Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ek insaan ke hafte ke andar jo saaf dikhta hai, wo doosre ke hafte se dekhna mushkil hota hai.
Kuch logon mein ye baari ke chart se shuru hua: kaun thali lagayega, kaun kooda phenkega, kaun daudkar nukkad ki dukaan se saamaan laayega.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Kuch karna hai toh mere zimme,” ya “Insaaf wale bhai-behen sab kuch barabar baante hain.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Sabse pehle marammat book kar dena, aur phir apne hi sir aane par kheejna
- Ghar ke har kiye kaam ki nijee list mann mein rakhna
- Family group mein chubhta sa message bhejna, aur phir lehje par pachhtana
- Kehna “Main khud kar loon to aasaan hai”, aur aadha hi maanna
- Agla kaam bhi utha lena, kyunki doosron ka intezaar zyada bura lagta hai
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Theek khane ke waqt pahunchna
Saturday ki subah, Patna, Boring Road ke paas pushtaini ghar. Aapne rasoi saaf ki, saamaan mangwaya aur gate ki kundi theek ki. Behen dopahar ko theek khane ke waqt pahunchti hai aur poochhti hai, “Meethe mein kya hai?” Aap muskurakar fridge ki taraf ishara kar dete ho. Par jabda kas jaata hai, aur baanhon ki thakan seene mein kuch garam aur bhaari ban jaati hai.
Bhai-behen bhi bojh baantein
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Ghar ke kaamon ka bojh bhai-behenon ko bhi baantna chahiye.” Ye bilkul theek lagta hai. Ghar sabka hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: mann mein lagataar score rakhta hai. Aapka har kaam ek ank ban jaata hai, unka har chhoda hua kaam unke khilaaf nishaan, aur aapke Saturday ek aise jod par tik jaate hain jo kabhi barabar nahi aata.
Ghar mein insaaf izzat kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki ghar mein insaaf izzat jaisa lagta hai. Shayad aap hamesha wahi rahe jise dikhta hai ki ghar mein kya karna hai. Shayad bahut pehle khud se waada kiya tha ki ek din kaam bantega. Jo bhi ho, barabar hissa chaahna toka-taaki nahi hai. Ye chaahna hai ki parivaar ek sachchi team jaisa lage. Ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Har Saturday ka score
Har ooncha-neecha Saturday ke saath score badhta hai. Har chhoota kaam nazar aata hai. Safai zaroorat se zyada awaaz se hoti hai. Ghar lautte hue kaam-dar-kaam dohraya jaata hai ki kisne kya kiya. Jis ghar se aap pyaar karte hain wo kaam ki jagah lagne lagta hai, aur behen ke saath bitaya waqt har baat ke neeche ek chupchaap kadwahat liye rehta hai.
Kya ye score rakhna theek hai?
Imaandaari se khud se poochiye: kya score rakhne se kabhi cheezein barabar huin? Ya zyadatar aana-jaana thaka dene wala hua? Logon ko kaam alag-alag maukon par dikhte hain, aur jo gate ki kundi ek ko khatakti hai, wo doosre ko lagbhag dikhti hi nahi. Isse wo barabar nahi ho jaata. Par score aapki qadar ka paimana nahi hai. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna us keemat ke layak hai?
Score ko aaram dena
Niyam chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki ooncha-neecha hissa maan lein, ya dikhawa karein ki sab sahi hai. Matlab ye ki aapka Saturday score ke saath upar-neeche hona band kare. Aap jo kaam chunein wo karein, aur phir sachmuch ruk jaayein. Jo insaaf hai, wo ab bhi aapke liye maayne rakh sakta hai. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: ghar aisi jagah banta hai jahan bas raha ja sake, sirf kaam nahi.
Where a sibling really does react badly, threatens you or frightens you when this comes up, that is worth taking seriously, and keeping it to yourself for now can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMere bhai-behen ghar mein apna hissa karein.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleInsaaf maayne rakhta hai. Mann ka score aaram kare.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Ek kaam poora kijiye, phir rukkar thodi der baithiye
- Din 2
Mann mein ek baat kahiye jo aapne ki aur jisse madad hui
- Din 3
Ghar par ek ghanta apni pasand ki cheez mein bitaiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Ghar ka kaun sa kaam aapne kabhi bhai-behen ke saath maze se kiya, aur usmein kya maza tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Har naye kaam ke saath aata ek vaakya #
“Ghar ke kaamon ka bojh bhai-behenon ko bhi baantna chahiye.” Ye tab aa sakta hai jab parking se plumber ko phone laga rahe hon, Saturday ko Patna mein Mummy-Papa ke ghar Wi-Fi theek karwa rahe hon, ya family group mein “Koi dekh lega?” padhte hue ye jaante hon ki “koi” kaun hoga.
