Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Jo ek ko din bhar khatakta hai, wo doosre ko lagbhag dikhta hi nahi.
Kuch logon mein ye apne bachpan se aati hai: aath saal ki umar mein doodh lene bheja jaana, dadi ke paas baithkar kapde tah karna, aisa ghar jahan bachche bas haath laga dete the aur kisi ko kehna nahi padta tha.
Bheetar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Theek se pala hota to khud dekh lete,” ya “Jo kehne par aaye, wo madad ginti mein nahi.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Sab kuch khud kar lena, zor-zor se, taaki mehnat chhipi na rahe
- Har plate, towel aur geele farsh ka chupchaap hisaab rakhna
- Ek baar kehna, phir maan lena ki khud kar lena jaldi hai
- Padosi ke bachche se tulna karna, jo khud aage badhkar haath lagata hai
- Kai din chup rehna, phir sink mein pade ek cup par phat padna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Sabzi ki thailiyan aur sofe par bachche
Lambe din ke baad aap sabzi ki thailiyan liye ghar aate ho. Bachche sofe par phone mein doobe hain. Koi nahi hilta. Aap sab kuch akele rasoi tak le jaate ho, phir khaana chadhate ho. Ek bachcha aata hai, kuch uthakar khaata hai, aur chala jaata hai. Chulhe ke paas khade-khade haddiyon tak thakan hai, aur zara-sa andekha hone ka ehsaas.
Bina kahe madad aani chahiye
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Mere bachchon ko bina kahe ghar ke kaam mein haath bantana chahiye.” Ye bilkul theek lagta hai. Ghar mein sab milkar haath lagayein. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapka chain is par tik jaata hai ki bachche khud dekh lein. Shaam achhi lagegi ya nahi, iska faisla un par aa jaata hai jinki nazar shayad wo dekhti hi nahi jo aap dekhte hain.
Haath bantane wala ghar kyun bhaata hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki jis ghar mein sab haath lagate hain, wo team jaisa lagta hai. Shayad aapka apna bachpan bina kahe kaam karte beeta, aur wahi ummeed apne bachchon se hai. Shayad bas thakan hai, aur mann chahta hai ki koi bina bataye dekh le. Madad chahna taane dena nahi hai. Isme ghar mein saath mehsoos karne ki chaah hai, jise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Ek chup kheej jo badhti jaati hai
Har andekha kaam ek chup kheej mein judta jaata hai. Aap kaam zor se karne lagte ho, is ummeed mein ki koi nazar uthaye. Lagta hai poora ghar akele ka bojh hai. Chhoti baaton par jhunjhlahat nikal jaati hai, phir apradh-bodh aa jaata hai. Dheere-dheere ghar aisi jagah ban jaata hai jahan ek khatta hai aur baaki aaram karte hain, aur bachchon ke saath wali garmjoshi thakan mein kho jaati hai.
Kya intezaar karna theek hai?
Imaandari se poochhiye: kya unke dekhne ka intezaar karne se ve kabhi zyada haath bantane lage? Ya zyadatar bas thakan aur kheej badhi? Kai bachchon ko sach mein tab tak nahi dikhta ki kya karna hai jab tak kaha na jaye; wajah bas unhi ko pata hai. Phir bhi unka na dekhna ye nahi batata ki ve aapse kitna pyaar karte hain. Is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna deta kam hai, leta zyada hai.
Saadgi se kehna, aaram bhi karna
Chhodne ka matlab madad ki chaah chhodna nahi hai. Matlab ye ki aapka chain unke pehle dekhne par na tike. Aap saadgi se keh sakte ho, jahan theek lage kuch kaam kal par chhod sakte ho, aur zaroorat ho to aaram kar sakte ho. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: poora ghar aur kheej dono dhona band hota hai, aur shaamein sabke liye halki lagti hain.
Basic respect and safety at home are never too much to expect; being threatened, hurt or frightened by anyone is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMere bachchon ko bina kahe haath bantana chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleSaadgi se kehna theek hai, aur zaroorat par aaram bhi.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Khaana chadhane se pehle das minute baith jaiye
- Din 2
Aaj ka ek chhota kaam dekhiye jisse ghar chalta raha
- Din 3
Ek baar dekhiye jab koi bachcha, thoda hi sahi, haath lagata hai
Is par baat karni hai?
