Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye chubhta bhi isliye hai ki ye aapki jagah ka ishaara lag sakta hai: wo parent jise bahar rakha gaya, jo sahi logon ko nahi jaanta, jise sabse aakhir mein pata chalta hai.
Kuch parents ke liye jadein apne mummy-papa mein hain, jo hamesha school ke gate par hote the aur sab jaante the.
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Achha school parents ko sab batata hai,” ya “Agar mujhe pata nahi, to mujhse bachche ke liye chook ho rahi hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Har shaam school ka app, group aur diary khangalna
- Roz gate par doosre parents se chupke se poochh lena
- Na jaanne par sharminda hona, jaise galti aapki ho
- Sab yaad rakhne ka bhaar bachche par daalna, aur bechain rehna
- Calendar ko reminders se bhar lena, ki kahin kuch chhoot na jaye
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
School ke gate par suni khabar
Nagpur mein school ke gate par kisi doosre parent se pata chalta hai ki aapke bachche ki class ki trip Thursday ko kar di gayi hai, aur permission slip kal jama honi thi. Aapko kisi ne message nahi bheja. Ghar bhaagte ho, bag ki tali mein mudi hui parchi milti hai, aur sharmindagi aur kheej ek saath uthti hai, jaise har baar sabse aakhir mein aapko hi pata chalta hai.
School ko batana chahiye
Andar ek niyam baitha hai: “Bachche ke school ko mujhe sab batana chahiye.” Ye poori tarah jaayaz lagta hai. Parents har baat ka hissa banna chahte hain, aur aap bhi. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: achhe parent hone ka aapka ehsaas is par tika deta hai ki ek busy school kitna achha communicate karta hai. Aap sambhle hue ho ya nahi, ab un messages par hai jo aapke haath mein nahi.
Jaanna achhi parenting kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki kya ho raha hai ye jaanna achhe parent hone jaisa lagta hai. Shayad aapke apne mummy-papa ko aapke school ki har baat pata rehti thi. Shayad aap lambe ghante kaam karte ho, aur school ke message hi bachche ke din ki ekmaatra khidki hain. Jo bhi ho, jaanna chahna nuktacheeni nahi hai. Ye bachche ke liye maujood rehne ki chaah se aata hai, aur ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Hamesha ek kadam peechhe ka ehsaas
Har chhoota message aapko ek kadam peechhe mehsoos karata hai. Aap baar-baar school ke app aur bag khangalte ho. Doosre parents jo zyada jaante lagte hain, unke saamne khud ko parkha hua paate ho. Sochte ho aur kya chhoota hoga. Dheere-dheere school ek aisi duniya lagne lagta hai jiske saath aap kadam nahi mila paate, aur bachche ke din ki baat sunne ki kuch khushi chali jaati hai.
Har message ke peechhe bhaagna theek?
Khud se imaandaari se poochhiye: kya school se bataye jaane ki zaroorat ne kabhi aapko zyada qaabu mein mehsoos karaya? Ya bas zyada bechain? School aksar busy jagahein hoti hain jahan message phisal jaate hain, aur bahut se parents aisa hi mehsoos karte hain. Jo bhi ho, ek chhoota note aapki parenting ka paimana nahi hai. Is niyam ko itni kasakar pakde rehna aapko jitna deta hai, usse zyada leta hai.
Bachche ke kareeb rehna
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aap jaanna chahna chhod dein. Matlab ye ki achhe parent hone ka aapka ehsaas har message ke pahunchne par nahi tika hai. Aap apne seedhe-saade tareeqon se pata kar sakte ho, aur ek chhooti parchi ko chhoti baat rehne de sakte ho. Yahin se kuch sukoon lautta hai: school jo bhi bhejna yaad rakhe, aap bachche ke kareeb rehte ho.
