Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Jis mehnat ka naam nahi liya jaata, wo kabhi-kabhi aisi lagne lagti hai jaise hui hi na ho.
Kuch logon mein ye us teacher se aati hai jisne copy ke upar laal syahi se “Very good” likha tha, ya pehle manager se jo Friday ko desk par aakar bole, “Is hafte achha raha.”
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Maine zyada kiya hai to dikhna chahiye,” ya “Achha boss shukriya kehta hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Agli baar thoda aur kar dena, ki shayad dikhe
- Baaton-baaton mein bata dena ki kaam mein kitna waqt laga
- “Koi baat nahi, ho gaya” kehna aur baad mein sapaat lagna
- Har jawab ke lehje mein shukriya ka ishaara dhoondhna
- Baad mein kisi dost se aah bharkar batana
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Teen raat der tak, shukriya nahi
Friday ki shaam, Indore ke Vijay Nagar ka office. Launch nikaalne ke liye aap teen raat der tak ruke, wo bug dhoondha jo kisi ko nahi mil raha tha, aur chhutti par gaye saathi ka kaam bhi dekha. Team call mein boss agle hafte ki praathmikataayein ginaate hain aur band karte hain: “Okay, thanks all.” All. Aap laptop band karke baithe rah jaate hain, ajeeb-sa sapaat, hafta jaise kisi gaddhe mein chala gaya.
Qadr hogi to shukriya milega
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Boss ko mere kaam ki qadr hoti to wo shukriya kehte.” Ye seedhi sharaafat jaisa lagta hai. Do shabd. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: achha kaam karne ka ehsaas ek aadmi ki aadaton ke hawale kar deta hai. Shaandaar hafta tabhi ginaa jayega jab shukriya mile, aur jis din na mile, mehnat bekaar lagne lagti hai.
Shukriya yaani hum maayne rakhte hain
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki shukriya se pata chalta hai ki hamari mehnat pahunchi. Shayad kisi teacher ne poori class ke saamne shukriya kaha tha aur wo dinon tak yaad raha. Shayad ghar mein mehnat ko bas maan liya gaya, kabhi kaha nahi gaya, aur kuch hissa ab bhi kisi ke kehne ki aas rakhta hai. Ye is chaah se aati hai ki aapka kaam kisi ke liye maayne rakhe. Ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Bashukriya hafton ka bojh
Har bina-shukriya hafta ek chhota bojh chhod jaata hai. Aap extra kaam thoda kam karne lagte hain, ye dekhne ke liye ki koi notice karta hai ya nahi. Ya zyada, is ummeed mein ki is baar darj hoga. Ghar lautte hue “Thanks all” dohrate rehte hain. Job ka jo hissa pasand tha, wo feeka lagta hai. Aur aapka chain do shabdon ki raah dekhta rehta hai, us insaan se jo shayad unmein sochta hi nahi.
Kya shukriya ki raah dekhna theek?
Imaandaari se khud se poochhiye: kya shukriya ka intezaar karne se wo kabhi aaya? Ya zyadatar achhe hafte bashukriya lage? Bahut se manager shaayad hi kabhi kehte hain, kisi se bhi, aur kuch doosre dhang se jataate hain: kisi aur se taareef, zyada bharosa. Jo bhi ho, do chhoote shabd aapke kaam ka paimana nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna Friday dar Friday us keemat ke laayak hai?
Apna kiya khud jaanna
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aapko shukriya sunna achha lagna band ho jaye. Matlab ye ki kisi ke kehne se pehle aap apna achha kaam sabse pehle aur poora dekh sakte hain. Aapko pata hai aapne kya theek kiya aur kiska kaam sambhala. Shukriya aaye to wo bonus ban jaata hai, faisla nahi. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: aapki Friday ki shaamein, aur hafte ka garv, phir se aapke ho jaate hain.
