Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Iske andar aksar ek aas tah hoti hai: ki jo jiya usne kuch aisa sikhaya jo aage dene laayak hai.
Kuch ke liye ye apne bachpan ki table se shuru hua: ek maa ya papa jo copy line-dar-line check karte the, dadi-nani ki school tak ke lambe paidal raaste ki kahani, board se pehle wale mahine mein ghar ki chuppi.
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Mehnat se hi zindagi banti hai,” ya “Agar ye utna zor nahi lagayenge jitna humne lagaya, to taiyaar nahi honge.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Unki shaamon ki tulna, mann mein ya bolkar, us umar ki apni shaamon se karna
- Ye ginna ki kitaab kitni der khuli rahi, ye poochne ki jagah ki kya seekha
- Homework itne gaur se check karna jitna kisi ne maanga nahi
- Padhai par “tumhari marzi” kehna, phir numbers aane par chup ho jaana
- School ka zikr hi band kar dena, aur raat ko akele use ulatte-palatte rehna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Kitaabein khuli, video chalu
Raat ke nau baje, Banaras, Lanka ke paas ka ghar. Bete ki kitaabein table par khuli hain, par wo phone par video dekhkar hans raha hai. Board ke exam teen hafte door hain. Aapko yaad aata hai, lamp aur notes ke dher ke saath der raat tak jaagna, achha karne ki zid ke saath. Aap uske darwaze par ho, kuch kehna chahte ho, phir laut jaate ho. Kitchen mein fikar patile ki bhaap ki tarah uthti hai.
Inhein bhi humari tarah padhna chahiye
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Bachchon ko padhai mein utni mehnat karni chahiye jitni maine ki.” Ye jaayaz chaah lagti hai. Mehnat ne aapke liye darwaze khole. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: ye aapka chain is par bandh deta hai ki bachcha aapke tareeke se chale. Uske bhavishya ko lekar aap shaant rahenge ya nahi, ye kisi aur daur, kisi aur school, kisi aur zindagi ki aadaton par tik jaata hai.
Mehnat ne humein itna kyun diya
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki mehnat hi shayad hamare maukon ka zariya rahi. Shayad bahut kam mein bade hue, aur padhai hi aapka raasta thi. Shayad isliye itni mehnat ki ki bachchon ka raasta aasaan ho. Jo bhi ho, unse mehnat chahna kathorta nahi. Ye pyaar se aur unke surakshit bhavishya ki chaah se aata hai, aur ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Har aaram ki shaam aur fikar
Har aaram ki shaam fikar ko thoda aur badhati hai. Aap unki padhai par nazar rakhne lagte ho. Unhein us umar ke apne aap se aur cousins se taulte ho. Phone aur numbers par behes hoti hai, phir neend nahi aati. Dheere-dheere imtihaan ke aaspaas ghar mein tanaav rehne lagta hai, aur bachchon ke liye aapka pyaar unke bhavishya ke darr se ghul-mil jaata hai, jo wo bhi mehsoos karte hain.
Kya purana tareeka fikar ke laayak hai?
Khud se sach mein poochiye: kya unki mehnat ko aapse taulne se kabhi unhone zyada padha? Ya zyadatar ghar ka tanaav badha? Bachche aksar humse alag dhang se padhte hain, aur unka raasta hamare jaisa na dikhe. Phir bhi wo kaise padhte hain, ye na aapki parvarish ka paimana hai, na unke bhavishya ka. Is niyam ko itne kasakar pakadne ki keemat usse zyada hai jitna ye deta hai.
Achhi zindagi ke kai raaste
Chhodne ka matlab unki padhai ki parwah chhodna nahi. Matlab ye ki aapka chain ab unke aapke tareeke se chalne par na tike. Aap jigyasu reh sakte ho ki wo kaise seekhte hain, unhein narmi se sahara de sakte ho, aur ye bharosa rakh sakte ho ki achhi zindagi ke kai raaste hain. Yahin thoda chain lautta hai: aap unke saath khade ho sakte ho, unki table ke upar nahi.
