Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye isliye bhi chubhta hai ki isme ek chhupi list ka ishaara hai: jo har umar wala seekh chuka hota hai.
“Hamare zamane mein to hum is umar mein ghar sambhalte the.”
Neeche ek chup niyam ban sakta hai: “Ab tak to aa jaana chahiye tha,” ya “Is umar tak sab pata hona chahiye.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Ek chhoti-si chook par kai baar maafi maangte hain
- Chook tak pahunche har kadam ko zaroorat se zyada baareeki se samjhate hain
- Bade rishtedaaron ke saamne kuch naya aazmane se bachte hain
- Ghar lautte hue pal ko dohrate hain aur behtar jawab jodte hain
- “Arre, main bhi na!” kehkar hans dete hain, jabki chehra tap raha hota hai
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Bank ki parchi par galat tareekh
Hazaribagh ki bank branch. Aapne parchi par tareekh galat bhar di, aur clerk ne khidki se wapas kar di. Line mein peechhe se koi rishtedaar kehta hai: “Is umar mein bhi parchi bharni nahi aati?” Shabd galti se zyada chubhte hain. Baaki din aap khud ko barah saal ka mehsoos karte ho, aur purani har chook yaad aane lagti hai.
Is umar mein chook ki gunjaish nahi
Ye shabd ek aise niyam par girte hain jo shayad pehle se wahan tha: “Is umar tak mujhse aisi galtiyan nahi honi chahiye.” Ye zimmedar aur badon jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har maamooli chook ko is baat ka saboot bana deta hai ki kuch gadbad hai. Shaanti ab is par tik jaati hai ki chook kabhi na ho, jo kisi umar mein kisi se nahi hota.
Bada hona yaani sab sahi karna
Ye niyam hum isliye pakadte hain ki humein bataya gaya tha ki bada hona yaani sab kuch sahi karna. Shayad aapse bachpan se hi hamesha zyada samajh ki ummeed rahi. Shayad ghar mein galtiyan sabke saamne zor se ginayi jaati thin. Jo bhi ho, niyam bewakoofi nahi. Bharose aur izzat ki chaah se aata hai. Ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Har chook ke baad chhota toofan
Har chook ek chhota toofan ban jaati hai. Theek ho chuki galtiyan bhi der tak dohrayi jaati hain. Chhoti galtiyan logon se chhupayi jaati hain, ki kahin phir kuch sunna na pade. Har tippani par aap thoda aur chhota mehsoos karte ho. Dheere-dheere saadharan zindagi, jisme saadharan chookein hoti hain, ek aisa imtihaan lagne lagti hai jisme aap baar-baar fail hote ho, aur theek karke aage badhne ki shaanti kho jaati hai.
Kya bedaagh rehna zaroori hai?
Khud se sach-sach poochhiye: kya khud se kabhi chook na hone ki ummeed ne sach mein chook kam ki? Ya har chook ko zyada dardnaak banaya? Chook har umar mein, roz hoti hai, aur ve shabd unke apne chune hue the. Ek chook aapki pehchaan ka naap nahi. Is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna deta kam hai, leta zyada hai.
Sudhaaro aur aage badho
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aap achha kaam karne ki parwah chhod dein. Matlab ye ki chook kisi bhi umar mein bas chook ho sakti hai. Aap use sudhaar sakte ho, usse seekh sakte ho, aur atirikt bojh ke bina aage badh sakte ho. Yahin se thoda sukoon lautta hai: tippani kehne wale ke paas rehti hai, aur chook wapas chhoti ho jaati hai.
