Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Workplaces kai wajahon se ye shabd chunte hain, kuch sachche dil se.
Kuch logon mein ye us pehli job se shuru hui jo sach mein ghar jaisi lagi: ek boss jise sabke bachchon ke naam yaad the, har Friday ka milkar khaya lunch.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Jo jagah kahe ki parwah karti hai, use dikhana bhi chahiye,” ya “Jo garmjoshi ghoshit ho, wahi nibhayi bhi jaye.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Town hall mein muskurana aur baad mein kam bolna
- Team ke mood mein shaamil ho jaana, kyunki alag hona bewafaai jaisa lagta hai
- Maahaul na bigde, isliye koi chinta daba lena
- Us shabd ki tulna ek aam Wednesday se karna, aur sapaat feel karna
- Team ke chhote konon mein garmjoshi dhoondhna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
“Yahan hum sab parivar hain”
Jaipur ke welcome event mein CEO ne kaha, “Yahan hum sab ek parivar hain.” Aapne yakeen kiya. Phir ek saathi ki maa beemar padin, ghar se door, aur uski chhutti ki arzi ka jawab aaya policy ka hawala deta ek thanda mail. Khabar team chat mein padhkar pet mein kuch girta hai. Aap sochte ho, “Kaisa parivar,” aur deewar ke posters ko doosri nazar se dekhne lagte ho.
Parivar hai to parivar jaisa bartaav ho
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Jo company humein parivar kahe, waisa bartaav bhi kare.” Ye bilkul jaayaz lagta hai. Shabd aur kaam mein mel ho. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapka bharosa ek nare se baandh deta hai. Kaam ko lekar aapka ehsaas ab is par tik gaya hai ki company us garam shabd par khari utre, jise usne shayad bina soche bol diya ho ki parivar asal mein kya hota hai.
Kaam garam kyun lagna chahiye
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki hum chahte hain kaam surakshit aur garam lage. Shayad aapka apna parivar door hai, aur kaam ek tarah ka ghar ban gaya. Shayad aapne shabdon par yakeen isliye kiya ki sach mein chahte the wo sach hon. Jo bhi ho, parwah karne wali workplace chaahna bholapan nahi hai. Ye kisi garam jagah se judne ki chaah se aata hai. Use narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Shabdon aur kaamon ka faasla
Shabdon aur kaamon ke beech har faasla aapko aur shakki banata hai. Poster dekhkar aankhein ghoomne lagti hain. Yakeen karne par khud ko bewakoof lagta hai. Chhoti baaton mein bhi is jagah par bharosa ghatne lagta hai. Dheere-dheere jis job ko lekar kabhi garmjoshi thi, wo thandi lagne lagti hai, aur ek chupchaap nirasha extra bag ki tarah office mein saath ghoomti hai.
Unhein pakde rakhna theek hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya company ko parivar wale shabd par pakde rakhne se wo kabhi meharbaan hui? Ya zyada-tar aap hi aur nirash hue? Companies aksar garam shabd bol deti hain jo vaade nahi nikalte, bhale andar kuch log sach mein parwah karte hon. Jo bhi ho, naara aaspaas ki asli parwah ka paimana nahi. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna aapko deta kam hai, leta zyada.
Parwah logon mein rehti hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aap meharbaan workplace chaahna chhod do. Matlab ye ki aapka bharosa ab nare par nahi tika. Aap company ko company ki tarah dekh sakte ho, aur usme logon ke beech ki asli garmjoshi ki qadar bhi kar sakte ho: wo saathi jo aapka kaam sambhal leta hai, lunch par wo dost. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: parwah wahan milti hai jahan wo asal mein rehti hai, logon mein, posters mein nahi.
