Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye naye aaye insaan ke dhang ko alag-thalag bhi rakh deta hai.
Har saal usi jagah rakha mila mithai ka dabba, rishtedaaron ke ghar jaate hue gaadi mein gaya gaya gaana, dadi ki recipe jo unhi haathon se banti hai.
Neeche ek maanyata ban sakti hai: “Mere din manane ka dhang yahan gina nahi jaata.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Ek taraf hat jaana aur bina kuch kahe unka dhang chalne dena
- Keh dena ki aapka tareeka bas ek khayal tha, aur jaldi chhod dena
- Muskurakar halka mazaak karna ki hum toh galat kar baithe
- Unke tareeke se kar lena, aur baad mein akele mein apne dhang se din phir manana
- Poore din mann mein rakhna aur kuch na kehna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Haath se uthayi gayi thali
Sasural mein Diwali ki shaam, shaadi ke baad ki pehli. Aap mithai ki chhoti thali laate ho, waise hi jaise aapke ghar shaam shuru hoti hai. Chachiji use aapke haath se uthakar kehti hain, “Hamare yahan ye aise nahi manate.” Wo use ek taraf rakh deti hain. Kamre mein garmi aur shor hai, aur aap achanak khaali haath khade hain, sochte hue ki haath kahan rakhein.
Mera dhang yahan gina nahi jaata
Pehle saaf baat: tyohaar par ki gayi tok iska paimana nahi ki aap kaise pale. Par usse ek niyam ban sakta hai jo aapka apna ho jaata hai: “Mere din manane ka dhang yahan gina nahi jaata.” Ye khayal rakhne jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye wo kya karta hai: aapki apni reeten galtiyan lagne lagti hain, aur din imtihaan jaisa lagne lagta hai.
Hum din sahi kyun chahte hain
Hum aisa niyam isliye pakadte hain ki chahte hain din achha guzre. Zyadatar log iska koi roop dhote hain, aur ye sabse aam chaahon mein se hai. Shayad shaanti ke liye aapne koi riwaaz chhod diya. Shayad darr hai ki kahin adiyal na lagein. Jo bhi ho, shaamil hona chahna kamzori nahi hai, ye apnapan chahne se aata hai. Ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Har tyohaar ke bheetar imtihaan
Har aisi tok imtihaan mein thoda jod deti hai. Ye dheere-dheere hota hai, isliye pakadna mushkil hai. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par aap mehsoos karte ho. Aap dekhte ho ki wo har cheez kaise karte hain. Apni dish ghar par chhod aate ho. Jin gaanon aur chhoti aadaton se din ghar jaisa lagta tha, wo galtiyan lagne lagte hain.
Kya imtihaan pass karna zaroori?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya is niyam ko pakadne se kabhi koi tyohaar zyada apna laga? Ya zyadatar aisa laga ki jo din aapka bhi hona chahiye, usmein aap mehmaan ho? Unke dhang seekhna aur apna rakhna saath chal sakta hai. Ek sentence aapki jagah ka paimana nahi hai. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna us keemat ke layak hai jo ye maangta hai?
Unka dhang, aur apna bhi
Chhodne ka matlab behes karna nahi hai, aur ye bhi nahi ki toka jaana theek laga tha. Matlab ye hai ki aapke apne riwaazon ka galat lagna zaroori nahi. Aap unke dhang mein shaamil bhi ho sakte ho, aur jo aapke liye matlab rakhta hai use apne dil mein rakh sakte ho. Ye ek din mein nahi hota, aur hona zaroori bhi nahi. Wahin se kuch chain lautta hai: aap apne jaise tyohaar manate ho.
Where someone really does react badly, threatens or frightens you, or controls what you do, that is worth taking seriously, and how much to show in that house is yours to judge.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMere din manane ka dhang yahan gina nahi jaata.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleUnke dhang mein shaamil ho sakte hain, apni reet bhi rakh sakte hain.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Apni ek reet mann mein naam lijiye jo aapko pyaari hai
- Kadam 2
Din ka ek hissa tabhi nibhaiye jab aap khud chahein
- Kadam 3
Tyohaar ke baad thodi der chupchaap apne liye baithiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Jab kisi ne kaha ki hamare yahan ye aise nahi manate, tab aap kya kar rahe the?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Haathon se utha li gayi thali #
Nainital mein sasural ki Diwali ki shaam. Dadi-saas aapke haath se thali le leti hain, nandoi diye ki qataar badal rahe hain, koi chachi darwaaze ke aipan ke paas diye khisaka rahi hain. “Hamare yahan ye aise nahi manate.” Jaldi mein kaha gaya, aur sab apne kaam mein lag gaye.