Zor se kahein to ye chhota hi rehta hai: “Chalo, ho jaayega,” ya ghar ke helpdesk hone par ek chhoti hansi. Andar ye bhaari ho sakta hai, ki jo teen-chaar mein bantna tha, wo dheere-dheere har kaam par ek hi naam ban gaya.
Ghar ke kaamon aur bhai-behenon ke baare mein ye khayal aakhri baar kab aaya tha, aur tab aap kya nipta rahe the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Haan se pehle ki aah #
Kuch logon ko ye kisi bhi shabd se pehle nikalti aah ki tarah lagta hai, jab Papa kahein ki gate phir atak raha hai, ya family group par notification aaye, teen log padh lein aur koi jawab na de.
Kuch ko ye haathon mein lagta hai: baaki kisi ke message dekhne se pehle hi electrician book karne ko utha phone, ek “haan” jo ye sochne se pehle type ho gayi ki is baar kiski baari hai.
Pichhli baar jab ghar ka koi kaam aap par aa pada aur bhai-behen chup rahe, to sochne se pehle aapko kya mehsoos hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Barabar logon mein bantwara, jaayaz chaah hai #
Is umeed mein sachchi samajh hai. Bhai-behen aksar sunte hue bade hote hain ki ghar mein sab barabar hain, isliye purane ghar ke kaamon ka barabar logon mein bantna sabse aam qism ka insaaf lag sakta hai.
Ek insaan ke hafte ke andar jo saaf dikhta hai, wo doosre ke hafte se dekhna mushkil hota hai. Aap jo bhi kaam nipatate hain, wo zyadatar aapko hi dikhta hai, isliye bhai ya behen bojh ko chhota soch sakte hain, ya sochte hi nahi.
Agar “bojh baantne” ko ghar ke ek mahine ke kaamon ki tasveer banana ho, to kaun sa kaam kis bhai ya behen ko denge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo jaanti hai kaun karega #
“Maine chhoda toh hoga nahi.” “Sab group mein hain, sabne dekh liya.” “Mera lunch break ghar ka kaise ho gaya?” Ye awaaz aksar tab bolti hai jab marammat ki helpline par hold par hon, ya parivarik khane mein kisi aur ko cake ke liye shukriya mile.
Purani bhumika kisi “chahiye” ko aur bhaari bana sakti hai. Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki awaaz sirf is hafte ke kaamon ki nahi, barson bharosemand bane rehne ki hai, aur neeche ki chaah phir se bhai-behenon mein se ek banne ki hai, zimmedaar banakar aage na rehne ki.
Jab awaaz kehti hai ki bhai-behenon ko ghar mein zyada karna chahiye, to wo sabse pehle kaun sa kaam uthati hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Barabar hisse ka khayal kahan se aaya #
Kuch logon mein ye baari ke chart se shuru hua: kaun thali lagayega, kaun kooda phenkega, kaun daudkar nukkad ki dukaan se saamaan laayega. Mummy-Papa ka “Sab milkar, abhi” bade hokar bhi bhai-behenon ke ghar sambhalne ki tasveer bana sakta hai.
Kuch mein ye ulta dekhkar aaya: ghar mein ek bachcha jo sab karta tha, jiski taareef hoti thi ya jise chheda jaata tha. Kuch parivaaron mein bharosemand ko kam umar mein naam mil jaata hai, jaise “Tum toh samajhdaar ho”, aur naam chipak jaata hai. Kuch log aisi tasveer ko shuruaati saalon tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi.
Barabar bantware ke baare mein sochte hue bachpan ka kaun sa chart, kaam ya duty sabse pehle yaad aati hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Wo niyam jo kaam baantta hai #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Kuch karna hai toh mere zimme,” ya “Insaaf wale bhai-behen sab kuch barabar baante hain.” Pehla wo hai jo apni awaaz mein sunayi deta hai; doosra tay karta hai ki family group ke har bina jawab ke message ko kaise padha jaaye.
