Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Bharosa apnepan ke baare mein bhi kuch kehta hai: ki aapko isliye rakha gaya kyunki aap ye kaam kar sakte the, aur ye baat maani gayi hai.
Kuch logon mein ye us teacher se shuru hui jisne class ki almari ki chaabi saunpi aur chali gayin, ya us Nani se jinhone bachche ko pehli roti belne di, ya Papa se jinhone asli paise dekar kirane bheja.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Mera kaam achha hai to kisi ko jaanchne ki zaroorat nahi padegi,” ya “Bharosa yaani chain se kaam karne dena.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Sawaal se bachne ke liye boss ko har cheez mein CC kar dena
- Poochhe jaane se pehle hi update bhej dena
- Har cheez ko zaroorat se kahin zyada der tak dobara jaanchna
- Agle check-in se aage rehne ki jaldi mein kaam karna
- Meeting mein chup rehna, taaki kuch aur nigraani na bulaye
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Das baje tak dobara likhi summary
Ahmedabad mein Tuesday ki subah. Report aapne time par bheji, do baar jaanchkar. Das baje tak boss ne aapki summary dobara likh di hai aur client ko jaane wale har email mein khud ko CC kar liya hai. “Bas nazar rakh rahe hain,” wo kehte hain. Aap muskuraakar “Ji” kehte hain. Phir poori dopahar apna hi kaam dobara padhte hain, sochte hue ki kya galat hua, aur un cheezon par shak karte hue jo barson se achhi ki hain.
Unhein aap par yakeen hona chahiye
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Boss ko mere kaam par bharosa hona chahiye.” Ye kisi ke bhi maangne laayak sabse kam cheez lagti hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapka aatmavishwas kisi aur ki aadaton ke hawale kar deta hai. Har check-in ek faisla ban jaata hai, har sudhaar aapke khilaaf ek nishaan. Aur aap kitne qaabil mehsoos karte hain, ye ab is par tika hai ki ek insaan kitni baareeki se dekhne ka faisla karta hai.
Bharosa izzat jaisa kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki bharosa izzat jaisa lagta hai. Shayad aapne yahan tak pahunchne ke liye bahut mehnat ki hai aur chahte hain ki wo dikhe. Shayad kisi teacher ne kabhi class ki chaabi saunpi aur chali gayin, aur aap aasmaan chhune lage. Jo bhi ho, bharosa chahna ghamand nahi hai. Wo is chaah se aata hai ki daftar mein jiski raay sabse zyada maayne rakhti hai, wo aapka hunar pehchaane. Use narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Achhe kaam par bhi shak
Har extra jaanch aapke aatmavishwas ko thoda kutarti hai. Aap us kaam par shak karne lagte hain jise aap jaante hain achha hai. Nahaate hue apne update ki rehearsal karte hain. Bhejne se pehle email chaar baar padhte hain. Shaamein din ko dohrane mein bhar jaati hain. Aur apne kaam mein achhe hone ka ehsaas aapke saamne ke kaam mein nahi, kisi aur ki aadaton mein atak jaata hai.
Kya bharose ki raah dekhna theek?
Imaandaari se khud se poochhiye: kya khud par shak karne se boss ne kabhi kam jaancha? Ya zyadatar kaam ka mazaa lena hi mushkil hua? Kuch manager sabko kareeb se jaanchte hain, aur baareek nazar unke apne dabaav ke baare mein aapse zyada keh sakti hai; unke siwa koi nahi jaanta. Jo bhi ho, unki jaanch aapki qaabiliyat ka paimana nahi. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna aapko deta kam hai, leta zyada.
Pata hai ki kaam aapko aata hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aap bharosa chahna band kar dein. Matlab ye ki aapka aatmavishwas ab unki manzoori ka intezaar nahi karta. Aap jaante hain ki kaun-si reports aapne likhin aur kaun-si mushkilein sulajhayin. Aap sudhaar le sakte hain, jo kaam ka hai rakh sakte hain, aur shak desk par chhod sakte hain. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: qaabil hone ka ehsaas aapka hai, unke inbox ka nahi.