If your child is injured, picked on, singled out for who they are, or seems frightened of school or of an adult there, that is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleBachche ke school ko mujhe sab batana chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleSchool kuch bhi bheje, bachche ke kareeb rehna mere haath mein hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Hafte mein ek tay waqt par school bag dekh lein
- Din 2
Dinner par bachche ke din ki ek kahani sunne ka maza lein
- Din 3
Koi note chhoot jaye, to khud ko yaad dilayein ki ye chhoti baat hai
Is par baat karni hai?
“School ne aapko kab achhi tarah jaankari mein rakha, aur unhone kya kiya?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
School ke gate par suni baat #
Chhutti ke waqt doosra parent poochhta hai, “Kal ki trip ke liye tiffin mein kya de rahe ho?” Aap school ki diary dekhte ho, group dekhte ho, bag tatolte ho. Kuch nahi. Ghar lautte hue, haath mein nanhi ungliyan, khayal aata hai: “Bachche ke school ko mujhe sab batana chahiye.”
Kuch parents ke liye ye bachche ki school ki zindagi mein apni asli jagah rakhne ki baat hai. Bachche apne jaagne ke sabse zyada ghante wahin bitate hain. Sabse aakhir mein pata chalna aisa lag sakta hai jaise us darwaze ke bahar khade hon jiski chaabi aapke paas honi chahiye.
Koi aisa waqt yaad kijiye jab school ne aapko achhe se jaankari mein rakha.
Kaun si trip?Is par baat kijiye ›
Unhone kya kiya, aur usse hafta kaisa laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Jhatpat ki hadbadi #
Kuch parents ko gate par achanak sharm ki garmi mehsoos hoti hai, jaise baaki sabko koi circular mil gaya tha aur inhein nahi. Kuch ko lagta hai dimaag poore hafte ka hisaab daudane laga: kya badalna hai, kya sambhalna hai, kya fikr hai.
Body dimaag se pehle react kar sakti hai: phone ki taraf badhta haath, doosre parent ki taraf zabardasti ki muskaan, ghar ke raaste mein kasa hua jabda. Shaant soch aksar tab aati hai jab plan ban chuka hota hai.
Pichhli baar jab aapko school ki koi baat der se pata chali, to sochne se pehle sabse pehle aapne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Parents ko poori tasveer chahiye #
Jaankari mein rehne ki chaah samajhdaari ki jagah se aati hai. Parents khaane, laane-le jaane, office ki chhutti aur sone ke waqt sab school ke hafte ke hisaab se baandhte hain. Ek chhoota hua message us sab ko gira sakta hai.
Ye chubhta bhi isliye hai ki ye aapki jagah ka ishaara lag sakta hai: wo parent jise bahar rakha gaya, jo sahi logon ko nahi jaanta, jise sabse aakhir mein pata chalta hai. Isse school kisi aise club jaisa lagne lagta hai jiski ek list hai.
School ki taraf se achha communication aapke liye kaisa dikhega, har hafte ek chhote, aam tareeke mein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
School ke gate wali awaaz #
“Sabko pata tha, bas hamein nahi.” “Hamein hi hamesha aakhir mein kyun pata chalta hai?” “Aur kya chhoot gaya hoga?” Ye aksar gate par bol padti hai, ya der raat jab school ka group kuch naya lekar tan se bajta hai.
Awaaz aksar aadhi fikr aur aadhi chhoot jaane ke ehsaas ki hoti hai. Fikr bachche ke liye hai. Chhoot jaane ka ehsaas aapke liye hai, aur use bhi thodi narmi chahiye.
Jab awaaz kahe “sabko pata tha”, to aur kitne parents se bhi ye chhoota hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Jaanne ki chaah kahan se aayi #
Kuch parents ke liye jadein apne mummy-papa mein hain, jo hamesha school ke gate par hote the aur sab jaante the. Jaankari mein rehna achha maa-baap hone ka hissa lagta hai, ek tasveer jo aage chali aayi.
Kuch ke liye ye apne school ke dinon se aayi, jab ghar bheje note kho jaate the aur maa-baap ko kuch pata nahi chalta tha. Unhone khud se vaada kiya tha ki apne bachche ke liye ye alag hoga.
