Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Jo hum ummeed karte hain, wo cheezon ke lagne ko rang deta hai.
Kuch logon mein ye apne bachpan se aati hai: school se pehle bana hua bistar, Itwaar ko dadi ka almaari dekhna, behen ke saath saajha kamra jahan dono aadhe hisse bilkul qareene se rehte the.
Bheetar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Saaf kamre ka matlab seekhta hua bachcha,” ya “Yahan dheel di to sab bigad jayega.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- School jaane par khud saaf kar dena, aur poore waqt kheej mein rehna
- Din kaisa raha poochhne se pehle kamre ke baare mein poochhna
- Darwaaza band karke kamre ko ghar ka hissa hi na maanna
- Kisi cousin ya dost ke bachche ko saaf-suthra batakar misaal dena
- Hafton jaane dena, phir ek Itwaar ko sab ek saath utha dena
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Farsh par kapde, mez par plates
Aap bete ke kamre ka darwaaza kholte hain, dhuli qameezein rakhne ke liye: farsh par kapde, mez par plates, bistar par towel. Is hafte teen baar keh chuke hain. Haath mein qameezein liye dehleez par khade, kheej aur thakan ka jaana-pehchana mel uthta hai. Aah bharkar darwaaza wapas bhida dete hain, par gandagi poori shaam dimaag mein rehti hai.
Unka kamra saaf hona chahiye
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Mere bachchon ko apna kamra khud saaf rakhna chahiye.” Ye bilkul theek lagta hai. Unki jagah hai, unka kaam hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapka chain ek aise kamre se bandh jaata hai jisme aap rehte nahi. Shaam shaant rahegi ya nahi, ye ek aise bachche par tik jaata hai jiske saaf ke paimane alag ho sakte hain.
Saaf kamra zimmedaari jaisa kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki saaf kamra zimmedaari jaisa lagta hai, aur zimmedaari achhe paalan-poshan jaisi. Shayad aapko bachpan mein kamra chamakta rakhna sikhaya gaya aur wo aapka hissa ban gaya. Shayad bikhraav se hi bechaini hoti hai. Saaf kamra chahna sanak nahi hai. Isme chaah hai ki bachche apna khayal rakhna seekhein. Ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Har din ki chhoti jang
Har bikhra kamra ek chhoti jang ban jaata hai. Aap tokne lagte ho, aur apni tokne ki awaaz sunte ho. Lagta hai aap hi bure hain. Ve aankhein ghumate hain, aapki awaaz oonchi ho jaati hai, aur baad mein kisi ko achha nahi lagta. Dheere-dheere kamra aapki har chinta ka nishaan ban jaata hai, aur saath ka waqt moze-plates ki behes kha jaati hai, asli baatcheet nahi.
Kya ye jang ladne laayak hai?
Imaandari se poochhiye: kya saaf kamre ko kaskar pakadne se wo kabhi zyada saaf hua? Ya zyadatar shaamein tanaavbhari hui? Kai bachche apna ghar hone tak safai ki zyada parwah nahi karte, aur bikhra farsh is baare mein kam batata hai ki ve kaise insaan ban rahe hain. Bikhra kamra aapki parvarish ka paimana nahi hai. Is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna deta kam hai, leta zyada hai.
Unka kamra, aapka chain
Chhodne ka matlab kamre ki parwah chhodna nahi hai. Matlab ye ki aapka chain us darwaaze ke peechhe jo hai us par na tike. Apni jagahein apne tareeke se rakhiye, kaun si baat chunni hai ye tay kijiye, aur kamre ko unka rehne dijiye. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: darwaaza band karke apni shaam ka maza liya ja sakta hai, aur saath ka waqt doosri baaton ka ho sakta hai.
Basic respect and safety at home are never too much to expect; being threatened, hurt or frightened by anyone is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMere bachchon ko apna kamra khud saaf rakhna chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleUnka kamra unka ho sakta hai. Mera chain mera.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Unka darwaaza band kijiye aur apne saaf kone ka maza lijiye
- Din 2
Ek poori shaam kamre ke siva har baat kijiye
- Din 3
Ek chhoti, sachmuch zaroori baat chuniye, baaki jaane dijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Bachche ke darwaaze par aakhri baar jab khade hue, to haath mein kya tha aur pehle kya dikha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Har subah ek hi darwaaza #
“Mere bachchon ko apna kamra khud saaf rakhna chahiye.” Ye khayal aksar darwaaze par aata hai: Jaipur ke kisi flat mein jeans aur chargers ke dher ke saamne darwaaza dhakelte hue, ya school bag se bachte hue, ya mudi-tudi uniform tah karte hue.
