Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Kuch nirashaayein waada tootne jaisi chubhti hain, chahe kisi ne zubaan se kuch kaha na ho.
Kuch maata-pita mein ye apne beete waqt se aati hai: Itwaar ke liye book ki gayi trunk call, mahine mein ek chitthi ghar ko, ya ek maa jo tay waqt par landline ke paas baithi rehti thi.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Parwah hoti to bina yaad dilaye phone karte,” ya “Achhe parivaar mein har hafte baat hoti hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Jis din call aati thi, us din phone zyada baar dekhna
- Khud pehle phone laga dena, aur phir keh dena ki kitne din ho gaye
- Bina chahe din ginte rehna ki call ke beech kitne guzre
- “Koi zaroorat nahi phone karne ki, hum theek hain” kehna, aur phir bhi intezaar karna
- Unki callon ki tulna bhai-behen ke bachchon se, ya dost ke bachchon se karna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Itwaar ki shaam phone ke paas
Itwaar ki shaam hai. Phone aapke paas mez par rakha hai. Pichhle hafte bete ne Guruwar ko phone kiya tha; is hafte abhi tak kuch nahi. Aap screen dekhte ho, phir dobara. Sochte ho khud laga lein, phir nahi lagate, kahin aisa na lage ki hum utavle hain. Raat das baje aap sone chal dete ho, aur ghar ki chuppi bahut zor se sunayi deti hai.
Bachchon ko har hafte phone karna chahiye
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Bachchon ko har hafte phone karna chahiye.” Ye maangne ko chhoti-si baat lagti hai, bas ek call. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har shaant hafte ko is sawaal mein badal deta hai ki aap maayne rakhte ho ya nahi. Bachchon ke kareeb mehsoos karna ab unke schedule, unki thakan aur us vyast zindagi par tik gaya hai jise banane mein aapne madad ki.
Call ek dhaaga kyun lagti hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki call ek dhaage jaisi lagti hai jo jode rakhta hai. Shayad aap khud apne maa-baap ko har Itwaar bina chooke phone karte the. Shayad unke jaane ke baad ghar khaali lagta hai, aur unki callein us khaalipan ko thoda bhar deti hain. Jo bhi ho, unse sunne ki chaah mein koi kamzori nahi. Ye pyaar se aur yaad aane se aati hai. Ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Baar-baar phone dekhte rehna
Har shaant hafta aapko thoda aur chaukanna kar deta hai. Din bhar phone dekhne lagte ho. Chot lagti hai, phir is baat ka apradh-bodh ki bura kyun maana. Jab call aati hai, tab bhi mann ka ek hissa pichhli call ke baad ke din gin raha hota hai. Dheere-dheere jin callon ka intezaar rehta hai, unme ek chup tanaav aa jaata hai, aur unki awaaz sunne ki khushi fikr se mil jaati hai.
Kya callein ginna theek hai?
Imaandari se khud se poochhiye: kya hafte ki call ke intezaar se kabhi aap kareeb mehsoos karne lage? Ya zyadatar shaant hafte aur lambe ho gaye? Bade ho chuke bachche aksar kaam aur zindagi mein uljh jaate hain; shaant hafte ka unke liye kya matlab hai, ye wahi bata sakte hain. Calendar iska paimana nahi ki aap unke liye kya ho. Kya is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna us keemat ke laayak hai jo ye maangta hai?
Shaant hafta bas shaant hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki unki callein achhi lagna band ho jaye. Matlab ye ki aapka chaha jaana ab is par nahi tika ki wo kis din phone karte hain. Har call aane par aap uska poora maza le sakte ho, aur shaant hafton ko un cheezon se bhar sakte ho jo aapko pasand hain. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: callein khushi ban jaati hain, imtihaan nahi, aur shaanti bas shaanti reh jaati hai.
