Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye isliye bhi chubhta hai ki dobara poochna poore hall ke saamne ye maan lene jaisa lag sakta hai ki samajh mein peechhe hain.
Kuch logon mein ye school ke dinon tak jaata hai: pehli baar jab sawaal poochha aur koi hans pada, ya teacher ne lambi saans chhodi.
Neeche koi niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Achha teacher wo hai jo pakka kare ki sabko samajh aaye,” ya “Agar pehli baar mein nahi samjha, to mujhmein hi kuch gadbad hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Jo likh sakein likh lena, is ummeed mein ki baad mein samajh aa jaayega
- Sir hilate rehna, taaki kisi ko pata na chale
- Raat der tak akele use suljhane mein lage rehna
- Online khojna aur teen alag-alag tareeke pa jaana
- Maan lena ki ye vishay “apne bas ka nahi”
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
“Koi sawaal?” aur chup kamra
Jaipur ke Raja Park ke paas shaam ki commerce class. Sir naya topic bhaagte hue khatam karte hain aur poochhte hain, “Koi sawaal?” Aapke paas kai hain, par kamra chup hai, aur pichhle hafte do baar haath uthane par unhone halki saans chhodi thi. Board par aankde tairte hain, topic har minute aur door hota jaata hai. Wo ehsaas soch se zyada der tikta hai.
Teacher phir se samjhayein
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Teacher tab tak samjhayein, jab tak mujhe samajh na aa jaaye.” Ye bilkul jaayaz lagta hai. Bahut log bina soche isi par chalte hain. Padhane ka kaam yahi toh hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapki samajh ko kisi aur ke dheeraj aur raftaar par tika deta hai. Jab wo aage badh jaate hain, to peechhe chhoot jaane jaisa lagta hai, aur topic sirf naya nahi, namumkin lagne lagta hai.
Achha padhana dekhbhaal jaisa kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki achha padhaya jaana dekhbhaal jaisa lagta hai. Bahut logon ke saath is niyam ka koi roop bada hote hue chala, aur tab wo aksar theek bhi tha. Shayad kabhi koi teacher mile the jo jitni baar chahiye samjha dete the. Shayad aap dheere, qadam-dar-qadam seekhte ho. Jo bhi ho, dobara samjhane ki chaah dheemapan nahi hai. Ye sach mein samajhne ki ichchha se aati hai, aur ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Har jaldbaazi wale paath ki fikr
Har jaldbaazi wala paath fikr badhata hai. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par aap feel karte ho. Dheere-dheere sab judta jaata hai. Aap sawaal poochna chhod dete ho, us saans ke darr se. Samajhne ka dikhaava karte ho. Har hafte aur peechhe lagte ho. Jo vishay aapne khud chuna tha, wo is baat ka saboot lagne lagta hai ki aapse nahi hoga, aur jis class ka pehle utsaah tha, uska darr lagne lagta hai.
Kya teacher ka intezaar iske layak hai?
Imaandaari se poochiye: kya teacher ke dheeme hone ke intezaar se kabhi topic saaf hua? Ya zyadatar baat atki hi rahi? Teacher aksar tay waqt mein tay syllabus nipatane ki daud mein hote hain, aur dekh nahi paate ki kaun khoya hai. Jo bhi ho, unki raftaar ye nahi naapti ki aap kitna achha seekh sakte ho. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakde rakhna iske layak hai?
Apni raftaar se seekhna
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki achha samjhaya jaana maayne nahi rakhta. Matlab ye hai ki aapka seekhna ab kisi ek ki raftaar ka intezaar nahi karta. Aap use khud dobara padh sakte ho, koi aur tareeka dhoondh sakte ho, ya ghar par qadam-dar-qadam chal sakte ho. Pehle kuch aur badalna zaroori nahi. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: vishay aapka ho jaata hai, aapke apne waqt mein samajhne ke liye.
