Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Jab koi jagah nahi deta, to lagta hai sabke saamne ek mamooli-si baari se mana kar diya gaya.
Kuch logon ke liye ye pichhli seat se shuru hua, jab Papa doosri gaadiyon ko haath se raasta dete aur kehte “arre nikalne do, sabko jaana hai.”
In shabdon ke neeche ek niyam rehta hai: “Sahi driver baari-baari jaate hain,” ya “Maine indicator diya hai, to unhein jagah deni chahiye.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Steering kasakar pakadna aur agli jagah ka intezaar karna
- Jagah band karne wale par budbudana
- Baaki raaste bhar kisi ko aage na aane dena
- Band gaadi mein cheekhna jahan koi sun nahi sakta
- Pahunchkar darwaaze par poori kahani suna dena
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Bheed mein khatam hoti aapki lane
Subah nau baje, Ashram se DND ki or. Aapki lane khatam ho rahi hai. Aap indicator dete ho, dheeme hote ho, jagah ka intezaar karte ho. Gaadi par gaadi nikalti hai aur jagah band karti jaati hai. Ek driver toh aapko dekhkar raftaar badha deta hai. Aakhir koi aage aane deta hai. Par office pahunchte tak kandhe kase hain, jabda dukh raha hai, aur subah bigad chuki lagti hai.
Gaadi wale jagah dein
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Gaadi walon ko mujhe jagah deni chahiye.” Ye sadak ki buniyaadi tameez jaisa lagta hai, wahi jo aap doosron ko dikhate ho. Par dekhiye ye kya karta hai: aapka chain apni-apni gaadi mein baithe saikdon anjaanon ki aadaton se baandh deta hai. Aapka safar theek lagega ya nahi, ab thake, jaldi mein, dhyan bhatke ya bilkul na dekh rahe driveron par tika hai, har subah.
Sadak par insaaf kyun maayne rakhta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki sadak par insaaf izzat jaisa lagta hai. Shayad aap hamesha doosron ko aage aane dete ho aur badle mein bhi wahi chahte ho. Shayad aap aisi jagah bade hue jahan driver naram aur dheeme the. Jo bhi ho, tameez chahna zyada maangna nahi hai. Wo ek saleeqedaar duniya ki chaah se aata hai, bheed bhari sadak par bhi. Use daya chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Har gaadi jo tanaav badhati hai
Har gaadi jo aage nahi aane deti, aapka tanaav badhati hai. Aap steering aur kasakar pakadne lagte ho. Un driveron se gusse mein bolte ho jo ek shabd nahi sun sakte. Office pehle se thakaan aur chidchidapan liye pahunchte ho. Dheere-dheere drive din ka sabse bura hissa ban jaati hai, aur jhunjhlahat saari subah chalti rehti hai, gaadi park karne ke bahut baad tak.
Kya gusse ki drive vaajib hai?
Imaandaari se khud se poochhiye: kya driveron se apeksha thame rakhne se kabhi unhone aapko jagah di? Ya zyadatar aapki drive aur tanaav bhari hui? Driver aksar aapko dekhte nahi, ya apni jaldbaazi wali subah mein uljhe hote hain. Jo bhi ho, band jagah aapke din ka paimana nahi hai. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadne mein jitna milta hai, usse zyada jaata hai.
Shanti se jagah ka intezaar
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki sadak par tameez ki qadr chhoot jaye. Matlab ye ki aapka chain ab anjaanon ke faislon par nahi tika. Aap jagah ka intezaar kar sakte ho, dheere saans le sakte ho, kuch pasand ka sun sakte ho, aur drive ko bas drive rehne de sakte ho. Yahin se thoda sukoon lautta hai: aap kandhe dheele karke office pahunchte ho aur aapki subah ab bhi aapki rehti hai.
