Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Bahut se logon ke liye garv baareekiyon mein rehta hai, un hisson mein jinhein koi jaanchta nahi.
Kuch logon ke liye ye kisi nani-dadi tak jaata hai jo cheezein dheere-dheere seeti thin, ya pehle ustad tak jinhone kaha “Do baar naapo, ek baar kaato” aur sach mein waisa hi kiya.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Jo kaam karne layak hai, wo sahi karne layak hai”, ya “Jaldbaazi ka kaam bura kaam hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Der tak rukkar use waise poora karna jaise hona chahiye
- Time par bhej dena aur kamzor hisse ke baare mein jaagte rehna
- Ek chhota note jodna ki ye bas pehla draft hai
- Thodi kam parwaah karna, taaki kate konon ki chubhan kam lage
- Lunch par kisi dost se deadline ka rona rona
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
“Bas nikaal do”
Jaipur ki aapki firm mein deadline ek hafta aage khisak jaati hai. Manager kehte hain, “Bas nikaal do, baad mein sab dekh lenge.” Tajurbe se aap jaante ho ki “baad” kam hi aata hai. Aap kamzor hisson samet kaam bhej dete ho. Us shaam ghar par aap un galtiyon ke baare mein sochna band nahi kar paate jo dekhi par theek nahi kar paaye.
Dhang se karna pehle aaye
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Kaam ki jagah par jaldi se zyada dhang se karne ki qadar honi chahiye.” Ye sahi lagta hai. Achha kaam waqt leta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapka chain ek aisi raftaar se bandh deta hai jo aap tay nahi karte. Aapko apne kaam par achha lage ya nahi, ab doosron ki tay ki hui deadlines par tika hai, jo aksar aise dabaavon mein tay hoti hain jo aapki desk se nahi dikhte.
Achha karna izzat kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki dhang se kaam karna kaam aur uske liye bane logon ke prati izzat jaisa lagta hai. Shayad bachpan mein sikhaya gaya ki jo kaam karne layak hai, wo achhe se karne layak hai. Shayad aapne dekha hai ki kone kaatne par kya hota hai. Jo bhi ho, quality chahna sanak nahi hai. Ye kaam ki parwaah se aata hai, aur ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Jaldi ke kaam par jaagte rehna
Har jaldbaazi ka kaam ek halka dard chhod jaata hai. Aap jaagkar sochte ho ki ek aur din milta to kya karte. Jo garv pehle kaam mein mehsoos hota tha, wo kho jaata hai. Aap apne paimane aur ghadi ke beech khinche rehte ho. Dheere-dheere kaam aisi jagah lagne lagta hai jahan aap kabhi apna sabse achha nahi kar sakte, aur ye us khushi ko ghisa deta hai jo pehle usmein milti thi.
Kya perfect kaam ka dard sahi hai?
Imaandaari se poochiye: kya “aise hona chahiye” ko pakde rehne se kabhi deadline dheemi hui? Ya zyadatar har jaldbaazi wala kaam aur zyada chubha? Companies dabaav mein aksar quality ki jagah raftaar chunti hain; har jaldi ki deadline ke peechhe jo hai, use shayad aap apni desk se poora kabhi na dekh paayein. Jo bhi ho, jaldi ki deadline aapke paimane ki maap nahi hai. Is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna jitna deta hai, usse zyada leta hai.
Mile waqt mein apna sabse achha
Chhodne ka matlab paimana girana nahi. Matlab ye ki aapka chain ab is par nahi tika ki hamesha kaafi waqt mile. Mile hue waqt mein aap sabse achha kaam kar sakte ho, aur ye bhi ek hunar hai. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: dabaav mein kiye achhe kaam par garv ho sakta hai, aur oonche paimane bina har jaldbaazi ghar le jaaye bhi reh sakte hain.
