Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Duniya jab kathor lagti hai, toh wahi parwah bhaari tees ban sakti hai.
Kuch logon mein ye kisi narm dil nani ya dadi se aayi, jo har aane wale ko bina naam poochhe khana khila deti thi aur kabhi kada shabd nahi boli.
In shabdon ke neeche ek niyam rehta hai: “Logon ko ek-doosre ke saath achha hona chahiye,” ya “Main bhali neeyat rakhoon toh duniya ko bhi rakhni chahiye.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Har khabar padhna, jaankari rakhne ke liye, jab tak neend ka waqt na nikal jaye
- Krur comment ka jawab dena, aur baad mein aur bura lagna
- Kuch din kuch bhi padhna band kar dena
- Hisaab barabar karne ko zyada bhale kaam karna
- Kuch na kar paane ka ehsaas, aur phir us ehsaas par galti si lagna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Ek ghanta rukhi posts
Bhopal ki der shaam. Ek ghanta scroll karte beeta: gusse bhare comments, rukhi posts, log ajnabiyon se badtameezi karte hue. Pehle ek auto wale ne bewajah chillaya tha. Phone ulta karke mez par rakh dete ho aur khamosh rasoi mein baith jaate ho, thakaan aur logon se thodi maayusi ke saath, jaise duniya se bhalai gaayab ho rahi ho. Ye ehsaas soch se zyada der tikta hai.
Duniya itni kadvi na ho
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Duniya itni kadvi nahi honi chahiye.” Ye bilkul jaayaz lagta hai. Bhalai mein kuch kharch nahi hota. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har krur comment ko nijee bojh bana deta hai. Ajnabiyon ki badtameezi aap apne saath le chalne lagte ho, aur aapke apne din, jinmein achhe pal bhi ho sakte hain, us sab ke rang mein rang jaate hain jo aapne dekha.
Humein logon ki parwah kyun hai
Hum ise isliye thaamte hain kyunki humein logon ki parwah hai. Bahut log is niyam ka koi roop saath lekar bade hote hain, aur tab ye samajh mein bhi aata tha. Shayad aap khud bhalai karne ki poori koshish karte ho. Shayad aapko yahi sikhaya gaya ki bhalai toh aam baat honi chahiye. Behtar duniya chahna bholapan nahi hai. Ye ek achhe dil se aata hai. Wo narmi ka haqdaar hai, ilzaam ka nahi.
Har buri cheez ka wazan
Har buri cheez thoda wazan jodti hai. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par aap mehsoos karte ho. Dheere-dheere sab judta jaata hai. Scroll badhta hai, phir bura lagta hai. Ajnabiyon se sabse bure ki ummeed hone lagti hai. Thakaan aur chidchidahat rehti hai. Aas-paas ki bhalai nazar nahi aati, aur logon ke baare mein ek bhaari, chup udaasi aam dino mein saath chalti hai.
Kya sab dhona theek hai?
Imaandaari se poochiye: kya duniya ki kadvahat dhone se kabhi duniya bhali hui? Ya zyadatar aapke apne din bhaari hue? Screens sabse tez aur sabse kathor pal dikhati hain, jabki chupchaap ki bhalai shayad hi viral hoti hai. Chahein toh ek pal iske saath rukiye. Jo krurta aap dekhte ho, wo sabka paimana nahi hai. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna, itni keemat dekar, theek hai?
Yahin, apni jagah bhala hona
Chhodne ka matlab parwah chhodna nahi, na ye maanna ki kadvahat theek hai. Matlab ye ki saara bojh aapko akele nahi uthana. Aap phone rakh sakte ho, aas-paas ke bhale pal dekh sakte ho, aur jahan aap ho, wahin bhalai kar sakte ho. Pehle kuch aur badalna zaroori nahi. Yahin se thoda sukoon lautta hai: aapka parwah karne wala dil aapka rehta hai, bojh tale toote bina.
Being targeted online, threatened, frightened, or picked on for who you are is something else; it is worth taking seriously, and stepping back can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleDuniya itni kadvi nahi honi chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleBhalai mere aas-paas se shuru ho sakti hai, aur dikh bhi sakti hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Sone se ek ghanta pehle phone rakh dijiye
- Din 2
Aaj kisi ajnabi ki ek bhali baat notice kijiye
- Din 3
Khud ek chhoti bhali baat kar dijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kisi ajnabi ne aapke liye sabse bhali cheez kya ki hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Bistar par ek ke baad ek khabrein #
Bhopal, der raat. Kamre ki batti band hai aur phone ki screen jal rahi hai. Ek reel, phir ek khabar, phir comment section jahan log ek-doosre ko gaaliyan de rahe hain. Phir society ke group mein kisi chhoti si baat par rukha message. Lete-lete thaka hua, narm sa khayal aata hai: “Duniya itni kadvi nahi honi chahiye.”
Ye kisi khabar ke alert ke baad aa sakta hai, kisi dost ki post ke neeche troll ke baad, ya sadak par kisi ajnabi ke cheekhne ke baad. Agar khabar aapke apne logon ya apni jagah ke baare mein hai, toh wo is deck se kahin badi baat hai; dheere chaliye, aur jis par aapka bharosa ho, wo sun sakta hai.
