Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Homework wahan baitha hai jahan school, ghar aur ummeedein milti hain, isliye usme sirf sawaal nahi hote.
Bahut se maa-baap aise gharon mein bade hue jahan padhai pehle aati thi aur numbers ki baat khaane ki table par hoti thi.
Neeche ek niyam ban sakta hai: “Aaj ki shaam bigdi to bachche ka nuqsaan mere sir.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Awaaz ooncha kar dena, phir sote waqt bura lagna
- Bas khatam karne ke liye aadhi worksheet khud kar dena
- Mobile par dhil dena, aur phir uski chinta karna
- Chupchaap baghal mein baith jaana, jabda kase hue
- Raat ko jaagte hue dohrana ki kya kehna chahiye tha
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Saadhe aath baje fractions
Navi Mumbai ka flat, school ki ek raat, saadhe aath baje. Kal fractions ki worksheet jama honi hai aur bachcha sofa par mobile liye baitha hai. “Bas paanch minute! Homework baad mein!” Aapki awaaz khud hi chadh gayi, jitna socha tha usse teekhi. Maths par aansu aaye, phir chuppi. Baad mein darwaze par khade hokar sote hue bachche ko dekha, aur poori shaam sir mein dobara chali.
Aaj bigdi to nuqsaan mera
Pehle saaf baat: thaka bachcha “baad mein” kahe to ye aapki parvarish par faisla nahi. Par aisi shaamon se ek niyam ug aata hai, aur wo aapka ho jaata hai: “Aaj ki shaam bigdi to bachche ka nuqsaan mere sir.” Ye parwah jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har worksheet poore bhavishya ka bojh uthane lagti hai, aur har shaam ek imtihaan ban jaati hai jisme aap fail ho sakte hain.
Padhai itni bhaari kyun lagti hai
Aisa niyam hum isliye pakadte hain ki bachchon se pyaar hai aur unki zindagi achhi chahte hain. Humse bahut se aise gharon mein bade hue jahan padhai pehle aati thi, aur uski wajahein achhi thin. Shayad aapke maa-baap har sawaal sahi hone tak baghal mein baithe rahe. Jo bhi ho, bachche ke liye sabse achha chahna galat nahi. Ye gehri parwah se aata hai. Ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Shaamein jo shift ban gayin
Keematein chupchaap hoti hain, aur judti jaati hain. Raat ka khaana ghadi dekhte hue. Kitaabein kisi ke kehne se zyada jaanchi jaati hain. Aapke sochne se pehle awaaz chadhti hai, aur sote waqt pachhtava aata hai. Lunch ke baare mein bachche ka mazedaar kissa nikal jaata hai, kyunki mann worksheet par hai. Jo shaamein garm ho sakti thin, wo nipatane ki shift ban jaati hain.
Kya har shaam imtihaan hai?
Imaandaari se poochiye: kya is niyam ko pakadne se shaamein kabhi aasaan huin? Ya zyadatar dono ke liye bhaari huin? Ek adhoori worksheet hazaaron shaamon mein ek shaam hai. Bachche saalon mein seekhte hain, aur homework se kahin zyada se. Koi galat jawab nahi. Chahein to ek pal iske saath baithiye. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna uski keemat ke laayak hai?
Ek shaam bas ek shaam
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki homework maayne nahi rakhta, ya chillana theek laga. Matlab ye ki ek shaam ko ab aapke ya bachche ke baare mein kuch tay nahi karna hai. Kuch sawaal intezaar kar sakte hain, kitaab band ki ja sakti hai, aur kamre mein ab bhi garmaahat rehte kahani padhi ja sakti hai. Chhoti shuruaat, ek shaam par ek. Wahin se kuch chain lautta hai: school ki raatein halki lagne lagti hain.
If evenings at home ever involve anyone being hurt, threatened or frightened, that is no longer everyday and is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleAaj ki shaam bigdi to bachche ka nuqsaan mere sir.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleEk mushkil shaam bas ek shaam. Meri parwah isse badi hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
School ka bag khulne se pehle ek baar kandhe dheele karein
- Din 2
Awaaz chadhne lage to paanch second rukein
- Din 3
Sone se pehle aaj shaam ka ek achha pal yaad karein
Is par baat karni hai?