Being followed or threatened by another driver is a different thing, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleGaadi walon ko mujhe jagah deni chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMain jagah ka intezaar kar loon, tab bhi mera chain mera hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Kal ki drive mein apna pasandeeda gaana chalaiye
- Din 2
Jab gaadi jagah na de, ek dheemi saans lijiye
- Din 3
Ek aur driver ko aage aane dijiye, aur us bhalai ka maza lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kaun-si drive ya sadak aapko sach mein achhi lagti hai, aur kya use achha banata hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Indicator chalu hai, aur jagah phir band #
Aapki lane khatam ho rahi hai. Indicator aadhe minute se tik-tik kar raha hai. Jagah banti hai, aur bagal ki gaadi raftaar badhakar use band kar deti hai. Phir agli bhi wahi karti hai. Peeche se horn. Mann mein teekhi baat uthti hai: “Gaadi walon ko mujhe jagah deni chahiye.”
Ye flyover par chadhne ka cut ho sakta hai, toll ke paas sikudti sadak, chauraahe ka gol chakkar, ya office ki parking se main road par nikalne ka mod. Har subah wahi kuch meter poore din ka mood bana dete hain.
Kis driver ne, kisi bhi sadak par, itne aaram se jagah di ki aaj bhi wo haath ka ishaara yaad hai, aur usse safar par kya asar pada?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Steering par kasti hatheliyan #
Kuch logon ki pakad kas jaati hai aur kandhe upar chadh jaate hain. Kuch ko garmi ki lahar uthti hai aur wo kisi se kuch nahi, bas zor se bol padte hain. Sharir band hoti jagah ko aise leta hai jaise darwaaza band ho gaya, tez aur bheetar tak.
Pair bhi bhaari ho jaata hai, agli jagah band hone se pehle ghus jaane ko betaab. Ye dhakka kisi bhi soch se pehle aata hai, aur isi wajah se sadak par mahaul itna chadha hua lagta hai.
Pichhli baar jab kisi gaadi ne jagah band ki, to pehle kuch seconds mein aapke haath, pair aur awaaz ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Baari-baari se sabka raasta chalta hai #
Is ummeed mein sachmuch tuk hai. Jab lanes milti hain, to baari-baari se jaana hi insaaf hai aur isi se traffic chalta hai. Ek gaadi andar, ek aage: anjaan logon ke beech ek chhota, chup samjhauta jo kabhi milenge nahi.
Jab koi jagah nahi deta, to lagta hai sabke saamne ek mamooli-si baari se mana kar diya gaya. Gaadi atki hai, ghadi chal rahi hai, aur faisla kisi aur ne kar diya.
Jab driver kisi mod par aaram se baari-baari jaate hain, to usse aapke baaki safar aur mood par kya asar padta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Windscreen ke peeche ki awaaz #
“Indicator diya toh tha!” “Jagah thi!” “Sabko apni hi padi hai.” Sadak ki awaaz baaki jagahon se zyada tez aur jaldbaaz hoti hai, aur aksar chauraaha peeche chhootne ke bahut baad tak chalti rehti hai.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki ye awaaz ek driver ko saari sadak ke baare mein faisla bana deti hai. Office pahunchte tak poora shehar matlabi lagne lagta hai, kuch meter ki sadak ki wajah se.
Jab jagah band hone ke baad sadak ki awaaz bolti hai, to wo doosre driveron ke baare mein kya kehti hai, aur aage ke din ke baare mein kya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Sadak par insaaf wali baari ka khayal kahan se aaya #
Kuch logon ke liye ye pichhli seat se shuru hua, jab Papa doosri gaadiyon ko haath se raasta dete aur kehte “arre nikalne do, sabko jaana hai.” Kuch ke liye driving sikhane wale ustaad se, jinhone baari-baari jaane ko zip ki tarah samjhaya.
Sadak ki aadatein jagah-jagah bahut alag hoti hain. Kahin-kahin kareene se baari lena chalta hai. Kahin horn aur atmavishwas se ghusti naak hi qaayda hai, aur intezaar karo to intezaar hi rehta hai. Yahan “pehle aap” nahi, “pehle main” chalta hai. Naye shehar mein gaadi chalana nayi zubaan jaisa lagta hai.