“Peechhe chhooti kis plate ya towel ne ek aam shaam ko bigaada, aur phir kya hua?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Sink par aane wali ek baat #
“Mere bachchon ko bina kahe ghar ke kaam mein haath bantana chahiye.” Ye aksar tab aati hai jab haath bhare hon: tiffin ke dabbe maanjte hue, teesri baar kapde sukhate hue, ya darwaaze par pade school bag se bachkar nikalte hue, Indore ke kisi flat mein.
Dimaag mein ye bahut seedhi-si lagti hai, jaise ghar mein rehne wala har bachcha apne aap dekh le: dustbin bhara hai, mez sametni hai, joote bikhre hain. Shayad isiliye iske aaspaas ki chuppi itni zor se sunayi deti hai.
Bachchon aur ghar ko lekar ye baat aakhri baar kab mann mein aayi, aur us waqt aapke haath mein kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Kuch kehne se pehle kya hota hai #
Kuch logon ko jabde mein kasaav mehsoos hota hai, jab koi bachcha bhare dustbin ke paas se guzar jaata hai. Ya sofe par ghante bhar se padi plate dekhkar bheetar koi garm-si kheej uthti hai, theek wahin jahan wo rakhi gayi thi.
Ehsaas aksar khayal se pehle aa jaata hai: aisi aah jo sunayi de, almaari ka darwaaza zaroorat se zyada zor se band hona, kadhai ko kuch zyada hi ragadna. Shabd, agar aate hain, to zara baad mein.
Pichhli baar jab bachche paas baithe the aur sab akele samet-na pada, tab kuch bolne se pehle sabse pehle kya mehsoos hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Saajha ghar, aur ek jaayaz chaah #
Ye ummeed isliye theek lagti hai ki isme sachcha tark hai. Ghar saajha hai, aur chahna ki usme rehne wale dekhein ki use chalane mein kya lagta hai, bartan, kapde, roz ki chhoti-chhoti safai, ye chaah jaayaz hai, sanak nahi.
Jo ek ko din bhar khatakta hai, wo doosre ko lagbhag dikhta hi nahi. Jo sink shaam bhar aapko chubhta raha, wo use nahi dikhta jiske sir mein game, group chat ya kal ka test chal raha ho.
Bina kahe haath bantana agar aapke ghar ki ek aam shaam jaisa dikhta, to kaun kya karta, aur shaam ke kis waqt?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Ghar ka hisaab rakhne wali awaaz #
“Ghar koi hotel nahi hai.” “Tumhein dikhta nahi kya?” “Hamare zamane mein to sab hum hi karte the.” Ye awaaz aksar der raat rasoi mein bolti hai, ya bedroom ke farsh se isi hafte teesri baar geela towel uthate hue.
Kuch log paate hain ki is hisaab ke neeche kuch aur chhipa hai: sirf bartanon mein madad nahi, balki ye ehsaas ki koi dekhe, ki kaam andekha na reh jaye.
Jab awaaz plates aur towel ginne lagti hai, to wo asal mein chahti kya hai ki bachche aapke baare mein dekh lein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Madadgaar bachche ki tasveer kahan se aayi #
Kuch logon mein ye apne bachpan se aati hai: aath saal ki umar mein doodh lene bheja jaana, dadi ke paas baithkar kapde tah karna, aisa ghar jahan bachche bas haath laga dete the aur kisi ko kehna nahi padta tha. Kai gharon mein yahi roz ki lay thi.
Kuch mein ye ulti taraf se aati hai: bachpan mein bahut zyada kaam uthaya, ya bilkul nahi, aur chupchaap tay kiya ki apne bachchon ko alag tarah se paalenge. Kuch log aisi tasveer bachpan tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi. Dono haal mein ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Apne bachpan ka kaun sa kaam sabse pehle yaad aata hai, aur us waqt kamre mein kaun tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Madad ki ginti wala chup-sa niyam #
Bheetar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Theek se pala hota to khud dekh lete,” ya “Jo kehne par aaye, wo madad ginti mein nahi.” Pehla sentence sunayi deta hai; neeche wala niyam tay karta hai ki har padi hui plate ka kya matlab niklega.
