Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Upar se aksar sunne wale maujood hote hain aur ek chhota bachcha bhi, toh maa-baap ko naapa jaana sunna hai, bachche ke ehsaas sambhalne hain aur chehre par muskaan bhi rakhni hai.
Kuch maa-baap khud wo bachche the jinhein mamere-phuphere bhai-behnon ya padosi ke “Sharma ji ke bete” se taula jaata tha.
Andar ek yaqeen ban sakta hai: “Baaki sabko sab pata hai, bas mujhe hi khabar nahi,” ya “Bachcha dheema hai toh main maa-baap ke taur par peeche hoon.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Ginana ki bachcha aur kya-kya kar leta hai
- Hanskar taal dena, phir sote waqt use dohrana
- Bachche ko godi mein uthakar uska hunar dikhana
- Bachche ko tulna karne walon se door rakhna
- Phone par ghanton doosre parivaaron ke bachchon ko dekhna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Steel ki katori aur ek aah
Jalandhar mein sasural ka Sunday wala lunch hai. Aapka bachcha chatai par steel ki katori lekar magan hai. Cousin ki patni apne bachche ko kamar par tikaye aah bharkar kehti hai, “Abhi tak chalta nahi? Sharma ji ka toh kab ka daudne laga.” Kai sir hilte hain. Aap hanskar kehte ho ho jayega, par pet mein kuch gir jaata hai. Saari dopahar aapki nazar us doosre bachche ke pairon par tiki rehti hai.
Bachche ki raftaar mera number
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Mere bachche ki raftaar meri parvarish ka number hai.” Ye aam fikr jaisa lagta hai, aur bahut log haan mein sir hilayenge. Par dekhiye wo kya karta hai: har pehli baar ek race ban jaata hai, aur har parivaarik lunch mein uska vijeta ghoshit hota hai. Har video aur har rishtedaar ki baat ek leaderboard ban jaati hai, aur aap apne bachche se zyada doosron ke bachche dekhne lagte ho.
Bachche ke phalne-phoolne ki chaah kyun
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki apne bachchon se pyaar hai aur chahte hain ki wo phalein-phoolein. Bahuton ko bachpan mein cousins aur padosiyon se taula gaya, toh tab ye niyam samajh aata tha. Shayad aapko bhi yaad ho ki khud tulna hui toh bachche ki taraf se kaisa laga. Jo bhi ho, bachche ke achha karne ki chaah parwah se aati hai. Use daya chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Har tulna se judta shak
Har “kab se” thoda shak jod jaata hai. Ye dheere-dheere hota hai, isliye pakadna mushkil hai. Aap der raat doosre parivaaron ke video scroll karte ho. Chupchaap apne bachche ko time karte ho. Koi rishtedaar poochhe ki ab kya kar leta hai toh sihar jaate ho. Aam dopaharein muaayne jaisi lagne lagti hain, aur aaj ki chhoti khushiyaan bina dekhe guzar jaati hain.
Kya hisaab rakhna iske layak hai?
Khud se sach-sach poochhiye: kya is niyam ko pakadne se aapka bachcha kabhi zyada sahaj hua? Ya zyadatar aap ghadi dekhne lage? Bachche cheezon tak alag-alag kram mein pahunchte hain, aur wo kram shayad hi batata hai ki wo bade hokar kaise honge. Jawab sirf aapke paas hai, aur koi galat jawab nahi. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna, kya iske layak hai?
Wo bachcha jo apna hokar reh sake
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aap bachche ke dinon ki parwah chhod dein. Matlab ye hai ki ek tulna ab hisaab nahi rakhegi. Aap muskura sakte ho, keh sakte ho ki wo aur cheezon mein magan hai, aur aage badh sakte ho. Ye ek baar mein nahi hota. Ek video chhodne se bhi shuru ho sakta hai. Wahin se thoda sukoon lautta hai: aapka bachcha apna hokar reh pata hai, aur aap bhi.