Aapki zindagi mein kaun aapko jaankari mein rakhne mein achha tha, aur usne kya kiya jo aapke sabse zyada kaam aaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Bataye jaane ka niyam #
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Achha school parents ko sab batata hai,” ya “Agar mujhe pata nahi, to mujhse bachche ke liye chook ho rahi hai.” Pehla ek jaayaz ummeed hai. Doosra ek chhoote message se bahut bhaari chhalaang hai.
School bahut se message bhejte hain, kai raaston se, aksar jaldi mein. Kai parivaaron ke haath se cheezein phisal jaati hain. Ek chhoota message aam taur par ek busy system ki baat hota hai, aapke parent hone ki nahi.
Bataye jaane wala aapka niyam is school par kahan baithta hai, aur kahan ek chhoote message ko faisle mein badal deta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Jaankari se bahar rehna kya le leta hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai app kholte beetti shaamein, is fikr ki halki goonj ki aur kya maloom nahi, ya school community ke bahar hone ka ehsaas. Saath milkar ye ek term mein judte jaate hain.
Waqt ke saath ye is baat ko badal sakta hai ki aap parent ke taur par kaisa mehsoos karte ho. Agar sab kuch jaanna hi paimana hai, to bachche ke baare mein jo kuch aap jaante ho, jo koi school app nahi dikhata, wo chhota lagne lagta hai.
Pichhle term ko dekhein to aapne bachche ke baare mein aisa kya jaana jo koi school message kabhi nahi bata sakta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Hamesha aakhir mein khabar milna #
Bas ek tasveer aazmaiye. Kuch school-saal baad, school trip ke baare mein phir gate par kisi doosre parent se sunte hain.
Shayad hadbadi wali ek shaam, tiffin taiyaar karte hue, phone baar-baar dekhte hue, sone ke waqt thoda chidchidapan.
Ye bas ek tasveer hai, bhavishyavani nahi, aur jab chahein ise rakha ja sakta hai.
Us din ka baaki hissa kaisa hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us shaam mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhkar, sabse pehle kya dhyaan kheenchta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
School ka app poora silsila nahi hai #
School aksar khabar ek saath kai jagahon se bhejte hain: app, diary, group, bag mein notice. Har parivaar se kuch na kuch chhootta hai. Jo parents sab jaante lagte hain, unhone aksar gate par kisi aur se suna hota hai.
Iska matlab ye nahi ki kamzor communication theek hai, aur saaf jaankari chahna jaayaz hai. Ho sakta hai aakhir mein pata chalna system ke baare mein aapse zyada kehta ho.
Agar school ke paas aap tak pahunchne ka ek hi raasta hota, to aapke parivaar ke liye sabse achha kaun sa chalta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Bachche ke baare mein jo aap pehle se jaante ho #
Chhoote messages ke baghal mein kuch cheezein pehle se ho sakti hain: gate par wo parent jo narmi se khabar baantta hai, wo bachcha jo apne din ki baatein aapko sunata hai, bachche ki zindagi se aapki wo nazdeeki jiski barabari koi app nahi kar sakta.
Inhein dekhne se school ka communication behtar nahi ho jaata, aur jaankari chahna ab bhi jaayaz hai. Ye bas sach bhi hain, aur aapke bachche ke parent hone ka hissa hain.
Bachche ke dinon ke baare mein, usi se sunkar, aap pehle se kya jaante ho jise thoda aur notice karna chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Bachche ke kareeb, app jo bhi kahe #
Sulah ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki school theek kar raha hai. Maqsad bas itna hai ki ek chhoota message ye tay karna band kar de ki aap parent ke roop mein kaisa mehsoos karte ho. Jo kuch bachche ki suraksha ko chhoota hai, wo kabhi dheela nahi padta, aur use der se sunna chhoti baat nahi.