If a cut corner could put someone's safety at risk, or anyone at work threatens, harasses or frightens you, that is not a hope to loosen; it is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleKaam ki jagah par jaldi se zyada dhang se karne ki qadar honi chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMile waqt mein apna sabse achha karna bhi ek hunar hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Jaldi ke kaam mein wo ek hissa chuniye jo sabse zaroori hai
- Din 2
Kaam nipat jaye to wo ek hissa sochiye jo aapne achha kiya
- Din 3
Ek shaam kaam ki fikron se chhutti le lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aapko apne kis kaam par sabse zyada garv hai, aur wahi kyun?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
“Bas bhej do, jo hai” #
Friday, paanch bajne mein das minute. Message aata hai: “Bas bhej do, baad mein dekh lenge.” Aap file dekhte hain. Do hisse abhi theek nahi hain, aur aap jaante hain. Send dabate hue mann mein wo line aati hai: “Kaam ki jagah par jaldi se zyada dhang se karne ki qadar honi chahiye.”
Kuch log kahenge ki ye garv ki baat hai. Achha kaam apne tareeke se kehta hai, “Main yahan tha, aur mujhe parwaah thi.” Aadha-adhoora bhejna aisa lag sakta hai jaise us cheez ke neeche dastkhat kar diye hon jis par abhi poora yakeen nahi.
Koi aisa kaam yaad kijiye jo aapne dhang se kiya, poore waqt ke saath.
Use saunpte hue kaisa laga tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Send button par halki sihran #
Kuch log ise jabde mein mehsoos karte hain, deadline zor se sunte hi kasaav. Kuch ke chehre par garmi aa jaati hai, ya haath keyboard ke upar ek pal zyada thehra rehta hai, phir click hota hai.
Dimaag ke paas shabd aane se pehle body aitraaz kar deti hai. Ek lambi saans, kandhe uchkana, us ek line par jhatpat nazar jo sabse zyada bigad sakti hai. Lambe khayal baad mein aate hain, nahate hue ya ghar ki bus mein.
Pichhli baar jab aapse kaha gaya ki kuch jaldi nipta do jiski aapko parwaah thi, to body mein sabse pehle kahan mehsoos hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Parwaah mein waqt lagta hai #
Kaam achhe se karne ke liye waqt chahna samajh aata hai. Jaldi ka kaam aksar laut aata hai: koi galti sudharni hai, koi email samjhani hai, koi customer naaraaz hai. Ek baar dhang se karne par baad ke ghante bach sakte hain.
Chubhan ki ek aur wajah hai. Bahut se logon ke liye garv baareekiyon mein rehta hai, un hisson mein jinhein koi jaanchta nahi. Jab raftaar hamesha jeete, to kaam ka wo hissa jo apna lagta tha, chupchaap sikudne lagta hai.
Aapke kaam ki kaun si chhoti baareeki aapko sabse zyada sahi karne mein maza aata hai, bhale use koi kabhi notice na kare?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo daraarein jaanti hai #
“Ye abhi taiyaar nahi tha.” “Galti pakdi jayegi, aur naam mera aayega.” “Mujhe itni parwaah hai hi kyun?” Shayad wo usi pal sunayi de jab file nikal jaati hai aur kuch badla nahi ja sakta.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki awaaz mein do cheezein saath hain: quality ki sachchi nazar, aur kamiyon ke liye dosh milne ka darr. Pehli hunar hai jo sambhalkar rakhne layak hai. Doosri har deadline ko imtihaan bana sakti hai.
Jab awaaz kamzor jagah ki taraf ishaara karti hai, to use sabse zyada darr kis baat ka hai ki aage kya hoga, aur kiske saath?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
“Dhang se karo” kahan se seekha #
Kuch logon ke liye ye kisi nani-dadi tak jaata hai jo cheezein dheere-dheere seeti thin, ya pehle ustad tak jinhone kaha “Do baar naapo, ek baar kaato” aur sach mein waisa hi kiya. Ek saleeqedaar insaan zindagi bhar ka paimana bana sakta hai.
Kabhi ye school se aaya, jahan saaf copy ya sahi jawab par laal tick ki khamosh shabaashi milti thi. Ya kisi rasoi, workshop ya dukaan se, jahan jaldbaazi ka kaam sabko dikh jaata tha.