Dono niyamon mein samajhdaari hai, aur barson pehle busy ghar mein inhone khoob kaam kiya hoga. Ab kasakar, saath-saath pakadne par ye ek-doosre ko kheenchte hain: ek har kaam aapko thama deta hai, doosra ginta hai ki kisne nahi liya.
Kuch log aise niyam ko shuruaati saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono haal mein ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Aaj parivaar ki zindagi ke kin hisson mein “khud kar lene” wala niyam fit hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Atirikt dhone ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai hold par beette lunch break, ek Saturday jo socha tha aur phir Mummy-Papa ke ghar ki tapakti tonti ko saunp diya gaya, parivarik jutan jahan kaam ki list baatcheet se zyada zor se bajti hai. Aam baatein, aur unka saal bhar bahut hota hai.
Jab har kaam saboot ban jaaye, to chhota kaam bhi poori kahani saath le aata hai. Kuch log dekhte hain ki ghar ki batti theek karna chhoti bhalai jaisa nahi lagta, balki us behes ki ek aur pankti lagta hai jo koi zor se nahi kar raha.
Ghar ke kisi haal ke kaam ko sochiye: wo kitna bhaari laga, aur us hafte aur kya chal raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, ghar ke helpdesk bankar #
Ek aam Monday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “Bhai-behen bhi bojh baantein” zor se baj raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad lunch break mein Mummy-Papa ke ghar ki marammatein phir book karna, seedhiyon par family group padhna, hold par sandwich khana, delivery ke slot ke hisaab se shaam ki yojana khisakana.
Ismein kisi jawab ki abhi zaroorat nahi, aur isse kuch badalna bhi zaroori nahi.
Usmein kya hai: messages, calls, kaam, ankahi baatein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din kya ho jaata hai, aur kya baar-baar khisakta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Monday ko dekhkar, agar kuch, to kya alag se dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Banta hua, kis shakal mein? #
Bojh baantna har bhai-behen ke liye alag dikh sakta hai: koi paas rehta hai aur cheezein theek karwata hai, koi link aur number bhejta hai, koi har birthday yaad rakhta hai, koi wo hai jise Mummy-Papa baat karne ko phone karte hain. Inmein se kuch family group mein dikhta hai; bahut kuch nahi.
Isse tay nahi hota ki zyada kisne uthaya. Kai baar bantwara sachmuch ooncha-neecha hota hai; kai baar hisse dono taraf se dikhne mein mushkil hote hain. Har bhai ya behen ka apna “barabar” ka naqsha ho sakta hai, aur unmein se koi aapka naqsha tay nahi karta.
Ghar ke saare kaamon mein se kaun sa kaam aapko sabse halka lagta, agar wo sirf aapka na rehta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Parivaar mein pehle se kya bantta hai #
Jis madad ki aapne umeed ki, uske bagal mein kuch log dekhna pasand karte hain ki bhai-behenon se pehle se kya aata hai, chahe kitna bhi chhota ya betarteeb: koi achhe electrician ka number bhejta hai, koi kaamon se bhare lambe din ke baad khana de jaata hai, group mein koi mazaak jo list ko halka kar de.
Ismein se kuch bhi chukane ka karz nahi, aur ise dekhne se ek jaayaz chaah chhoti nahi ho jaati: bojh ki shikayat aur ek garm pal ek hi hafte ke ho sakte hain. Jo bina maange aata hai, use notice karna aksar sabse aasaan hota hai.
Aaj kuch na soojhe to bhi theek hai.
Bhai ya behen ki kaun si chhoti cheez, chahe kabhi-kabhaar ki, aap aur dekhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Sulah, aur jo jaayaz hai use rakhna #
Is umeed se sulah ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki wo zyada maang thi, ya ye ki sahi thi. Matlab hai ki jo hisse aapne chahe aur jo ho rahe hain, unke beech ka faasla har lunch break aur family group ki har ting ko chalana band kar de.
Ismein jo uchit hai wo reh sakta hai: ghar ke kaam barabar logon mein bantna, aapka waqt unke waqt jitna ginaa jaana. Jo dheeli pad sakti hai wo pakad hai, taaki ek marammat bas ek marammat rahe, hui ya chhooti, ye saabit karna nahi ki kise sabse zyada parwah hai.