Where someone really does react badly to mistakes, with anger, threats or fear, that is worth taking seriously, and staying quiet can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleIs umar tak mujhse aisi galtiyan nahi honi chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleGalti har umar mein hoti hai. Sudhaarkar aage badha ja sakta hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Chook ke baad khud se kahiye: aisa ho jaata hai
- Din 2
Ek aisi chook yaad kijiye jo aapne achhe se sudhari
- Din 3
Tippani laute to ek dheemi saans lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kaun si chhoti chook aapki umar se jud gayi, aur bheetar se wo pal kaisa laga?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Ek chook, aur uske saath juda ek aankda #
Hazaribagh ki bank branch mein parchi par tareekh galat bhar di, aur clerk ne khidki se lauta di. Ya e-rickshaw mein galat mod. Ya phone se Chhath ki ticket galat tareekh ki. Phir line mein peechhe se kisi ki awaaz, chacha ya anjaan ki: “Is umar mein bhi itna nahi aata?”
Vaakya chook ko naam deta hai, phir use ek aankde se naapta hai. Galti parchi ya ticket ki nahi rehti, saalon ke naam ek nishaan ban jaati hai, jaise har birthday ke saath seekh chuki cheezon ki list milti ho aur ye usmein thi.
Pichhli baar “is umar mein to samajh aa jaani chahiye” suna, to abhi-abhi kya hua tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur kaun itne paas tha ki sun le?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Safai dena turant kyun shuru hota hai #
Kuch log garam sharmindagi ki lehar batate hain, ek hi chook ke liye teen baar maafi, aur har kadam samjhane ki bechaini jiski wajah se chook hui. Kuch sapaat aur vinamra hokar kaam jaldi nipta dete hain.
Doosron ke saamne toke jaane ka asar sochne se pehle ho jaata hai. Kuch log dekhte hain ki safai turant shuru ho jaati hai, zubaan par ya dimaag mein, aur pal beet jaane ke baad bhi chalti rehti hai.
Chook ke saath umar judne ke pehle minute mein aap kya karte ya kehte dikhte hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ye chook nahi, saal naapti hai #
“Parchi par doosri mohar lagegi” parchi ke baare mein hoti. “Is umar mein” wala vaakya parchi chhodkar chook ko insaan ke saalon se jod deta hai, to chhoti galti kisi badi baat ka saboot lagne lagti hai. Mann sudhaar nahi, tulna sunta hai.
Ye isliye bhi chubhta hai ki isme ek chhupi list ka ishaara hai: jo har umar wala seekh chuka hota hai. Wo list koi dikhata nahi, aur dikha bhi nahi sakta, kyunki zindagi ne jise jo maanga, logon ne wahi alag-alag kram mein seekha.
Ek seedhe vaakya mein bataiye.
Jab aapki kisi chook ko umar se naapa jaata hai, to asal mein kya galat hua tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab naapna pehle hi shuru ho jaaye #
Baar-baar suno to wo pehle se hi tokne lagta hai. “Ab tak to aa jaana chahiye tha.” “Sabko to aata hai.” “Rehne do, poochha to log sochenge kuch aata hi nahi.” Dukaan par ek seedha sawaal poochhne se pehle teen baar rehearsal ho jaati hai.
Jisne kaha tha wo shayad counter se kab ka ja chuka, par naapna ab bheetar hota hai, chook se pehle. Aur kyunki wo samajhdaari jaisa lagta hai, wo jaldbaazi mein kahi gayi kisi ki baat nahi, seedhi imaandaari lagta hai.
Aapke sir mein ye kiski awaaz hai jo kuch poochhne se pehle aapki umar jaanch leti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch logon ke liye time-table pehle hi ban gaya #
“Kitni baar samjhaya?” “Bachche bhi kar lete hain.” “Hamare zamane mein to hum is umar mein ghar sambhalte the.” Kuch log aise bade hue ki har chook kisi time-table se naapi jaati thi, aur unhone galti se pehle aankda mehsoos karna seekha.
Kai gharon mein jaldi kaam seekh lene aur sambhal lene ki taareef bahut hoti thi, aur wajahein har ghar ki alag thin. Jo chupchaap saath chala aata hai wo ye ehsaas hai ki jaanne ka koi time-table hai, aur usse peechhe rehna sharm ki baat hai.