Threats, shouting, harassment, humiliation, being singled out for who you are, pay or papers held back, or being frightened at work, are something else, and worth taking seriously; staying careful can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleParivar kehte hain, to parivar jaisa bartaav bhi karein.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleParwah logon mein rehti hai, posters mein nahi.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Kisi ek saathi ko yaad kijiye jo aapse meharbaan raha
- Din 2
Aaj kaam par kisi ki ek achhi baat notice kijiye
- Din 3
Koi naara dikhe to muskuraiye aur use rehne dijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aakhri baar kab aapka koi group sach mein garam laga, aur use waisa kya banata tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Town hall ki badi screen par wo shabd #
Jaipur ke office ke saalana jalse mein manch par bolne wala ek pal rukta hai, screen genda ke garam rangon se bhar jaati hai, aur wo shabd aata hai: “Parivar.” Uske saath hi chupchaap, thodi chubhti-si baat aa jaati hai: “Jo company humein parivar kahe, waisa bartaav bhi kare.”
Kuch logon ke liye chaah ye hoti hai ki kahe aur kiye mein mel ho: agar itna garam shabd bola gaya, to kisi bure hafte, der raat ya atpate sawaal ko sambhalne mein bhi wo garmjoshi dikhe. Sunne mein halki lage, par gehri ja sakti hai.
Aakhri baar kaam par kab kuch sach mein garam laga tha, jaise kisi achhe family get-together mein lagta hai, aur wo kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Hont ke kone ka halka sikudna #
Kuch logon ke hont ke kone par manch se wo shabd sunte hi halki-si sikudan aati hai. Kuch ko seene mein khokhli-si kasaavat lagti hai aur achanak farsh mein dilchaspi jaag jaati hai.
Soch banne se pehle body jawab de sakti hai: aadhi hansi, khaansi, kisi saathi ki or ek nazar jo sab keh deti hai. Shabd ke maayne par poori raay aksar baad mein chai par banti hai.
Aakhri baar jab kaam par kisi ne wo shabd bola, to aapke mann ke tay karne se pehle aapki body ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Garam shabd ummeed jagaate hain #
Ye swabhavik hai ki jab garam shabd aur roz ki haqeeqat mel na khaayein to khatke. “Parivar” jaisa shabd bahut matlab lekar chalta hai, aur uske saath parwah, wafadaari aur thaali mein apni jagah ki tasveer aana swabhavik hai.
Workplaces kai wajahon se ye shabd chunte hain, kuch sachche dil se. Slide par likhe ek vaakya aur Tuesday ki dopahar ke beech faasla bada ho sakta hai, aur use bolne wale se zyada teekha sunne wala feel karta hai.
Us shabd ke laayak parwah ek aam hafte mein aapke liye kaisi dikhegi, kuch chhoti baaton mein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Nare ka hisaab lagati awaaz #
“Ye kaisa parivar?” “Kehne mein kya jaata hai, deadline ke waqt hi ye shabd nikalta hai.” “Haathi ke daant, khane ke aur, dikhane ke aur.” “Parivar hota to pehle mujhse poochha jaata.” Ye awaaz aksar parking mein bolti hai, presentation ke kuch ghante baad.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki awaaz aadhi shabd ke baare mein hai, aur aadhi is chaah ke baare mein ki koi saada, chhota ishaara dikhaye ki ye baat sachche mann se kahi gayi thi: haal-chaal poochhna, shukriya, ek imaandaar wajah.
Jab awaaz nare ka hisaab lagati hai, to sabse pehle kaun si tulna karti hai, aur kya sunne ki ummeed rakhti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Parivar ki tasveer kahan se aayi #
Kuch logon mein ye us pehli job se shuru hui jo sach mein ghar jaisi lagi: ek boss jise sabke bachchon ke naam yaad the, har Friday ka milkar khaya lunch. Aisi ek garam jagah baad ki har jagah ke liye tasveer bana deti hai.
Kuch mein ghar se aayi: Dadi ki wo thaali jahan sabko khilane ke baad wo khud baithti thin, ya aisa ghar jahan group ka hissa hone ka matlab tha sambhala jaana aur doosron ko sambhalna. Kai gharon mein ek-doosre ke liye hazir rehna hi group ka poora maqsad tha.