If comments about your family ever come with threats, being frightened, or someone trying to control your home, that is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMere bachche ki raftaar meri parvarish ka number hai.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMera bachcha apne raaste par hai. Tulna aati-jaati hai.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Tulna wala ek video bina dekhe chhod dijiye
- Kadam 2
Bachche ki ek nayi cheez ka naam lijiye jo usne apne dhang se ki
- Kadam 3
Parivaar ke lunch ke baad apne liye ek shaant pal nikaliye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Jab kisi ne aapke bachche ki kisi aur se tulna ki, tab aap kahan the aur aapne kya kaha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Ek bachche ke bagal mein doosra #
Parivaar ke lunch mein koi cousin, clinic ki waiting mein koi maa, ya wo saheli jiske phone mein group ka video ghoom raha hai. “Abhi tak chalta nahi? Usi ki umar ke aur bachche toh kab se chalne lage.” Kandhe uchakakar ya aah bharkar kaha jaata hai, aur aapka bachcha chatai par maze se baitha hai.
Sunne mein ye seedhi-si baat hai, par lagti aksar maa-baap ke khaate mein hai. Bachche ki raftaar uski apni cheez hai, aur tulna use aisi race bana deti hai jiska elaan koi aur karta hai aur jismein aap pichhde lagte ho.
Aakhri baar jab kisi ne aisa kaha, tab aap kahan the, aur aapka bachcha us pal kya kar raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Tulna hawa mein tangi ho, wo second #
Kuch maa-baap hanskar kehte hain “ho jayega, sabka apna time hota hai”. Kuch ginane lagte hain ki bachcha aur kya-kya kar leta hai. Kuch bachche ko dekhte hain, phir farsh ko, aur kuch nahi kehte. Ye sab ho sakta hai, aur kisi ko safai dene ki zaroorat nahi.
Bachche ke saamne use kisi aur se taula jaye toh jawab sochne se pehle nikal jaata hai, kyunki shabd us insaan ke baare mein hain jise aap sabse zyada bachate ho. Jo jawab chahiye tha, wo aksar baad mein aata hai, sone ke waqt.
Un shabdon ke theek baad aapne safai di, mazaak kiya ya chup ho gaye, aur us pehli harkat mein andar kaisa laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ye bachche ko line mein ek number bana deti hai #
Ye tippani ek bachche ki raftaar ko qatar mein uski jagah padhti hai. Bachche cheezon tak alag-alag kram mein pahunchte hain, aur do bachchon ki tulna bas wahi ek pal dekhti hai jo us waqt dikh raha hai.
Upar se aksar sunne wale maujood hote hain aur ek chhota bachcha bhi, toh maa-baap ko naapa jaana sunna hai, bachche ke ehsaas sambhalne hain aur chehre par muskaan bhi rakhni hai. Chubhan rakhne ki jagah hi nahi bachti, aur wo baad mein nikalti hai.
Agar kisi ne poochha hota ki aapka bachcha aajkal kis cheez mein magan hai, toh wahi minute kaisa lagta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab tulna andar basne lage #
Baar-baar suno toh ye andar ghar kar leta hai. “Kahin peeche toh nahi?” “Sabke bachche aage lagte hain.” “Mujhse kuch chhoot gaya kya?” Kabhi-kabhi sawaal tab aata hai jab bachcha nahate hue khilkhila raha hota hai.
Kehne wala door ho sakta hai, par naapna ab andar hota hai, park mein, khel ke maidaan mein, us har group mein jahan video ghoomta hai. Kyunki wo aapke apne pyaar jaisa bolta hai, wo chaukasi lagta hai, kisi aur ki tippani nahi.
Aapka bachcha kuch naya kare toh kiski awaaz saath judti hai, aur wo kya kehti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch maa-baapon ke liye tulna ki ek purani kahani hai #
Kuch maa-baap khud wo bachche the jinhein mamere-phuphere bhai-behnon ya padosi ke “Sharma ji ke bete” se taula jaata tha. Kuch ko yaad hai ki kisi cheez mein jaldi nikalne par unke aas-paas sabka kya haal hua. Aisi tippani wo sab jaga sakti hai.
