chahiye.” Ye sabse kam ki ummeed lagti hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: ye aapka chain unke phone ki aadaton se bandh deta hai. Bachchon se judaav mehsoos hoga ya nahi, wo is par tik jaata hai ki wo kisi din kitne busy, thake ya bikhre hain, aisi zindagi mein jo sabke messages se bhari hai.
Jawab judaav jaisa kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki jawab judaav ka dhaaga lagta hai. Shayad aap unhein hamesha jaldi jawab dete ho, aur wahi aas rakhte ho. Shayad ghar ab zyada shaant hai, aur message us khaalipan ka kuch hissa bharte hain. Jo bhi ho, jawab chahna zaroorat-mand hona nahi. Ye pyaar se aur unki zindagi mein bane rehne ki chaah se aata hai, aur ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Neeli tick baar-baar dekhna
Har bina jawab ka message ek chhota bojh jodta hai. Aap baar-baar tick dekhne lagte ho. Aur bhejne mein jhijhakte ho, darr ki kahin chipku ya pareshani na lagein. Chot lagti hai, phir is baat par dosh-bhaav ki chot kyun lagi. Dheere-dheere wo message jo nazdeeki lagne chahiye, pariksha jaise lagne lagte hain, aur aap wo chhoti baatein rokne lagte ho jo saajha karna chahte the.
Kya jawab ka intezaar waajib hai?
Khud se sach mein poochiye: kya jawab ka intezaar karne se kabhi aap nazdeek aaye? Ya zyadatar chuppiyan hi tez huin? Bade bachche aksar message padh lete hain, poora irada rakhte hain jawab dene ka, aur phir kaam aur zindagi unhein baha le jaate hain. Phir bhi der se aaya jawab unke pyaar ka paimana nahi. Is niyam ko itne kasakar pakadne ki keemat usse zyada hai jitna ye deta hai.
Message tohfa hon, sawaal nahi
Chhodne ka matlab message bhejna chhodna nahi. Matlab ye ki aapka chain ab is par na tike ki wo kitni jaldi jawab dete hain. Aap gamlon ki photo bas saajha karne ki seedhi khushi ke liye bhej sakte ho, aur jawab jab bhi aayein, chhote ya lambe, unka maza le sakte ho. Yahin thoda chain lautta hai: aapke message dene wale tohfe ban jaate hain, jawab ka intezaar karte sawaal nahi.
If a silence worries you for their sake, or if anyone in the family is threatened, hurt or frightened, that is a different thing from this hope, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleBachchon ko mere message ka jawab dena chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMere message tohfe ho sakte hain, sawaal nahi.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Bas khushi ke liye ek message bhejiye, bina kisi sawaal ke
- Din 2
Jawab din mein sirf ek baar dekhiye
- Din 3
Ek shaam kisi pasandida kaam ko dijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Bachchon ko bheja kaun sa bina jawab ka message ab bhi mann mein hai, aur usme kya tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Chhoti si screen par badha ek haath #
“Bachchon ko mere message ka jawab dena chahiye.” Ye aksar do grey tick se shuru hoti hai: chhat ke gamlon ki photo ke neeche, lagatar teesre “Suprabhat” ke neeche, ya ek lambe message ke neeche jiska ab tak jawab bas ek angootha hai.
Upar se dekhein toh ye shishtachaar ki sabse chhoti baat hai: ek message gaya, ek ka jawab aaya. Jawab na aaye to ajeeb lagta hai ki chhoti screen par chand shabd kitne bhaari ho sakte hain.
Bachchon ke jawab ko lekar ye khayal aakhri baar kab aaya tha, aur aapne unhein kya bheja tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Neeli tick par chubhan #
Kuch maa-baap phone ke bajte hi halka sa uchhaal mehsoos karte hain, aur kisi aur ka nikalne par thoda baith jaana. Kuch ko neeli tick par chubhan hoti hai: dekh liya gaya, aur jawab kuch nahi. Ye ehsaas chuppi ki kisi wajah ke baare mein sochne se bahut pehle aa sakta hai.
Haath phone tak chala jaata hai, mann ke dekhne ka faisla karne se pehle: chulhe ke paas, bus stop par, kisi dost ki baat ke beech. Ek jhat se dikha “dekh liya” poori subah par baadal ki tarah tanga reh sakta hai.
Pichhli baar jab kisi bachche ko bheja message bina jawab pada raha, to koi wajah sochne se pehle aapko sabse pehle kya mehsoos hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ummeed karne ko itni chhoti baat #
Ye ummeed waajib isliye lagti hai ki jawab itni chhoti cheez hai jiski aas ki ja sake. Bheja gaya message ek badha hua haath hai, aur kai parivaaron mein jo haath badhaye use jawab dena bas achhi tameez hai, jo bachpan mein hi sikhayi jaati hai.
