Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye aksar halki cheezon par girta hai: hansi, khel, gaana, thodi si shararat.
Kuch logon ke liye har umar ki script jaldi aa gayi, aur responsible banne ka role kisi ke poochne se bahut pehle mil gaya ki wo chahiye bhi ya nahi.
Kuch log neeche ek niyam baitha sunte hain: “Meri umar mein ek sahi tareeka hota hai,” ya “Logon ke saamne shararati hona sharmnaak hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Gaane ke beech mein ruk jaana aur hanskar baat taal dena
- Shararati side sirf ek-do aasaan logon ke liye bachakar rakhna
- Aur zyada shararat karna, ye dikhane ko ki shabd chubhe nahi
- Agli baar shaamil hone se pehle dekh lena ki baaki log kaise behave kar rahe hain
- Poori shaam repeat karna: kisne dekha, aur unhone kya socha
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Sangeet night mein wo betuka dance
Alwar mein cousin ki sangeet night. Aap cousins ke saath purane gaane par betuka dance kar rahe ho aur khoob hans rahe ho. Mamaji paas se guzarte hue kehte hain, “Apni umar ka toh lihaaz karo.” Hansi tham jaati hai. Aap muskurakar baith jaate ho aur baaki shaam kamre ke kinare chup aur sambhle-se bitate ho, kisi daant khaye bachche jaise, jabki aap kab ke bade ho chuke ho.
Umar ki ummeed par chalna
Shabd ek aise niyam par girte hain jo shayad pehle se wahan hai: “Mujhe waise behave karna hai jaisa log meri umar se ummeed karte hain.” Ye samajhdaari lagta hai, badappan lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapki khushi ko doosron ke likhe timetable par rakh deta hai. Kya pehnein, kaise hanso, kisme maza lo, sab is par tik jaata hai ki koi aur kya sochta hai.
Saath chalna kyun surakshit laga
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki kabhi saath milkar chalna humein upahaas se bachata tha. Shayad aap sunkar bade hue ki kya shobha deta hai, kis umar mein, kise. Shayad kabhi alag hone par aapki khilli udi aur aap bhoole nahi. Niyam bewakoofi nahi. Ye izzat ki chahat se aata hai. Ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Wo masti jo chupchaap beh jaati hai
Har “apni umar ka lihaaz karo” aapke andar se thodi masti nikaal leta hai. Aap parties mein naachna chhod dete ho. Kapde khushi ke liye nahi, manzoori ke liye chunte ho. Koi bhauhein na chadhaye, isliye shararati joke rok lete ho. Dheere-dheere aapka wo khilandra hissa, jo zindagi halki karta hai, chhipne lagta hai, aur aap andar se jitna feel karte ho usse zyada badi umar nibhane lagte ho.
Kya niyam aapki khushi ke layak?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya us niyam ko maanne se kabhi aap zyada apne jaise feel hue? Ya zyada-tar kisi kamre mein chhote? Unke shabd unke the, aur kyun kahe, ye wahi jaante hain. Ek party ki tippani aapke jeene ke tareeke ka paimana nahi. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna aapse jitna maangta hai, utna deta nahi. Kya ye iske layak hai?
Har umar mein maza
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki har party mein naachna hai, ya tippani pyaari thi. Matlab ye ki aapki khushi ab kisi timetable ki ijaazat ka intezaar nahi karti. Aap chun sakte ho ki kya aapko jachta hai, kisi bhi umar mein, apne tareeke se. Wahin se kuch chain lautta hai: aapka khilandra hissa reh jaata hai, aur tippani usi ke paas reh sakti hai jisne kahi.