If you are frightened of what will happen at home over marks or study, or someone hurts or shames you over them, that is different from this hope and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleTeacher tab tak samjhayein, jab tak mujhe samajh na aa jaaye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleIse apni raftaar se seekhna mere liye theek hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Ek mushkil hissa ghar par aaram se dobara padhiye
- Din 2
Topic ka koi ek aur tareeke se samjhaya roop dhoondhiye
- Din 3
Khud se kahiye: “Naya” ka matlab “namumkin” nahi hai
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aapke jaanne walon mein sabse achha samjhane wala kaun hai, aur usmein kya khaas hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Samajh aane se pehle slide badal gayi #
Jaipur ki shaam ki class mein Sir ek baar, tezi se, topic samjhate hain aur agli slide par chale jaate hain. Sab sir hilate dikhte hain. Haath uthne ko hota hai, phir neeche aa jaata hai. Copy ke haashiye par ek sawaaliya nishaan, aur mann mein: “Teacher tab tak samjhayein, jab tak mujhe samajh na aa jaaye.”
Kuch logon ke liye ye ek seedha-sa haq hai: apni raftaar se seekhne ka. Samajhna koi daud nahi. Kuch baatein ek baar mein baith jaati hain, aur kuch ko teen baar, ek chitra aur ghar tak paidal chalte hue sochne ki zaroorat padti hai.
Koi aisa waqt yaad kijiye jab koi cheez aakhir samajh mein aayi, kisi bhi vishay ya hunar mein.
Kisne madad ki thi, aur usne kya kiya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Aadha uthkar ruka haath #
Kuch logon ka chehra garm hone lagta hai jab samjhane ki raftaar aage nikal jaati hai. Kuch ko pet mein kuch baithta-sa lagta hai, kyunki class agli baat par badh jaati hai aur doori aur badi ho jaati hai.
Sharir aksar dimaag se pehle faisla kar leta hai: haath aadha uthkar laut aata hai, nazar bagal wale ke notes par phisal jaati hai, qalam bina samjhe likhti rehti hai. Fikr baad mein aati hai, jab assignment khula hota hai.
Pichhli baar jab class mein kuch samajh nahi aaya, us pehle pal mein, kisi bhi khayal se pehle, aapke sharir ne kya kiya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Na samajh aana, seekhne ka hissa hai #
Dobara samjhaye jaane ki chaah jaayaz hai. Har kisi ke seekhne ki raftaar alag hoti hai, aur pehla tareeka har kisi ke liye sahi nahi hota. Doosri baar, kisi aur dhang se kahi gayi baat sab kuch badal sakti hai.
Ye isliye bhi chubhta hai ki dobara poochna poore hall ke saamne ye maan lene jaisa lag sakta hai ki samajh mein peechhe hain. Bhare hue hall mein, jaldi mein baithe lecturer ke aage, sawaal jokhim jaisa lagta hai, bhale aadhi class ke mann mein wahi sawaal ho.
Koi ek cheez bataiye jo pehle mushkil lagi thi aur ab aasaani se ho jaati hai.
Aakhir mein use kya baat aasaan bana gayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz, jo kehti hai “sabko samajh aa gaya” #
“Sabko toh samajh aa gaya.” “Main hi sabse peechhe hoon.” “Dobara poochha toh sab bewakoof samjhenge.” Ye awaaz aksar samjhane ke theek baad aati hai, jab kamra chup ho jaata hai aur Sir poochhte hain, “Koi sawaal?”
Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki awaaz sharmindagi se bachane ki koshish kar rahi hai. Ye chaah samajh mein aati hai. Par isse sawaal andar band rehta hai, jahan use kabhi jawab nahi milta.
Jab awaaz kahe ki sabko samajh aa gaya, to wo kitni pakki hai, aur use asal mein kaise pata hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Dobara poochna kab mushkil lagne laga #
Kuch logon mein ye school ke dinon tak jaata hai: pehli baar jab sawaal poochha aur koi hans pada, ya teacher ne lambi saans chhodi. Aisa ek pal barson tak chup rehna sikha sakta hai.
Kabhi ye ghar par ya school mein “kamzor” kahe jaane se aaya, ya har waqt kisi tez bhai, behen ya cousin se tulna se. “Ek baar mein kyun nahi samajhta?” jaisi baat ka darr sawaal se bhi bada ho jaata hai.