Parivaar mein buniyadi izzat aur hifazat kabhi “zyada umeed” nahi hoti, aapke liye bhi aur bhai-behenon ke liye bhi. Agar ghar mein kuch bhi kabhi asurakshit lage, aapke liye ya wahan kisi ke liye, to wo is umeed se alag hai, aur us par sachmuch dhyaan dena chahiye.
Aur agar koi bhai ya behen ye baat uthane par sachmuch buri tarah pratikriya kare, to use gambhirta se lena chahiye, aur filhaal ise apne tak rakhna surakshit chunav ho sakta hai.
Is umeed se sulah wale kisi Saturday ki tasveer banaiye: subah aap kya karte, aur usmein aapko kya achha lagta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Agli ting ke liye ek pankti #
“Ghar ke kaamon ka bojh bhai-behenon ko bhi baantna chahiye” se behes karne ki jagah, kuch log aisi pankti taiyaar rakhte hain: “Kaash ye zyada barabar banta hota, aur kaun se kaam mere hain, ye mera chunav hai.” Ise jeetna nahi hai, bas purani pankti ke bagal mein khada rehna hai.
Shuru ke kuch baar ye yakeen jaisi na lage. Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki apni pankti thode din mein baithne lagti hai; kuch ko nahi, aur wo doosri aazmate hain. Dono theek hain.
Aapke apne shabdon mein ek sachchi pankti kya hogi, jo bojh ke ooncha-neecha hone ke baare mein imaandaar ho aur phir bhi usmein aapki kuch baat rehne de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch kaam aaj raat list mein ruk sakte hain #
Ghar ka har kaam isi hafte uthana zaroori nahi, aur har ooncha-neecha bantwara nipatana bhi nahi. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai aur shaam ke liye rakh diya ja sakta hai, jaise wapas khoonti par tangi faltu chaabi, ya seedhiyon ke neeche sarka diya gaya auzaaron ka baksa.
Jahan ye baat uthane par koi bhai ya behen buri tarah pratikriya kare, use gambhirta se lena chahiye, aur filhaal ise apne tak rakhna surakshit chunav ho sakta hai. Agar ghar mein kuch bhi kabhi asurakshit lage, aapke liye ya wahan kisi ke liye, to wo is umeed se alag hai, aur us par sachmuch dhyaan dena chahiye.
Aaj shaam ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki ye theek tha, ya baat suljh gayi. Bas itna ki aaj ki raat list ke alawa kisi aur cheez ki bhi ho sakti hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar bojh thoda bhi halka lage #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ye umeed ek darja dheemi hai. Barabar hisson ki chaah bani hai, par family group ka ek kaam bas ek kaam hai, pariksha nahi.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: ek kaam book karke agla group mein thodi der pade rehne dena, lunch bahar baithkar khana, ya Saturday jo apni kisi cheez se shuru ho.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai aur gaur karne layak hai. Aage, is umeed se sulah ka matlab kya ho sakta hai, aur kya pehle se maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai, zara sa bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Jab group mein koi kaam ting kare, to kuch karne se pehle mann ki us hadbadi ko pehchaniye
- Aaj ki list mein sabse bhaari kaam kaun sa lagta hai, aur kyun, ye dekhiye
- Aaj aapne jo chaha, ek chhoti si cheez bhi, us par dhyaan dijiye
- Chupchaap khud se poochiye: ye aaj mera hai, ya bas aadat se mera hai?
- Kaam ki list ki tasveer banaiye jismein aadhe par aapka naam ho, aur ehsaas par gaur kijiye
Chhote, nijee, aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Ghar ka kaun sa kaam aapne kabhi bhai-behen ke saath maze se kiya, aur usmein kya maza tha?
- Ghar ka kaun sa kaam aap chupchaap garv se achhe se nipatate hain?
- Haal mein parivaar ka kaun sa din achha beeta, aur use banane mein kisne kya kiya?
- Agar bhai-behenon se ye umeed thodi dheeli pade, to aap sabse pehle kya dekhenge?
- Bhai-behen parivaar ki zindagi mein pehle se kya laate hain jise aap thoda aur dekhna chahenge?