Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Jo kaam theek chalta hai, wo aankhon se ojhal ho jaata hai.
Kuch logon mein ye kisi maa-baap ya dada-dadi ko aisa ghar chalate dekh kar bani jo kabhi rukta nahi tha, aur sab kuch ko “kuch nahi, bas ghar ka kaam” kahe jaate sunkar.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Achha kaam karun to dikhega,” ya “Jo kaam mayne rakhta hai, uska shukriya hota hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Koi ek kaam chhod dena ki dekhein kisi ko pata chalta hai, phir wo bhi kar dena
- Halke se jata dena ki khana banane mein kitna waqt laga
- Is hafte ke har kaam ka chupchaap hisaab rakhna
- Sab kuch aur tez aur behtar karna, is aas mein ki mehnat aakhir dikhe
- Shukriya par “arre kuch nahi” kehna, phir chahna ki dobara kaha jaata
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
“Din bhar kiya kya?”
Sunday ki shaam. Aapne teen waqt ka khana banaya, do baar kapde dhoye, dak chhaanti aur bathroom chamkaya. Koi ghar aata hai, idhar-udhar dekhta hai aur kehta hai, “Din bhar kiya kya?” Aap saaf rasoi mein ho, haath mein tauliya, aur lagta hai aapka poora din gaayab ho gaya, jaise usmein kuch hua hi na ho, jaise aap kisi ko dikhte hi nahi.
Ghar ke kaam ki qadar ho
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Ghar mein mere kiye kaam ki qadar ho.” Ye poori tarah jaayaz lagta hai. Ghar chalana asli kaam hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapka apna mol is par tika deta hai ki doosre andekha kaam dekhein. Aapka din ginna gaya ya nahi, ab un logon par tik gaya jinhe aksar ghar ka kaam tab dikhta hai jab wo hua hi na ho.
Ghar ka kaam asli kaam kyun hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki ghar ka kaam asli kaam hai, aur hum chahte hain ki wo dikhe. Shayad aapne kisi apne ko barson bina shukriya ghar chalate dekha aur chaha ki aapke saath aisa na ho. Shayad aapko aise ghar par garv hai jo theek chalta hai. Jo bhi ho, qadar chahna mohtaji nahi. Ye chaahat hai ki aapki mehnat mayne rakhe. Ise humdardi milni chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Har andekha kaam ginte jaana
Har andekha din kaam ko bhaari kar deta hai. Aap har kaam ginne lagte ho. Apne hi ghar mein gaayab lagte ho. Cheezein zyada aawaaz se karte ho ki koi toh sir uthaye. Dheere-dheere jis ghar ko aap sambhalte ho, wo aisi jagah lagne lagta hai jahan aap bina aaram, bina shukriya ke kaam karte ho, aur roz aap jo karte ho uska apna ehsaas sikudne lagta hai.
Kya shukriya ka intezaar sahi hai?
Imaandaari se poochhiye: kya unke dekhne ka intezaar karne se kabhi kaam halka laga? Ya zyadatar aap gaayab lage? Ghar ka kaam mashhoor hai ki dikhta nahi, kyunki jab theek hota hai to lagta hai kuch hua hi nahi. Jo bhi ho, unka na dekhna aapke kiye ka paimana nahi. Is niyam ko itna kas kar pakadna aapko jitna deta hai, usse zyada leta hai.
Aaj jo kiya, wo ginta jaata hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aap apne kaam ki qadar chahna chhod dein, ya ki wo mayne nahi rakhta. Matlab ye ki aapke kiye ka ehsaas kisi ke dekhne ka intezaar nahi karta. Aapko pata hai aaj aapne kya kiya. Aap mann mein uska naam le sakte ho, aur kaam khatam hone par aaram kar sakte ho. Yahin thodi shaanti lautti hai: aapka kaam aapke liye ginta jaata hai, koi dekhe ya na dekhe.