Aapki zindagi mein kisne aaram se aur dheeraj se cheezein samjhayin, aur usne aisa kya kiya ki poochna aasaan laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Samajh ko lekar ek niyam #
Neeche koi niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Achha teacher wo hai jo pakka kare ki sabko samajh aaye,” ya “Agar pehli baar mein nahi samjha, to mujhmein hi kuch gadbad hai.” Pehli baat ek jaayaz ummeed hai. Doosri baat sach nahi hai.
Lecturer aur tutor ke aage aksar sau bachche hote hain, syllabus poora karna hota hai aur kamra ghante bhar ke liye hi mila hota hai. Dobara na samjhana aksar waqt ki baat hoti hai, aapki nahi. Aur ek se zyada baar mein samajhna hi asli seekhne ka aam tareeka hai.
“Pehli baar mein samajh aana chahiye” wala niyam kahan se aaya, aur kya aap ye niyam apne kisi dost par lagate?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Chup rehna kya cheen sakta hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai ki hafte-dar-hafte kamiyan badhti jaayein, raat der tak aise notes ke saath baithna jo samajh nahi aate, ya dheere-dheere ye maan lena ki ye vishay “apne liye hai hi nahi”. Ek semester mein wo kamiyan asal se badi lagne lagti hain.
Waqt ke saath seekhne ke baare mein aapka ehsaas hi badal sakta hai. Agar poochna hamesha jokhim lage, to seekhna aisi pariksha ban jaata hai jo akele paas karni hai, logon ke saath milkar karne ki cheez nahi rehta.
Pichhle kuch hafton mein kaun-si cheez aakhir theek se samajh aa gayi, aur us waqt kaisa laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Barson tak sir hilate rehna #
Bas ek tasveer aazmaiye. Aage kabhi kisi class ya work-course mein kuch ek baar, bahut tezi se samjhaya jaata hai. Jo likh sakte hain, likh lete hain aur sir hila dete hain, kyunki dobara poochna zyada laga.
Shayad ghar lautte hue ek chup fikr, der raat use suljhane ki koshish, aur ye ehsaas ki ye vishay apne liye nahi hai.
Jitni der theek lage, use dekhiye, phir rakh dijiye; ye tasveer hai, yojana nahi.
Us din ka baaki hissa kaisa beetta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Kitne haath uthna chahte hain #
Zyadatar classon mein agar ek ko samajh nahi aata, to aur bhi kai ko nahi aata. Wo bhi intezaar mein rehte hain ki koi aur poochh le. “Koi sawaal?” ke baad ki chuppi mein aksar wo log hote hain jo doosri baar ki ummeed lagaye baithe hain.
Isse poochna aasaan nahi ho jaata, aur Sir se dheeme chalne ki chaah jaayaz hai. Ho sakta hai kai aur bhi usi jagah hon, aur aapka sawaal wahi ho jiska baaki intezaar kar rahe hain.
Agar aapko pata hota ki class ke teen aur logon ka wahi sawaal hai, to wo ehsaas kaise badalta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Samajhne mein pehle se kaun saath hai #
Kuch madad shayad pehle se aas-paas hai: koi sahpaathi jo aasaan shabdon mein samjha deta hai, koi video jo aakhir samajh aaya, koi dost jo ek baar saath baitha, aur aapki apni zid ki samajhkar rahenge.
Inhe dekhne se class dheemi nahi ho jaati, aur teacher se dobara samjhane ki chaah jaayaz hi rehti hai. Ye bas tasveer ka hissa hain, aur chaah mein se kuch kam nahi karte.
Aapko samajhne mein pehle se kaun ya kya madad karta hai, aur uske baare mein aap kya zyada dekhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Apni raftaar, apne sawaal #
Sulah ka matlab ye maan lena nahi ki pehli baar mein samajh aa jaana chahiye. Agar numbers ya padhai ko lekar ghar par kya hoga, iska darr ho, ya wahan koi inhin baaton par chot pahunchata ya sharminda karta ho, to wo is chaah se alag baat hai aur gambhirta se lene layak hai; koi bharose ka insaan ise sun sakta hai.