Where someone really does react badly, with anger, threats or fear, to how you live, that is worth taking seriously, and going along can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMujhe waise behave karna hai jaisa log meri umar se ummeed karte hain.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleKisi bhi umar mein, apne tareeke se zindagi ka maza liya ja sakta hai.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Is hafte koi ek cheez kijiye, bas isliye ki wo muskaan laati hai
- Kadam 2
Koi ek pasandida gaana bajaiye aur uska poora maza lene dijiye
- Kadam 3
Jab ye shabd lautein, to koi ek pasand ki cheez yaad kijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Jab kisi ne kaha ki umar ka lihaaz karo, tab aap kis baat ka maza le rahe the, aur wo pal kaise khatam hua?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Teen shabd, ek pal ki masti par #
Alwar mein cousin ki sangeet night. DJ par purana gaana lagta hai aur aap cousins ke saath naachne utar jaate ho. Mami ki awaaz: “Apni umar ka toh lihaaz karo!” Office call par manager, video game par bade bhaiya, park ke jhoole par bench wale uncle: “Bachpana band karo.” Aur masti beech mein ruk jaati hai.
Sunne mein tameez ka chhota sa note lagta hai. Par wo ye nahi batata ki galti kya thi, bas itna ki is umar ka ek sahi tareeka hota hai, aur hansne ya khelne wala uske bahar chala gaya, jab sab dekh rahe the.
Jab kisi ne kaha “umar ka lihaaz karo”, tab aap kis baat ka maza le rahe the, aur kamre mein aur kaun tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Masti sabse pehle kyun chhoot jaati hai #
Kuch log batate hain ki chehre par achanak garmi chadhti hai, hansi beech mein kat jaati hai, mic jhat se wapas pakda diya jaata hai. Kuch ise mazaak mein ud dete hain; kuch simat jaate hain aur baaki shaam dekhte rehte hain ki baaki log kaise behave kar rahe hain.
Masti ke beech akele alag kiya jaana sochne se pehle, ek second mein lag jaata hai, aur zyada chubhta hai kyunki pal bhar pehle sab halka tha. Soch baad mein aati hai, repeat hoti hui: kisne dekha aur unhone kya samjha.
Kisi ke “umar ka lihaaz karo” kehne ke baad wale second mein, jo maza aap le rahe the, aapne uska kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ye pal ko nahi, insaan ko napta hai #
“Zara dheere, baby so raha hai” ek pal ki baat hai. “Apni umar ka lihaaz karo” pal ko chhodkar insaan ko is tasveer se napta hai ki us umar ke insaan ko kaisa hona chahiye. Mann naap sunta hai, aur pal kho deta hai.
Ye aksar halki cheezon par girta hai: hansi, khel, gaana, thodi si shararat. Isliye jo sabak nikal sakta hai wo “ye tez tha” nahi, “khulkar khush hona risk hai” hai, jo ek shaam ke liye bahut bada sabak hai.
Jab kisi ne aapki masti ko aapki umar se napa, to wo masti asal mein kis baare mein thi, aur us din usne aapko kya diya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab umar ki jaanch andar chalne lage #
Baar-baar suno to ye andar aa baithta hai. “Sabke saamne nahi.” “Bade log aisa nahi karte.” “Iske liye to umar nikal gayi, hai na?” Kabhi jaanch gaane ki pehli line se pehle hoti hai, hansi ke poori nikalne se pehle.
Kehne wale ko shayad wo shaam kab ki bhool chuki ho, par jaanch andar chalti rehti hai. Ye aapki apni awaaz jaisi sunayi deti hai, isliye ek kamre ki, kabhi ki ek tippani ki jagah aam samajhdaari jaisi lagti hai.
Aapke sar mein umar ka lihaaz karwane wali awaaz kis tarah ki masti ko rokne aati hai, aur kin kamron mein sabse zyada bolti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch logon ke liye umar ki script jaldi aa gayi #
“Chhoton ke saamne misaal bano.” “Bachpana band karo.” “Theek se baitho, log dekh rahe hain.” Kuch logon ke liye har umar ki script jaldi aa gayi, aur responsible banne ka role kisi ke poochne se bahut pehle mil gaya ki wo chahiye bhi ya nahi.