Aapko kisne sikhaya ki logon ko sadak kaise baantni chahiye, aur pichhli seat se unka chalana kaisa dikhta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Jagah ke baare mein wo niyam #
In shabdon ke neeche ek niyam rehta hai: “Sahi driver baari-baari jaate hain,” ya “Maine indicator diya hai, to unhein jagah deni chahiye.” Ye theek-sa niyam hai. Iska matlab ye bhi hai ki bagal ki lane ka har anjaan aapki subah kaisi jaye, usmein thoda vote rakhta hai.
Kuch logon ne ye niyam saleeqedaar Maa-Baap se liya; kuch ne barson ek hi jam mein khade rehkar. Jaise bhi ho, ye ek niyam hai, aur ise driver ki seat se dekha ja sakta hai.
Baari-baari wala niyam kahan aapki driving ko shant karta hai, aur kahan har baar lane mein ghusne ko aisi ladayi bana deta hai jo jeetni hi hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Is jagah ki kya keemat ho sakti hai #
Kuch meter ki sadak bahut mehngi pad sakti hai: kasa hua jabda liye office pahunchna, pehle bolne wale ko rookha jawab, aur ek sirdard jo flyover ke cut se shuru hua.
Kuch log paate hain ki safar roz ki hod ban jaata hai, har jagah ek chhoti jeet ya haar. Isse sharir aane-jaane ke ek-ek ghante chaukas rehta hai, jo saal bhar mein bahut ghante hain.
Roz ka safar aapse kya le jaata hai, jo aap kisi aur cheez ke liye bachana chahenge, aur wo kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Usi chauraahe par ek subah #
Office jaane ke ek aam din ki drive lijiye jab “gaadi walon ko jagah deni chahiye” tez sunayi deta hai. Wahi flyover ka cut, wahi khatam hoti lane, wahi gaadiyon ki qataar. Bas ek tasveer, sudharne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad har subah usi chauraahe par kasi hatheliyan, tik-tik karta indicator, band hoti jagah, aur office pahunchna jab haathon mein ab bhi garmi ho.
Ye andaaza nahi hai. Ye ek subah hai, jise kabhi bhi band kiya ja sakta hai.
Us drive mein aur kya chal raha hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne par kya alag se dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Hum doosre driveron ko khud se alag taulte hain #
Kai log apni driving sadak ke hawale se samjhate hain (“dikha nahi,” “der ho rahi thi”) aur doosron ki unke swabhav se (“matlabi,” “gunda”). Jisne jagah band ki, shayad usne aapka indicator dekha hi na ho.
Isse ganwaye minute kam kheej wale nahi ho jaate, aur baari ki chaah vaajib rehti hai. Bas itna ki band hui jagah steering ke peeche jitni nijee lagti hai, utni shayad na ho.
Kisi aise waqt ko sochiye jab aapne bina chahe jagah band kar di thi.
Tab aapki gaadi mein kya chal raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Wo jagahein jo khulti bhi hain #
Zyadatar safar mein kuch hoti hain: wo truck wala jisne light maarkar aage aane diya, wo car jo chauraahe par ruk gayi, wo anjaan jisne aapke ghuste waqt haath hilaya. Wo jaldi nikal jaate hain aur bhoolna aasaan hai.
Inse band jagahein jaayaz nahi ho jaatin. Ye bas sadak ka wo shant hissa hain jo darwaaze par shayad hi kabhi sunaya jaata hai.
Kis driver ki sadak par chhoti-si meherbaani baar-baar notice karne layak hogi, aur usne kya kiya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Chauraaha jo poori subah ka maalik na ho #
Baat ye tay karne ki nahi ki sadak par insaaf maayne nahi rakhta. Baari chahna theek hai. Jo badal sakta hai, wo ye ki ek band jagah safar aur din ka kitna hissa rakhe.