Pehli baar aapki kisi chook ko aapki umar se kab naapa gaya, aur naapne wala kaun tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Der se seekhne par ek chup niyam #
Neeche ek chup niyam ban sakta hai: “Ab tak to aa jaana chahiye tha,” ya “Is umar tak sab pata hona chahiye.” Kuch log ise har nayi job, naye shehar aur naye kaam mein saath le jaate hain, jahan har kisi ke liye kuch na kuch naya hota hai.
Aise niyam niyam jaise nahi lagte. Maanak jaise lagte hain, jaise ghar se nikalne se pehle do baar taala dekhna bas sahaj buddhi lagti hai. Isiliye inhein kabhi-kabhi din ki roshni mein nikaalkar dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log ise bachpan tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi. Kuch bhi ho, ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Zindagi ke kin hisson mein “is umar tak sab aa jaana chahiye” ab bhi fit hota hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Time-table ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai daftar mein naya system na poochhna, aise form par sir hila dena jo samajh nahi aaya, ya koi hunar taalna jo doosron ne pehle seekh liya, jaise gaadi chalana ya nayi bhasha. Kuch log seekhne ki chaah chhodne se bahut pehle doosron ke saamne kuch naya aazmana chhod dete hain.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Seekhne ke liye galat hone ki jagah chahiye, aur der hone ka ehsaas har chhoti chook ko zor se sunata hai. Ek saal mein kai hunar anchhue reh sakte hain, kyunki poochhna bahut khula hua laga.
Pichhle saal “ab to samajh aa jaani chahiye” sunne ke darr ne aapko kuch seekhne ya poochhne se roka kya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Kabhi naya na dikhne ke paanch aur saal #
Ek aam Tuesday sochiye, jab “ab tak to aa jaana chahiye tha” zor se baj raha hai. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad kisi sahkarmi ki samajh na aayi baat par sir hilana, ek form ghar le jaakar akele suljhana, koi hunar chupchaap taal dena, us chook par maafi jise maafi nahi chahiye thi. Kuch jaana-pehchana ho sakta hai, kuch bilkul nahi.
Tasveer mein kuch bhi pakka nahi, aur ise jab chahein rakh diya ja sakta hai.
Usmein kya hai: kaam-kaaj, meetings, na poochhe gaye sawaal?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kisi cheez mein naya na dikhne ki koshish wale poore din ko dekhkar aapko sabse zyada kya khatakta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Kis baare mein samajh, aur kab tak? #
Log wahi seekhte hain jo unki zindagi ne maanga, aur zindagiyan bahut alag cheezein maangti hain. Form, raasta ya rivaaz kisi bhi umar mein naya ho sakta hai.
Chook ko chook ki tarah dekha ja sakta hai. Kuch logon ko vaakya ke do hisse alag karna kaam aata hai: jo galat hua, jo sudhara ja sakta hai, aur usse juda umar, jo sudharne ke baare mein kuch nahi batati.
“Samajh aa jaani chahiye” ko ek paimana chahiye: kis baare mein, aur kisne tay kiya ki kab tak?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar aapke kisi apne se isi umar mein yahi chhoti chook hoti, to aap chahte ki unke bagal wala unse kya kahe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Paas se dekhne par kya alag lagta hai #
Jab kuch log pal ko dheere-dheere dohrate hain, to chook ko hi dekhte hain: galat tareekh, chhoota mod, alag tarah se bola gaya shabd. Pratikriya ke bagal mein rakhkar kuch paate hain ki chook chhoti thi aur us par kahi baat badi.
Kuch log wo jagahein dekhte hain jahan der se seekhna bas seekhna tha: koi dost jisne paintees mein gaadi chalana seekha, koi sahkarmi jisne meeting mein nausikhiye wala sawaal poochha, koi dada-nana jinhone sattar mein smartphone uthaya. Kabhi wo sahajta aasaani se milti hai, aur kabhi kamra sach mein sakht tha.