Kuch families mein jaldi bada ho jaana sachchi wajahon se zaroori tha, aur wajahein har ghar ki alag hain. Bachcha chupchaap ye nateeja nikaal sakta hai ki khel ki bhi ek aakhri date hoti hai, aur uske baad dikhayi gayi khushi thodi sharam ki cheez hai.
Aapne pehli baar kab seekha ki aapki umar mein kuch tarah ki masti mana hai, aur yaad dilane ke liye wahan kaun tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Neeche baithi ek chupchaap script #
Kuch log neeche ek niyam baitha sunte hain: “Meri umar mein ek sahi tareeka hota hai,” ya “Logon ke saamne shararati hona sharmnaak hai.”
Aisi script script jaisi lagti hi nahi. Lagti hai badon ke tour-tareeqon ki samajh, jaise lift mein awaaz dheemi kar lena seedhi si baat lagti hai. Isiliye inhein kabhi-kabhi nikaalkar dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko shuru ke saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
“Meri umar mein ek sahi tareeka hota hai” jaisa niyam aapke experience ke kitna kareeb aata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
“Meri umar mein ek sahi tareeka hota hai” aaj kin kamron mein ab bhi fit hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Sahi-umar wali script ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai na gaaye gaye gaane, chhode hue khel, kinare se dekhe gaye dance floor, ek shisht naap mein roki gayi hansi. Kuch log wo karna chhod dete hain jisse wo halka feel karte the, usmein maza aana band hone se bahut pehle.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Har umar mein ye nazar rakhna ki doosron ko kaise dikh rahe ho, thaka deta hai, aur aaspaas ke log sirf sambhla hua, badon wala roop hi dekh paate hain. Saal bhar mein aisi kai shaamein jud sakti hain jo theek thin, par khaas maze ki nahi.
Umar ka lihaaz karne wali script ne pichhle ek saal mein aapse kya liya, agar kuch liya: koi na gaaya gaana, dabbe mein band koi khel, kamre ke kinare se dekhi koi shaam?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Sahi awaaz mein ek aam Tuesday #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “meri umar mein ek sahi tareeka hota hai” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad red light par dheema kiya gaya gaana, kisi ke aane par band kiya gaya cartoon, meeting mein roka gaya ek joke, khaane ke baad shelf par rakha reh gaya koi game. Kuch jaana-pehchana lagega, kuch bilkul nahi.
Yahan abhi kisi cheez ka jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer ko jab chahein kinare rakha ja sakta hai.
Usmein kya hai: kaam, routine, khelne ke wo chhote mauke jo dikhe aur nikal gaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Tuesday ko dekhte hue, agar kuch, to aapki nazar kis par rukti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Kaun si umar ka lihaaz, theek-theek? #
Script maangte hi wo aksar kisi ek insaan ki tasveer nikalti hai ki ek umar kaisi dikhni chahiye, jise aise bola gaya jaise sab usse sehmat hon.
Jo shararat ek table par bemauka lagi, doosri table par wahi chahiye thi: wo chacha jo sabko gawa dete hain, wo colleague jo boring meeting ko jhelne layak bana deta hai, wo dost jo ab bhi chhuttiyon ki tarah khelta hai. Fit hona kamre par nirbhar karta hai.
“Apni umar” ko ek script chahiye: kiski script, kab likhi, kis kamre ke liye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar kisi kareebi dost ko gaane ke beech mein kaha jaye ki apni umar ka lihaaz karo, to ghar lautte hue aap usse kya kehna chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Dheeme se repeat karne par logon ko kya milta hai #
Jab kuch log us pal ko dheere-dheere repeat karte hain, to wo dekhte hain ki asal mein hua kya tha: ek gaana, ek khel, ek hansi, park mein ek jhoola. Lautaaye hue shabdon ke baghal mein, pal khud kabhi-kabhi utna bada nahi dikhta jitna laga tha.