If the work is demanded with threats, or comes with being kept in, watched, having money kept from you, or being frightened of what happens if something isn't done, that is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleGhar mein mere kiye kaam ki qadar ho.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleAaj kya kiya, mujhe pata hai. Wo ginta jaata hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Din ke aakhir mein ghar ke teen kaam gin lijiye jo aapne kiye
- Din 2
Koi kaam nipte, to das minute chai ke saath baithiye
- Din 3
Aaj ke ek aise kaam par dhyaan dijiye jis par chupchaap garv ho
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aapki zindagi mein kaun ghar ke kaam ko sabse achhe se dekhta hai, aur uske baare mein kya kehta hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Sink ke paas aane wala khayal #
“Ghar mein mere kiye kaam ki qadar ho.” Ye khayal raat ke gyarah baje aa sakta hai, jab aakhri platform ponchha ja raha ho aur ghar so chuka ho. Ya jab koi fridge khol kar, jo aapne subah bhara tha, poochhe, “khane ko kuch hai hi nahi?”
Zubaan par ye mazaak mein nikal sakta hai: “Ghar toh apne aap chalta hai na.” Andar ye aksar shaant aur theek-theek hota hai, ek chaah ki jo kaam sabko khilata hai, taiyaar karta hai, waqt par pahunchata hai, use prishthbhoomi nahi, kaam ginna jaye.
Ghar ke kaam ko lekar ye khayal aakhri baar kab aaya tha, aur tab aap kaun sa kaam kar rahe the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Zor se band hui almari #
Kuch logon ko ek sapaat, bhaari sa ehsaas hota hai jab ghanta bhar lagayi rasoi se koi bina dekhe guzar jaye. Kuch ko “din bhar kiya kya?” par ek jhatke se garmi chadhti hai.
Ye haathon mein pehle dikh sakta hai, sochne se pehle: almari zaroorat se zyada zor se band hui, pehle se saaf plate dobara dhuli, sink par ek aah nikli jabki agle kamre mein TV chalta raha.
Pichhli baar jab poore din ka ghar ka kaam bina zikr ke reh gaya, to aapne apne andar sabse pehle kya dekha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ghar chalana sachmuch kaam hai #
Is ummeed mein sachchi samajh hai. Ghar chalane mein planning, waqt aur hunar lagta hai: fridge mein kya bacha hai, kaun si uniform aaj raat dhulni hai, kiska tiffin banna hai, gas cylinder kab aayega. Ise kaam ginna jaye, ye chahna din ka sach dikhaye jaane ki chaah hai.
Jo kaam theek chalta hai, wo aankhon se ojhal ho jaata hai. Saaf farsh bas farsh dikhta hai, taiyaar bag bas bag, garam khana bas khana. Jitna saleeqe se hua, utna kam dikhta hai, isliye achha kaam aksar sabse mushkil se dikhne wala hota hai.
Agar ghar mein kiye aapke ek hafte ke kaam ko naukri ki tarah bayaan kiya jaye, to kaun sa hissa aapke parivar ko sabse zyada chaunkayega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Shaam ke aakhir wali awaaz #
“Main ruk jaun to sabko jaldi pata chal jaye.” “Ghar asal mein chalta kaise hai, ye koi nahi poochhta.” “Baaki sab baith sakte hain.” Ye awaaz aksar khane ke baad sink par bolti hai, ya Sunday dopahar moze ki jodiyan milate waqt.
Doosron ko waqt dena alag-alag wajahon se alag lag sakta hai: kuch achha laane ke liye, ya jhanjhat aur uthi bhauhein se bachne ke liye. Kuch log paate hain ki wahi kaam ek shaam halka lagta hai aur agli shaam bhaari, is par ki wajah kaun si thi.
Jab sink ki awaaz aaj ka hisaab ginane lagti hai, to kaun sa kaam sabse pehle batati hai, aur chahti hai ki kisne dekha hota?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Ghar ke kaam ki tasveer kahan se aati hai #
Kuch logon mein ye kisi maa-baap ya dada-dadi ko aisa ghar chalate dekh kar bani jo kabhi rukta nahi tha, aur sab kuch ko “kuch nahi, bas ghar ka kaam” kahe jaate sunkar. Kuch mein ulta tha: aisa ghar jahan har khane par pakane wale ko shukriya milta tha, aur wahi paimana ban gaya.