Ye niyam jaisa kam aur samajhdaari jaisa zyada lagta hai, aur uske kuch hisson mein sach bhi hai. Isiliye ise dekhna theek rehta hai, aaj ke apne bachchon ke saath, jinke apne din hain aur sir mein apni baatein.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Aaj ke ghar mein bina kahe madad wala ye niyam kahan ab bhi baithta hai, aur kahan nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Saal bhar mein ye hisaab kya le jaata hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai aisi shaamein jinme nazar har us kaam par rahi jo kisi aur ne nahi uthaya, parivaar ke saath film aadhi rasoi ki taraf dekhte hue, aur chhutti ki subah kheej ke saath safai mein nikal jaana. Kuch natakeey nahi, phir bhi dhona bhaari hai.
Ye madad ke asar ko bhi badal deta hai. Jab madad tabhi ginti jaye jab bina kahe aaye, to kehne ke baad aayi madad bhi ginti se bahar lagne lagti hai, aur jo bachcha kehne par plate utha laye, use muskaan ki jagah aah mil sakti hai.
Pichhle saal ki kaun si aam shaam ghar mein sabse zyada is hisaab ke rang mein ranga rahi, aur us shaam ki aapko kya keemat chukani padi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Hisaab rakhte hue aur paanch saal #
Ek aam Tuesday sochiye, us din ka jab “Bachche bina kahe madad karein” ki awaaz tez hai. Ye bas ek tasveer hai, dekhne ke liye, theek karne ke liye kuch nahi.
Shayad mez akele samet-i gayi aur dimaag mein kaun-kya-kar-raha ka hisaab chalta raha, ek towel aah ke saath utha, din kaisa raha wala sawaal nigal liya gaya kyunki pehle rasoi thi, aur der ki chai khade-khade pi gayi.
Isme kuch bhavishyavani nahi, aur tasveer jab chahein wapas rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usme kya hai: bartan, kapde, galiyare mein pade bag, ankahi baatein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us shaam mein kya bhara hai, aur kya intezaar mein hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us shaam ko dekhkar, kuch ubharta hai to kya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Kehne par bhi, madad sachchi hai #
Ye ummeed rakhna bahut insaani hai ki koi bina bataye samajh jaye, aur isse saamne wale ke saamne mushkil paheli rakh di jaati hai. Kuch maata-pita paate hain ki jo unhein chubhta hai, chipchipi slab ya bhara drainer, bachche ko tab tak dikhta hi nahi jab tak ungli se na dikhaya jaye.
Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki bolkar kehna soch se behtar chalta hai, aur kehne ke baad badha hua haath bhi sachcha haath hota hai. Isse bina kahe madad ki chaah galat ya sahi nahi ho jaati. Bas madad ka ek aur roop saamne aa jaata hai.
“Bina kahe” shabdon mein jo kuch bhara hai, usme se sabse zyada kya maayne rakhta hai: madad khud, ya ye ki aapko dekha jaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Bachche pehle se jo ghar mein laate hain #
Jo madad nahi aati, uske saath kuch logon ko ye dekhna achha lagta hai ki bachche pehle se ghar mein kya laate hain, chahe kitna bhi chhota ya kam-zyada: rasoi mein bajta gaana, khaane ki mez par koi mazaak, chhote bhai-behen ki padhai mein madad, ek baar lautaya gaya mug.
Inmein se kuch bhi bakaya nahi hai, aur ise dekhne se chaah kam nahi hoti: jaayaz ummeed aur garmjoshi wala notice dono saath reh sakte hain. Bina kahe jo chhoti cheezein ho jaati hain, wahi dekhne laayak ho sakti hain.