Aapke jeevan mein kaun hai jo umar ka zikr kiye bina aapko kuch naya seekhne deta hai, aur wo kaisa lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Time-table ke peechhe daudne ki zaroorat nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye maanna nahi ki chook se kuch saabit ho gaya, ya ye dikhana nahi ki baat chubhi nahi. Matlab ye ki ek counter par kaha gaya ek vaakya agle sawaal ke poochhe jaane par kam asar kare.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab ve us adrishya time-table ke peechhe bhaagna chhod dete hain. Koi ek list nahi jo har koi kisi birthday tak poori kar le, aur uske peechhe bhaagna kehne wale ko har nayi cheez ka maalik banaye rakhta hai.
Kuch rishtedaar aur kuch kamre umar ki or ishaara karte rahenge, wahan bahas ki zaroorat nahi.
Chook ko bas utna hi bada rehne dena, jitni wo asal mein thi, kaisa lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Har umar mein seekhne par ek vaakya #
Agar “ab tak to aa jaana chahiye tha” saalon se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe ladna zaroori nahi. Kuch log iski jagah ek vaakya taiyar rakhte hain: “Har umar mein kisi na kisi cheez ke liye hum naye hote hain.”
Ye fauran sach lage, zaroori nahi. Kuch log ise counter par, nayi job ke pehle hafte mein, ya gharwalon ke phone se pehle chupchaap dohrate hain, aur dekhte hain ki koi chhota sawaal thoda aasaan hua ya nahi.
Apni raftaar se seekhne par aapka sachcha vaakya aapke apne shabdon mein kaisa sunayi dega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch baatein wapas jeb mein rakhi ja sakti hain #
Har “is umar mein” wali tippani ko lambi safai, sudharne ke vaade ya counter ke replay ki raat nahi chahiye. Kuch baatein dekh li jaati hain, ek pal feel ki jaati hain, aur coat ki jeb mein purani raseed ki tarah modkar rakh di jaati hain.
Iska matlab ye dikhana nahi ki kuch hua hi nahi. Ye chunna hai ki urja kahan jaaye, aur kuch log kehte hain isse baat ko theek se, apni raftaar se, aise logon ke saath seekhne ki jagah banti hai jinke paas seekhna aasaan hai.
Aaj shaam is vaakya ko rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek tha ya baat nipat gayi. Bas ye ki use agle kaam, agle form ya agle sawaal tak saath le jaana zaroori nahi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar chook bas chook rahe #
Bas ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye: niyam ek paydaan dheema. Galtiyan ab bhi hoti hain, par ve jo galat hua uske naap ki hain, kisi birthday ke naap ki nahi.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: counter par pehle maafi maange bina sawaal poochhna, kisi dost ke saamne koi naya hunar aazmana, ya ek chook par mann mein narmi se muskura dena.
Yahan kuch bhi kisi se kehna zaroori nahi. Jo ubhre wo aapka hai aur dekhne layak hai. Agar use theek se dekhna chahein, to ek chat bas ek tap door hai.
Pehla sanket kya hoga ki chook ab saalon par faisla nahi lagti?Is par baat kijiye ›
Umar hisaab se hat jaaye, to pehli nayi cheez kya aazmayenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti baatein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Phir wahi umar wala vaakya”
- Chupchaap poochhiye: asal mein kya galat hua, aur kitna bada hai?
- Gaur kijiye ki kya zyada chubha: chook ya aankda
- Koi ek baat yaad kijiye jo aapne apni raftaar se seekhi
- Aaj ki ek chhoti-si chaahat notice kijiye, jitni bhi chhoti
Har ek nijee aur aapki marzi ki. Jo aasaan lage wahi aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kaun si chhoti chook aapki umar se jud gayi, aur bheetar se wo pal kaisa laga?
- Aisa kya hai jo aapne apni raftaar se seekha, aur aaspaas ke logon ne kya kaha?
- Aapke sir mein ab bhi kiska time-table chal raha hai ki ab tak kya aana chahiye?
- Ek aam din jab ye niyam zor se ho, tab aap kya taalte rahenge?
- Agar ye niyam thoda dheela ho, to sabse pehle aap kya notice karenge?