Kuch un jagahon ko dekhte hain jahan unka wo shararati pehlu swagat se milta hai: ek dost jo saath gaata hai, ek chhota cousin jo ek round aur chahta hai, ek team jo unke saath hansi, un par nahi. Wo awaazein hamesha thi, bas dheemi.
Aapka shararati pehlu jaisa hai waise hi kise pasand hai, aur aap dono aakhir kis baat par hanste ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Sahi umar dhoondhne ki zaroorat nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye maanna nahi ki masti bemauka thi, ya ye dikhana nahi ki shabd chubhe nahi. Matlab bas itna ki ek kamre ki ek tippani is par kam chale ki aap kitna zor se hanso, kya khelo, aur baaki shaam kaisi beete.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo har umar mein, har kamre mein behave karne ka theek-theek sahi tareeka dhoondhna chhod dete hain. Us khoj ka koi aakhri sira nahi, kyunki kamre badalte hain, aur jab tak wo chalti hai, ek tippani har table ke sire par baithi rehti hai.
Kuch kamre sach mein nahi sunenge, aur kisi ko unhein aazmana nahi hai.
Agli party kaisi hogi agar umar ke lihaaz wali line kehne wale ke paas hi rahe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Shararati pehlu ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “Mujhe apni umar ka lihaaz karna chahiye” barson se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe ladne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iske bajaye ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Meri umar form par likha ek number hai. Main maza kaise loon, ye mera hai.”
Ye sach lagna zaroori nahi. Ye bas ek line hai jo kuch log aazmate hain, aur party ya ghar ke jamavde se pehle dheere se kehne par purani script ki thodi jagah le leti hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein apne shararati pehlu ke baare mein sachcha vaakya kaisa hoga, jise party mein kisi ki haami ki zaroorat na ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein party ki topiyon ke saath chhodi ja sakti hain #
Har “umar ka lihaaz karo” ko jawabi tanz, maafi ya agli baar theek se behave karne ka plan nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal feel kiya ja sakta hai, aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise shaam ke aakhir mein kagaz ki topi table par chhod dete hain.
Ye uske aage jhukna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki energy kahan lage, aur kuch log kehte hain isse un gaanon, khelon aur logon ke liye zyada jagah bachti hai jinse shaam apni lagti hai.
Aaj ki raat tippani ko party ki topiyon ke saath chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek thi, ya baat suljh gayi. Bas itna ki wo aaj baaki har cheez mein, agle gaane mein, agli hansi mein saath na jaye.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar script thodi bhi dheeli ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki sahi-umar wala niyam ek darja dheema hai. Umar bas umar ho sakti hai, aur maza bas maza.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: car mein akele poore volume par gaaya gaya gaana, us dost ke saath aakhir tak khela gaya game jise wo pasand hai, ya hansi ko uske apne size par chhod dena.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur notice karne layak hai, chahe kitna bhi chhota. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Agar niyam dheela pade, to sabse pehle kya alag lagega, chahe thoda hi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Niyam ke dheele padne ka aapka pehla chhota nishaan kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi umar ka lihaaz wali line”
- Chupchaap poochiye: kaun si umar, aur kiski script?
- Notice kijiye ki kya zyada zor se bolta hai: shabd, ya kamre ka achanak chup ho jaana
- Koi ek jagah sochiye jahan aapka shararati pehlu khule dil se accept hai
- Aaj ki koi ek chhoti cheez notice kijiye jo aapne chahi, kitni bhi chhoti
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Jab kisi ne kaha ki umar ka lihaaz karo, tab aap kis baat ka maza le rahe the, aur wo pal kaise khatam hua?
- Jab aapse umar ka lihaaz karne ko kaha gaya, tab kaun dekh raha tha, aur kiski pratikriya ab bhi yaad hai?
- Apni umar ki wajah se aapne kaun si masti chhod di, aur tab usne aapko kya diya tha?
- Jis aam din sahi-umar wala niyam zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar sahi-umar wala niyam thoda dheela ho, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?