Ye shabd us dhang ko theek karte hain jo aapke apne ghar ya aapki pasand se aaya tha. Kuch logon ko ismein naye aaye ke liye narm ishaara sunai deta hai. Kuch ko ye ki jis dhang mein wo pale, wo yahan theek se gina nahi jaata.
Jo aapne aadat se ya khushi se kiya tha, use ek sentence ne naya roop de diya.
Aakhri baar jab kisi ne kaha “hamare yahan ye aise nahi manate,” tab aapke haath mein kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Haath beech mein ruk jaate hain #
Kuch logon ke haath kaam ke beech mein ruk jaate hain: ek diya aadha rakha, ek mombatti aadhi jali, ek katori aadhi uthi. Sir hilakar shishtata nibhayi jaati hai, aur jo chal raha tha wo chupchaap kisi aur ke haath mein chala jaata hai.
Tyohaar par tok jaldi lagti hai, kuch isliye ki din par pehle se bahut wazan hota hai, aur kuch isliye ki sab ek hi garm dhyan se dekh rahe hote hain. Sochna aksar baad mein aata hai, jab thaaliyan uth chuki hoti hain.
Khaas din par pehli pratikriya shayad hi kabhi apni marzi jaisi lagti hai.
Us sentence ke baad wale pal mein, aapke haath ki cheez ka kya hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Tyohaar par tok zyada lagti hai #
Tyohaar wo jagah hai jahan log apne ghar jaisa mehsoos karna chahte hain, isliye wahan ki tok wahi shabd Tuesday ko kahe jaane se zyada lagti hai. Sentence sajaawat ya samay ki baat lag sakta hai, par chupchaap apnepan se baat kar raha hota hai.
Ye naye aaye insaan ke dhang ko alag-thalag bhi rakh deta hai. Parivaar ka tareeka hi tareeka hai, aur jo koi saath laaya, kitna bhi pyaara ho, ek bhinnata ban jaata hai jise chhaantna hai. Ye baat shayad hi kabhi zor se kahi jaati hai, aur iska jawab dena mushkil hai.
Jo tyohaar aapke liye matlab rakhta hai, usmein itihaas basa hota hai.
Aap jis tarah us din ko manate ho, uska kaun sa chhota hissa us tippani ne chupchaap kinare kar diya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab jaanch andar bolne lage #
Baar-baar suno toh wo andar basne lagti hai. “Kuch bhi karne se pehle poochh lo.” “Un par hi chhod do.” “Mera toh waise bhi ek chhota sa riwaaz tha.” Kabhi tyohaar shuru hone se pehle hi shuru ho jaati hai.
Parivaar door bhi ho, jaanch chalti rehti hai: koi dish isliye nahi bani ki wo unki nahi, koi gaana daba raha, koi sajaawat mehmaan aane se pehle almirah mein rakh di gayi. Kyunki ye apni hi awaaz jaisi lagti hai, ise lihaaz maan liya jaata hai.
Andar ki awaazein aksar lehja kahin se udhaar leti hain.
Jaanch karne wali awaaz kiski tarah bolti hai, aur saal ke kin dino mein sabse tez hoti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Tyohaar ki yaad kahan se aati hai #
Har saal usi jagah rakha mila mithai ka dabba, rishtedaaron ke ghar jaate hue gaadi mein gaya gaya gaana, dadi ki recipe jo unhi haathon se banti hai. Kuch log tyohaar ko ek chhote, garm kamre ki tarah saath le chalte hain.
Kuch gharon mein din manane ka dhang hi wo tha jisse din apna lagta tha, aur wajahein har ghar mein alag hain. Bachcha isse chupchaap ye seekh sakta hai ki din sirf din nahi, wahi ek waqt hai jab ghar paas lagta hai.
