Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Credit mein team ka hissa hone ka ek dheema sandesh bhi hai: ye aapne banaya, ise dekha gaya, ye ginti mein aata hai.
Kuch logon mein ye school se shuru hui: group project jisme chart paper par bas ek naam gaya, ya Hindi wale Sir jinhone class mein copy padhkar bataya ki kiski hai.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Achha kaam boss khud ginayega,” ya “Kaam achha hoga toh apne aap dikh jayega, batana nahi padega.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Har cheez ke pehle panne par taareekh aur apna naam daal dena
- Meeting ke baad follow-up email bhejna, taaki ladi mein dikhe kisne kya kiya
- Kamre mein chup rehna, aur poori shaam use dobara chalana
- Koi khayal tab tak roke rakhna jab tak poori tarah taiyaar na ho jaye
- Har presentation mein pehle hi apna hissa khojna, ki kab aayega
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Badi screen par aapki slides
Patna, Boring Road ka office. Somvar ka review. Do der raaton mein banayi gayi slides badi screen par chal rahi hain. Aapke manager poore aaraam se sabko samjha rahe hain, kamra sir hila raha hai. Koi manager se kehta hai “Bahut badhiya kaam”, aapse nahi. Pehle panne par aapka naam nahi. Aap muskurate ho, notes lete ho, par seene mein kuch chup ho jaata hai, aur meeting door ki awaaz lagti hai.
Sabko pata hona chahiye, ye mera tha
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Boss sahi hota toh sabko pata hota ki ye mera kaam hai.” Ye seedhe insaaf jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye kya karta hai: aapke kaam ki keemat ek aadmi ki yaad aur ek aadmi ke shabdon ke hawale kar deta hai. Kaam gina jayega ya nahi, ye us meeting par tik jaata hai jo aap nahi chalate, us din jab boss jaldi mein hon ya das aur baaton mein uljhe hon.
Mehnat ka dikhna kyun matlab rakhta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki mehnat ke liye dekha jaana matlab rakhta hai. Shayad kabhi Hindi wale Sir ne aapki copy class mein padhkar sunayi aur aap din bhar unche chalte rahe. Shayad ghar mein number toh dikhe, par unke peeche ki raatein kisi ne nahi dekhin. Dono haal mein kaam ke saath apna naam chahna ghamand nahi hai. Ye matlab rakhne ki chaah se aata hai, aur use narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Khisakta hua garv
Har baar jab credit kahin aur jaata hai, kamaya hua thoda garv khisak jaata hai. Aap slides aur der raaton ka chupchaap hisaab rakhne lagte ho. Lautte hue meeting dohrate ho. Apne sabse achhe khayal rok lete ho, aadha sochte ki wo kiske naam se niklenge. Guruvar ko jis kaam par garv tha, Somvar tak bhaari lagta hai, aur shaamein office ki hone lagti hain.
Kya credit ke peeche bhaagna theek hai?
Khud se sach-sach poochhiye: kya is hisaab ne kabhi credit wapas dilaya? Ya zyada-tar kasa hua jabda aur bechain shaam di? Shayad aapke manager bas bhool gaye, ya aapka zikr un kamron mein karte hain jo aap kabhi nahi dekhte. Jo bhi ho, ek meeting ke shabd aapki kaabiliyat ka paimana nahi hain. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna, isse milne wale se zyada leta hai.
Apna banaya hua jaanna
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki sahi credit ki parwah khatam. Matlab ye ki aapke kaam ki keemat ab kisi aur ke elaan ka intezaar nahi karti. Aapko pata hai aapne kya banaya. Us par pehle, poore dil se, kisi bhi meeting se pehle garv kiya ja sakta hai. Aur jab credit aaye, toh wo bonus hai, faisla nahi. Isi tarah aapki shaamein, aur aapka chupchaap garv, aapke paas laut sakte hain.