Sabse pehle kisne aapko dikhaya ki koi kaam dhang se karna kaisa hota hai, aur unhone aisa kya kiya jo saath reh gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Neeche baitha niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Jo kaam karne layak hai, wo sahi karne layak hai”, ya “Jaldbaazi ka kaam bura kaam hai.” Niyam purana hai aur aksar samajhdaari bhara. Par ye har chhoti deadline ko apmaan jaisa bhi bana sakta hai.
Ye niyam wahan seekha gaya jahan ye achha chala. Is jagah par, apne customers aur apni ghadi ke saath, use ek aur sach ke saath kamra baantna pad sakta hai: kabhi-kabhi waqt par aur “chal jaye” wala kaam zyada logon ke kaam aata hai.
Quality ka aapka niyam is kaam mein kahan achha baithta hai, aur bhaagdaud wale din kahan zara chubhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Jaldbaazi kya chheen sakti hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai shaamein bheji hui email ko dobara sochte hue, har deadline se pehle ek gaanth, ya kam parwaah karne ki aadat taaki kone kam chubhein. Har cheez chhoti hai, par saal bhar mein jud jaati hain.
Badi keemat aksar garv ki hoti hai. Jab kaam kabhi waise poora na ho jaisa aap chahte the, to job ghadi ki lagne lagti hai, aapki nahi. Ye mayne rakhta hai, bhale kisi aur ko na dikhe.
Pichhle kuch mahinon ko sochiye, kis kaam par aapko aaj bhi khushi hai ki aapne use achhe se kiya, deadline jo bhi rahi ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Lambi nazar: hamesha jaldi bhej dena #
Kuch saal aage ki ek tasveer aazmaiye, us din ki jab ye ummeed zor se bolti hai. Aap wo kaam bhej dete hain jo jaante hain ki taiyaar nahi, kyunki deadline ne kaha. File jaati hai, aur kamzor hissa uske saath.
Shayad desk par jaldi ka lunch, jawab dekhkar ek aah, ghar ki bus mein dimaag mein use theek karna, ghar par chhota jawab kyunki mann ab bhi office mein hai.
Is tasveer mein suljhane ko kuch nahi, aur ise kabhi bhi drawer mein rakha ja sakta hai.
Us din ka baaki hissa kaisa hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Tasveer mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhte hue aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Tez aur dhang ka, hamesha dushman nahi #
Raftaar aur saleeqa ulte lag sakte hain, par bahut se kaamon mein ve jagah badal lete hain. Jaldi mein baanta gaya kachcha version galat mod ko pehle pakad sakta hai, iske pehle ki galat cheez ko chamkane mein ghante lag jaayein.
Jo log raftaar maang rahe hain, ve shayad kisi aur ghadi ko dekh rahe hain: intezaar karta customer, launch ki taareekh, unke upar baitha koi boss. Isse jaldbaazi sahi nahi ho jaati. Ho sakta hai ki wo aap par ya aapke paimane par koi faisla na ho.
Aapke kaam ka kaun sa hissa sach mein waqt maangta hai, aur kaun sa kachcha reh sakta hai bina kisi ka nuksaan kiye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Wo parwaah jo pehle se aapki hai #
Jaldbaazi ke baghal mein kuch cheezein pehle se aapki ho sakti hain: baareeki par aapki nazar, ek colleague jo aapka kaam pyaar se jaanchta hai, is mahine ka ek kaam jo aap dhang se poora kar paaye.
Inmein se kuch nahi kehta ki deadlines jaayaz hain; aur waqt ki chaah jaisi hai waisi reh sakti hai. Ye cheezein chupchaap sach bhi hain. Ek achhi chhoti baat ko bina keemat chukaye bhi dekha ja sakta hai.
Achhe kaam ki aapki apni parwaah ek aam hafte mein aapko pehle se kya deti hai, jise aap zyada notice karna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Paimana rakhiye, gaanth dheeli kijiye #
Yahan sulah ka matlab quality chhod dena nahi hai. Bas itna ki jaisa aap chahte the aur jaisa hua, unke beech ki khaai ghar tak peechha karna band kar de. Agar koi kona kaatne se kisi ki suraksha khatre mein pad sakti ho, to wo dheela karne wali ummeed nahi hai; use gambhirta se lena theek hai.