Ye badi maang jaisi kam hi lagti hai. Lagti hai sabse chhoti, sabse aam ummeed: ki jis bachche ka apna kamra hai, ya apna aadha hissa, wo use sambhalna seekhe, aur ghar ka ek darwaaza roz ki behes na bane.
Bachche ke kamre ko lekar ye baat aakhri baar kab mann mein aayi, aur darwaaze se aapko kya dikh raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Bina shabd ke darwaaza kya karta hai #
Kuch maata-pita ko darwaaza khulte hi pata chal jaata hai: farsh, bistar, mez par ek jhatke mein nazar, aur dil baithne jaisa ehsaas jo khayal se pehle pahunchta hai. Kamra ek second se kam mein padh liya jaata hai, jaise shaam ka mausam.
Kuch ko jawab pehle banta dikhta hai, tay hone se pehle hi: kisi jaane-pehchane sentence ka pehla shabd zubaan par, ek aah jo nikal jaati hai, haath jo darwaaza wapas kheenchne ko badhta hai. Soch zara baad mein aati hai.
Pichhli baar bachche ke darwaaze par khade hokar sabse pehle kya mehsoos hua, shabdon se pehle?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Bade hone se judi ek jaayaz aas #
Ye ummeed theek isliye lagti hai ki isme sachchi samajhdaari hai. Apna kamra bachche ka pehla chhota ghar ho sakta hai, aur chahna ki wo use sambhale, apne moze khud dhoondhe, thoda apni tarah ka saleeqa banaye, us insaan ke liye aas hai jo wo ban raha hai.
Jo hum ummeed karte hain, wo cheezon ke lagne ko rang deta hai. Jo darwaaza gandagi ki ummeed se khole, use pehle gandagi hi dikhti hai, aur hoodies ke dher ke neeche saaf ki hui mez usi nazar mein chhoot jaati hai.
School ki ek aam raat par saaf kamra kaisa dikhega: farsh par kya hoga, bistar par kya, aur wo cheezein wahan kisne rakhi hongi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Darwaaze par khadi awaaz #
“Kamra hai ya kabaadkhana?” “Inke peechhe samet-ne ka theka mera nahi hai.” “Mehmaan dekh lein to log kya sochenge?” Ye awaaz aksar tab bolti hai jab haath mein dhule kapdon ki baalti ho, ya mehmaan aane wale hon aur baaki ghar taiyaar ho.
“Chahiye” tab aur bhaari lagta hai jab wo kisi aur ki awaaz mein bola ja raha ho. Kuch maata-pita paate hain ki darwaaze par kahe gaye shabd kisi rishtedaar ki chalte-chalte kahi baat, kisi mehmaan ki nazar, ya apne maa-baap ke Itwaar wale muaayne jaise lagte hain, apni chaah se kam.
Jab darwaaze wali awaaz kamre par shuru hoti hai, to kiske shabdon jaisi lagti hai, aur kamre se apne ghar ke baare mein kya kehlwana chahti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Saaf kamre ki tasveer kahan se shuru hui #
Kuch logon mein ye apne bachpan se aati hai: school se pehle bana hua bistar, Itwaar ko dadi ka almaari dekhna, behen ke saath saajha kamra jahan dono aadhe hisse bilkul qareene se rehte the. Kai gharon mein saaf kamra din ki shuruaat ka hissa tha.
Kuch mein ye ulti taraf se aati hai: aisa bachpan jisme apna kamra tha hi nahi, ya aisa ghar jahan saamaan har kone mein ghus aata tha, aur chupchaap ye aas ki apne bachchon ko isse behtar mile aur ve use sambhalein. Kuch log aisi tasveer bachpan tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi.
Saaf kamra sochne par apne bachpan ka kaun sa kamra yaad aata hai, aur use saaf kaun rakhta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Kapdon ke saath tah kiya hua niyam #
Bheetar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Saaf kamre ka matlab seekhta hua bachcha,” ya “Yahan dheel di to sab bigad jayega.” Pehla sentence sunayi deta hai; neeche wala niyam tay karta hai ki kapdon ka dher bas dher padha jaye, ya kisi badi baat ka ishara.