If a silence worries you for their sake, or if anyone at home is threatened, hurt or frightened, that is a different thing from this hope, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleBachchon ko har hafte phone karna chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleHar call ek khushi hai. Shaant hafta bas shaant hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Itwaar ko phone sirf do baar dekhiye
- Din 2
Ek shaant shaam ke liye koi pasand ki cheez tay kijiye
- Din 3
Call aaye to din gine bina uska maza lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kaun si Itwaar ki call aapko sabse achhi tarah yaad hai, aur use achha kya banata tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Itwaar ki shaam ko aane wala sentence #
“Bachchon ko har hafte phone karna chahiye.” Ye aksar Itwaar ki shaam ko aata hai: kettle chadhi hai, hafta simat raha hai, phone chai ke paas seedha rakha hai, aur mann hi mann hisaab chal raha hai ki wahan, jahan wo rehte hain, abhi kya baja hoga.
Zor se kahein to ye aksar halka nikalta hai: padosi se “Chalo, busy honge bechaare,” ya parivaar ke group mein ek mazaak ki ab milne ke liye appointment lena padega. Andar se ye zyada seedha lagta hai, ek chhote niyam ki tarah ki bade ho chuke bachchon wala hafta kaisa hona chahiye.
Bachchon ke phone ke baare mein ye khayal aakhri baar kab aaya tha, aur phone chup raha to aap kya kar rahe the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Phone jalne par wo uchhaal #
Kuch maata-pita ko Itwaar ko phone bajne par jhat se uchhaal mehsoos hoti hai, aur jab wo kisi delivery ka message ya kisi cousin ka forward nikalta hai to chhoti-si giraawat. Aankhein naam poora padhein, usse pehle body jawab de deti hai.
Kuch ko lambe faasle ke baad call aane par kuch zyada teekha mehsoos hota hai: pehla sentence kata hua nikalta hai, “Achha, aaj yaad aayi hamari?” jabki jo garmaahat bachakar rakhi thi, use aane ka mauka hi nahi milta.
Lambi chuppi ke baad jab aakhri baar phone par aapke bachche ka naam chamka, to hello kehne se pehle aapne sabse pehle kya mehsoos kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Unke hafte mein rehne ki chaah samajh aati hai #
Har hafte bachchon ki awaaz sunne ki ummeed bahut insaani hai. Barson unke din aapke jaane hue the: khoya joota, test ka nateeja, wo dost jisne bura bola. Hafte ki call us roz ki jaankari ka aakhri dhaaga lag sakti hai.
Kuch nirashaayein waada tootne jaisi chubhti hain, chahe kisi ne zubaan se kuch kaha na ho. Jo call har Itwaar aati thi, wo mann mein ek ankaha samjhauta ban sakti hai, aur chhooti hui call bina diye waade ke tootne jaisi lagti hai.
Hafte ki call aapko wo kya deti hai jo message ya photo nahi deti, aur ye chaah aapne pehli baar kab notice ki?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo din ginti hai #
“Nau din ho gaye.” “Weekend ki photo daalne ki fursat mil gayi.” “Hum na karein to koi nahi karta.” Ye awaaz kettle ubalte waqt, ya der raat bolti hai jab screen par koi nayi call nahi hai aur ghar shaant ho gaya hai.
Aisi ginti ke neeche aksar kuch aur hota hai. Kuch maata-pita ke liye baat phone ke minuton ki hai hi nahi; wo is ehsaas ki hai ki kisi aam din koi yaad kar raha hai.
Jab awaaz bachche ki aakhri call ke baad ke din ginti hai, to wo us call se aakhir mein kya sunne ki ummeed karti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Hafte ki call kahan se aati hai #
Kuch maata-pita mein ye apne beete waqt se aati hai: Itwaar ke liye book ki gayi trunk call, mahine mein ek chitthi ghar ko, ya ek maa jo tay waqt par landline ke paas baithi rehti thi. Kuch parivaaron mein tay waqt par jude rehna hi kareebi jatane ka tareeka tha.
Kuch mein ise bachchon ne khud tay kiya tha: university ya pehli job ke pehle saal mein har Itwaar aane wali call, jo dheere-dheere is tasveer mein badal gayi ki cheezein kaisi rehni chahiye. Kuch log aisi tasveer bachpan se jodte hain, kuch nahi.