Koi boss, client ya colleague jo dhamkaye, pareshaan kare ya beizzat kare, ya aapki pehchaan ki wajah se aapko alag chhaante (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi disability ya wo jagah jahan se aap aaye), ye alag baat hai, aur ise gambhirta se lena chahiye.
Bina paise ka kaam thopa jaana, salary ya kaagzaat roke jaana, asurakshit kaam ya darr bhi aise hi hain. Aise mein saath chalna ya satark rehna hi surakshit chunav ho sakta hai.
Kaam ki jagah par buniyadi izzat aur suraksha “zyada maangna” kabhi nahi hoti, na aapke liye, na aapke aaspaas ke logon ke liye.
Ek shaam sochiye jo iske saath zara aasaan hai: jo ghanta pehle bheji ja chuki file par jaata tha, uska aap kya karenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Send button ke liye ek line #
“Kaam ki jagah par jaldi se zyada dhang se karne ki qadar honi chahiye” ke paas kuch log doosri line rakhte hain: “Mujhe achhe kaam ki parwaah hai, aur aaj maine utna kiya jitna waqt ne ijaazat di.” Wo pehli line ko kaatti nahi. Uska saath deti hai.
Naye vaakya naye joote ki tarah akde lag sakte hain. Kuch log ek hafta pehankar rakh lete hain. Kuch ko apne shabd zyada baithte hain, aur wo bhi utna hi theek hai.
Aapki apni sachchi line kya hogi, jo aapke paimane bachaye rakhe aur phir bhi kaamkaji din ko khatam hone de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch adhoori cheezein adhoori reh sakti hain #
Har jaldbaazi wale kaam ko aaj raat dohrana zaroori nahi. Use notice kiya ja sakta hai, feel kiya ja sakta hai, aur desk par wahin chhoda ja sakta hai jahan wo hai, jaise auzaar wapas apni jagah rakh diya jaye.
Waqt ki chaah bani reh sakti hai. Utpeedan, dhamki, beizzati, pehchaan ki wajah se alag chhaanta jaana, bina paise ka kaam, salary ya kaagzaat rokna, asurakshit kaam ya darr, ye alag baat hai, aur inhein gambhirta se lena chahiye; satark rehna surakshit chunav ho sakta hai.
Desk par chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki jaldbaazi sahi thi. Matlab ye ki aaj ki shaam kisi aur baat ki ho sakti hai.
Aap use kiski banana chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar gaanth zara dheeli pade #
Ab wahi din, ummeed ek paaydaan dheemi. Aap ab bhi time par bhejte hain. Bhejne se pehle sirf apne liye likh lete hain ki aur waqt milta to kaun si ek cheez theek karte. Phir laptop band karte hain.
Kuch ke liye ye lautti bus ki sawaari hai, khidki aur gaano ke saath. Kabhi ye wo dinner hai jisme ve poori tarah wahan hain.
Jo bhi aapne dekha, wo aapke apne mann mein reh sakta hai. Aage: sulah kaisi lag sakti hai, aur aapke liye pehle se kya hai.
Kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapka apna pehla ishaara kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Aaj ke kaam ka wo ek hissa dekhiye jo aapne sachmuch parwaah se kiya
- Chupchaap naam lijiye us ek baat ka jise zyada waqt milta to aap theek karte
- Dekhiye ki awaaz kab “chal jaye” ko nakaami keh deti hai
- Kisi aise insaan ko sochiye jiske kaam ki aap qadar karte hain, aur wo deadline kaise nibhata hai
- Bheje hue kaam ko draft ki tarah dekhiye, apne baare mein faisle ki tarah nahi
Sab nijee, sab optional. Aaj jo sahi lage, wahi aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aapko apne kis kaam par sabse zyada garv hai, aur wahi kyun?
- Aapko kisne sikhaya ki kaam dhang se karne ki parwaah karni chahiye?
- Aakhri baar kab aapko kisi kaam ko sachmuch achhe se karne bhar ka waqt mila?
- Agar dhang se karne ki ye chaah zara halki baithe, to aapki shaamein kaisi dikhengi?
- Deadline ho ya na ho, apne kaam karne ke tareeke mein aapko kya achha lagta hai?