Being harassed, humiliated or frightened at work, or having pay or papers held back, is something else, and worth taking seriously; staying careful can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleBoss ko pakka karna chahiye ki sabko pata ho ye mera tha.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMujhe pata hai maine kya banaya. Unka credit bonus hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Is hafte ka ek kaam sochiye jis par aapko garv hai
- Din 2
Meeting raat ko dohraye, toh koi ek pasand ki cheez kijiye
- Din 3
Is hafte kaam ka ek achha pal gaur se dekhiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aapke kaam ka naam aakhri baar theek se kab liya gaya, aur kaisa laga?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Screen par aapka page, kisi aur ka naam #
“Boss ko mere kaam ka credit dena chahiye.” Ye tab aati hai jab meeting ki screen par wo deck chale jiske beech mein aapka banaya page ho aur neeche sirf team ka naam. Ya jab email ki ladi “Poori team ka shukriya” par khatam ho jaye.
Kuch logon ke liye baat taareef ki kam aur kaam ke apna rehne ki zyada hoti hai. Spreadsheet par beeti shaam, Itwaar ko mili gadbad ka hal, ek khayal jo plan ban gaya: chaah yahi hai ki jisne kiya, usi ka naam aaye.
Koi aisa waqt yaad kijiye jab aapka kaam doosron ko dikhaya gaya.
Naam kiska tha, aur use dekhkar sharir mein kya hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Chehre ki garmi, seene ka khokhlapan #
Kuch logon ko aapka page kisi aur ke naam se khulte hi chehre par jhat se garmi lagti hai, ya seene mein ek khaalipan jab meeting bas aage badh jaati hai. Soch baad mein aati hai, ghar lautte hue.
Sharir kisi vaakya se pehle bol deta hai: ruki hui saans, pen do baar thakthakana, haath ka notes app kholkar taareekh likh lena. Ye tez aur sharirik hai, aur abhi kuch karne ki baat nahi karta.
Pichhli baar jab aapka kaam bina aapke naam ke aage badha, toh kisi bhi khayal se pehle aapne sabse pehle kya feel kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Naam ke peeche ki mehnat #
Credit chahne ki ek jaayaz wajah hai. Kaam mein wo ghante lagte hain jo koi aur nahi dekhta, aur uske paas likha naam hi un ghanton ko aisi cheez banata hai jiski taraf log ishaara kar sakein. Ise chahna kaam ki parwah karne ka hi ek tareeka hai.
Credit mein team ka hissa hone ka ek dheema sandesh bhi hai: ye aapne banaya, ise dekha gaya, ye ginti mein aata hai. Jab wo sandesh nahi aata, toh achha kaam aisa lag sakta hai jaise imaarat ne khud bana diya ho.
Pichhle kuch mahino mein aapne kya banaya jiske saath apna naam sabse zyada dekhna chahenge, aur kya use aapka banata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Meeting ke baad ki awaaz #
“Wo mera page tha.” “Dekhne wale sab jaante hain, kiska tha.” “Mehnat hamari, wahwahi sahab ki.” “Agli baar ya toh mere naam se jayega, ya jayega hi nahi.” Kursiyan khiskate hue, meeting khatam hote hi ye awaaz chal padti hai.
Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki is awaaz mein do alag chaahein hain: ek chahti hai record sahi ho, doosri chahti hai koi seedhe kahe ki kaam achha tha. Ye ek chaah nahi hain, aur dono jaayaz hain.
Meeting ke baad ye awaaz kis line par sabse zyada lautti hai, aur neeche wo maang kya rahi hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Apne naam ki chaah kahan se aayi #
Kuch logon mein ye school se shuru hui: group project jisme chart paper par bas ek naam gaya, ya Hindi wale Sir jinhone class mein copy padhkar bataya ki kiski hai. Kaam ke liye naam se pukara jaana insaaf jaisa hi lag sakta hai.
Kuch ke liye ye ghar mein kisi apne ko kadi mehnat karte dekhne se aayi, aisi job mein jahan kisi cheez par uska naam nahi jaata tha, aur phir apne kaam ki pehchaan ka irada bana. Kuch log ise yahan se jodte hain, kuch ko koi ek pal nahi milta.