Subah ki ek photo mein kisi ke din ka hissa banne ki poori chaah ho sakti hai, jabki jis screen par wo pahunchti hai, wahan wo dher saare messages ke beech bas gamlon ki ek tasveer banke aa sakti hai.
Bachchon ko message bhejte waqt aap jawab mein shabdon ke alawa aur kya paane ki aas rakhte ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Aakhri message kiska, ye ginne wali awaaz #
“Post daalne ka time hai, jawab dene ka nahi.” “Itna likha, aur jawab ek shabd?” “Bas do minute lagte.” Ye awaaz aksar parivaar ka group scroll karte hue bolti hai, ya shaam ko jab phone din bhar chup raha ho.
Kuch maa-baap paate hain ki aakhri message kiska tha, ye ginna messages ke neeche kisi aur baat ki or ishaara karta hai: bachche ke aam dinon ka hissa banne ki chaah, sirf bade maukon ka nahi.
Jab awaaz ginti hai ki aakhri message kiska tha, to aapke bachche ka sabse achha jawab asal mein kya kehta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Jude rehne ki tasveer kahan se shuru hoti hai #
Kuch ke liye ye dekhne se aati hai: ek maa jo har hafte chitthi likhti aur phaatak par daakiye ka intezaar karti, ek chacha jo har shaam aath baje apne maa-baap ko phone karte, ek ghar jahan phone teesri ghanti se pehle uth jaata tha.
Kuch ke liye ye un saalon se aati hai jab bachche chhote the aur har sawaal ka jawab milta tha, har “Mummy, dekho!” par nazar jaati thi. Jawab milna parivaar hone ka hissa ban gaya. Kuch log aisi tasveer ko shuruaati saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi.
Aapke apne parivaar mein kaun hamesha jawab deta tha jab koi haath badhaye, aur usse aapne jude rehne ke baare mein kya seekha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Har tick ko padhne wala niyam #
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Agar wo mujhe yaad karte hain to jawab denge,” ya “Jawab se pata chalta hai ki unke mann mein meri jagah ab bhi hai.” Pehla vaakya wo hai jo sunai deta hai; neeche wala niyam tay karta hai ki har grey tick aur har chhote jawab ka matlab kya nikala jaye.
Ye kam hi niyam jaisa lagta hai. Ye aam pyaar jaisa lagta hai, aur jawab sunne ki chaah aam baat hai. Isiliye ise us tarah dekhna kaam ka hai jaise aaj parivaar chalte hain, sirf us tarah nahi jaise ghar tab chalta tha jab bachche usme rehte the.
Kuch log aise niyam ko shuruaati saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Aaj ke jude rehne ke kaun se hisson par jawab wala niyam ab bhi baithta hai, aur kaun se par nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Hafte bhar mein intezaar ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai ek subah aadhi phone ko dekhte hue beetna, dost ke saath achhi sair beech mein rokkar dekhna, ya shaam ki call jo us khabar se nahi, bina jawab wale message se shuru ho jise sunane ke liye bachakar rakha tha. Chhoti cheezein, par hafte bhar mein jud jaati hain.
Chuppi jitna utha sakti hai, usse zyada dhone lagti hai. Jab jawab ka matlab yaad kiya jaana ho, to har chuppi ek bahut bade sawaal ka jawab lag sakti hai, aur wo sawaal din mein kai baar phone ki screen par le jaana bhaari hai.
Pichhle ek saal mein kaun sa bina jawab ka message sabse zyada tika, aur usne bhejne wale din se kya le liya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Tick dekhte paanch aur saal #
Ek aam Tuesday ki kalpana kijiye, us din ki jab “bachchon ko jawab dena chahiye” zor se baj rahi ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad lunch se pehle parivaar ki chat chhathi baar khuli, padosi ke naye puppy ki photo bheji aur uske baad doosra message, kisi dost ki baat aadhi suni jabki phone table par saamne pada.
Isme koi bhavishyavaani nahi, aur tasveer jab chahein hatayi ja sakti hai.
Usme kya hai: bheje message, kholi gayi chat, dekhi gayi tick, agli call ke liye bachakar rakhi baatein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din ko kya bharta hai, aur kya intezaar karta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din ko dekhkar, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Jawab, kis tarah? #
Jude rehna ek hi shakl ka nahi hota. Kuch bade bachche ek shabd mein jawab dete hain aur har Sunday phone karte hain; kuch mahine mein ek lamba voice note bhejte hain; kuch der raat, jaldi mein jawab dete hain. Der se aaya aur chhota jawab bhi jawab ho sakta hai.
Ye chahna bahut insaani hai ki koi bina kahe samajh le ki message ka aapke liye kya matlab hai, par isse uske saamne mushkil paheli rakh jaati hai. Gamlon ki photo mein poori chaah sirf bhejne wale ke liye hai; doosri screen par wo bas ek photo banke pahunch sakti hai.