Aapke apne beete waqt ki kaun si call, ki gayi ho ya intezaar mein rahi ho, ne pehli baar dikhaya ki gharwalon ke saath jude rehna kaisa hona chahiye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Itwaar ke intezaar ke peechhe ka niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Parwah hoti to bina yaad dilaye phone karte,” ya “Achhe parivaar mein har hafte baat hoti hai.” Pehla sentence wo hai jo sunayi deta hai; neeche ka niyam tay karta hai ki ek shaant Itwaar kaise padha jaye.
Jo ghar mein saaf dikhta hai, wo door se dekhna mushkil hota hai. Ek maa-baap ka intezaar ghar mein bahut zor se baj sakta hai aur doosre shehar ki desk se lagbhag dikhta hi nahi, khaaskar jab kisi ne kabhi saaf shabdon mein kaha hi nahi ki call ki aas hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Hafte ki call ka niyam aaj ke parivaar ke kin hisson mein fit baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Saal bhar ke intezaar ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai phone ke hisaab se bana Itwaar ka dopahar, kisi dost ke saath tehalna jo ghar lautne ke purane waqt ke hisaab se tay ho, aur pehle minute mein din ginne se bigdi ek achhi call. Kuch bhi zordaar nahi, phir bhi dhone ko kaafi.
Shaant Itwaar ke liye taiyaar rehna poore Itwaar ko hi kha sakta hai. Kuch maata-pita ko dikhta hai ki ek saal mein kai Itwaar ki shaamein aadhe kaan se phone sunte nikal gayin, aur baaki shaam uske peechhe ruki rahi.
Pichhle saal ka kaun sa Itwaar phone ke intezaar mein sabse zyada ranga tha, aur us din aap aur kya karna chahte the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Din ginte hue paanch saal aur #
Ek aam Itwaar ki shaam ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “Bachchon ko har hafte phone karna chahiye” zor se baj raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad khaane ke dauran mez par seedha rakha phone, do baar gine hue beete din, unke liye likha aur baad ke liye saheja hua message, aur aakhir mein aayi call jo isse shuru hoti hai ki kitne din ho gaye.
Isme kuch bhi poorvanumaan nahi, aur ye tasveer jab chahein rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usme kya hai: phone, plan, message, ankahi baatein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us shaam mein kya bhara hai, aur kya intezaar mein hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Itwaar ko dekhkar, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Kareebi, ek se zyada raftaar mein #
Jude rehne ki kai shaklein hoti hain. Bengaluru mein beta jo lagbhag roz raat ke khaane ki photo bhejta hai aur Delhi mein beti jo mahine mein ek baar ghante bhar baat karti hai, dono apni-apni raftaar mein kareeb ho sakte hain, aur koi ek shakl hi asli nahi.
Parivaar mein har kisi ke mann mein alag tasveer ho sakti hai ki “aksar” kitna hai aur jude rehna kya hota hai. Isse hafte ki call ki chaah na galat hoti hai, na sahi. Wo ek hi mez par rakhi kai tasveeron mein se ek hai.
Hafte ki call jis sabka prateek hai, usme aapke liye sabse zaroori hissa kya hai, aur kaun sa hissa kisi aur shakl mein aa sakta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Callon ke beech jo pehle se pahunchta hai #
Callon ke beech kuch maata-pita ko ye ginna achha lagta hai ki bachchon se pehle se kya pahunch raha hai, chahe kitna bhi chhota ya betartib: office jaate hue bheja voice note, pehli barfbaari ki photo, ya ek sawaal ki kadhi kitni der pakani hai.
Ise dekhne se kuch tay nahi hota aur badle mein kuch nahi maanga jaata; chaah utni hi sachchi rehti hai. Bina maange aaye ye chhote message, jinse kuch apeksha nahi thi, kisi aam shaam mein doosri nazar ke qaabil ho sakte hain.