Agar bachche ko chot lagi ho, use tang kiya ja raha ho, wo jo hai uski wajah se alag chhanta gaya ho, ya wo school se ya wahan ke kisi bade se dara hua lage, to use gambhirta se lena zaroori hai. Jo bachcha kisi bade ke saath asahaj ho, use dhyaan se sunna chahiye.
Agar bachcha kuch samay se school ko lekar thaka-thaka ya apne jaisa na lage, to wo is ummeed se alag baat hai, aur uske apne liye dekhbhaal ki haqdaar hai.
School mein buniyadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi hoti, aapke bachche ke liye aur wahan ke har bachche ke liye.
School ka ek hafta sochiye jismein ye ummeed halke se thami gayi ho: aapki shaamein kaisi hongi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Gate ke liye ek pankti #
“Bachche ke school ko mujhe sab batana chahiye” ke baghal mein kuch parents rakhte hain: “Mujhe khabar chahiye thi, aur bachche ko samajhne ka bharosa mujhe hai.” Pehli pankti jaayaz rehti hai. Doosri aapki apni jaankari ko nazar mein rakhti hai.
Shuru mein ye bahut seedhi lag sakti hai. Kuch parents ise badal lete hain, jaise “Ek chhoota message, chhoota bachcha nahi hota.” Kuch ko waqt ke saath apne shabd mil jaate hain.
Aapka apna sach ke kareeb wala vaakya kya hoga, jo bataye jaane ki ummeed aur parent ke roop mein aapka bharosa, dono rakhe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
App aaj raat band reh sakta hai #
Har chhoote message ke peechhe aaj raat hi bhaagna zaroori nahi. Use notice kiya ja sakta hai, subah suljhaya ja sakta hai, aur abhi ke liye chhoda ja sakta hai, jaise fridge par lagi ek parchi.
Bataye jaane ki chaah bani rah sakti hai. Bachche ki suraksha se judi koi baat kabhi dheeli nahi padti: agar bachche ko chot lagi ho, use tang kiya ja raha ho, wo jo hai uski wajah se alag chhanta gaya ho, ya kisi bade ke saath asahaj ho, to use gambhirta se lena aur dhyaan se sunna zaroori hai.
App band karne ka matlab ye nahi ki school ne theek kiya. Matlab ye hai ki aaj raat screen ki jagah bachche ke baare mein ho sakti hai.
Aap uske saath kya karna chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar aakhir mein pata chalna kam chubhe #
Wahi pal sochiye, par ummeed thodi halki pakdi hui. Gate par trip ki baat sunte hain, use bas ghar ke calendar mein likh lete hain, aur bachche se poochhte hain ki wahan kya dekhne ki ummeed hai.
Kuch ke liye ye haath mein haath liye shaant ghar ki sair hai. Kuch ke liye ek school ke paas kitne app ho sakte hain, is par hansi.
Ye nijee rehta hai; kisi aur ko sunne ki zaroorat nahi. Aage: is ummeed se sulah kaisi dikh sakti hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Alag kya lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapko kaise pata chalega ki kuch khisak gaya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Aaj bachche ne jo ek baat apne shabdon mein sunayi, use notice karein
- Bina judge kiye dekhein ki aap school ka app kitni baar kholte ho
- Dekhein kab awaaz ek chhoote message ko “mujhse chook ho rahi hai” mein badal deti hai
- Gate ke kisi narm parent ko yaad karein, aur wo kya karte hain
- Chupchaap ek baat ka naam lein jo aap bachche ke baare mein jaante ho aur koi app nahi dikhata
Har ek dimaag mein hi rehti hai. Ek kaafi hai.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- School ne aapko kab achhi tarah jaankari mein rakha, aur unhone kya kiya?
- Aapka bachcha apne din ke baare mein aapko kya sunana sabse zyada pasand karta hai?
- School ke parents mein kaun aapko narm ya madadgaar lagta hai?
- Agar aakhir mein pata chalna kam chubhe, to school ke hafte kaise lagenge?
- Aap bachche ke baare mein pehle se aisa kya jaante ho jo koi school kabhi nahi bata sakta?