Kuch parivaron mein ghar ke kaam ko mehnat nahi, pyaar kaha jaata hai, aur dono itne ghul jaate hain ki ek ke liye kehna doosre par sawaal lagta hai. Kuch log aisi tasveer bachpan tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi.
Bachpan mein ghar kaun chalata tha, aur aapko kya yaad hai jo wo karte the aur kisi aur ko nahi dikhta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Shukriya ka intezaar karta niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Achha kaam karun to dikhega,” ya “Jo kaam mayne rakhta hai, uska shukriya hota hai.” Pehla wo hai jo log apne sir mein sunte hain; doosra tay karta hai ki chupchaap khaya gaya har khana kaise padha jayega.
Dono mein samajhdaari hai, aur kai daftar inhi par chalte hain. Ghar shayad nahi chalta, aur wahan in niyamon ko kas kar pakadne par har bina shukriya ka khana is saboot jaisa lag sakta hai ki kaam ginta hi nahi jaata.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Ghar ki zindagi ke kin hisson mein achhe kaam ke dikhne wala niyam aaj bhi baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Bina dikhe shift ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai shaamein jo kaam nipatane mein jaati hain jabki baaki ghar aaram karta hai, pyaar se bana khana jo screen ke saamne khaya gaya, ek Sunday kapdon mein, jo aisa lage ki bas aapka sirdard hai. Chhoti cheezein, mahinon se dhoyi hui.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki kaam khud badalne lagta hai. Jo parwah jaisa lagta tha, wo aisi shift lagne lagti hai jise koi ginta nahi, aur manpasand pakwaan banana list ka ek aur kaam ban jaata hai.
Ghar ke kisi kaam ko sochiye jiska maza thoda chala gaya hai: aapko kya lagta hai, ye kab se shuru hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, aakhri platform ke saath #
Ek aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “mere kiye ki qadar ho” zor se baj raha ho. Ye aisi tasveer hai jise ek nazar dekh kar rakh diya jaye.
Shayad raat ko ghar ke so jaane ke baad aakhri platform ponchhna, pakka hua khana aur bina kuch kahe lauti plates, aur kal ki list jo sink par hi banne lagi.
Abhi kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi, aur tasveer jab chahein rakh di ja sakti hai.
Usmein kya hai: khana, kapde, list, jo kaha nahi gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din mein kya bhara hai, aur kya ek taraf reh gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Tuesday ko dekh kar, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Qadar, lekin theek-theek kis tarah? #
“Mere kiye ki qadar ho” kai cheezein ho sakti hai: ek shukriya, kisi ek kaam mein haath, ghar ke kaam ko kaam ki tarah kaha jaana, khana thanda hone se pehle mez par ek jagah. Ummeed tab behtar chalti hai jab wo us hisaab se ho jo ho sakta hai, aur itni thos ho ki dikhe.
Qadar hona aur shukriya sunna bilkul ek cheez nahi. Kuch log paate hain ki unhe sabse zyada ye chahiye ki kaam, shabdon ke saath ya bina, kaam ki tarah dekha jaye, aur unka waqt baaki sabke waqt jitni gambhirta se liya jaye.
Agar “ghar mein mere kaam ki qadar” Wednesday shaam ki ek chhoti, thos cheez bane, to wo kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Wo chhoti cheezein jo laut rahi hain #
Zyada ki ummeed ke paas, shayad kuch chhoti cheezein pehle se laut rahi hain, chahe ooncha-neecha: koi teenager jo bina kahe saaman ke thaile andar rakh deta hai, khane par budbudaya hua “achha bana hai”, kabhi-kabhaar kisi ka aapke liye banayi chai.
Inhe dekhne se ummeed khatam nahi hoti, aur wo koi qarz bhi nahi ban jaati. Saath rehne walon ke beech chhoti, roz ki meharbani bade ishaaron se zyada mayne rakh sakti hai, aur ye dekhna kaam ka hai ki kuch kahan pehle se hota hai.
Is hafte kuch na aaye to bhi theek hai.
Ghar mein koi ek aam hafte mein kaun si chhoti cheez karta hai jise aap aur dekhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Din bhar ke kaam ke baad ki shaanti #
Is ummeed se sulah ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki wo zyada maangti thi, ya ki sahi thi. Matlab ye ki jis shukriya ki aapne ummeed ki aur jo shaam mili, unke beech ka faasla poora din kaise khatam ho, ise tay karna chhod de.