If anyone at work threatens you, singles you out for who you are, or watches or tracks you beyond what the work needs, that is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleBoss ko mere kaam par bharosa hona chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMujhe apna kaam aata hai, jaanch ho tab bhi.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Aaj ke kaam ki ek cheez yaad kijiye jo aapne achhi ki
- Din 2
Jab kaam jaancha jaye, khud ko yaad dilaiye ki aap kya kar sakte hain
- Din 3
Aaj raat kaam dimaag mein bhara ho to ek pasand ka kaam kijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kisne aakhri baar aap par kuch chhoda aur khud peechhe hat gaya?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Har baat mein CC #
“Boss ko mere kaam par bharosa hona chahiye.” Ye khayal tab aata hai jab adhoore kaam par “Bas dekh rahe hain, kahan tak pahuncha?” aa jaye, jab boss ka naam har thread mein dikhe, ya jab poora kiya hua kaam chhoti-chhoti sudhaaron ki list ke saath laute.
Kuch logon ke liye chaah ye hoti hai ki unki qaabiliyat ko maan liya jaye, taaki din bina phir se saabit kiye shuru ho sake. Baar-baar poochhtaachh har kaam par tanga hua ek sawaal lag sakti hai.
Koi aisa kaam yaad kijiye jo aapne achhe se kiya aur jise kisi ne nahi jaancha.
Us par kaam karna kaisa laga tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Update maange jaane par kasaav #
Kuch logon ke kandhe akad jaate hain jab update maangta message aaye, chahe wo vinamr hi kyun na ho. Body aise jawab de sakti hai jaise poochha gaya ho ki kaam kaafi achha hai bhi ya nahi.
Pehli pratikriya aksar shaaririk hoti hai: tez dhadkan, screen par haath ka parda, kaam ko aur saaf-suthra dikhane ki hadbadi. Bharose aur insaaf ke khayal baad mein aate hain.
Pichhli baar jab aapse update maanga gaya, to jawab dene se pehle aapki body ne sabse pehle kya feel kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Wo bharosa jo pehle se ho #
Ise chahne ki achhi wajah hai. Kaam tab behtar hota hai jab insaan kaam par dhyaan de sake, is par nahi ki wo kaise liya jayega. Bharosa sochne ki jagah deta hai, kuch aazmane ki, aur chupchaap theek karne ki.
Bharosa apnepan ke baare mein bhi kuch kehta hai: ki aapko isliye rakha gaya kyunki aap ye kaam kar sakte the, aur ye baat maani gayi hai. Jab us par shak lage, to chhote kaam bhi extra bhaari lagne lagte hain.
Aapke kaam ka kaun-sa hissa hai jiske baare mein aap poori tarah pakke hain, aur wo pakkapan kaisa lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jise faisla sunayi deta hai #
“Inhein lagta hai mujhse nahi hoga.” “Bharosa hota to dobara na poochhte.” “Ek aakhri update, phir chain.” Ye awaaz ek check-in aur agle ke beech ke minuton mein bolti hai.
Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki awaaz har check-in ko qaabiliyat par bayaan ki tarah padhti hai, jabki check-in kai jagahon se aa sakta hai. Wo chhote sawaal mein bada sawaal sun leti hai.
Jab awaaz check-in mein faisla sunti hai, to theek kya kehti hai, aur kitne yakeen se kehti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Bharosa paana pehli baar kahan achha laga #
Kuch logon mein ye us teacher se shuru hui jisne class ki almari ki chaabi saunpi aur chali gayin, ya us Nani se jinhone bachche ko pehli roti belne di, ya Papa se jinhone asli paise dekar kirane bheja. Kisi asli cheez par bharosa kiya jaana der tak yaad rehta hai.
Kuch mein ye ulte se aayi, us waqt se jab baar-baar jaanch hoti thi aur mann chahta tha ki band ho. Kuch ise aisi kisi yaad tak le jaate hain; kuch ko koi ek srot nahi milta.