Ye niyam jaisa nahi lagta. Lagta hai bade hone ke baare mein seedhi samajhdaari, aur uske kuch hisson mein sach bhi hai. Isiliye ise dekhna theek rehta hai, apne bachche ke saath jaisa wo is saal hai, apni umar, apne hafte aur apne saaf-suthre ke apne paimane ke saath.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Aaj ke ghar mein saaf kamre wala niyam kahan ab bhi baithta hai, aur kahan nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Ek darwaaza kya le sakta hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai school se aane ke baad pehli baat farsh ki hona, achhi shaam ka dehleez par hi palat jaana, aur chhutti ki subah ghoomne ki jagah almaari par mol-tol mein nikal jaana. Ek chhota-sa kamra ghar mein sabke hafte ka hairaan karne wala hissa le sakta hai.
Phir wo baatein hain jo hoti hi nahi. Jab kamra har baatcheet ka darwaaza ban jaye, to kuch maata-pita paate hain ki bachche ki baaki zindagi ki kam baatein sunayi deti hain: door gaya dost, narmi se boli teacher, band darwaaze ke peechhe repeat par bajta gaana.
Bachcha kaise bada ho, is aas ka wazan asli hota hai.
Pichhle saal ki kaun si aam baatcheet kamre ki baatcheet ban gayi, aur usse pehle wo kis baare mein thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Band darwaaze ke aur paanch saal #
Ek aam Tuesday sochiye, us din ka jab “Bachche apna kamra saaf rakhein” ki awaaz tez hai. Ye bas ek tasveer hai, dekhne ke liye, theek karne ke liye kuch nahi.
Shayad har subah unka darwaaza bhidana taaki kamra sabse pehle na dikhe, ghar aane se pehle hi bheja gaya reminder, farsh ki baat se shuru hota dinner, aur almaari phir uth jaane ki wajah se chhooti film ki raat.
Isme kuch bhavishyavani nahi, aur tasveer jab chahein wapas rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usme kya hai: darwaaza, yaad dilana, kahi hui baatein, ankahi baatein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din mein kya bhara hai, aur kya intezaar mein hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Tuesday ko dekhkar, kuch dikhta hai to kya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Saaf, kiske paimane se? #
Saaf ke kai matlab ho sakte hain: chalne laayak farsh, konon wala bana bistar, dhule aur pehne kapde alag-alag, homework laayak khaali mez. Maata-pita aur bachcha ek hi kamre ko dekhte hue bilkul alag cheezein naap rahe ho sakte hain.
Ummeed tab sabse achha kaam karti hai jab wo utni ho jitna sachmuch ho sake. Kamra bachche ka apna bhi ho sakta hai aur saajhe ghar ke bheetar bhi, aur ‘kaafi’ ka matlab aath saal mein aur solah saal mein bahut alag dikh sakta hai.
‘Saaf’ shabd mein jo kuch bhara hai, usme se kaun sa hissa aapke liye sabse zaroori hai, aur kaun sa bachche ke tay karne ka ho sakta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Kamra pehle se kya dikhata hai #
Kabhi-kabhi ye dekhna achha lag sakta hai ki bachcha us kamre mein aur bahar pehle se kya laata hai: bistar ke upar chipki koi drawing, kitaabein aisi tarteeb mein jo bas wahi samajhta hai, ek paudha jise paani dena yaad rehta hai, aapke darwaaze par koi video dikhane ki dastak.
Inmein se kuch bhi bakaya nahi hai, aur ise dekhne se aas waisi hi rehti hai: kuch baaton par khush bhi hua ja sakta hai aur baaki badalne ki chaah bhi rakhi ja sakti hai. Shukriya aksar logon ke karne mein rehta hai, kehne mein kam, to bina kahe ki chhoti cheezein hi dekhne laayak ho sakti hain.
Agar abhi kuch nahi soojhta, to theek hai.
Us darwaaze ke peechhe ya bahar aapka bachcha ghar mein pehle se kya laata hai, jise aap thoda aur dekhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Chain, aur jo jaayaz hai use rakhna #
Is ummeed se chain ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki wo zyada maangti thi, ya ki sahi thi. Matlab ye ki ek kamre ka haal poore ghar ka mood tay karna band kar de, aur darwaaza wo jagah na rahe jahan har shaam ka faisla hota hai.
