Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Chubhan ka ek hissa ye hai ki class ke bahar se parent kuch kar hi nahi sakta.
Kuch parents ke liye ye unke apne school ke dinon tak jaati hai: koi teacher jisne anadekha kiya, ya jisne notice karke sab badal diya.
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Har bachche ko teacher ka dhyaan milna chahiye,” ya “Agar mere bachche par dhyaan nahi gaya, to wo peechhe reh jayega.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- School group ka har message padhna aur ginna ki kiska zikr kitni baar hua
- Har shaam bachche se poochhna ki aaj teacher ne us par dhyaan diya ya nahi
- Homework par aur zor lagana, is ummeed mein ki teacher ki nazar padegi
- Report card ki tippaniyan doosre parents se milana
- Kuch na kehna, aur poora term fikr chupchaap dhona
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
“Shaant bachcha hai, koi problem nahi.”
Ludhiana mein Saturday ki PTM. Teacher tez, bolne wale bachchon ki baat garmjoshi se karti hain, jo hamesha haath uthate hain. Aapke bachche ke baare mein kehti hain, “Shaant bachcha hai, koi problem nahi.” Paanch minute, aur baat khatam. Aap car tak chalte hue wo sab sochte ho jo chhoot gaya: uski drawing, uski narmi, ghar par uske jigyasu sawaal. Ghar lautte hue lagta hai ki wo us class mein dikhta hi nahi.
Bachche par zyada dhyaan milna chahiye
Andar ek niyam baitha hai: “Bachche ki teacher ko us par aur dhyaan dena chahiye.” Ye poori tarah jaayaz lagta hai. Har bachche ko dekha jana chahiye. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: bachche ke baare mein aapki shaanti ko ek insaan ke dhyaan se baandh deta hai, jo tees bachchon mein bata hai. Bachche ki qadar ho rahi hai ya nahi, ye ab ek busy teacher aur bhari class par tika hai.
Bachche ko dekha jaye, kyun chahte hain
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki chahte hain bachche ko waisa dekha jaye jaisa wo sach mein hai. Shayad aap khud shaant bachche the, aur anadekha hona yaad hai. Shayad aap jaante ho ki bachche ke paas dene ko kitna kuch hai, aur chahte ho baaki bhi waise dekhein jaise aap dekhte ho. Jo bhi ho, uske liye dhyaan chahna zid nahi hai. Ye pyaar se aata hai, aur ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
PTM ke baad ki fikr
Har chhoti PTM aapki fikr badhati hai. Aap bachche ki tulna class ke zyada bolne walon se karne lagte ho. Sochte ho kahin wo peechhe toh nahi chhoot raha. Asahaay lagta hai ki jo aapko itna saaf dikhta hai, wo teacher ko nahi dikha paa rahe. Dheere-dheere school aisi jagah ban jaata hai jahan lagta hai bachcha anadekha hai, aur fikr ghar tak, aam shaamon mein chali aati hai.
Kya teacher ka intezaar karna theek hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochhiye: kya zyada dhyaan ki chaah ne kabhi teacher ko bachche par aur dhyaan dilaya? Ya bas aapko aur fikr di? Poori class wali teachers aksar shaant bachchon ko sambhla hua samajhti hain. Jo bhi ho, PTM ke paanch minute aapke bachche ka paimana nahi hain. Is niyam ko itni kasakar pakde rehna aapko jitna deta hai, usse zyada leta hai.
Aap bachche ko poora dekhte ho
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki bachche ko kaise dekha jaata hai, iski parwah chhod dein. Matlab ye ki aapki shaanti ek teacher ke dhyaan par nahi tiki. Aap jaante ho bachcha kaun hai: drawing, narmi, sawaal. Ye sab aap ghar par garmjoshi se aur aksar mana sakte ho. Yahin se kuch sukoon lautta hai: bachche ko aap poori tarah dekhte ho, har ek din.