Aap par pehli baar kisi zaroori cheez ka bharosa kab kiya gaya, aur use uthana kaisa laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Yakeen kiye jaane ka niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Mera kaam achha hai to kisi ko jaanchne ki zaroorat nahi padegi,” ya “Bharosa yaani chain se kaam karne dena.” Oopar ka vaakya aasaani se sunayi deta hai; niyam tay karta hai ki har message ko kaise padha jaye.
Aisa niyam aksar chain se kaam kar paane ke kisi achhe anubhav se aata hai. Seekhne laayak niyam hai, aur use is boss aur is team ke saath dekha ja sakta hai, jahan aadatein alag ho sakti hain.
Aaj aapke kaam mein ye niyam kahan baithta hai, aur kahan aapka kaam doosron ke dekh lene par tika hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Shak ki nazar ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai do baar kiye gaye kaam, zyadatar bas suraksha ke liye, kaam ke oopar se bheje gaye update, ya us din ke aakhir mein aayi thakaan jo kaam karne aur use dikhane mein beeta. Ye chhoti keematein dohrayi jaati hain.
Ye insaan ki aazmane ki ichchha ko bhi badal sakta hai. Jab har kadam dekha ja raha ho, to naya tareeka aazmana jokhim lagne lagta hai, aur kaam usi tak simat sakta hai jis par sawaal aane ki gunjaaish sabse kam ho.
Pichhle mahine mein, kaun-sa kaam aapne kaam ke hisaab se nahi, check-in ke hisaab se dhaala?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Unhein CC karte hue paanch aur baras #
Ek aam Tuesday se guzariye, jab “Boss ko mere kaam par bharosa hona chahiye” sabse oonchi awaaz ho.
Shayad ek report jo extra note ke saath gayi, ek meeting jisme awaaz chup rahi, ek chhoti baat par sudhaar, ek shaam jo ek line dohrate beeti.
Koi jawab zaroori nahi, aur tasveer jab chahein wapas daraaz mein rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usmein kya hai: har message par boss wala thread, poochhe jaane se pehle bheja update, do baar jaancha gaya kaam?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din kya hua, aur kya alag rakha gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhkar, agar kuch, toh aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Jaanch ke kai srot hote hain #
Check-in kai jagahon se aa sakta hai: aise boss se jin par apni deadline hai, office ki reporting wali aadat se, ya aise naye project se jo pehle kisi ne kiya nahi. Wahi message alag matlab rakh sakta hai.
Isse wo kam thakane wala nahi ho jaata. Bas itna ki koi kitni baar jaanchta hai aur wo kisi ke hunar par kitna bharosa karta hai, ye do alag baatein hain, aur pehli se doosri hamesha pata nahi chalti.
Agar bharose ko agle mahine ek chhoti cheez ki tarah dikhna ho, to aap sabse zyada kya dekhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jo pehle se maujood hai #
Jis bharose ki aapko ummeed thi, uske saath-saath ek garam nazar wo bhi dekh sakti hai jo kaam pehle hi dikha chuka hai: poora saunpa gaya task, saathi ka aapse salaah maangna, ek kaam jo bina kisi sudhaar ke poora hua, ek hunar jo aap haathon mein mehsoos karte hain.
Inhein dekhna check-in ko theek nahi banata, aur bharosa paane ki chaah jaayaz bani rehti hai. Bharose ka asli tukda aur nigraani ka asli ehsaas ek hi hafte mein reh sakte hain, aur kisi ko tark se hatana zaroori nahi.
Ek aam hafte mein, office mein ya bahar kisi ne aapko pehle se kya diya hai jise aap aur saaf dekhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Bina darshakon ke kaam karna #
Sulah ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki chaah bahut badi thi, ya theek waisi hi thi. Matlab ye ki check-in roz aapki keemat ka paimana nahi rehte. Chaah mein jo jaayaz hai wo reh sakta hai, aur pakad dheeli ho sakti hai.