Jo isme jaayaz hai wo reh sakta hai: saajhe ghar ki dekhbhaal ki chaah, ye aas ki bachcha apni cheezein sambhalna seekhe. Jo dheela ho sakta hai wo roz ka muaayna hai, taaki bikhra hua Tuesday bas bikhra hua Tuesday ho, aur khaane ki mez par baat kuch aur ho.
Ghar mein buniyadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi hoti, aapke liye bhi, bachche ke liye bhi.
Is chaah se chain wali kisi shaam ki sochiye: us band darwaaze ke paas se guzarte hue aap kahan jaa rahe honge, aur kis baat ka intezaar hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Darwaaze ke liye ek zyada sachchi line #
“Mere bachchon ko apna kamra khud saaf rakhna chahiye” se behes karne ki jagah kuch log aisi line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Meri aas hai ki ve apni jagah sambhalna seekhein, aur kamra shaam ka faisla na kare.” Use jeetna nahi hai, bas purani ke bagal mein khada rehna hai.
Galiyare mein chupchaap kahi jaye to shuru mein sapaat lag sakti hai. Kuch logon ko pata chalta hai ki apne shabdon ka sentence dheere-dheere purane wale ki thodi jagah le leta hai; kuch ko nahi, aur koi aur line hamesha aazmayi ja sakti hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein kaun sa sentence zyada sachcha hoga, jo sambhale hue kamre ki aas rakhe aur baaki shaam aazaad chhod de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch darwaaze aaj raat band reh sakte hain #
Kapdon ka har dher aaj hi nipatana zaroori nahi. Kuch baatein dekhi ja sakti hain, un par aah bhari ja sakti hai aur agle din ke liye chhodi ja sakti hain, jaise Jaipur mein Guruwar ki raat dheere se bhidaya gaya darwaaza, ya seedhi ke paas rakhi dhule kapdon ki baalti.
Ghar ko lekar koi aas jab tak chahein niji reh sakti hai, aur aaj ka farsh kaisa bhi dikhe, use kisi aur din par chhodna theek hai.
Aaj shaam ke liye use neeche rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki kuch kam tha, ya ki baat nipat gayi. Bas itna ki ek kamre ko raat ke baaki hisse mein aapke peechhe nahi aana hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar darwaaza, zara-sa, dheela padta #
Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ye ummeed ek paayadaan dheemi ho. Sambhale kamre ki aas ab bhi hai, par kapdon ka dher dher hi hai, is baat ka faisla nahi ki sab kaisa chal raha hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: darwaaza band karke aaj ko kisi aur baat ka rehne dena, school se aane par aisa hello jo unke din ki baat rahe, ya chhutti ki subah apni plans mein bitana.
Isme se kuch bhi kisi se kehna nahi hai. Jo ubharta hai wo aapka hai, dekhne laayak. Aage: is aas se chain ka matlab kya ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag mehsoos hoga, chahe thoda hi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Log kuch chhoti cheezein aazmate hain #
- Darwaaza khulte waqt dekhiye ki kaun sa waqt hai aur din ne kitna thakaya hai
- Darwaaze par dekhiye ki kya dikh raha hai: kamra, ya uske peechhe poora hafta
- Aaj apne liye jo chaha, chahe kitna chhota, use gaur se dekhiye
- Chupchaap khud se poochhiye: kamre ki kaun si ek baat mere liye sabse zaroori hai?
- Kamre ko bachche ki nazar se dekhiye, ek vyast school ki raat mein
Chhoti, niji aur sab optional. Jo ho sake, wahi aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Bachche ke darwaaze par aakhri baar jab khade hue, to haath mein kya tha aur pehle kya dikha?
- Kamre par kaun si behes aap ab bhi dohrate hain, aur aakhir mein wo kis baare mein thi?
- Apna kamra sambhalne se bachcha kya seekhe, ye aap sabse zyada kya chahte hain?
- Agar saaf kamre ki aas thodi dheeli pade, to shaamon mein aapko sabse pehle kya dikhega?
- Aapka bachcha ghar mein pehle se kya laata hai jiska aap aur maza lena chahenge?