Kisne sabse pehle pakka kiya ki aapke banaye hue par aapka naam jaye, aur use wahan dekhkar kaisa laga tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Bina kahe naam milne ka niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Achha kaam boss khud ginayega,” ya “Kaam achha hoga toh apne aap dikh jayega, batana nahi padega.” Upar ka vaakya aasaani se sunayi deta hai; har presentation kaise padhi jaye, ye niyam tay karta hai.
Aisa niyam aksar kisi cheez se bana hota hai jo ek baar kaam kar gayi: koi manager jo har yogdaan karne wale ka naam leta tha, ya koi school jahan sabse achha jawab padhkar sunaya jaata tha. Seekhne layak samajhdaar niyam tha, aur use aaj ke is office ke bagal mein rakhkar dekha ja sakta hai.
Office ke kin kamron mein ye niyam ab bhi waisa hi nikalta hai, aur kinmein naam lene ka dhang alag hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Bina naam ka kaam kya le jaata hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai kaam ke baad ek ghanta jo meeting ko dobara khangalne mein gaya, koi achha khayal jo doosre din ke liye diary mein rakha reh gaya, ya chhati kaskar dekhi gayi presentation jisme kaam par koi garv nahi bacha.
Ye kaam ke ehsaas ko bhi badal sakta hai. Jab har kaam ko isse napa jane lage ki uska naam aayega ya nahi, toh banane ki khushi patli pad jaati hai, aur dhyaan mein aana ek doosri job ban jaata hai.
Pichhle saal kaun sa kaam karke aapko sabse zyada maza aaya, chahe us par naam kisi ka bhi gaya ho, aur usme kya achha laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, isi niyam ke saath #
Ek aam Guruvar chaliye jisme “Boss ko mere kaam ka credit dena chahiye” sabse zor se baj rahi ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai.
Shayad ek deck jo aapke section ko beech mein rakhkar judta hai, ek all-hands jisme pehchana hua khayal kisi aur ke naam se rakha jaata hai, kaam ke baad ka ek ghanta notes mein juda hua.
Yahan suljhane ko kuch nahi; tasveer jab chahein alag rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usme kya hai: slides, badhaiyon ki ladi, apne record ke liye rakhe notes, aur baad ke liye bachaya khayal?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din kya ho jaata hai, aur kya chhoot jaata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhkar aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Credit ek hi cheez nahi #
Credit ek cheez nahi hai. Wo slide par naam ho sakta hai, team ke saamne shukriya, review mein ek line, agli baar bada project, ya galiyare mein chupchaap ek baat. Alag-alag office inmein se alag cheezein dete hain.
Kuch boss zor se naam lete hain, kuch kam bolte hain par mushkil project aapko saunp dete hain, aur kuch credit aise dete hain jo bheetar se aasaani se chhoot jaata hai. Inmein se koi bhi tareeka ye nahi batata ki kaam kitna achha tha.
Agar credit ko aam hafte mein ek thos cheez banna ho, toh wo kya hogi: naam, ek vaakya, ya koi project?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jo pehle se maujood hai #
Jo credit kho gaya, uske saath paas se dekhne par shayad ye bhi dikhe ki kaam aur aaspaas ke logon se pehle se kya mil raha hai: koi saathi jisne achhi khabar mein aapko copy kiya, koi der se aaya shukriya, koi kaam jis par chupchaap garv hota hai.
Inhe naam dene se khoya hua naam theek nahi ho jaata, aur chaah jaayaz bani rehti hai. Ek garm pal aur ek chubhta pal ek hi din ek hi mez par reh sakte hain, aur dono jo hain wahi reh sakte hain.
Bina dikhane layak kuch wala din bhi theek hai.
Kisi aam hafte mein aapke kaam ne, ya uske paas kisi ne, aapko kya diya hai jise aap thoda aur saaf dekhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Naam par pakad dheeli karna #
Yahan shaanti ka matlab ye faisla nahi ki chaah bahut badi thi, ya bilkul sahi. Matlab ye ki kis cheez par kiska naam hai, ye sawaal poore hafte par raaj karna band kar de. Record rakha ja sakta hai; bas wo ghar tak peecha nahi karta.
