Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Birthday taareekh se kahin zyada ka nishaan ban jaata hai.
Kuch ke liye ye us ghar se aati hai jahan wo bade hue: dadi ka birthday jiske liye poora ghar subah jaldi uth jaata tha, papa jo har saal bhor mein apni maa ko phone karte the.
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Agar sach mein meri yaad hoti to bina kahe yaad rehta,” ya “Us din yaad rakha jaana batata hai ki main unke liye kya hoon.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Ek hafte pehle taareekh yunhi chhed dena, phir lagna ki ab badhai ki keemat ghat gayi
- “Birthday-virthday kya manana” kehna, aur din bhar phone dekhte rehna
- Ginna ki kis bachche ne pehle badhai di aur kisne der se
- Us din koi plan na banana, dekhne ke liye ki kise yaad rehta hai
- Un sabke birthday khud yaad rakhna, kuch-kuch misaal banane ke liye bhi
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Aapka birthday, shaam tak koi khabar nahi
Aapka birthday, Patna, Kankarbagh ka flat. Subah behen ka phone aata hai. Balcony se padosi haath hilakar “Janmdin mubarak” kehte hain. Shaam tak bade ho chuke bachchon ki taraf se kuch nahi aata. Aap phone baar-baar dekhte ho. Aakhir raat nau baje message aata hai: “Happy birthday Mummy!! Sorry, aaj bahut bhagdaud thi!” Aap dil bhejkar jawab dete ho, par din kuch feeka lagta hai, jaise der tak rakha cake.
Bina yaad dilaye yaad rehna chahiye
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Bachchon ko mera birthday bina yaad dilaye yaad rehna chahiye.” Ye kitni chhoti baat lagti hai, saal mein ek taareekh. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: ye aapke birthday ko is pariksha mein badal deta hai ki wo kitna chahte hain. Din khushi wala lagega ya nahi, ye un busy badon par tik jaata hai jinhein apni bhari zindagi ke beech ek taareekh yaad rakhni hai.
Yaad kiya jaana pyaar kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki yaad kiya jaana pyaar kiye jaane jaisa lagta hai. Shayad aapko unke birthday hamesha cake aur mombatti samet yaad rahe. Shayad ghar mein badon ka birthday badi baat thi, aur wo aapse kabhi nahi chhoote. Jo bhi ho, yaad kiye jaane ki chaah nadaani nahi. Ye apnon ke liye khaas hone ki chaah se ugti hai, aur ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Din bhar phone dekhna
Har der se aayi badhai ek chhoti chot chhod jaati hai. Birthday par aap din bhar phone dekhte ho. Chot lagti hai, phir is baat par sharm ki chot lagi. Aap un doston se tulna karte ho jinke bachchon ne dhoom machayi. Dheere-dheere aapka apna birthday guzaarne ka din lagne lagta hai, aur jaise pehle intezaar rehta tha, ab thoda darr rehta hai.
Kya intezaar aapke din ke laayak hai?
Khud se sach mein poochiye: kya unke yaad rakhne ka intezaar karne se kabhi aapka birthday zyada khushnuma hua? Ya zyadatar tanaav hi badha? Busy bade bachche aksar taareekhein bhool jaate hain; wajah unki apni hai, aapke baare mein koi faisla nahi. Phir bhi der se aaya message iska paimana nahi ki aap unke liye kya ho. Is niyam ko itne kasakar pakadne ki keemat usse zyada hai jitna ye deta hai.
Aapka birthday, manane ke liye
Chhodne ka matlab unki badhaiyon ka maza chhodna nahi. Matlab ye ki aapka birthday ab unke pahunchne ke waqt par na tike. Aap apni pasand ka kuch plan kar sakte ho, din bhar khud ko pyaar se mana sakte ho, aur unke message ko jab bhi aayein, ek khushi ke tohfe ki tarah le sakte ho. Yahin thoda chain lautta hai: aapka birthday phir aapka ho jaata hai, garm aur apna, chahe pehle kisi ko bhi yaad aaye.