Jis sabse kareebi group ka aap hissa rahe, uski sabse achhi baat kya thi, aur use waisa kisne banaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Sachche mann se kahe shabdon ka niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Jo jagah kahe ki parwah karti hai, use dikhana bhi chahiye,” ya “Jo garmjoshi ghoshit ho, wahi nibhayi bhi jaye.” Pehla vaakya sunai deta hai; niyam tay karta hai ki har bhashan ko kaise padha jaye.
Aise niyam imaandaari aur sachchi parwah ki qadar se aate hain, aur dono qadar ke laayak hain. Unhein is company ke saath rakhkar dekha ja sakta hai, jahan log mile-jule hain, kuch amal mein garam aur kuch bas shabdon mein.
Ho sakta hai ye purane saalon se aaya ho ya isi jagah se.
Kahe aur kiye ke mel ka niyam yahan kahan ab bhi fit baithta hai, aur kahan company us shabd se bas kuch dheela-sa matlab leti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Is faasle ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai achhe dinon mein dheere-dheere ghulta shak, town hall ki hansi jo poori hansi nahi, aur Sunday ki shaam jo screen ke us shabd se shuru hoti hai. Chupke se asar, ek din se agle din tak dhoya jaata.
Kaam aisa lagne lagta hai jaise use kisi aise vaade se naapa ja raha ho jo koi nibha nahi sakta. Team ki roz ki garmjoshi anadekhi reh jaati hai jabki dhyaan us bade shabd par jaata hai, jo ek slide ke liye kaafi zyada dhyaan hai.
Pichhle kuch mahino mein kaam par kaun sa chhota pal sach mein garam laga, aur wo aapko kisne diya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Town hall ki sikudan ke paanch baras #
Ek aam Thursday ki kalpana kijiye, jis din “Jo company humein parivar kehti hai” tez sunai de. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai.
Shayad wo shabd phir bola jaata hai aur guzar jaata hai, kisi saathi ke saath hansi hoti hai, kaam achha chalta hai, aur shaam un logon ke saath beetti hai jo sabse saade maayno mein aapke liye maayne rakhte hain.
Isme kuch bhi jawab maangta nahi, aur tasveer jab chahein kinare rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usme kya hai: garam rangon wali slide, kaagaz ke cup mein coffee, kisi saathi ki uthi hui bhauh?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Thursday mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhkar, agar kuch dikhe, to kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Parivar, aur kya? #
Company un maayno mein parivar nahi hoti jo sabse zyada maayne rakhte hain: usme koi paida nahi hota, koi default roop se umar bhar nahi rehta, aur uska maqsad kuch karwana hai. Ek team apne dhang se garam, meharbaan aur wafadaar ho sakti hai, parivar hue bina.
Shabd ka matlab ek bolne wale se doosre tak, aur ek sunne wale se doosre tak badal sakta hai. Kisi ke liye sahara, kisi ke liye nazdeeki, aur kisi ke liye job ki tay seema se zyada dene ki maang. Har tasveer ek alag ummeed hai.
Agar “parivar” shabd ki jagah ek saadi cheez rakhni ho jo aap kaam se chahte ho, to wo kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jo garmjoshi pehle se yahan hai #
Jo garmjoshi sirf ghoshit hui, uske saath-saath asli garam kone bhi ho sakte hain: ek saathi jise birthday yaad rehta hai, ek boss jisne kisi mushkil din kaha “Ghar jao,” ek team jo ek hi joke par hansti hai.
Inmein se ek ko dekhne se aur ki chaah kam nahi hoti. Jaayaz ummeed aur ek chupchaap achhi baat saath-saath baith sakti hain.
Jo pehle aaye wo chun lijiye.
Kaam par kisne aapke saath pehle se garmjoshi dikhayi hai, aur kya aap dekhna chahoge ki wo kaisi dikhti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Wo shabd, aur aam hafta #
Yahan sulah ka matlab ho sakta hai ki shabd aur roz ki haqeeqat ka faasla har all-hands mein maahaul tay karna band kar de. Jo jaayaz hai wo reh sakta hai: shabdon ka kuch matlab ho, aur parwah dikhayi jaye.