Jab boss, client ya koi saathi aapko dhamkaye, pareshaan kare ya beizzat kare, ya aap jo hain uski wajah se alag kare (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi disability ya aap kahan se aaye hain), toh wo dheeli padti chaah se bilkul alag baat hai.
Yahi baat bina paise ke kaam, roki gayi tankhwah ya kaagzaat, asurakshit kaam, ya darr feel karne par bhi lagu hoti hai. Ise gambhirta se lena zaroori hai; chupchaap chalna ya saavdhan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Kaam ki jagah par buniyadi izzat aur suraksha maangna kabhi zyada nahi hota, aapke liye bhi aur aapke aaspaas ke logon ke liye bhi.
Ek aise din ki tasveer banaiye jisme kaam achha hua aur usme maza aaya: meeting ke baad ka pehla ghanta aap kaise bitayenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Credit ke liye apna vaakya #
“Boss ko mere kaam ka credit dena chahiye” se bhidne ki jagah kuch log aisa vaakya aazmate hain: “Maine ye banaya hai, aur naam chahe kahin bhi jaye, ye baat sach rehti hai.” Ise jeetna zaroori nahi; ye purani line ke bagal mein reh sakta hai.
Apna vaakya shuru mein udhaar ka lag sakta hai aur phir jaana-pehchana ho sakta hai, ya kabhi poori tarah fit nahi baithta. Dono theek hain, aur kisi aur din koi doosra aazmaya ja sakta hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein aisa sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo chaah ke baare mein imaandaar ho aur jise saabit karne ko kisi slide ki zaroorat na pade?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Har baat ka faisla Shukravar tak nahi #
Har cheez ka faisla Shukravar tak zaroori nahi. Kuch baat ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek minute feel kiya ja sakta hai aur band kiya ja sakta hai, jaise din ke aakhir mein save ki gayi file jo Somvar tak padi rahe.
Ho sakta hai koi office credit us tarah na baante jaisa aap sochte ho, aur isse chaah bewakoofi nahi ho jaati; wo ek sachchi chaah rehti hai. Kaam par pareshaan kiya jaana, beizzat hona ya darr feel karna, chahe boss se ho ya kisi aur se, kuch aur hai, aur gambhirta se lene layak hai.
Aaj raat ise alag rakhne se ye sahi nahi ho jaata, aur suljh bhi nahi jaata. Bas itna ki office ka din poora aapke saath ghar nahi aana hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar chaah zara dheemi ho #
Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki credit ki chaah ek darja dheemi hai. Wo ab bhi hai, par all-hands poori shaam nahi le jaata. Aapka khayal rakha jaata hai, aap use note kar lete ho, aur likh lete ho ki aage kya banana hai.
Ye itna chhota ho sakta hai: notes app band rakhkar dekhi gayi presentation, maze ke liye shuru kiya gaya koi project, achha kaam jiska anand usi ke liye liya gaya.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai. Aage, is chaah ke saath shaant hone ka matlab, aur jo pehle se maujood hai, us par ek nazar.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Jab koi page screen par aaye, pehle apne mann mein dekhiye aap use kya samajhte ho
- Kaam ka wo hissa chupchaap, ek vaakya mein naam dijiye jo aapka tha
- Dekhiye aaj kaun sa tez hai: naam ki chaah, ya ye sunne ki chaah ki achha tha
- Us kaam ko ek saal baad sochiye, slide par jo bhi likha ho, wo aapka hi hai
- Is hafte ki ek chhoti jeet chuniye, jo apne liye yaad rakhni hai
Shaant, mann hi mann aur apni marzi se. Jo jamche, wo lijiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aapke kaam ka naam aakhri baar theek se kab liya gaya, aur kaisa laga?
- Kaam ki zindagi mein kisne aapko achhe se credit diya, aur usne kya kiya?
- Aapke kaam ka kaun sa hissa aapko sabse zyada garv deta hai, chahe aur kisi ko pata ho ya na ho?
- Agar apne kaam ke saath apna naam dekhne ki chaah thodi halki ho, toh sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?
- Aam kaam ke hafte mein kaun si ek chhoti achhi cheez pehle se hai jise aap aur dekhna chahenge?