Basic respect and safety are never too much to expect; if anyone in the family is threatened, hurt or frightened, that is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleBachchon ko mera birthday bina yaad dilaye yaad rehna chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMera birthday mera hai. Unki badhai ek tohfa hai.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Apne birthday ke liye koi ek pasandida cheez plan kijiye
- Kadam 2
Us din phone sirf do baar dekhiye
- Kadam 3
Apne liye koi chhoti, achhi cheez kharidiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kaun sa birthday ka message ummeed se der se aaya, aur intezaar ke waqt aap kya kar rahe the?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Saal mein ek baar aane wali chhoti chaahat #
“Bachchon ko mera birthday bina yaad dilaye yaad rehna chahiye.” Ye calendar ke saath chali aati hai: halwai wale calendar mein taareekh ke gird bana gola, kisi rishtedaar ke ghar katta cake, ya usi din ki subah chai ke saath dekha gaya phone.
Seedhe kahein toh ye baat chhoti lagti hai, itni chhoti ki batane laayak bhi nahi: saal mein ek din, ek message, bina kisi ke kahe. Yahi chhotapan hai jo us din phone ke chup rehne par kami ko itna bada bana deta hai.
Apne birthday aur bachchon ko lekar ye khayal aakhri baar kab aaya tha, aur taareekh kitne din door thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Us subah phone par pehli nazar #
Kuch maa-baap ko ye phone par pehli nazar mein hi pata chal jaata hai: bank ke message aur “Good Morning” ke forward ke beech ek naam dhoondhti nigaah, aur wo na dikhe to andar thoda sa baith jaana.
Phir shaam chaar baje ek message aata hai, pyaar se bhara, dilon wala, aur ehsaas ajeeb mila-jula ho sakta hai: khushi bhi, chubhan bhi, aur ghanton ka intezaar shabd padhe jaane se pehle hi usme ghula hua.
Pichhle birthday par jis pal pehli baar phone uthaya, koi message kholne se pehle, aapko kya mehsoos hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Yaad rakhe jaane ki chaah samajh aati hai #
Ye ummeed waajib isliye lagti hai ki isme sachchi samajhdaari hai. Maa-baap ko shayad apne har bachche ka birthday yaad raha ho: cake ka flavour, doston ke naam, nayi cycle wala saal. Badle mein ek din yaad kiya jaana sabse chhoti cheez lag sakta hai.
Birthday taareekh se kahin zyada ka nishaan ban jaata hai. Wo is baat ki pariksha jaisa lagne lagta hai ki bachchon ke mann mein maa-baap ki jagah hai bhi ya nahi, aur tab ek der se aaya message saal bhar ki aam baaton aur mulaqaaton se bhaari pad sakta hai.
Agar birthday par yaad kiye jaane ko ek pal ki tasveer banana ho, to wo kaisi hogi, aur din ke kis pehar mein aayegi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Ghadi dekhti awaaz #
“Inka birthday mujhe har saal yaad raha.” “Padosi ne bhi inse pehle badhai de di.” “Yaad dilana pade to kya faayda.” Ye awaaz aksar dopahar ke aaspaas bolti hai, jab phone sabke liye baj chuka ho, siwaye unke jinka intezaar tha.
Kuch maa-baap paate hain ki ye ginti us cheez ki or ishaara karti hai jo asal mein khal rahi hai: message nahi, balki bina kahe kisi ke mann mein aa jaane ka ehsaas.
Jab ye awaaz kehti hai ki yaad dilane par aayi badhai waisi nahi hoti, to bina kahe aayi badhai aapko kya batati, jo yaad dilane wali nahi bata sakti?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Is din ki tasveer kahan se aayi #
Kuch ke liye ye us ghar se aati hai jahan wo bade hue: dadi ka birthday jiske liye poora ghar subah jaldi uth jaata tha, papa jo har saal bhor mein apni maa ko phone karte the. Kuch parivaaron mein badon ka birthday sabko bas yaad rehta hai.
Kuch ke liye ye ulti taraf se aati hai: bachpan ke wo birthday jo yunhi guzar gaye, aur ek chup sa faisla ki apne bachche jaanenge ki taareekhein rakhi jaati hain. Kuch log aisi tasveer ko shuruaati saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi.