Kuch shaamon mein list chhoti hoti hai, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Ek aam hafte mein aapke bachche ghar mein kya laate hain, jise aap thoda aur dekhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Chain, aur saajha ghar banaye rakhna #
Is ummeed se chain ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki wo zyada thi, ya ki sahi thi. Matlab ye ki jis madad ki aapko aas hai aur jo aati hai, uske beech ka faasla har shaam aur har khaane ka mood tay karna band kar de.
Jo isme jaayaz hai wo reh sakta hai: saajha ghar saajha lage, uske kaam ko koi dekhe. Jo dheela ho sakta hai wo hisaab hai, taaki kehne ke baad uthayi gayi plate bas ek uthi hui plate ho, aur shaam sirf bartanon ki na rahe.
Ghar mein buniyadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi hoti, aapke liye bhi, bachchon ke liye bhi.
Is chaah se chain wali shaam sochiye: rasoi nipatne ke baad aap kya kar rahe honge, aur kiske saath hans rahe honge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Rasoi ke liye ek zyada sachchi line #
“Mere bachchon ko bina kahe haath bantana chahiye” se behes karne ki jagah kuch log aisi line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Meri chaah hai ki hamara ghar saajha lage, aur kehne par badha haath bhi ginta jaye.” Use jeetna nahi hai, bas purani line ke bagal mein baithna hai.
Shuru mein ye feeki lag sakti hai. Kuch logon ko pata chalta hai ki apne shabdon ki line waqt ke saath purani wali ke paas thodi jagah bana leti hai; kuch ko nahi, aur dono theek hain. Koi aur line hamesha aazmayi ja sakti hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein kaun sa sentence zyada sachcha hoga, jo saajhe ghar ki chaah rakhe aur hisaab dheela kar de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch baatein chulhe par latke towel jaisi #
Ghar mein kaun kya karta hai, is har sawaal ka aaj raat faisla zaroori nahi. Kuch baatein dekhi ja sakti hain, ek minute mehsoos ki ja sakti hain, aur rasoi ki railing par towel ki tarah taangi ja sakti hain, Indore ke flat mein ho ya kisi kursi ki peeth par.
Ghar ko lekar koi chaah jab tak chahein niji reh sakti hai, aur wo phir bhi aapki hai, jaanne laayak, chahe kabhi kahi jaye ya nahi.
Aaj shaam use neeche rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki kuch kam tha, ya ki baat nipat gayi. Bas itna ki hisaab ko sink se sofe tak aapke peechhe nahi aana hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar hisaab, zara-sa, dheema padta #
Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ye ummeed ek paayadaan dheemi ho. Saajhe ghar ki chaah ab bhi hai, par mez par padi plate bas ek plate hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: bina hisaab ke mez samet kar ek plate pakda dena, bartanon se pehle sofe par kuch minute, ya sink ko intezaar karwakar bachche ke din ki baat sunna.
Isme se kuch bhi kisi se kehna nahi hai. Jo ubharta hai wo aapka hai, dekhne laayak. Aage: is chaah se chain ka matlab kya ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag mehsoos hoga, chahe thoda hi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Log kuch chhoti cheezein aazmate hain #
- Is khayal ko apna koi naam dijiye, jaise “Andikhe kaam ki aas”
- Bachchon ki chhodi plate uthate waqt dekhiye ki kaun si kahani shuru hoti hai
- Aaj apne liye jo chaha, chahe kitna chhota, use gaur se dekhiye
- Chupchaap khud se poochhiye: hisaab plates ka hai, ya dekhe jaane ka?
- Ek pal ke liye rasoi ko baarah saal ki nazar se dekhiye
Chhoti, niji aur sab optional. Jo ho sake, wahi aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Peechhe chhooti kis plate ya towel ne ek aam shaam ko bigaada, aur phir kya hua?
- Aapke bachchon ki umar mein ghar ke kaam kaise dikhte the, aur aapko kisne sikhaya?
- Aap sabse zyada kya chahte hain ki bachche dekhein ki ghar roz aapse kya leta hai?
- Agar ghar ke hisaab ki pakad thodi dheeli pade, to aapko sabse pehle kya dikhega?
- Bachche shaam ko ghar mein kaun si chhoti cheez pehle se laate hain, jiska aap aur maza lena chahenge?