Attention that comes in private, such as messages to your child, gifts, secrets or time alone with them, or anything that frightens your child, is different, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleBachche ki teacher ko us par aur dhyaan dena chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleBachche ko poora dekhne wali nazar meri hai. Ye har din ginti hai.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Is hafte bachche ki ek khaas baat notice karein
- Kadam 2
Uski koi drawing ya kahani uske saath baithkar dekhein
- Kadam 3
Sochein bachcha kis ek cheez mein achha hai, school mein ya bahar
Is par baat karni hai?
“Bachpan mein kis teacher ne aapko notice kiya, aur usne kya kiya?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Parents group mein taareefein, aur ginti #
Raat nau baje class ke parents ka group jagmagata hai: star chart ki photo, kisi teacher ki tippani bade garv se share ki gayi, “Iski taraqqi dekhkar bahut khushi hui!” Aapke bachche ka naam is poore term mein aaya hi nahi. Agle message ke saath khayal aata hai: “Bachche ki teacher ko us par aur dhyaan dena chahiye.”
Kuch parents ke liye ye ummeed us insaan ke saath insaaf ki chaah hai jise wo khud se zyada chahte hain. Bachcha roz chhah-saat ghante us kamre mein rehta hai. Wahan use dekha jaye, ye chahna aisa hai jaise chahna ki wo wahan mayne rakhe jahan aap nahi pahunch sakte.
Kisi aise teacher ko yaad kijiye, apne school ke dinon ke ya bachche ke, jisne sach mein ek bachche ko dekha.
Usne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Gate par kasaav #
Kuch parents ko school ke gate par kasaav mehsoos hota hai, jab doosre parents teacher se aaram se batiyate dikhte hain. Kuch ko pet mein halki-si giraavat lagti hai jab wo school ki diary kholte hain aur usmein kuch naya likha nahi milta.
Dimaag ke suljhane se pehle body fikr kar sakti hai: group mein jhatpat scroll, report card par ek nazar, bachche se poochha gaya sawaal jo irade se zyada teekha nikal jaye. Shaant soch aksar baad mein aati hai.
Pichhli baar jab aapko laga ki aapke bachche ko anadekha kiya ja raha hai, to kisi bhi khayal se pehle aapne khud mein sabse pehle kya notice kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Bachche ko dekha jaye, ye chahna #
Teacher bachche par dhyaan de, ye ummeed bahut insaani hai. Bachche aksar un badon ki or badhte hain jo unhein notice karte hain. Teacher ka ek pyaar bhara shabd bachche ka poora hafta roshan kar sakta hai, aur har parent ye jaanta hai.
Chubhan ka ek hissa ye hai ki class ke bahar se parent kuch kar hi nahi sakta. Jo aap chahte ho aur jo us kamre mein hota hai, uska faasla bahut bada lag sakta hai, jab aap use sirf diary aur group chat se dekhte ho.
Aap teacher ko bachche mein sabse zyada kya dikhana chahoge, jo aap ghar par roz dekhte ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Panktiyon ke beech padhne wali awaaz #
“Ma'am sirf tez bachchon ko dekhti hain.” “Hamara bachcha toh class mein dikhta hi nahi.” “Mujhse kya chook ho rahi hai?” Awaaz aksar der shaam sabse tez hoti hai, group scroll karte hue, ya result ke din.
Ye notice karna madad kar sakta hai ki awaaz aadhi pyaar hai aur aadhi darr. Pyaar asli hai: bachche ka bhala chahna. Darr tathyon se bada ho sakta hai, aur har chuppi mein taana sunne lagta hai.
Jab awaaz bachche ke anadekhe reh jaane ki fikr karti hai, to uske liye wo sabse zyada kis baat se darti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Ye ummeed kahan se aa sakti hai #
Kuch parents ke liye ye unke apne school ke dinon tak jaati hai: koi teacher jisne anadekha kiya, ya jisne notice karke sab badal diya. Bachcha school jaane lage to wo yaadein umadkar laut aati hain.
Kabhi ye school group se hi aati hai, jahan har kamyaabi share hoti hai aur tulna aasaan hai. Kuch gharon mein school ko lekar dabaav bahut jaldi shuru ho jaata hai, aur parents use bachchon jitna hi mehsoos karte hain.