Kuch hafton mein kuch yaad nahi aata, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Aapka bachcha callon ke beech aapki taraf pehle se kya bhejta hai, jise aap thoda aur notice karna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Sulah, aur chaah ko banaye rakhna #
Is ummeed se sulah ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki ye zyada thi, ya sahi thi. Matlab ye ki jis Itwaar ki aapne ummeed ki aur jo hua, unke beech ka faasla poore hafte ka mood tay karna band kar de.
Isme jo jaayaz hai wo reh sakta hai: unki awaaz sunne ki chaah, unke aam dinon ke baare mein jaanne ki chaah, unke hafte ka hissa banne ki chaah. Jo dheela ho sakta hai wo ginti hai, taaki Budhwaar ki raat ki call bas ek achhi call ho, der se aayi call nahi.
Buniyadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi, aapke liye bhi aur bachchon ke liye bhi. Agar koi chuppi unki fikr mein pareshan kare, to wo is chaah se alag baat hai, aur gambhirta se lene laayak.
Is chaah se sulah wali ek Itwaar ki shaam sochiye: aap kya kar rahe honge, aur kamre mein aur kaun ho sakta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Ek shaant Itwaar ke liye sachchi line #
“Bachchon ko har hafte phone karna chahiye” se ulajhne ki jagah, kuch log taiyaar rakhte hain: “Unki awaaz sunna achha lagta hai, aur mera Itwaar kisi haal mein mera hai.” Ise jeetna nahi hai, bas purani ke paas baithna hai.
Nayi line shuru mein akdi lag sakti hai, kisi aise coat ki tarah jo abhi pehna nahi gaya. Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki apni ek line dheere-dheere purani ki thodi jagah le leti hai; kuch ko nahi, aur dono theek hain.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha sentence kya hoga, jo unse sunne ki chaah banaye rakhe, aur phir bhi shaam aapke haath mein chhode?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Chup phone mez par pada reh sakta hai #
Har shaant hafte ko samjhana zaroori nahi. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur wahin rehne diya ja sakta hai, jaise Kolkata mein kisi shelf par, ya Leicester ke kisi flat mein cushion par ulta rakha phone, jab shaam uske aaspaas chalti rahe.
Bachchon se sunne ki chaah jab tak chahein niji reh sakti hai, aur phir bhi asli chaah hai. Agar koi chuppi unki fikr mein pareshan kare, to wo is chaah se alag baat hai.
Aaj shaam is khayal ko neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki kuch galat hua hi nahi, ya baat tay ho gayi. Bas itna ki ek shaant Itwaar ko poore rishte ki taraf se nahi bolna hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar ginti thodi bhi dheeli ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ummeed ek darja dheemi hai. Itwaar ki shaam hai, phone mez par hai, aur shaam aapki hi hai, chahe wo baje ya na baje.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: aisi call jo faasle ki jagah unki khabar se shuru ho, screen dekhe bina ki gayi shaam ki sair, ya unki bheji photo ka usi ke liye maza lena.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne laayak hai. Aage: is chaah se sulah ka matlab kya ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai, zara-sa hi sahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Kisi shaant Itwaar ko notice kijiye ki phone ki taraf haath pehli baar kab gaya
- Phone chup rahe to notice kijiye ki chuppi kaun si kahani sunane lagti hai
- Aaj ki ek cheez par dhyaan dijiye jo aapne chahi, chahe kitni bhi chhoti
- Call aaye to notice kijiye ki pehla sentence kaun sa bahar aana chahta hai
- Khud se chupchaap poochhiye: iske neeche asal mein kya sunne ki chaah hai?
Chhote, niji aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kaun si Itwaar ki call aapko sabse achhi tarah yaad hai, aur use achha kya banata tha?
- Faasle ke baad call aaye to pehla kaun sa sentence bahar aana chahta hai?
- Apne bachche ke aam hafte ke baare mein aap sabse zyada kya jaanna chahte hain?
- Agar hafte ki call ki chaah thodi halki ho, to aapko sabse pehle kya dikhega?
- Callon ke beech aapka bachcha pehle se kya bhejta hai jiska aap thoda aur maza lena chahenge?