If anyone at work threatens you, singles you out for who you are, or holds back your pay or papers, that is something else, and worth taking seriously; staying careful can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleQadr hoti to wo shukriya kehte.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMujhe pata hai maine is hafte kya kiya. Unka shukriya bonus hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Is hafte ki ek cheez yaad kijiye jo aapne achhi ki
- Din 2
Office ki ek cheez par dhyaan dijiye jise aapne theek se nibhaya
- Din 3
Friday ko laptop band karke work week ko wahin khatam hone dijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Office mein kisne kisi baat ke liye is tarah shukriya kaha jo aapko aaj bhi yaad hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Weekend ki marammat ke baad ka Monday #
Saturday ko ek file theek ki, taaki launch ho sake. Monday subah inbox mein agla kaam pehle se pada hai, aur weekend ke baare mein ek shabd nahi. Usi chuppi mein ye vaakya ban jaata hai: “Boss ko kabhi toh shukriya kehna chahiye.”
Kuch logon ke liye chaah chhoti aur saaf hoti hai: ek seedha vaakya, is baat ka ek nishaan ki extra ghanta dekha gaya. Achha kaam itni tezi se agle kaam mein mil jaata hai ki mehnat ka naam kisi ke munh se nikalta hi nahi.
Office mein aakhri baar jab aapne maange gaye se zyada kiya, to kaam saunpne ke baad kya hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Kaam jama karne ke baad ki sapaatta #
Kuch logon ko seene mein ek sapaat-sa ehsaas hota hai jab poore kiye kaam ke jawab mein bas “Ok, agla bhej raha hoon” aata hai. Kuch ko achhe se kar lene ki chhoti-si khushi jamne se pehle hi shaant ho jaati hai.
Body ye khaali jagah kisi khayal se pehle bhaanp leti hai: halki dhalki kamar, chhodi gayi saans, zara zor se band ki gayi screen. Matlab nikaalne ka kaam baad mein hota hai, nahaate hue ya ghar lautte waqt.
Pichhli baar jab achha kaam chupchaap guzar gaya, to aapne use sabse pehle kahan feel kiya, khud ko matlab samjhane se pehle?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Mehnat darj hone ki chaah #
Kaam par shukriya ki ummeed rakhna samajh mein aata hai. Chand shabd ye batane ka tez, aam tareeka hain ki kaam kisi tak pahuncha aur team ke liye maayne rakhta tha.
Jis mehnat ka naam nahi liya jaata, wo kabhi-kabhi aisi lagne lagti hai jaise hui hi na ho. Kuch logon ko ek seedhi sweekriti poore kiye kaamon ki lambi list se zyada bhaari lagti hai, kyunki usse pata chalta hai ki kisi ne kaam dekha.
Aapko kaun-sa shukriya sabse achha lagega: do shabd, team ke saamne zikr, ya kamre ke paar se ek sar hilana?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo extra ghante ginti hai #
“Hum toh ruke the na.” “Do shabd kehne mein kya jaata hai.” “Auron ko toh ek-do bol mil jaate hain.” Ye awaaz aksar lambe din ke aakhir mein bolti hai, jab laptop band ho raha ho aur bag bandha ja raha ho.
Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki ye awaaz aadhi kaam ke baare mein hai aur aadhi is chaah ke baare mein ki unhein aisa insaan maana jaye jo koshish karta hai. Wo chahti hai ki mehnat ek baar toh record par aaye.
Jab awaaz extra ghante ginti hai, to kis line par lautti hai, aur sunna kya chahti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Shukriya ki tasveer kahan se aati hai #
Kuch logon mein ye us teacher se aati hai jisne copy ke upar laal syahi se “Very good” likha tha, ya pehle manager se jo Friday ko desk par aakar bole, “Is hafte achha raha.” Aisa ek pal barson tak paimana ban sakta hai.
Kuch mein ye ghar se aati hai: koi Mummy ya Papa jo barson der tak ruke aur jinhein kabhi kisi ne shukriya nahi kaha, aur ek chup-sa faisla ki sweekriti maayne rakhti hai. Kuch gharon mein bolkar shukriya kehna hi batata tha ki kaam achha hua.