“Us shaam ke shuru hone se pehle aap sabse zyada kya chahte the?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Worksheet aur ek thaki awaaz #
Navi Mumbai ke flat mein raat ke saadhe aath. Bag abhi band hai, kal worksheet jama karni hai, aur sofa se ek chhoti awaaz: “Bas paanch minute! Homework baad mein!” Kahin maths par aansu hain, to kahin mobile ki screen baar-baar chamak rahi hai.
Shabd ek worksheet ke sawaalon ke baare mein hain. Jo chubhta hai wo isse bada hai: ghadi, khisakta sone ka time, pichhle hafte ki diary wali note, aur ek chup chinta ki sab sahi chal bhi raha hai ya nahi.
Aakhri baar kab ek shaam is khinchtaan mein badal gayi thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Bag khulne se pehle hi din aap dono ke liye kaisa raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Sochne se pehle kyun lag jaata hai #
Kuch maa-baap ka jabda kas jaata hai, awaaz unke sochne se pehle chadh jaati hai, lambe din ke baad kandhe bhaari ho jaate hain. Kuch chup hokar kitaab ke paas baith jaate hain; kuch wahi baat bol dete hain jo na bolne ki qasam khayi thi. Inmein se kuch bhi kisi ko bura maa-baap nahi banata.
Din ke aakhir mein sabka sabr patla ho jaata hai, badon ka bhi, bachchon ka bhi. Homework par “na” usi patli jagah par lagkar asal se bahut bada lagta hai. Shaant soch aksar baad mein aati hai, jab darwaze par khade hokar bachche ko sote dekhte hain.
“Baad mein” sunte hi aapke sharir ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us second mein aap sabse zyada kya chahte the: shaanti, worksheet poori, ya bas ek cheez ka aasaan ho jaana?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ye aapki parvarish ki pariksha jaisa lagta hai #
Bachche ka homework par “na” aam taur par thakaan, oob ya atakne ki baat hota hai. Maa-baap ko ye poore paalan-poshan par faisle jaisa lag sakta hai. Isi faasle ki wajah se ek worksheet poore bhavishya ka bojh uthati-si lagti hai.
Homework wahan baitha hai jahan school, ghar aur ummeedein milti hain, isliye usme sirf sawaal nahi hote. Kai maa-baap ke liye sheet par khinchtaan chupke se har us sawaal ki jagah le leti hai ki bachcha aage theek rahega ya nahi, aur uske liye kaafi kiya ja raha hai ya nahi.
Tulna bhi hai: class group jisme doosre maa-baap poore project ki photo daalte hain, koi rishtedaar jo apne bachche ke number batata hai.
Homework khulte waqt aapke aur bachche ke alawa kamre mein aur kiski awaaz hoti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab shaam aapko number dene lage #
Aisi kai shaamon ke baad ek awaaz aap par number lagane lagti hai. “Baaki maa-baap ye sambhal lete hain.” “Phir chilla diya.” “Ye peeche reh gaya to mere sir.” School ka bag khulte hi ye chalu ho sakti hai.
Bachcha nashte tak jhagda bhool chuka ho, toast par hanste hue, par wo vaakya aapke sir mein chalta rehta hai. Kuch waqt baad ye chinta nahi rehta, maa-baap ke roop mein aap kaisa kar rahe hain, uski sahi report jaisa lagne lagta hai.
Jab ye aapko number deti hai, to kiski awaaz mein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki apni, ya wo jo kabhi kisi table par aapke baghal mein baithkar har sawaal jaanchti thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Bahuton ke liye homework gambheer mamla tha #
Bahut se maa-baap aise gharon mein bade hue jahan padhai pehle aati thi aur numbers ki baat khaane ki table par hoti thi. Kuch ko yaad hai ki har sawaal sahi hone tak baithe rehna padta tha, aur report card ghar aane par raahat ya dhukdhuki.