Kisi ki bhi taraf se ho, dhamki, pareshaan kiya jaana, beizzati, ya is wajah se alag nishana banaya jaana ki aap kaun ho (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi disability, ya kahan se ho), ek alag baat hai, aur gambhirta se lene laayak.
Bina paise ka kaam, roki gayi salary ya kaagzaat, asurakshit kaam aur darr lagna bhi waisa hi hai; saath chalna ya savdhaan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Office mein buniyaadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi, aapke liye bhi aur doosron ke liye bhi. Agli all-hands meeting ki kalpana kijiye, is chaah ko thoda dheela pakde hue.
Kamre mein aapko kya dikhega, aur nikalte hue aap kya karoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
All-hands meeting ke liye ek sachchi line #
“Jo company humein parivar kahe, waisa bartaav bhi kare” ke bagal mein kuch log ye line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Ummeed thi ki garam shabd ke peeche kuch hoga, aur mujhe pata hai ki garmjoshi kya hoti hai.” Ise jeetne ki zaroorat nahi, bas purani line ke bagal mein rehna hai.
Aisi line pehle udhaar ki lag sakti hai aur istemaal se apni ho jaati hai. Kuch logon ko apne shabdon mein kahi seedhi baat zyada jamti hai, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Apne shabdon mein sachchi line kya hogi, jo ummeed ke baare mein imaandaar ho aur jisme company ko khud ko saabit na karna pade?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Naara slide par hi reh sakta hai #
Har bhashan par din khatam hone tak jawab zaroori nahi. Use dekha ja sakta hai, feel kiya ja sakta hai, aur deewar par tange poster ki tarah chhoda ja sakta hai: dekhne ke liye, maanne ki majboori ke bina.
Sachchi garmjoshi ki chaah jab tak chahein nijee reh sakti hai. Dhamki, pareshaan kiya jaana, beizzati, pehchaan ki wajah se nishana banaya jaana, bina paise ka kaam, roki gayi salary ya kaagzaat, asurakshit kaam ya darr alag baat hai, aur gambhirta se lene laayak; savdhaan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Aaj raat ke liye chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki ye theek tha ya baat tay ho gayi. Bas itna ki is shaam ko koi faisla nahi chahiye.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar pakad ek darja dheeli ho #
Bas kalpana mein, ummeed ko ek darja shaant kijiye. Shabd se mel khaati garmjoshi ki chaah ab bhi hai, aur bhashan ek baar suna jaata hai jabki parivar ka aapka apna matlab aapke paas rehta hai.
Shayad town hall kamre mein hi chhoot jaye, ya us saathi ke saath lunch ho jo saade dhang se garmjosh hai.
Isme se kuch bhi kisi ko kehna nahi hai. Jo bhi ubhre, wo aapka hai. Aage: is chaah se sulah ka kya matlab ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmaate hain #
- Dekhiye us shabd se aapke andar kya uthta hai, ek vaakyansh mein
- Sochiye ki team ke baare mein asal mein aap kya sach hote dekhna chahenge
- Ek aise saathi ko yaad kijiye jiski garmjoshi saaf aur seedhi hai
- Dekhiye nare aur ishaare mein kya farq hai
- Kaam se alag, parivar ke baare mein apna khayal sochiye
Chhoti, nijee aur apni marzi ki. Jo ho sake, wahi aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aakhri baar kab aapka koi group sach mein garam laga, aur use waisa kya banata tha?
- Kaam par kaun sa saathi aapse sabse zyada meharbaan raha hai, aur usne kya kiya?
- Apnepan ke baare mein aapne pehli baar kya seekha, aur kisse?
- Agar company ke garam shabdon par khara utarne ki chaah dheeli ho, to pehle kya notice karoge?
- Kaam par kaun si chhoti garmjoshi aap aur notice karna chahoge?