Ye lagaav komal ho sakta hai.
Aapne pehli baar kab mehsoos kiya ki din manane ka dhang aapka hai, aur kisne use aisa banaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Ek chup niyam jo andar baith sakta hai #
Neeche ek maanyata ban sakti hai: “Mere din manane ka dhang yahan gina nahi jaata.” Kuch logon mein iska narm roop hota hai: “Mujhe apni reeten chhoti rakhni chahiye, taaki beech mein na aayein.”
Aisi baatein maanyata jaisi lagti nahi. Wo khayal rakhne jaisi lagti hain, jaise ek taraf hat jaana sirf tameez ho. Isiliye unhe kabhi-kabhi bahar nikalkar dekhna theek rehta hai.
Kuch log is niyam ko bachpan se jod paate hain, kuch nahi. Dono theek hai.
Zindagi ke kin hisson mein “mere din manane ka dhang chhota wala hai” aaj bhi baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Sab kuch ek hi dharre par manane ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai saal bhar ke aise tyohaar jo ek hi dharre par chale, aur jis ghar mein pale uske gaane, pakwaan aur chhoti rasmein dheere-dheere calendar se khisak gayi. Kuch log dekhte hain ki unhe zor se yaad karna unhone chunne se bahut pehle chhod diya tha.
Ek dheemi keemat aur hai. Har din kisi aur ke tareeke se manane par din aisi bhoomika lagne lagta hai jise achhe se nibhana hai, aisa din nahi jiska anand lein. Barah mahino mein ye kai aise tyohaar ban jaate hain jinmein shaamil hue, par poori tarah jiye nahi.
Ye kamzori nahi hai: toke jaane par shaaleen bane rehne mein sach mein taaqat lagti hai.
Pichhle barah mahino mein isne aapse kya liya: chhoote riwaaz, chup shaamein, ya wo din jo apna laga hi nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, apna dhang chhota rakhte hue #
Ek aam tyohaar ka din sochiye, jab “mere manane ka dhang gina nahi jaata” tez bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ke liye ek tasveer hai, theek karne ke liye kuch nahi.
Shayad usmein unke dhang se bani aur do baar jaanchi hui dish hai, gaadi mein hi gungunaya gaana, bachpan ki sajaawat jo drawer mein reh gayi, ghar bheji tasveer jiska caption zara zyada khush hai. Kuch fit hoga, kuch bilkul nahi.
Abhi kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi, aur tasveer jab chahein neeche rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usmein kya-kya hai: rasoi, phone, manzoori ka intezaar karte chhote faisle?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us tyohaar ko dekhne par, agar kuch dikhta hai, toh kya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Har ghar ki apni reet hoti hai #
Har ghar ke tyohaar manane ka dhang kahin se shuru hua: kisi dadi ki pasand, chhota sa ghar jismein ek baar jagah nahi thi, koi saal jab dukaanon mein kuch khatam ho gaya. Ghar ki reet wo tareeka hai jo us ghar ke liye chala, aur ye uske akela tareeka hone se alag baat hai.
Aise dekhein toh jo alag riwaaz lekar aaya, wo din ko galat manane wale jaisa kam aur use manane ka doosra dhang saath laane wale jaisa zyada lag sakta hai. Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai ye sochkar ki do dhang ek hi baithak mein mil rahe hain.
Tyohaar logon ke saath chalte hain.
Agar koi naya aapke manane ke dhang mein shaamil hota, toh apni kaun si reet aap chahte ki wo sabse zyada samjhe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #
Kuch log pal ko dheere se dohrakar dekhte hain ki cheez khud kitni chhoti thi: diye ki jagah, pakwaanon ka kram, ribbon ka rang. Cheez aur us par kahe sentence ka wazan aksar bahut alag aakaar ke nikalte hain.
Kuch ko wo pal bhi dikhte hain jab unka dhang apnaya gaya: kisi cousin ne recipe maangi, kisi bachche ne gaana dohraya, kisi buzurg ne kaha ki isse kuch yaad aa gaya. Kabhi wo pal toko se dheeme the, kabhi bahut kam, aur dono ko saaf dekhna theek hai.