Gharon ne padhai ko asli wajahon se pakad kar rakha: achhi naukri, pakki zindagi, mushkil saalon se nikalne ka raasta, aur wajahein ghar-ghar alag hain. Bachcha isse chupchaap ye nateeja nikal sakta hai ki achhi shaam wo hai jisme kaam poora ho, aur parwah nateejon mein dikhti hai.
Jis ghar mein aap bade hue, wahan homework ki shaamein kaisi thin?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kaun saath baithta tha, aur kitaab band hone par aapko kya lagta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Ek chup niyam jis par shayad aap chal rahe hain #
Neeche ek niyam ban sakta hai: “Aaj ki shaam bigdi to bachche ka nuqsaan mere sir.” Kuch maa-baap iska vyaavahaarik-sa roop dhote hain: “Har shaam theek chalni chahiye, warna bachcha peeche reh jayega.”
Aise niyam niyam jaise lagte hi nahi. Wo bas zimmedar maa-baap hone jaise lagte hain, isiliye un par sawaal uthana mushkil hai, aur isiliye kisi shaant shaam mein unhein pyaar se dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko apne school ke saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai: agar ek shaam poore bhavishya ka faisla kare to har shaam imtihaan ban jaati hai.
Ye kin shaamon mein ab bhi fit baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Ghar mein is niyam ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai ghadi dekhte hue beeti raatein, kitaabein jitni kisi ne kaha usse zyada jaanchi gayin, aur sone ke waqt dono taraf aansu. Kuch maa-baap ko shaam ka maza hi aana band ho jaata hai, kyunki wo saath bitaya waqt nahi, nipatayi jaane wali shift ban gayi.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Jab har shaam imtihaan hai, to achhe pal bina pehchane nikal jaate hain: lunch mein dost ke baare mein mazedaar kissa, taaron ke baare mein koi sawaal, darwaze par gale lagna. Wo hote hain, par mann worksheet par hota hai.
Kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Bachche ka poora bhavishya ek shaam mein dhona thaka deta hai.
Pichhle mahine mein iski keemat kya rahi: koi hansi jo chhooti, koi shaam jo achhi bitani thi, koi sone ka waqt jo ummeed se shaant beeta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, school ki raaton ki khinchtaan #
Kisi aam school ki raat ki tasveer banaiye, us shaam ki jab “Aaj ki shaam bigdi to bachche ka nuqsaan mere sir” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad ek aankh ghadi par rakhkar nipatayi gayi raat, do baar jaanchi gayi worksheet, aapke ghuste hi shuru hui mobile ki behes, maafi par khatam hua sone ka waqt. Shayad ek bachcha jo bag tabhi nikalna seekhta hai jab kaha jaye.
Yahan kisi cheez ka abhi jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer ko jab chahein neeche rakha ja sakta hai.
Usme kya hai: ghadi, kitaabein, awaazein, beech ke pal?Is par baat kijiye ›
Use dekhte hue, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ek sheet, ek bachpan ke saamne #
Aadhi chhooti worksheet hazaaron shaamon mein se ek shaam hai. Bachche saalon mein seekhte hain, aur homework se bahut zyada se: kahani sunkar, sune jaakar, ek surakshit kamre mein galti karne ki chhoot paakar.
Aam taur par kuch chhota: ek number, teacher ki ek note, kuch sawaal dobara karne ko. Chhoti, thos cheez ko pakadna poore bhavishya, ya aap par, ek faisle se kahin aasaan hai.
Poochiye: aaj ki sheet asal mein kya tay karti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek aur raasta: agar koi dost aapko theek yahi shaam bataye, aansu, ooncha awaaz, adhoore sawaal, to aap usse kya kehna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya kahenge ki usne apne bachche ko nakaam kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par maa-baap ko kya dikhta hai #
Jab maa-baap shaam ko dheere-dheere dohrate hain, to kuch ko dikhta hai ki jhagda shayad hi homework par tha. Wo do thake hue log the, lambe din ke aakhir mein, dono wahi chahte hue: ki shaam jitni nikli usse aasaan nikle.