Is hafte ki ek chhoti si bhalai kaun si hai, jo aapne dekhi ya aapke saath hui, kisi ki bhi taraf se, aur ab tak yaad hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Seene par baithta ek bhaaripan #
Kuch logon ko khabrein judte-judte ek bhaaripan gherta hai, dheema aur dhundhla. Kuch ko krur comment par jhat se garm gussa aata hai aur jawab dene ka mann hota hai.
Body hamesha nahi samajhti ki koi baat door ho rahi hai ya yahin. Sakht khabron se bhari screen ke baad shaant, surakshit kamre mein bhi badan tana reh sakta hai.
Jab koi khabar ya krur comment asar kare, toh sabse pehle kya mehsoos hota hai, aur kahan?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Bhalai chahna, chahne layak baat hai #
Ye ummeed uske baare mein kuch sundar kehti hai jo ise thaamta hai. Wo chahta hai ki log ek-doosre se narmi se pesh aayein, madad karein, sunein. Use un ajnabiyon ki parwah hai jinse wo kabhi milega nahi. Ye parwah sambhalkar rakhne layak hai.
Duniya jab kathor lagti hai, toh wahi parwah bhaari tees ban sakti hai. Log ek-doosre se kaisa bartaav kar sakte the aur kaisa karte hain, iske beech ka faasla bahut bada lagta hai, khaaskar der raat.
Aapke liye bhalai kaisi dikhti hai, kisi aam din do logon ke beech ek aam sa pal?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Der raat ki awaaz #
“Insaaniyat mar gayi hai.” “Aajkal kisi ko kisi ki padi nahi hai.” “Ek akela kya kar lega?” Ye awaaz der raat sabse tez hoti hai, scroll karne ke baad, jab kamra andhera hai aur duniya bahut badi lagti hai.
Kuch log gaur karte hain ki ye awaaz screen par jo hai use poori duniya maan leti hai. Wo gali ko bhool jaati hai, us padosi ko jisne haath hilaya, kal kisi colleague ki bhali baat ko.
Jab der raat ki awaaz bolti hai, toh wo duniya ki kaun si tasveer banati hai, aur kya chhod deti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Behtar duniya ki chaah kahan se aayi #
Kuch logon mein ye kisi narm dil nani ya dadi se aayi, jo har aane wale ko bina naam poochhe khana khila deti thi aur kabhi kada shabd nahi boli. Kuch khud is tak pahunche, ye dekhkar ki ek bhali baat din kitna badal deti hai.
Kuch log aisi kahaniyon mein palte hain jahan bhalai jeetti hai aur burai ko saza milti hai. Asli zindagi uljhi hai, aur khabrein krur hisse bhale hisson se kahin zyada dikhati hain.
Sachchi bhalai sabse pehle aapko kisne dikhayi, ya kab aapne pehli baar dekha ki ek bhali baat kya kar sakti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Bhalai aur duniya ka niyam #
In shabdon ke neeche ek niyam rehta hai: “Logon ko ek-doosre ke saath achha hona chahiye,” ya “Main bhali neeyat rakhoon toh duniya ko bhi rakhni chahiye.” Ye khoobsurat niyam hai. Iska ye matlab bhi hai ki har krur khabar nijee chot si lag sakti hai.
Kuch log ise narm ghar se jodte hain; kuch us daur se jab unhe bhalai ki zaroorat thi aur mili nahi. Jahan se bhi aaya ho, ise narmi se dekha ja sakta hai.
Ye behtar-duniya wala niyam kahan aapki apni bhalai ko gehra karta hai, aur kahan har khabar seene par patthar si lagti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Duniya ki kathorta dhone ki keemat #
Der raat tak scrolling. Subahein jo bhaari shuru hoti hain. Aisa lagna ki itni kathorta ke aage chhoti bhalaiyan ginti mein hi nahi aatin, aur kuch chupchaap band ho jaati hain.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki screen ki kathorta unke aas-paas ke logon ko dekhne ka dhang rangne lagti hai, aur padosi ya dukaandaar jitne hain usse kam bharose ke lagne lagte hain.
Khabron ya online krurta ne aas-paas ke logon ko dekhne ka aapka nazariya kaise badla hai, aur unki zyada sahi tasveer mein kya-kya aayega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Andhere kamre mein chamakta phone #
Ek aam raat lijiye jab “duniya ko kadvi nahi honi chahiye” tez ho. Andhera kamra, chamakta phone, anthheen khabrein aur comments. Ismein kuch badalna zaroori nahi.
Shayad bistar par khabrein padhna aur unka bhaari hokar baith jaana, phir ek aur comment thread, phir jaagte rehna.
Bas ek raat, bhavishyavaani nahi, aur jab chahein isse hat sakte hain.
Us raat mein aur kya ho sakta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki nazar kis par thehrati hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Bhalai aam hai, aur khabar kam banti hai #
Khabar wo dikhati hai jo durlabh aur daravna ho. Chhoti bhalaiyan, jaise chai wale ka khule paise lautana, baantkar khaya khana, khoya phone wapas milna, din mein anginat baar hoti hain aur shayad hi khabar banti hain. Online, ginti ki oonchi awaazein krurta ko usse zyada aam dikha sakti hain jitni wo hai.