Jab aap bachche ki umar ke the, tab teachers se notice hona, ya anadekha hona, aapke liye kaisa tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Barabar hisse ka niyam #
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Har bachche ko teacher ka dhyaan milna chahiye,” ya “Agar mere bachche par dhyaan nahi gaya, to wo peechhe reh jayega.” Pehla jaayaz ummeed hai. Doosra ek darr hai jo sach ho bhi sakta hai, nahi bhi.
Teacher ke paas chalis ya usse zyada bachche ho sakte hain, aur group mein wahi dikhta hai jo parents daalna chunte hain. Kisi aam din class mein jo hota hai, wo aksar phone ki screen ke bataye se zyada mila-jula aur narm hota hai.
Dhyaan ke barabar hisse wala aapka niyam is school par kahan baithta hai, aur kahan use zyadatar group chat khila rahi hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Ye fikr kya le sakti hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai scroll aur tulna karte beetti shaamein, homework jo jang ban jaye, ya bachche se aise sawaal jo test jaise lagein. Dheere-dheere ye school ke saal ka ehsaas badal sakte hain.
Bachche ke liye bhi ek keemat ho sakti hai. Agar use lage ki notice hona itna mayne rakhta hai, to wo khud ko teacher ke dhyaan se napne lag sakta hai, is baat se nahi ki use kya achha lagta hai aur wo kya seekhta hai.
Pichhle kuch hafton ko sochiye: teacher ne notice kiya ya nahi, aapke bachche ko school mein kya achha laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Saalon tak class group padhte rehna #
Ye ek tasveer hai, bhavishyavani nahi. Kuch school-saal baad, group phir doosre bachchon ki taareefon se bhara hai, aur aapke bachche ka naam gaayab hai.
Shayad lambi scroll, sone ke waqt ek sawaal jo imtihaan jaisa lage, ek tulna jo hawa mein latki rahe, baad mein fikr bhari baatcheet.
Is drishya mein kuch bhi tayshuda nahi, aur aap ise kisi bhi pal rakh sakte ho.
Us shaam ka baaki hissa kaisa hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us shaam mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhte hue, sabse pehle aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Group chat class nahi hai #
Class group ek highlight reel hai. Parents star chart daalte hain, shaant din nahi. Bahut se bachchon ko dhyaan ke chhote pal milte hain jo ghar tak kabhi nahi pahunchte: ek muskaan, ek narm shabd, kandhe par haath.
Iska matlab ye nahi ki aapke bachche ko kaafi mil raha hai, aur uske liye aur chahna jaayaz hai. Ho sakta hai group ki tasveer kamre ki tasveer se sankari ho.
Agar aap bachche ki class ka ek aam ghanta dekh sakte, to sabse zyada kya dekhne ki ummeed karte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Bachche ke paas pehle se kya hai #
Fikr ke baghal mein kuch cheezein shayad pehle se aapki hain: ek dost jiske baghal mein baithna bachche ko pasand hai, ek subject jismein wo khil uthta hai, khaane ki mez par sunayi ek kahani, uske din mein aapki apni tiki hui dilchaspi.
Inse class zyada nishpaksh nahi ho jaati, aur bachche ko dekha jaye ye chahna ab bhi vajib hai. Ye saath-saath chupchaap sach hain, aur bachche ki zindagi ka bhi hissa hain.
Bachche ke paas school mein, kisi aam din, pehle se kya hai jise aap thoda aur notice karna chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Khud use dekhna #
Sulah ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki teacher ka dhyaan kaafi hai; bas group ka aapki shaamon par kam bas chale. Bachche ki suraksha kabhi dheeli nahi hoti: agar wo school se ya kisi se dara lage, use chot ya tang kiya ja raha ho, ya wo jo hai uski wajah se alag chhanta ja raha ho, to ise gambhirta se lein.
