“ab is umr mein kya shuru karoge?” itna kyun chubhta hai?

Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka

Der ho chuki hai, par kiske liye? #

Kabhi iske peeche asli gap hota hai: koi licence, koi niyam ya body ki limit. Kabhi koi gap nahi bataya jaata, bas saal ginaye jaate hain.

Plan ko is par parkha ja sakta hai ki usmein kya hai, koi bhi bataye. Kuch logon ko do cheezein alag karna kaam aata hai: plan khud, apne qadmon aur size ke saath, aur wo umr jo ise sochte waqt ittefaaq se chal rahi hai. Pehle ko tola ja sakta hai; doosre se behas nahi ho sakti.

“Der” ke liye paimana chahiye: kiske liye der?Is par baat kijiye ›

Agar aapke humumr dost ka yahi plan hota, yahi wajahein hotin, to aap plan ke baare mein kya sochte?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ise jaldi pehchanna

Dheere se dohrane par logon ko kya dikhta hai #

Jab kuch log us pal ko dheere-dheere dohrate hain, to dekhte hain ki unhone asal mein kya rakha tha: chhota pehla qadam, ek class, ek trial, part-time shuruaat. Laute jawab ke baghal mein rakhkar kuch ko dikhta hai ki jawab ne plan ko chhua hi nahi.

Kuch ko wo log dikhte hain jinhone der se shuru kiya aur khulkar bataya: padosi jinhone bank se retire hokar painting shuru ki, colleague jisne pichhle saal nayi bhasha seekhi, chachi jinhein chaalis ki umr mein pehli naukri mili. Kabhi wahi kaafi hote hain, kabhi darr kisi ek kamre ke baare mein sahi tha.

Aapki zindagi mein kaun nayi shuruaat ko aam baat maanta hai, aur aisa kya karta hai ki usse iski baat karna aasaan ho jaata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Isse sulah

Calendar ki behas jeetne ki zaroorat nahi #

Sulah ka matlab ye nahi ki maan lein plan chalega, ya ye dikhayein ki baat chubhi nahi. Matlab bas itna ki ek mez ka ek vaakya ye kam tay kare ki chaahat ko akele mein dekha jaye ya nahi.

Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo us taareekh ka intezaar chhod dete hain jo shuruaat ko “theek” bana de. Wo taareekh dhoondhna mushkil hai kyunki paimana khisakta rehta hai, aur intezaar chaahat ki baagdor ek insaan ke vaakya ke haath mein rakhe rehta hai.

Kuch mezein hamesha kahengi ki der ho gayi, aur unhein aazmane ki zaroorat nahi.

Kaisa lagega agar chaahat ko poora thaame rahein, us mez par bhi jahan wo ankahi rehti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ek zyada sachcha vaakya

Paas rakhne ke liye ek vaakya #

Agar “mere liye toh der ho gayi” saalon se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe behas ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iske bajaye ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Calendar kuch bhi kahe, chaahat ko dekha ja sakta hai.”

Ye sach lagni zaroori nahi. Ye bas ek line hai jo kuch log aazmate hain, aur ghar ke phone se pehle ya brochure ke kinare chupchaap kehne par, kuch paate hain ki purani line ki thodi jagah ye le leti hai.

Apni chaahat ke baare mein aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jisse kisi taareekh se sehmat na hona pade?Is par baat kijiye ›

Kya rehne dein

Kuch cheezein bas neeche rakhi ja sakti hain #

Har “ab der ho chuki hai” ko jawab, der se shuru karne walon ki list ya galat saabit karne ka plan nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise wo thaila jo zaroorat se bhaari tha.

Ye chaahat ko chhod dena nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki taakat kahan lage, aur kuch log kehte hain isse chaahat ke liye hi zyada jagah bachti hai, narmi se dekhi jaane ke liye, sir par faisla latke bina.

Shaam bhar ke liye ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki baat theek thi, ya suljh gayi. Bas itna ki wo agle brochure, agle phone ya agli shaant shaam tak peeche-peeche na aaye.

Agar yeh dheela pade

Aur agar taareekh jawab na rahe #

Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema hai. Umr ab bhi plan ka hissa hai, par poora jawab nahi.

Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: das minute uske baare mein padhna, chaahat ko apne aap se zor se keh dena, ya bas bina faisle ke use apne mann mein rakhna.

Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne laayak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.

Agar calendar ko chaahat par faisla na sunana ho, to sabse pehle kya alag lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›

Agar kisi bhi umr mein shuru karna jaayaz lage, to aap pehle kya karenge?Is par baat kijiye ›