Aapke kiye kisi kaam ke liye pehli baar aapko kisne shukriya kaha, aur unke kehne ke dhang mein aapko kya yaad hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Mehnat aur sweekriti wala niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Maine zyada kiya hai to dikhna chahiye,” ya “Achha boss shukriya kehta hai.” Pehla vaakya wo hai jo sunayi deta hai; neeche ka niyam tay karta hai ki har shaant Monday ko kaise padha jaye.
Nishpakshta ke niyam kaam ki parwah se aate hain, jiski izzat ki jaani chahiye. Inhein isi job aur isi manager ke saath dekha ja sakta hai, jinke shukriya kehne ka dhang aapki ummeed wale dhang se alag ho sakta hai.
Ye shayad purane saalon se aaya ho, ya raaste mein bana ho.
“Mehnat ki qadr hoti hai” office mein aaj kahan fit baithta hai, aur kahan har kaam ke baad jawab maangne lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Jo shukriya nahi aata, uski keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai aadhe mann se poora kiya gaya kaam jiska dhyaan jawab par laga ho, weekend ki marammat ke baad Monday ko halki kadwaahat, aur jawab dobara padhne ki aadat ki kahin garmaahat mil jaye, jo shayad daali hi nahi gayi.
Mahinon mein kuch logon ko lagta hai ki kaam ki apni chamak kam hone lagti hai. Jo santosh karne mein tha, wo bahar chala jaata hai aur kisi ke sar hilane ka intezaar karta hai, jo kisi aur ke haath mein chhodne ke liye bahut hai.
Pichhle kuch mahinon mein sochiye, kaun-sa kaam karna aapko sabse achha laga, chahe baad mein kuch bhi kaha gaya ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Agla kaam aate rehne ke baras #
Ek aam Monday lijiye, us din ka jab “Boss ko shukriya kehna chahiye” zor se baj raha ho. Ye dekhne ka ek drishya hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad marammat Saturday ko poori hui, nau baje kisi aur baat par message aata hai, chai desk par pi jaati hai, koi saathi khushi se “Good morning” kehta hai, aur ek chhoti chamak aakar chali jaati hai.
Yahan aapse kuch maanga nahi ja raha, aur ye tasveer jab chahein rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usmein kya hai: inbox, naya kaam, weekend ki marammat jo peeche reh gayi, ek shabd ka jawab?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us subah mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhkar, agar kuch, toh aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Shukriya ke alag-alag lehje #
Kuch manager bolkar shukriya kehte hain. Kuch agla dilchasp kaam dekar, aasaan deadline dekar, seedhiyon par sar hilakar, ya dobara na poochhkar jataate hain. Kuch bahut kam jataate hain, aur ye jaanna bhi kaam ka hai.
Shukriya ki chaah har tarah se jaayaz rehti hai. Alag-alag lehje dekhna chuppi ko maaf nahi karta, aur uske baare mein kuch saabit bhi nahi karta; bas itna badhata hai ki jab shukriya aaye, to kya-kya ginaa ja sakta hai.
Shukriya se aapko jo kuch milta, usmein sabse zaroori hissa kaun-sa hai: shabd, dekhe jaane ka ehsaas, ya ye jaanna ki kaam pahuncha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jahan kaam ne pehle hi keh diya hai #
Jo shukriya nahi aaye, unke bagal mein kuch aise bhi ho sakte hain jo chhote quote mein aaye: ek saathi jisne kaha, “Yaar, tumne bacha liya,” kisi client ki pyaari-si line, ya ek kaam jo isliye saunpa gaya ki kisi ko aap par bharosa tha.
Chhoti-si sweekriti ko pehchaanna badi ki chaah ko khatam nahi karta. Dono sach ho sakti hain, aur pehchaanne mein kuch lagta nahi, kisi se kuch maangna bhi nahi padta.
Office mein kisne, boss, saathi ya client ne, ek baar bhi dikhaya ki usne aapka kuch kiya hua dekha, aur usmein se aap kya rakhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Kaam, aur uske liye apna shabd #
Is chaah se sulah ka matlab ho sakta hai ki shaant Monday poore hafte ka faisla na kare. Jo jaayaz hai wo reh sakta hai: mehnat dikhne ki chaah, inbox ke us paar ek insaan ki chaah. Jo dheela ho sakta hai wo pakad hai, taaki ek sapaat jawab ko ek baar padhkar chhoda ja sake, aur kaam phir bhi karne laayak lage.