Agar office mein aapko dhamkaya, pareshaan kiya ya beizzat kiya ja raha ho, boss ya kisi aur ki or se, ya is wajah se alag nishaana banaya ja raha ho ki aap kaun hain (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi viklangta, ya kahan se hain), to wo alag baat hai, aur gambhirta se lene laayak hai.
Bina paise ka kaam, roki gayi tankhwaah ya kaagzaat, asurakshit kaam, ya darr lagna bhi waisa hi hai; saavdhaan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai. Kaam ki zaroorat se zyada aap par nazar rakhi jaana ya aapko track kiya jaana, chahe aapke apne phone par ya office ke ghanton ke bahar, ye bhi alag baat hai.
Office mein buniyaadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi, aapke liye bhi aur aaspaas ke logon ke liye bhi.
Is chaah se sulah wali ek kaam-kaaji subah ki kalpana kijiye: jo waqt update mein jaata tha, usmein aap kya karenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Check-in ke liye ek line #
“Boss ko mere kaam par bharosa hona chahiye” se behas karne ke bajaay kuch log ye line aazmate hain: “Mujhe ye kaam aata hai, aur ek check-in se tay nahi hota ki mere haath se kya ho sakta hai.” Ye purani line ke bagal mein reh sakti hai.
Aisi line shuru mein udhaar ki lagti hai, phir jaani-pehchani ho jaati hai. Kuch ke liye kabhi fit nahi baithti, aur kisi aur din koi doosri aazmayi ja sakti hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo chaah ko pakde rahe, par har check-in ke rukne ki zaroorat na rakhe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch baatein thread se bahar reh sakti hain #
Har check-in ko faisla nahi chahiye. Use dekha ja sakta hai, ek minute feel kiya ja sakta hai, aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise agli subah tak inbox mein chhoda gaya message.
Bharosa paane ki chaah ko chup rehne aur sachchi rehne ki chhoot hai. Agar office mein koi dhamkaye, aapki pehchaan ki wajah se nishaana banaye, ya zaroorat se zyada aap par nazar rakhe ya track kare, to wo alag baat hai, aur gambhirta se lene laayak hai; saavdhaan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Shaam ke liye ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki sab aapke hisaab se tha, ya baat tay ho gayi. Bas itna ki office ka din poora-ka-poora ghar nahi aana hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar darshak ek darja kam hon #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki chaah ek darja shaant hai. Wo ab bhi hai. Aap ek email bina CC wali line ke bhejte hain, aur agle kaam par badh jaate hain.
Kuch log chhoti cheezein sochte hain: check-in ki rehearsal kiye bina shuru hua kaam, shaanti se khaaya gaya lunch, kaam ka mazaa jo bante-bante aata hai.
Isme se kuch bhi kisi se kehna nahi hai. Jo bhi ubhre, wo aapka hai. Aage: is chaah se sulah ka kya matlab ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Apne kaam ki ek aisi cheez bataiye jo aapke hisaab se pakki hai
- Wo pal dekhiye jab check-in aata hai, aur uske baad awaaz ki sunayi kahani
- Ek poore hue kaam ki kalpana kijiye, jiska mazaa liya gaya aur jis par kisi ki nazar nahi thi
- Dekhiye din ka kaun-sa hissa poori tarah aapka hai
- Ek kaam chuniye jise bas achhe se karne ke sukh ke liye kijiye
Nijee, mann hi mann aur apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kisne aakhri baar aap par kuch chhoda aur khud peechhe hat gaya?
- Aapke kaam ka kaun-sa hissa aap sabse zyada pakka maante hain, aur use pakka kya banata hai?
- Kisne aapko koi hunar sikhaya aur phir peechhe hat gaya, aur wo kaisa raha?
- Agar bharosa paane ki chaah thodi dheeli ho, to aap sabse pehle kya notice karenge?
- Aapke kaam-kaaji hafte mein pehle se kaun-si chhoti achhi baat hai jise aap sabse zyada notice karna chahenge?