Tok ke baghal mein chhote swaagat chhoot jaate hain.
Tyohaar ke kisi din aapke dhang ka koi hissa kab kisi aur ne uthaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Har tyohaar imtihaan nahi hai #
Sulah ka matlab ye maanna nahi ki manane ka ek hi tareeka hai, na ye dikhawa ki shabd chubhe nahi. Matlab bas itna ki ek sentence ka is par kam chale ki aap din ka kitna anand lein, aur uska kitna hissa chupchaap number paane mein jaaye.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab ve har tyohaar ko passing marks wala imtihaan maanna chhod dete hain. Imtihaan mein ek number deta hai aur doosra paata hai, aur beech mein kisi ko bas tyohaar manane nahi milta.
Jahan koi sach mein bura pesh aaye, wo seriously lene ki baat hai, aur us ghar mein kitna dikhana hai ye aapka faisla hai.
Agar us sentence ka kam chale, toh agla tyohaar kaisa lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha sentence #
Agar “mera din manane ka tareeka galat hai” pehle tyohaar se chal raha hai, toh usse seedhe ladna zaroori nahi. Kuch log iske badle ek sentence taiyaar rakhte hain: “Aaj do ghar mile hain, aur dono apna dhang saath laaye hain.”
Pehle-pehal sach lagna zaroori nahi. Ye bas ek line hai jise kuch log tyohaar ya saath bitaye lambe weekend se pehle aazmaate hain, aur kehte hain ki chupchaap dohrane se wo thodi jagah le leti hai jo purani line gheerti thi.
Sachcha sentence kisi ka paksh liye bina bhi baat keh sakta hai.
Manane ke do dhangon ke baare mein, dono ke liye jagah rakhne wala sentence aapke apne shabdon mein kaisa hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein shelf par rakhi ja sakti hain #
Tyohaar ke din har tok ko jawab, sabak ya agle saal ki yojana nahi chahiye. Kuch ko bas notice kiya ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur din ke aakhir mein chaabiyon ki tarah hall ki shelf par rakh diya ja sakta hai.
Ye haar maanna nahi hai, na ye sehmati hai. Ye chunna hai ki aapki taaqat kahan jaaye, aur kuch log kehte hain ki isse din ke wo hisse bach jaate hain jo pehle se unke apne hain: pasandida khaana, purane dost ka phone, khidki par ek shaant pal.
Shaam ke liye sentence rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek tha ya baat khatam ho gayi. Bas itna ki diyon aur thaaliyon par kahi kuch baaton ko baaki raat tak saath nahi jaana hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam thoda bhi dheela ho #
Bas tasveer ke taur par sochiye ki wo niyam ek darja halka ho gaya. Unka manane ka dhang unka rehta hai, aur aapka uske saath bina passing marks ke reh sakta hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain, jaise mez par apne ghar ki ek dish, rasoi mein dheere se gungunaya gaana, ya purane dost ko batana ki aapke yahan is din kya hota hai.
Ismein se kuch kisi se kehna zaroori nahi. Jo bhi uthe, wo aapka hai aur dhyan dene layak hai, chahe kitna bhi chhota lage. Theek se dekhna ho toh ek baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai, zara sa bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmaate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi sahi-tareeke wali baat”
- Chupke se poochhiye: din ka kaun sa hissa mere liye sabse zaroori hai?
- Gaur kijiye ki kaun zyada chubha: shabd ya lehja
- Apni ek chhoti reet sochiye jo pehle se aapke saath aayi hai
- Din se jo ek cheez chahi thi, us par gaur kijiye, chahe kitni chhoti
Chhote, private aur apni marzi se. Jo aaj ho sake, wahi chuniye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Jab kisi ne kaha ki hamare yahan ye aise nahi manate, tab aap kya kar rahe the?
- Jis tarah aapne ye din manana seekha, uska kaun sa hissa sabse zyada aapka hai?
- Parivaar mein kaun aapke manane ke dhang ke liye jagah banata hai?
- Tyohaar ke jis din sahi-tareeke wala niyam tez ho, us din aap phir bhi kya taalte rehte ho?
- Agar wo niyam thoda dheela hota, toh aapko sabse pehle kya dikhta?