If your child ever seems frightened or worn down about school, or anyone at home is threatened or hurt, that is different from this hope and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleBachchon ko padhai mein utni mehnat karni chahiye jitni maine ki.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleSeekhne ke kai dhang hain, aur achhi zindagi ke kai raaste.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Bachche ke seekhne ke dhang mein jo achha lage, use sochiye
- Din 2
Koi ek vishay sochiye jo aapke bachche ko pasand hai
- Din 3
School se bahar uski ek achhi baat sochiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Apne school ke saalon ki kaun si shaam aapko sabse achhi yaad hai, aur us raat aapke saath kaun jaaga tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Padhai ki table par aata ek khayal #
“Bachchon ko padhai mein utni mehnat karni chahiye jitni maine ki.” Ye aksar lambe din ke aakhir mein aata hai: raat das baje kisi kamre ke aage se guzarte hue, school chhodne ke raaste mein test ke baare mein poochte hue, parent-teacher meeting mein, ya cousin ke class mein top karne ki khabar par.
Ye niyam banke kam aata hai. Ye yaad banke aata hai: khidki ke paas ki chhoti table, exam ke dinon mein chaar baje ka alarm, wo ghante jo aapko aage le gaye, aur ek chup si chaah ki un ghanton ka kuch matlab bachche bhi saath le jaayein.
Bachchon aur unki padhai ko lekar ye khayal aakhri baar kab aaya tha, aur tab wo kya kar rahe the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Kuch kehne se pehle jo halchal hoti hai #
Kuch maa-baap ko kasaav sa lagta hai jab kisi kamre ke aage se guzarte hue khuli kitaab ke paas phone chamakta dikhe, ya test se teen din pehle raat nau baje video call ki hansi sunai de.
Ehsaas pehle aa sakta hai aur shabd baad mein: ek jhatke ki garmi, “Isse padhai kehte hain?” jaisi teekhi baat jo soch se pehle uthe, darwaza jitna socha tha usse thoda zor se band. Kuch logon ki soch sone jaate waqt jaakar pakadti hai.
Pichhli baar jab aapne bachche ko school ki raat mein aaram karte dekha, to shabd aane se pehle ke pehle kuch second mein aapko kya mehsoos hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Mehnat ne aage badhaya, to wahi raasta lagta hai #
Ye ummeed waajib isliye lagti hai ki aapki apni kahani mein mehnat sachmuch maayne rakhti rahi hogi. Agar kitaab ke saath beeti lambi shaamon ne aapke liye koi darwaza khola, to ye ummeed karna samajh aata hai ki bachche bhi wahi chaabi aazmaayein.
Iske andar aksar ek aas tah hoti hai: ki jo jiya usne kuch aisa sikhaya jo aage dene laayak hai. Jab koi bachcha alag dhang se padhta dikhe, to wo homework ka sawaal kam aur ek aisa sabak zyada lagta hai jo pahuncha nahi.
Padhai ki un lambi shaamon ne aapko kya diya, jo aap sabse zyada chahoge ki aapke bachchon ko zindagi mein kahin mile?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Shaam ko naapne wali awaaz #
“Hamein toh ye madad bhi nahi mili.” “Hamare zamaane mein chaar baje uth jaate the.” “Inhein kya pata, kitna aasaan hai sab.” Ye awaaz aksar aadhe khule darwaze se guzarte hue bolti hai, ya school ke message mein chhoote assignment ki baat padhte hue.
“Chahiye” tab aur bhaari lagta hai jab usme doosri awaazein bhi hon. Kuch maa-baap dekhte hain ki bachche ki shaam ko naapne wali awaaz apni kam aur kisi teacher, pita ya barson purane kisi rishtedaar jaisi zyada sunai deti hai.
Jab awaaz bachche ki shaam ko aapki shaam se taulne lagti hai, to wo aapke school ke saalon se kiske shabd udhaar leti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Mehnat ka paimana kahan se aaya #
Kuch ke liye ye apne bachpan ki table se shuru hua: ek maa ya papa jo copy line-dar-line check karte the, dadi-nani ki school tak ke lambe paidal raaste ki kahani, board se pehle wale mahine mein ghar ki chuppi. Kuch gharon mein padhai hi har shaam ka dhaancha thi.