Aapke bachpan mein kiske birthday par ghar mein sabse zyada raunak hoti thi, aur yaad rakhne ka kaam kaun karta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Taareekh ke peeche ka chup niyam #
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Agar sach mein meri yaad hoti to bina kahe yaad rehta,” ya “Us din yaad rakha jaana batata hai ki main unke liye kya hoon.” Pehla vaakya wo hai jo sunai deta hai; neeche wala niyam tay karta hai ki der se aaye message ka matlab kya nikala jaye.
Andar se dekhein toh ye niyam hai hi nahi, bas seedha-saada pyaar hai jo sabse aasaan paimane se naapa ja raha hai. Isiliye ise dekhna kaam ka hai, bachchon ki aaj ki bhari zindagi ke paas rakhkar, sirf ghar mein beete dinon ke hisaab se nahi.
Kuch log aise niyam ko shuruaati saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Aaj ke paarivaarik jeevan mein bina yaad dilaye yaad rakhne ka niyam kahan ab bhi baithta hai, aur kahan nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Ek chup subah ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai aadha din din ke andar aur aadha phone ke andar beetna, doston ke saath lunch jahan mann ka ek hissa kahin aur ho, ya muskaan ke saath kata cake jo kisi aur message ka intezaar kar raha tha. Kuch dramatic nahi, phir bhi ek din ka kuch hissa de diya gaya.
Ye us din se aage bhi khinch sakta hai. Jab ek taareekh poore rishte ka paimana ban jaye, to der se aayi badhai aaspaas ke hafton par rang chadha sakti hai, aur March ka garmjoshi wala phone bhi kisi tarah us message se kam ginta hai jo nashte ki jagah dopahar mein aaya.
Pichhle ek-do saalon mein birthday ka kaun sa hissa sabse zyada intezaar mein gaya, aur us hisse mein aap kya karna chahte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Phone dekhte paanch aur birthday #
Ek aam birthday ki kalpana kijiye, us saal ki jab “bina yaad dilaye yaad rehna chahiye” zor se baj rahi ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad poore nashte mein phone ki or nazar, uske paas thandi hoti chai, kisi dost ka phone zara jaldi utha lena, mann mein list ki kisne badhai di aur kisne nahi, cake ka ek tukda baad ke liye rakha hua.
Isme koi anumaan nahi, aur tasveer jab chahein hatayi ja sakti hai.
Usme kya hai: nashta, message, milne wale, ankahi baatein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din ko kya bharta hai, aur kya intezaar karta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us birthday ko dekhkar, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Yaad rakhna, kis tarah? #
Ek taraf jo zor se baje, doosri taraf dheema ho sakta hai. Maa-baap ke saal mein jo taareekh badi baithti hai, wo bade ho chuke bachche ke calendar mein waisi na baithe, aur akela faasla nahi bata sakta ki uska matlab kya hai.
Mann mein rakha jaana ek hi shakl ka nahi hota. Guruwar ka phone, kisi recipe ki maang, office trip se bheji photo: kuch maa-baap paate hain ki ye birthday ki badhai ke saath-saath kisi ke hafte mein shaamil hone ke doosre tareeke hain.
Birthday ke message ka jo kuch matlab hai, usme aapke liye sabse ahem kya hai, aur saal mein aur kahan, agar kahin, wo dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Kisi bhi din jo pehle se pahunchta hai #
Jo chaahat poori na hui uske saath, kuch maa-baap ko ye gaur karna achha lagta hai ki bachchon se pehle se kya aata hai, chahe der se ya betarteeb: besure gaane wala voice note, aapki recipe se bane cake ki photo, kisi doosre time zone se raat ko aaya phone.
Ye farz ya karz nahi, aur isse chaahat naajaayaz nahi ho jaati: ek jaayaz ummeed aur ek garm nazar saath-saath baith sakti hain. Saal ke kisi bhi din ke chhote, bin kahe pal shayad sabse zyada dekhne laayak hote hain.
Aaj kuch yaad na aaye to bhi theek hai.