Agar boss, client ya koi saathi dhamkaye, pareshaan kare, beizzat kare, ya aapko is wajah se alag nishaana banaye ki aap kaun hain (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi viklangta, ya kahan se hain), to wo dheeli ki gayi chaah se alag baat hai.
Yahi baat bina paise ke kaam, roki gayi tankhwaah ya kaagzaat, asurakshit kaam, ya darr lagne par bhi lagu hoti hai. Ise gambhirta se lena zaroori hai; saath chalna ya saavdhaan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Office mein buniyaadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi, aapke liye bhi aur unke liye bhi.
Ek aise Monday ki kalpana kijiye jahan is chaah ko thoda dheela pakda gaya hai: pehla ghanta kaise beetta hai, aur weekend ke kiye mein kis baat se mann hi mann khush hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Shaant Monday ke liye ek sachchi line #
“Boss ko kabhi toh shukriya kehna chahiye” ke bagal mein kuch log ye line rakhte hain: “Sunna achha lagta, aur kaam kisi haal mein achha tha.” Ise purani line ko haraana nahi hai, bas uske paas khadi hona hai.
Aisi line shuru mein udhaar ki lag sakti hai aur istemaal se jaani-pehchani ho jaati hai. Kuch logon ko apna seedha shabd zyada fit baithta hai, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo shukriya ki chaah ko imaandaari se maane, par kaam ko us par tikne na de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Jo shukriya nahi aaya, wo tika reh sakta hai #
Har kami ki gutthi Friday tak sulajhaani zaroori nahi. Use dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal feel kiya ja sakta hai, aur darwaze ke paas bag ke saath taang diya ja sakta hai, jaise I-card ki dori khoonti par.
Shukriya ki chaah jab tak chahein nijee reh sakti hai. Agar office mein koi dhamkaye, aapko is wajah se alag karke nishaana banaye ki aap kaun hain, ya aapki tankhwaah ya kaagzaat roke, to wo alag baat hai, aur gambhirta se lene laayak hai; saavdhaan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Shaam ke liye ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo jaayaz tha, ya baat tay ho gayi. Bas itna ki aaj raat faisla sunane ki zaroorat nahi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar chaah ek darja dheeli ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki chaah ek darja dheemi hai. Shukriya ab bhi achha lagta, par marammat aisi cheez ban gayi hai jis par chupchaap khushi ho sakti hai.
Shayad aap marammat poori karte hain, mann mein apna “Shabaash” kehte hain, aur agla kaam thodi zyada sehajta se kholte hain. Ya kuch aisa notice karte hain jo aapne achha kiya aur kisi aur ne nahi dekha, aur use rakh lete hain.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai. Aage: is chaah se sulah kaisi dikh sakti hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapka apna “Shabaash” kaisa sunayi dega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein aazmane ko, agar achhi lagein #
- Mann mein tasveer ko naam dijiye: “Lo, phir shukriya wali chaah”
- Is hafte jo ek kaam poora kiya aur karne mein achha laga, us par dhyaan dijiye
- Ek achhe shukriya ki kalpana ek seedhe vaakya ki tarah kijiye
- Yaad kijiye aapne haal mein kise shukriya kaha, aur usmein kitna kam laga
- Aaj kaun-sa jawab ummeed se zyada garam tha, us par gaur kijiye
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Office mein kisne kisi baat ke liye is tarah shukriya kaha jo aapko aaj bhi yaad hai?
- Kis kaam par aapko sabse zyada garv hai, aur usmein kya-kya laga?
- Kab office mein chand achhe shabdon ne ek aam din behtar bana diya?
- Agar boss se shukriya ki chaah thodi halki ho, to aapko sabse pehle kya dikhega?
- Office mein pehle se kya hai jo batata hai ki aapki mehnat pahunchi, aur jise aap zyada notice karna chahenge?