Kuch ke liye ye kahi gayi baaton se bana: “Hamein kisi ne thaali mein nahi parosa,” ya us bachche ki teacher ki taareef jo der tak rukkar padhta tha. Kuch log aise paimane ko shuruaati saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Apne school ke saalon ki kaun si shaam ne pehli baar dikhaya ki mehnat kaisi honi chahiye, aur us kamre mein kaun tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Purani shaamon mein tah kiya niyam #
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Mehnat se hi zindagi banti hai,” ya “Agar ye utna zor nahi lagayenge jitna humne lagaya, to taiyaar nahi honge.” Pehla vaakya wo hai jo sunai deta hai; neeche wala niyam tay karta hai ki table par baithi har shaam ka matlab kya nikala jaye.
Jiske paas ye hai, use ye kam hi niyam jaisa lagta hai. Ye tajurbe wali fikar jaisa lagta hai, aur aksar sachmuch tajurba peeche hota hai. Isiliye ise dekhna kaam ka hai, is bachche, is school aur in saalon ke paas rakhkar, sirf un saalon ke nahi jo aapne jiye.
Kuch log aise niyam ko shuruaati saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi.
Aaj bachche ki school ki zindagi ke kaun se hisson par mehnat wala niyam ab bhi baithta hai, aur kaun se par nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Ek saal mein naapne ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai khaane ki table par screen ko lekar khinchtaan, ek achhe number par “Aur baaki?”, ya Sunday ki dopahar jo saath kahin jaane ki jagah ek table ki nigraani mein beete. Kuch bhi tez nahi, par saal bhar mein sab jud jaata hai.
Bachche ka achha karna chahna samasya nahi hai; wo tab bhaari ho jaata hai jab har dheeli shaam faisle jaisi lage. Jab ghante hi paimana ban jaayein, to shaamein khud ghar mein sabke liye ek lambe imtihaan jaisi lagne lagti hain.
Pyaar ki kami se nahi: apne saalon par bani aas ka wazan sachmuch hota hai.
Pichhle saal ghar ki kaun si aam shaam par padhai ke ghante ginne ka rang sabse zyada chadha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Shaamein naapte paanch aur saal #
Ek aam hafte ki raat ki kalpana kijiye, us din ki jab “bachchon ko utni mehnat karni chahiye jitni maine ki” zor se baj rahi ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad raat nau baje unke darwaze par khade hokar khuli kitaabon ko apni purani shaamon se taulna, school ka message do baar padhna, khaana numbers ki baaton mein beetna, aur wo film jo aap dono ko achhi lagti kisi aur weekend par tal jaana.
Isme koi anumaan nahi, aur tasveer jab chahein hatayi ja sakti hai.
Usme kya hai: homework, darwaze, khaane, ankahi baatein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us shaam ko kya bharta hai, aur kya intezaar karta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us shaam ko dekhkar, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Mehnat, kis shakl mein? #
Mehnat ek table se doosri table tak alag dikh sakti hai. Kuch bachche chhote-chhote daur mein padhte hain, gaana lagakar; kuch dost ke saath call par; kuch der raat, kuch subah jaldi. Khuli kitaab ke ghante aur asli seekhna hamesha ek hi paimana nahi hote.
Ummeed tab sabse theek chalti hai jab wo usse mel khaye jo is bachche se, is school mein, in saalon mein sachmuch ho sakta hai. Aapki apni mehnat apne waqt aur jagah mein hui, aur wo ab bhi ginti jaati hai, bhale uski nakal na ho sake.
Aap jo kuch bachchon ke mehnat seekhne se chahte ho, usme se kaun sa hissa aisi shakl mein aa sakta hai jo aapki shaamon jaisi bilkul na dikhe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Bachcha pehle se kis cheez mein doobta hai #
Ummeed ke baghal mein, bachche ki school ki zindagi mein shayad pehle se kuch gaur karne laayak ho, chahe betarteeb: koi project jisme wo kho gaya, khaane par kisi padhi hui cheez ka sawaal, test se pehle dost ki ki hui madad.
Ise dekhne ka karz kisi par nahi, aur jo aapne chaha wo isse mitta nahi; dono saath-saath reh sakte hain. Jo mehnat kisi ne maangi nahi, us vishay par jo bachche ne khud chuna, shayad wahi sabse zyada dekhne laayak hai.