Kuch log is chubhan ko bachpan ke us daur tak le jaate hain jab ghar ya school mein number diye jaate the; kuch nahi le jaate. Jo bhi ho, bachche ki tulna us lunch se kahin purani kisi cheez ko daba sakti hai.
Aapke parivaar mein kiski kisse tulna hoti thi, aur bachche ki taraf se wo kaisa lagta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Naapne ke neeche ek chup niyam #
Andar ek yaqeen ban sakta hai: “Baaki sabko sab pata hai, bas mujhe hi khabar nahi,” ya “Bachcha dheema hai toh main maa-baap ke taur par peeche hoon.” Kuch log ek dheema roop dhote hain: “Shayad meri hi galti hai.”
Aise yaqeen yaqeen jaise lagte hi nahi. Wo hod mein bane rehne jaise lagte hain, jaise baar-baar ghadi dekhna samajhdari lagta hai. Isiliye unhein kabhi-kabhi roshni mein rakhkar dekhna theek rehta hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi.
Kin palon mein “sab aage hain” aaj bhi baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Hisaab rakhne ki keemat kya ho sakti hai #
Ye der raat doosre parivaaron ke video scroll karna, chupchaap apne bachche ko time karna, aur har baar koi rishtedaar poochhe ki ab kya kar leta hai toh andar se sihar jaana ban sakta hai. Kuch maa-baap dekhte hain ki wo qatar ko dekhte rahe aur saamne khada bachcha dikha hi nahi.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Jo maa-baap naapne mein lage hain, wo aaj ki chhoti baatein chook sakte hain, aur bachcha bhaanp leta hai ki nateeje ke liye use dekha ja raha hai. Saal bhar mein ye bahut se pal tirchhi nazar mein nikal jaana ho sakta hai.
Pichhle saal mein kaun-si tulna us din se zyada der aapke saath rahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Hisaab rakhte paanch aur saal #
Ek aam shaam sochiye, us din ki jab “sab aage hain” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, kuch theek karne ko nahi.
Shayad usmein andhere mein scroll hota phone hai, ek bachcha jise maze se nahi, nazar rakhkar dekha gaya, aur kisi party mein kaha gaya chamakdar “wo toh bahut achha kar raha hai!” jo jhooth jaisa laga. Kuch hissa sach lagega, kuch nahi.
Yahan kisi cheez ka jawab abhi nahi chahiye, aur tasveer kisi bhi pal rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usmein kya hai: doosre parivaaron ke video, doosre bachchon ki taraf nazar, apne bachche ki chupchaap jaanch, kisi rishtedaar ki baat ka replay?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us shaam mein, agar kuch dikhe, toh wo kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Uski umar, kiski ginti se? #
Paimana naam lete hi ye ek bade ki yaad jaisa dikhta hai jo kisi aur bachche par rakh di gayi.
Ek hi bachcha ek dopahar dheema aur agli dopahar masroof dikh sakta hai. Mehmaan lunch dekhta hai; maa-baap uske aage-peeche ke hafte dekhte hain, aur wo sab jis par bachcha kaam kar raha hai aur kisi ne gaur nahi kiya.
“Uski umar” ko kisi paimane ki zaroorat hai: kab se ginti, kisse tulna hui, kisne notice kiya, aur kis parivaar ki kahani mein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar koi saheli bataye ki kisi ne uske bachche ke baare mein yahi kaha, toh aap usse sabse pehle kya poochhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Dobara dekhne par kuch log kya paate hain #
Kuch maa-baap apne bachche ko dheere se dekhte hain toh wo dikhta hai jo sach mein hai: nayi awaazein, ungli ki pakad, kutte ki taraf khilkhilakar rengna.
Kuch aur log ye dekhte hain ki kisne alag dhang se kaha: ek saheli jisne kaha “sab apne kram mein hota hai,” ek dadi ya nani jo hanskar boli ki wo khud har cheez mein der se thin. Kai baar wo awaazein hamesha se thin, bas tippani se dheemi.