Agar koi teacher ya tutor aapko nijji taur par ajeeb dhang se message kare, tohfe de, raaz rakhne ko kahe ya akele milne ko kahe, ya kisi cheez ke badle number ya madad ki peshkash kare, to ye wo dhyaan nahi jiski ye chaah baat karti hai; ye gambhirta se lene layak hai, aur koi bharose ka insaan ise sun sakta hai.
Galat dhang se chhua jaana, doosron ke saamne mazaak banaya jaana, ya aapki pehchaan ki wajah se alag se nishaana banaya jaana (ling, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi disability ya aap kahan se ho) bhi alag baat hai, aur padhane wala koi bhi ho, ise parwah chahiye.
Padhai mein buniyaadi izzat aur suraksha “zyada ummeed” nahi hai, aapke liye bhi aur aapki class mein har kisi ke liye bhi.
Wo ek sawaal kaun-sa hai jise aap haashiye par, bas apne liye, sabse zyada likhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Lecture ke aakhir ke liye ek pankti #
“Teacher tab tak samjhayein, jab tak mujhe samajh na aa jaaye” ke paas kuch vidyarthi rakhte hain: “Mujhe samajhne ka haq hai, aur der lagna bhi seekhna hi hai.” Pehli pankti jaayaz bani rehti hai. Doosri awaaz ko aapko dheema kehne se rokti hai.
Shuru mein ise khud se kehna ajeeb lag sakta hai. Kuch log ise chhota kar lete hain, jaise “Abhi nahi, par kabhi nahi nahi.” Kuch apne shabd copy ke peechhe likh lete hain.
Aapki apni sachchi pankti kya hogi, jo madad ki ummeed bhi rakhe aur aapke seekhne ke dhang ke saath narm bhi rahe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Har paath aaj hi baithna zaroori nahi #
Har uljha hua paath aaj raat suljhana zaroori nahi. Use dekha ja sakta hai, ek sawaaliya nishaan ke saath chhoda ja sakta hai, aur kal sir taza hone par phir uthaya ja sakta hai.
Dobara samjhaye jaane ki chaah reh sakti hai. Padhane wale ka nijji, ajeeb message, tohfe, raaz, akele milne ka dabaav, number ki peshkash, galat dhang se chhua jaana, mazaak banaya jaana ya pehchaan ki wajah se nishaana banaya jaana: ye alag baat hai, aur koi bharose ka insaan ise sun sakta hai.
Aaj raat ise chhod dene ka matlab haar maan lena nahi. Iska matlab hai ki aap bhi aaram kar sakte ho.
Baaki shaam mein aap kya karna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar na samajh aana thoda halka lage #
Ab wahi class sochiye, par chaah ko thoda halke se thaame hue. Jo likh sakte hain, ab bhi likhte hain. Phir haashiye par apna ek sawaal, apne liye, baad mein dekhne ko likh lete hain.
Kisi ke liye ye class se bina us bhaaripan ke nikalna hai. Kisi ke liye baad mein jawab dhoondh lena aur is par achha lagna ki sawaal pakde rakha.
Wo chhota-sa badlaav aapka hai, gaur karne ke liye. Aage is chaah se sulah, aur phir aas-paas ki achhi cheezein.
Kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapka pehla sanket kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmaate hain #
- Gaur kijiye ki awaaz kab kehti hai “Sabko samajh aa gaya”
- Koi aisi cheez yaad kijiye jo pehle mushkil thi aur ab aasaan hai
- Wo ek sawaal, jiska jawab aap sabse zyada chahte ho, kuch shabdon mein sochiye
- Dekhiye ki koi dost cheezein kaise samjhata hai, aur kya baat madad karti hai
- Seekhne ko chhalaang nahi, seedhi ki tarah sochiye
Sab nijji, sab apni marzi se. Madad mile to koi ek chun lijiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aapke jaanne walon mein sabse achha samjhane wala kaun hai, aur usmein kya khaas hai?
- Kaun-si cheez kuch koshishon ke baad aakhir aapko samajh aa gayi?
- Kaun-sa vishay ya hunar seekhna aapko sabse achha lagta hai?
- Agar doosri baar ki zaroorat aam lagti, to aap class mein kya alag karte?
- Samajhne mein aapki madad pehle se kaun karta hai, aur kaise?