Isse kathor baatein kam asli nahi ho jaatin, aur behtar duniya chahna jaayaz rehta hai. Bas itna ki screen aapki gali se zyada andheri duniya dikha sakti hai.
Agar koi sirf is mahine aapki dekhi bhali baaton ka news channel banata, toh usmein kya-kya hota?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jo bhalai pehle se paas hai #
Kuch paas hi hongi: padosi aunty jo katori bhar kheer bhej deti hain, ajnabi jo raasta bata de, dost jo haal poochh le, bachcha jo apni toffee baant de, colleague jo aapki shift sambhaal le.
Akeli ye khabron ko theek nahi karti. Par ye bhi isi ka hissa hain, chhoti aur asli, aur aksar andekhi kyunki inke saath alert nahi aate.
Is hafte aapke aas-paas kiski kaun si chhoti bhalai aisi thi jise zyada baar notice kiya jaana chahiye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Duniya ki parwah, par poora bojh nahi #
Yahan sulah ka matlab parwah kam karna nahi hai. Behtar duniya chahna achhi baat hai, aur chhote tareekon se us par kaam karna saarthak hai. Matlab ye ki khabrein tay na karein ki aapka apna din aur apni bhalai matlab rakhte hain ya nahi.
Izzat aur suraksha maangna kabhi “zyada” nahi hota, na aapke liye, na doosron ke liye. Online nishana banaya jaana, dhamkaya jaana, ya aap jaise hain us wajah se tang kiya jaana kuch aur hai; use seriously lena zaroori hai, aur peeche hatna ya saavdhaan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Agar khabar aapke apne logon ya apni jagah ke baare mein hai, ya ye din-raat par chhane lagi hai, toh wo is deck se bhaari hai; dheere chaliye, aur jis par aapka bharosa ho, wo sun sakta hai.
Kal shaam ki kalpana kijiye, is ummeed ko zara dheela thaame hue: aap ek khabar padhte ho, phir paas ki kaun si chhoti bhali baat dekhte ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Andhere kamre ke liye ek sentence #
“Duniya itni kadvi nahi honi chahiye” ke saath kuch log doosri line paas rakhte hain: “Duniya mein kadvahat bhi hai aur achhai bhi, aur doosri mein thoda jodna mere haath mein hai.” Ye kisi cheez ki jagah lene ke liye nahi hai.
Bhaari khabar ke aage ye chhota lag sakta hai. Kuch logon ko apni line mil jaati hai, jo unke apne dil ke zyada kareeb ho.
Aapka apna sachcha sentence kya hoga, jo duniya ke liye aapki parwah rakhe aur aaj raat aapko aaram karne de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Khabrein subah tak ruk sakti hain #
Har bhaari kahani ko neend mein le jaana zaroori nahi. Use pehchaana ja sakta hai aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise dehleez par tah kiya akhbaar, jo subah bhi wahin milega.
Behtar duniya ki chaah aapki bani reh sakti hai. Nishana banaya jaana, dhamki, ya apne logon ki khabrein ek alag wazan hain, jinhe dekhbhaal aur baat karne ke liye kisi ki zaroorat hai.
Aaj raat ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki duniya theek hai, ya kuch sulajh gaya. Bas itna ki aaj ki raat aaram ki ho sakti hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar duniya ka wazan thoda halka ho #
Sirf mann mein sochiye, wahi raat, ummeed thodi dheemi. Aap ek khabar padhte ho, phir paas ki ek chhoti bhali baat sochte ho, phir phone rakh dete ho.
Wo chhota ho sakta hai: aasaan neend, narm subah, kal ki us bhali cheez ke liye thodi zyada energy jo aap sach mein kar sakte ho.
Ye tasveer aapki hai, kisi aur ki nahi. Aage: is ummeed se sulah par aur gaur, aur ye ki aapke paas pehle se kya hai.
Sabse pehle kya badalta lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sabse pehle kaun sa dikhega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Chupchaap aazmane ke liye chhoti cheezein #
- Ek khabar padhiye, phir paas ki ek bhali baat par gaur kijiye
- Raat ka ek waqt tay kijiye jiske baad news app band rahe
- Kal bas yunhi ek chhoti bhali baat kar dijiye
- Koi krur comment chubhe toh us ehsaas ko ek shabd de dijiye
- Is hafte kisi ajnabi ki ek bhalai notice kijiye
Jo kaam aaye wo aazmaiye. Inmein se koi kaam nahi hai.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kisi ajnabi ne aapke liye sabse bhali cheez kya ki hai?
- Aapki jaan-pehchaan mein sabse narm dil insaan kaun hai, aur wo logon se kaise pesh aata hai?
- Doosron ke liye kaun si chhoti bhali baat karna aapko pasand hai?
- Agar khabrein kam bhaari hotin, toh aapki shaamein kaisi hotin?
- Aapki apni zindagi mein bhalai kahan pehle se dikhti hai?