Is saal aapke kisi bachche ne aisi kaun si chhoti, bin kahi baat ki hai jiska aap maza lena chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Sulah, aur chaahat bhi salamat #
Is ummeed se sulah ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki ye zyada maangti hai, ya ye ki sahi hai. Matlab ye ki jis message ki aas thi aur jo aaya, unke beech ka faasla poora birthday aur uske baad ke hafte chalana chhod de.
Isme jo jaayaz hai wo bana reh sakta hai: unke mann mein rehne ki chaahat, apne din par yaad kiye jaane ki chaahat. Jo dheela pad sakta hai wo pakad hai, taaki shaam chaar baje ka message ek message ki tarah padha jaye, apni jagah garm, subah ko saath chipkaye bina.
Buniyaadi izzat aur suraksha ki ummeed kabhi “zyada maangna” nahi hai, aapke liye bhi aur bachchon ke liye bhi.
Is chaahat se sulah kiye ek birthday ki tasveer banaiye: subah kiske saath beetegi, aur aapko kya achha lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Us subah ke liye ek sachchi line #
“Bachchon ko mera birthday bina yaad dilaye yaad rehna chahiye” se bhidne ki jagah kuch log aisi line paas rakhte hain: “Us din yaad kiye jaane ki chaah hai, aur mera din phir bhi mera hai, manane ke liye.” Use jeetna zaroori nahi, bas purani ke baghal mein baithna hai.
Usi subah ye patli lag sakti hai. Kuch logon ko waqt ke saath apni likhi line purani ki thodi jagah leti dikhti hai; kuch ko nahi, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein aapke birthday ke baare mein kaun si sachchi line hogi, jo chaahat bachaye rakhe aur din phir bhi aapka rakhe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch chaahatein almari par rakhi reh sakti hain #
Apnon ko lekar har chaahat ka agle birthday se pehle nipatna zaroori nahi. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal thaama ja sakta hai aur chhoda ja sakta hai, Patna ke ghar ki almari par rakhe card ki tarah, ya kitchen ki drawer mein sanjoye mombatti ke tukde ki tarah.
Yaad kiye jaane ki ummeed jitni der chahein nijee reh sakti hai, aur ye ek sachchi ummeed hai, jaanne laayak, us din phone jo bhi kare.
Is khayal ko aaj shaam ke liye neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki sab sahi tha, ya baat sulajh gayi. Bas itna ki wo taareekh abhi se agle saal tak har phone par baithi nahi rahegi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar intezaar thoda bhi dheela ho #
Bas tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ye ummeed ek darja shaant hai. Yaad kiye jaane ki chaah ab bhi hai, par der se aaya message bas der se aaya message hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: apni pasand ka birthday ka nashta, phone doosre kamre mein, apne liye banayi sair, ya der se aayi badhai ko is nazar se padhna ki usme kya likha hai, ye nahi ki kab aayi.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai. Agli baar dekhenge ki is chaahat se sulah ka matlab kya ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai, zara sa bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Usi subah gaur kijiye ki sabse pehle aap kya dekhte ho
- Badhai der se aaye to dekhiye ki intezaar ne usme kya joda
- Aaj ki ek chhoti chaahat ko pehchaniye, chahe kitni bhi chhoti
- Sochiye ki phone ke bina aap kaun sa birthday plan karte
- Chupchaap khud se poochiye: is taareekh ke neeche asal mein kya hai?
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kaun sa birthday ka message ummeed se der se aaya, aur intezaar ke waqt aap kya kar rahe the?
- Kiska birthday aapko aaj bhi bina yaad dilaye yaad hai, aur use yaad rakhne ka aapke liye kya matlab hai?
- Birthday par yaad kiya jaana kaisa lagta, agar theek waisa hota jaisa aapne chaha tha?
- Agar bina kahe yaad kiye jaane ki chaah thodi dheeli ho, to us din aapko sabse pehle kya dikhega?
- Aapke bachche saal ke kisi bhi din pehle se kaun si chhoti cheez karte hain jiska aap aur maza lena chahoge?