Sadak par izzat aur safety chahna kabhi zyada nahi hai, aapke liye bhi aur har doosre driver ke liye bhi. Kisi ka peeche se satkar chalna, peecha karna, raasta rokna, chillana ya dhamkana baari ki baat nahi hai; use gambhirta se lena chahiye, aur doori banaye rakhna safe chunaav ho sakta hai.
Sadak ke bahar pareshan kiya jaana, peecha kiya jaana, photo ya video banana, chhua ya pakda jaana, dhakka dena, ya pehchaan (ling, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, viklangta, kahan se aaye) ki wajah se nishana banna alag baat hai; use gambhirta se lena chahiye, door hat jaana ya madad lena safe chunaav ho sakta hai.
Kal usi chauraahe ko sochiye, is ummeed ko thoda dheela pakde hue: jagah phir band hoti hai, aur aap radio par kya lagana chunte ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Flyover ke cut ke liye ek line #
“Gaadi walon ko mujhe jagah deni chahiye” ke bagal mein kuch log doosri line paas rakhte hain: “Mujhe baari chahiye, par ye chauraaha meri poori subah nahi le sakta.” Use pehli ko haraana nahi hai, bas saath chalna hai.
Kuch logon ko aisi line bheed ke waqt bahut naram lagti hai, aur wo apni koi chhoti, khurdari line pasand karte hain.
Aapka apna sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo baari toh ab bhi chahe aur safar ko aapka hi rehne de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Chauraaha peeche reh sakta hai #
Har band jagah par faisla sunana zaroori nahi. Use dekha ja sakta hai, aur phir chhoda ja sakta hai, jaise seat par giri parking ki parchi, zaroorat ho to wahin hai, haath mein nahi.
Sadak par baari ki chaah saath reh sakti hai. Kisi driver ka peecha karna ya dhamkana bilkul alag baat hai, aur use gambhirta se lena chahiye.
Shaam ke liye chhod dene se baat theek nahi ho jaati, aur band bhi nahi hoti. Bas itna ki ghar ki shuruaat flyover ke cut se nahi karni.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar lane mein ghusna zara kam maayne rakhta #
Bas tasveer ki tarah aazmaiye: wahi chauraaha, wahi band jagah, par ummeed thodi shant baithi hai. Jo gaana chuna tha, baj raha hai. Ek minute baad jagah khul jaati hai.
Yahan chhoti cheezein ginti jaati hain: dheeli pakad ke saath pahunchna, “namaste” jo apne jaisa lage, gaana dimaag mein atka ho aur driver nahi.
Ye aapke apne mann mein rehta hai; kisi ko sunana zaroori nahi. Aage do cards hain: ek sulah par, ek us par jo pehle se maujood hai.
Fark sabse pehle kahan mehsoos hota hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aap kaun-si chunenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Driver ki seat par aazmane ki chhoti cheezein #
- Chauraahe par pahunchne se pehle gaana ya podcast chun lijiye
- Jab jagah band ho, us ehsaas ko mann mein ek shabd dijiye
- Is hafte ek gaadi ko aage aane dijiye, bas isliye ki aisa karna achha lagta hai
- Ek aise driver ko notice kijiye jisne aapko jagah di
- Dekhiye ki lane mein ghusne ke baad garmi kitni der rehti hai
Jo theek lage, ek chun lijiye. Inmein se kisi mein kisi aur ki zaroorat nahi.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kaun-si drive ya sadak aapko sach mein achhi lagti hai, aur kya use achha banata hai?
- Aapko gaadi chalana kisne sikhaya, aur wo doosre driveron ke baare mein kya kehte the?
- Kisi doosre driver ne aapke liye sabse achhi cheez kya ki hai?
- Agar jagah ke liye adna zara kam khalta, to aapka aana-jaana kaisa lagta?
- Aapke safar ko pehle se kya behtar banata hai, jiska aap aur maza lena chahenge?