Tulna ke bagal mein rakhkar, apne bachche ko dheere se dekhne par kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapke bachche ko kisne kabhi bas uske apne roop mein dekha, bina kisi aur ke bagal mein rakhe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Behas suljhane ki zaroorat nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki aapka bachcha kisi qatar mein kahan baithta hai, ya ye dikhawa karna nahi ki shabd chubhe nahi. Matlab bas itna hai ki ek tippani ki aap apne bachche ko kaise dekhte hain, aur us din ka baaki hissa kaisa lagta hai, is par pakad dheeli ho jaye.
Jab maa-baap saboot jutana band karte hain, toh kai baar halka lagta hai. Wo kabhi poora nahi hota, kyunki har parivaar mein kisi bachche ki jaldi wali kahani hai. Kuch log tulna karte rahenge, aur race mein utarna kisi ki majboori nahi.
Tulna ko karne wale ke paas hi rehne dein, aur apne bachche ki apni tasveer apne paas rakhein, toh kaisa lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Agle lunch ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar tab se “shayad mujhse kuch chhoot raha hai” chal raha hai, toh usse seedhe ladne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch maa-baap uski jagah aisa vaakya taiyaar rakhte hain: “Mera bachcha apne raaste par hai, aur main uske theek bagal mein hoon.”
Ye abhi sach lagna zaroori nahi. Ye bas ek line hai jo kuch log pehankar dekhte hain, aur kuch paate hain ki chupchaap dohrane se purane sawaal ke liye thodi kam jagah bachti hai, khaaskar parivaar ke lunch se theek pehle ke minuton mein.
Apne bachche ke baare mein aapka apna sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo sahi ho, aur jise kisi tulna ki muhar na chahiye ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein neeche rakhi ja sakti hain #
Har “aur bachche toh kab se” ko aapke bachche ke hunar ki soochi, safai ya bechain raat nahi chahiye. Kuch baaton ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur phir rakh diya ja sakta hai, jaise ghar aakar bazaar ka thaila farsh par rakh diya jaye.
Ye nazar pherna nahi. Ye chunna hai ki dhyaan kahan jaye, aur kuch maa-baap kehte hain isse baaki din ke liye jagah bachti hai: nahate hue ki khilkhilahat, chipchipe haath, gaal par thapki.
Aaj raat tulna ko neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek thi, ya maamla nipat gaya. Bas itna ki agle parivaarik lunch mein wo saath chalne ke liye majboor nahi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar naapne ki pakad thodi dheeli pade #
Bas ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki naapna ek darja dheema ho gaya. Aapka bachcha ab bhi bilkul wahi hai jo wo hai, aur tulna ab bhi bas tulna hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: bachche ko bas maze ke liye dekhna, taiyaar jawab ke bina ek lunch, ya doosre parivaaron ko scroll kiye bina ek shaam.
Kisi ko kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi saamne aaye, wo aapka hai aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, toh ek baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagega, thoda-sa bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya ho sakti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo maa-baap aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi baaki bachchon wali line”
- Chupchaap khud se poochhiye: uski umar kiski ginti se, aur kab dekhkar?
- Gaur kijiye ki zyada kya chubhta hai: tulna, ya saamne baithe log
- Akele mein yaad kijiye ki is hafte aapke bachche ne apne dhang se koi nayi cheez kab ki
- Aaj ki ek chhoti-si cheez par dhyaan dijiye jo aapne apne liye chahi
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wahi chun lijiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Jab kisi ne aapke bachche ki kisi aur se tulna ki, tab aap kahan the aur aapne kya kaha?
- Aapka bachcha kuch naya kare toh aapko kiski awaaz sunayi deti hai?
- Aap kya chahte hain ki us insaan ne aapke bachche ke baare mein iski jagah kya dekha hota?
- Jis aam din naapna zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar naapna thoda halka ho, toh sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?