Jo dhyaan nijee taur par aaye, jaise bachche ko message, tohfe, raaz ya akele mein waqt, wo us dhyaan se alag hai jiski aap ummeed karte ho, aur use gambhirta se lena zaroori hai. Jo bachcha kisi bade ke saath asahaj ho, school mein, tuition mein ya kahin aur, use dhyaan se sunna chahiye.
Agar bachcha kuch samay se school ko lekar thaka-thaka ya apne jaisa na lage, to wo is ummeed se alag baat hai aur dekhbhaal ki haqdaar hai. Agar school ki fikr ghar mein chillane ya saza dene mein badalne lage, to wo bhi notice karne layak hai, bachche ke liye aur aapke liye.
School mein buniyadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi hoti, aapke bachche ke liye aur class ke har bachche ke liye.
School ki ek shaam mein, aap aur bachcha kis baare mein baat karna sabse zyada pasand karenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Shaam ki scroll ke liye ek pankti #
“Bachche ki teacher ko us par aur dhyaan dena chahiye” ke baghal mein kuch parents rakhte hain: “School mein bachche ko dekha jaye, ye chaah jaayaz hai; ghar par use roz dekhne wali nazar meri hai.” Pehli pankti jaayaz rehti hai. Doosri aapki apni nazar ko us par tikaye rakhti hai.
Shuru mein ye thodi zyada seedhi lag sakti hai. Kuch parents ise badal lete hain, jaise “Group chat bachche ka poora din nahi hai.” Kuch ko apni pankti mil jaati hai.
Aapki apni sach ke zyada kareeb wali pankti kya hogi, jo bachche ke liye ummeed rakhe aur tulna ko chup karaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Chat anpadhi reh sakti hai #
Class group ke har message par aaj raat reaction dena zaroori nahi. Use dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur kursi par rakhe akhbaar ki tarah ek taraf rakha ja sakta hai.
Aur dhyaan ki chaah bani rah sakti hai. Kisi bachche ka dara hua, chotil, tang kiya gaya ya wo jo hai uski wajah se alag chhanta gaya hona kabhi dheela nahi padta, aur na hi kisi bade ka nijee dhyaan (message, tohfe, raaz, akele mein waqt); jo bachcha kisi bade ke saath asahaj ho, use suna jana chahiye.
Chat ko ek taraf rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki fikr bewakoofi thi. Matlab ye hai ki aaj raat bachche ke baare mein ho sakti hai, screen ke baare mein nahi.
Aap uske saath kya karna chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar group thoda kam mayne rakhe #
Wahi shaam lijiye, ummeed ek darja shaant. Aap group padhte ho, phir phone rakh dete ho aur bachche se poochhte ho ki aaj use kya achha laga, aur sunte ho.
Kuch ke liye ye lunch ki ek mazedaar kahani hai jo warna kabhi sunne ko na milti. Kabhi ye bas bina ginti wali shaam ki chuppi hai.
Inmein se kuch bhi kisi se kehna nahi hai. Aage: is ummeed se sulah ka kya matlab ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Alag kya lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kaun sa chhota badlaav aapko sabse pehle dikhega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Bachche ne aaj jo ek cheez pasand ki, use uske shabdon mein notice karein
- Ek shaam class group kinare rakhkar farq dekhein
- Kisi aise teacher ko yaad karein jisne kabhi aapko notice kiya, aur usne kya kiya
- Dekhein kab awaaz ek chuppi ko poori kahani bana deti hai
- Chupchaap ek baat ka naam lein jo aapko bachche mein pyaari lagti hai
Bas aapke liye, aur tabhi jab kaam ki lage. Ek kaafi hai.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Bachpan mein kis teacher ne aapko notice kiya, aur usne kya kiya?
- Aapke bachche ko abhi school mein sabse zyada kya pasand hai?
- Aap bachche mein kya dekhte ho jo chahte ho sab dekh payein?
- Agar class group zara kam mayne rakhe, to aapki shaamein kaisi hongi?
- Bachche ke paas school mein pehle se kya hai jo aapko khush karta hai?