Kuch ko wo shaamein dikhti hain jo theek beeti aur bhula di gayin: jis raat spelling das minute mein ho gayi, jab kisi ne sawaal samjhakar garv se lautaya. Mushkil wali shaam zor se bole, to inhein ginta hi nahi jaata.
Kaun si aasaan shaamein sabse pehle yaad aati hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Unmein alag kya tha: waqt, mood, kaun kahan baitha tha, ya bas sab kitne thake the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Har shaam jeetna zaroori nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye nahi ki homework maayne nahi rakhta, ya chillana theek laga. Matlab ye ki ek shaam ka is par kam chale ki aap khud ko maa-baap ke roop mein kaise dekhte hain, aur bachche ko kaise dekhte hain.
Kuch maa-baap ko halka lagta hai jab har shaam ko jeetne wali ladai maanna chhod dete hain. Sheet subah poori ho sakti hai, ya nahi bhi, aur bachcha phir bhi ye jaante hue so sakta hai ki use pyaar milta hai.
Kaisa lagega agar aaj ki shaam bahut shaamon mein ek shaam rahe, aur kitaab tab band ho jab kamre mein ab bhi thodi garmaahat bachi ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “Aaj ki shaam bigdi to bachche ka nuqsaan mere sir” kuch samay se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe ladne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch maa-baap iski jagah ek sachcha vaakya taiyaar rakhte hain: “Ek mushkil shaam bas ek mushkil shaam hai. Parwah meri ab bhi wahi hai.”
Iska abhi sach lagna zaroori nahi. Bas purane wale se zyada sateek hona chahiye, aur kuch maa-baap paate hain ki raat ko darwaze par chupchaap kehne par purane niyam ki jagah mein se kuch bhar jaata hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo mushkil shaamon ke baare mein imaandaar ho par beech ke saare aam pyaar ko bhoole nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch baatein bas neeche rakhi ja sakti hain #
Har shaam ko sudharne, dohrane ya kal ke liye behtar yojana banane ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise school ka bag aakhir mein zip karke darwaze ke paas rakh dete hain.
Ye unki padhai chhod dena nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki aaj raat urja kahan jaye, aur kuch maa-baap kehte hain isse utni hi zaroori cheezon ke liye jagah bachti hai: ek kahani, koi betuka gaana, sone se pehle saath ke kuch shaant minute.
Raat bhar ke liye ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo sahi tha ya baat sulajh gayi. Bas itna ki padhne ki table se nikalkar baaki har cheez mein ise saath jaana zaroori nahi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam ek darja bhi dheela ho #
Bas tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema hai. Homework ab bhi maayne rakhta hai, par ek shaam bas ek shaam hai, aap par ya bachche par faisla nahi.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: aadhi chhooti sheet par seene mein gaanth ki jagah ek kandhe uchkana, padhne ki table par ek joke, ya sone ki kahani jo waqt par shuru hui kyunki sawaal intezaar kar sakte the.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne laayak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo maa-baap aazmate hain #
- Bag khulne se pehle ek lambi saans lijiye aur kandhe dheele chhodiye
- Jab awaaz chadhne lage, paanch second rukiye
- Chupchaap khud se poochiye: aaj ki sheet asal mein kya tay karti hai?
- Sone se pehle shaam ka ek achha pal yaad kijiye, chahe kitna chhota
- Jawab dene se pehle hatheli table par rakhkar use mehsoos kijiye
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Us shaam ke shuru hone se pehle aap sabse zyada kya chahte the?
- Homework nikalte waqt aapke sir mein kiski awaaz hoti hai?
- Jab aap chhote the, tab homework ki shaamein kaisi hoti thin?
- Jis aam din ye niyam zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar ye thoda halka ho, to aapko sabse pehle kya dikhega?