Kuch shaamein aisi bhi hoti hain jab kuch yaad nahi aata, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Ek aam hafte mein aapka bachcha pehle se kis cheez mein sachmuch mehnat karta hai, jise aap thoda aur dekhna chahein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Sulah, aur jo zaroori hai use sanjona #
Is ummeed se sulah ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki ye zyada maangti thi, ya ye ki shuru se sahi thi. Matlab ye ki aapki apni purani shaamon aur bachche ki shaam ke beech ka faasla school ki har raat aur darwaze se har jhaanki ko chalana chhod de.
Isme jo jaayaz hai wo bana reh sakta hai: ki bachchon ko wo mile jo mehnat khol sakti hai, aur apne saalon par garv. Jo dheela pad sakta hai wo pakad hai, taaki band kitaabon wali shaam bas ek shaam ho, kisi asafal sabak ka saboot nahi.
Ghar aur school mein buniyaadi izzat aur suraksha ki ummeed kabhi “zyada maangna” nahi hai, aapke liye bhi aur bachche ke liye bhi. Agar aapka bachcha kabhi school ko lekar dara hua ya toota sa lage, to uski apni khaatir, wo is ummeed se alag baat hai aur use gambheerta se lena chahiye.
Is ummeed se sulah ki hui ek school ki raat ki tasveer banaiye: khaane par aap kis baare mein baat kar rahe honge, aur aapko kya achha lag raha hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
School ki raaton ke liye ek sachchi line #
“Bachchon ko padhai mein utni mehnat karni chahiye jitni maine ki” se bhidne ki jagah kuch log aisi line paas rakhte hain: “Meri mehnat meri thi, aur unki alag dikh sakti hai.” Use jeetna zaroori nahi, bas purani ke baghal mein baithna hai.
Shuru mein ye patli lag sakti hai. Kuch ko waqt ke saath apni likhi line purani ke baghal mein thodi jagah banati dikhti hai; kuch ko wo kabhi poori baithti nahi, aur dono haal mein koi doosri line hamesha aazmayi ja sakti hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein kaun si sachchi line hogi, jo apne saalon ka maan rakhe aur bachche ko apne dhang se mehnat karne ki jagah bhi de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch shaamein jaisi hain waisi chhodi ja sakti hain #
School ki har fikar aaj raat nipatani zaroori nahi. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise Banaras ke ghar ki drawer mein rakha report card, ya subah tak bina khola school ka email.
Aisi aas jitni der chahein nijee reh sakti hai. Agar aapka bachcha kabhi school ko lekar dara hua ya toota sa lage, to uski apni khaatir, wo is ummeed se alag baat hai aur use gambheerta se lena chahiye.
Aaj shaam ke liye is khayal ko neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki sab sahi tha, ya baat sulajh gayi. Bas itna ki aaj ka homework aapke apne saare school ke saalon ka wazan nahi uthayega.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar naapna thoda bhi dheela ho #
Bas tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ye ummeed ek darja shaant hai. Mehnat ki aas ab bhi hai, par band kitaabon wali shaam bas ek shaam hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: raat nau baje unke darwaze par ghanton ki jagah chapter ke baare mein sochna, ek khaana jisme school ki baat bas ek baar aaye, ya ek Saturday apni kisi pasand ke kaam mein.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne laayak hai. Agli baar dekhenge ki is aas se sulah ka matlab kya ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai, zara sa bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Jab ye khayal aaye to use chhota naam dijiye, jaise “chaar baje wali yaad”
- Unke darwaze se guzrein to gaur kijiye ki mann kis saal se naap raha hai
- Aaj apne liye jo ek chhoti cheez chahi thi, use pehchaniye
- Chupchaap khud se poochiye: meri purani shaamon ne kya sikhaya, jo aage dene laayak hai?
- Unka school ka hafta unki taraf se sochiye: class, dost, phone
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Apne school ke saalon ki kaun si shaam aapko sabse achhi yaad hai, aur us raat aapke saath kaun jaaga tha?
- Bachche ke saath school ki kaun si raat ab bhi mann mein hai, aur darwaze par aap kya kehna chahte the?
- Aap sabse zyada kya chahte ho ki aapke bachche kisi din aapke padhne ke dhang ke baare mein samjhein?
- Agar bachchon ki padhai ko lekar ye aas thodi halki ho, to aapko sabse pehle kya dikhega?
- Aapka bachcha pehle se kis cheez mein doobta hai jiska aap aur maza lena chahoge?