Iska jaayaz hissa reh sakta hai: kaam ko asli kaam ginwana, baaki mein hissa chahna. Buniyadi izzat aur hifazat kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi hoti, aapke liye bhi aur ghar mein sabke liye bhi.
Agar kaam dhamki ke saath karwaya jaye, ya uske saath ghar mein band rakhna, padhai, kaam ya doston se kaatna, nazar rakhna, paise rokna ya kaabu ke liye istemaal karna, ya kaam na hone par kya hoga iska darr juda ho, to wo kuch aur hai, aur use seriously lena theek hai.
Is ummeed se sulah wali ek shaam ki kalpana kijiye: aapki jagah kahan hogi, aur kis cheez ka maza le rahe honge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Ketli ke paas rakhne ke liye ek vaakya #
“Ghar mein mere kiye kaam ki qadar ho” se ulajhne ki jagah, kuch log taiyaar rakhte hain: “Yahan ka kaam asli kaam hai, shukriya mile ya na mile.” Ise purane vaakya ko haraana nahi hai; bas uske baghal mein jagah chahiye.
Barson “kuch nahi” kehne ke baad aisa vaakya shuru mein sochna atpata lag sakta hai. Kuch ko wo istemaal se baithta lagta hai; kuch ko nahi, aur dono theek hain.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo kaam ke baare mein imaandaar ho aur kisi aur ke sahmat hone ka intezaar na kare?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Aakhri platform subah tak ruk sakta hai #
Har bina shukriya ke kaam ko aaj raat nipatana zaroori nahi. Kuch ko dekh liya jaye, pal bhar mehsoos kiya jaye, aur wahin chhod diya jaye, jaise shaam ke aakhir mein nal par tanga geela kapda, aaj ke liye poora.
Kuch ghar abhi ye sunne ko taiyaar nahi, aur aaj raat ise parakhne ki zaroorat nahi. Aapke kaam ki qadar ki ummeed chupchaap bhi rakhi ja sakti hai, aur wo mayne rakhti hai, kahi jaye ya nahi. Agar koi is par sachmuch buri tarah bhadakta hai, to use seriously lena theek hai.
Aaj shaam ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo achha tha, ya baat nipat gayi. Bas itna ki aaj ka bina shukriya ka kaam aapke apne thode se waqt mein saath nahi aana hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar shukriya ka intezaar zara dheela ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ye ummeed ek darja dheemi hai. Qadar ki chaah ab bhi hai, par bina tippani khaya khana ek khana hai, kaam par faisla nahi.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: ek platform kal ke liye chhod kar pehle baith jaana, khana garam rehte khana, koi pasandida pakwaan bas isliye banana ki mann tha.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, chahe kitna bhi chhota. Agle cards mein dekhte hain ki is ummeed se sulah ka kya matlab ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai, zara sa bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Koi kaam bina zikr reh jaye, to dekhiye ki khamoshi kaun si kahani sunane lagti hai
- Koi ek chhota, bina jaldi ka kaam kal par chhodiye, aur dekhiye kaisa lagta hai
- Aaj ki ek cheez par dhyaan dijiye jo aapne apne liye chahi, chahe kitni bhi chhoti
- Chupchaap poochhiye: aaj ke kaam ka kaun sa hissa mujhe achha laga?
- Mann mein aaj ke ek achhe hue kaam ka naam lijiye, apni khushi ke liye
Sab chhoti, nijee aur apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aapki zindagi mein kaun ghar ke kaam ko sabse achhe se dekhta hai, aur uske baare mein kya kehta hai?
- Ghar mein kiya kaun sa khana ya kaun sa din aapko sabse zyada garv deta hai, aur tab kaun tha?
- Agar ghar ki ek shaam poori tarah aapki ho, to pehle ghante mein aap kya karoge?
- Agar ghar ke kaam ko lekar ye ummeed thodi halke se thaami jaye, to sabse pehle kya dikhega?
- Ghar mein koi pehle se kaun si chhoti cheez karta hai jisse kaam thoda halka lagta hai?