Jawab ka jo kuch matlab hai, usme aapke liye sabse ahem kya hai: jaldi jawab milna, pyaar se jawab milna, ya bas yaad kiya jaana?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jo pehle se laut kar aata hai #
Kuch maa-baap ko waqt-waqt par ye dekhna achha lagta hai ki pehle se kya laut kar aata hai, chahe chhota ya der se: photo par ek dil, car se bheja voice note, purane paarivaarik chutkule par “haha”, nayi desk ki tasveer jo bina maange aayi.
Inmein se kuch kamana ya lautana nahi padta, aur ye ummeed ko wahin rehne deta hai. Aur ki chaah aur jo hai use dekhna saath-saath chal sakte hain, aur bachche jo message bina kahe bhejte hain, wahi shayad dekhne laayak hain.
Jawab der se aaye to bhi theek hai.
Ek aam hafte mein aapke bachchon ki taraf se pehle se kya lautta hai, jise aap thoda aur dekhna chahein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Sulah, aur jo jaayaz hai use sanjona #
Is ummeed se sulah ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki ye zyada thi, ya ye ki sahi thi. Matlab ye ki bheje gaye aur jawab paye gaye message ke beech ka faasla poore din aur har tick ke padhe jaane ko chalana chhod de.
Isme jo jaayaz hai wo bana reh sakta hai: bachchon ke dinon ka hissa banna chahna, badhe haath ko thama jaana chahna. Jo dheela pad sakta hai wo intezaar hai, taaki photo bheji jaye, phone rakha jaye, aur jawab baad mein mile, jab bhi aaye.
Buniyaadi izzat aur suraksha ki ummeed kabhi “zyada maangna” nahi hai, aapke liye bhi aur bachchon ke liye bhi, aur yahan kuch ye tay nahi karta ki kaun sahi hai. Agar koi chuppi unki fikar mein chinta de, to wo is ummeed se alag baat hai, aur use gambheerta se lena chahiye.
Is ummeed se sulah ki hui ek subah ki tasveer banaiye: phone table par pada rahe, tab aap kya kar rahe honge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Phone ke paas rakhne ko ek sachchi line #
“Bachchon ko mere message ka jawab dena chahiye” se bhidne ki jagah kuch log aisi line paas rakhte hain: “Unhein message bhejna mujhe achha lagta hai, aur jawab tab aata hai jab aata hai.” Use jeetna zaroori nahi, bas purani ke baghal mein baithna hai.
Shuru mein ye thodi udhaar ki lag sakti hai. Kuch ko apni line dheere-dheere baithti dikhti hai; kuch ko nahi baithti aur wo doosri aazmate hain, aur dono theek hain.
Aapke apne shabdon mein kaun si sachchi line hogi, jo message bhejna bachaye rakhe aur intezaar dheela kare?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch chuppiyan ulti rakhi ja sakti hain #
Har chuppi ko aaj padhna zaroori nahi. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise Jaipur ki kitchen ke slab par ulta rakha phone, ya chai ubalte waqt khidki ki mundair par.
Jawab paane ki ummeed jitni der chahein nijee reh sakti hai, aur wo ab bhi aapki hai. Agar koi chuppi unki fikar mein chinta de, to wo is ummeed se alag baat hai.
Aaj shaam ke liye ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki sab sahi tha, ya baat sulajh gayi. Bas itna ki phone ko raat bhar aapke paas nahi baithna padega.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar intezaar thoda bhi dheela ho #
Bas tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ye ummeed ek darja shaant hai. Jawab milne ki chaah ab bhi hai, par bheja gaya message apne aap mein ek kaam ho chuka hai, jo bhi laute.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: photo bhej dena, phone rakh dena aur jawab baad mein dekhna; phone ghar chhodkar subah ki sair; ya chhota jawab ek baar padhkar uska maza lena.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai. Agli baar dekhenge ki is aas se sulah ka matlab kya ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai, zara sa bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Chat phir kholne se pehle dekhiye ki wahan aap kya dekhne ki aas rakhte ho
- Tick neeli ho jaye to gaur kijiye ki chuppi kaun si kahani sunana shuru karti hai
- Aaj ki ek chhoti chaahat ko pehchaniye, chahe kitni bhi chhoti
- Chupchaap khud se poochiye: is message se mujhe kya wapas milne ki aas thi?
- Gaur kijiye ki kaun sa hissa zyada tez hai: unki yaad, ya tick ka intezaar
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Bachchon ko bheja kaun sa bina jawab ka message ab bhi mann mein hai, aur usme kya tha?
- Kisi bachche ka kaun sa jawab aapka poora din bana gaya, aur usme kya likha tha?
- Kisi aam Tuesday ki subah aap bachchon se sabse zyada kya sunna chahoge?
- Agar bachchon ke jawab ka intezaar thoda halka ho, to aapko sabse pehle kya dikhega?
- Bachchon ki taraf se pehle se kya lautta hai jiska aap aur maza lena chahoge?