Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Yaaddaasht ka bhi apna version hota hai.
Kuch logon mein ye us pehli job se shuru hua jo apne bayan par khari nikli, aur aage har offer usi se taula gaya.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Join karte waqt jo bataya gaya, wahi sauda hai”, ya “Jagah badle to samjhana uska farz hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Jab bhi koi kaam khisake, chupchaap pehli baatcheet yaad karna
- Atirikt kaam karke mann mein farq ka hisaab rakhna
- Har nayi maang ko offer letter ki lines se milana
- Sawaal poochhna band kar dena, yahi jawab milne ke darr se
- Sunday shaam bina jaane pheeka mehsoos karna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Ghar se kaam ka Friday nahi aaya
Noida ke interview mein vaada hua tha Friday ko ghar se kaam, ek mentor, aur do saal mein agle level ka saaf raasta. Dedh saal baad Friday office mein hain, mentor chale gaye, aur raaste ka zikr koi nahi karta. Ek shaam aap purani offer mail kholkar wo garam shabd phir padhte ho, aur thage jaane jaisa lagta hai, aur thoda bewakoof banne jaisa bhi ki bharosa kiya.
Joining ki baatein nibhni chahiye
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Join karte waqt jo kaha gaya tha, wo nibhna chahiye.” Sunne mein seedhi imaandaari lagti hai. Baat baat hoti hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapki shanti ko un logon ke shabdon se baandh deta hai jo shayad aage nikal chuke. Kaam mein aapka santosh ab ek aisi baat par tika hai jo company ko shayad yaad bhi nahi.
Baatein sauda kyun lagti thin
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki kahi baatein saude ka hissa lagti thin. Shayad unhi baaton ki wajah se aapne ye job doosron se upar chuni. Shayad aap apni baat khud sambhalkar nibhate ho, aur jinke liye kaam karte ho unse bhi wahi chahte ho. Jo bhi ho, baat nibhane ki chaah bholapan nahi. Ye insaaf aur shabdon ke maayne rakhne ki chaah se aati hai. Use narmi chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Jo job kam imaandaar lage
Har tooti baat poori job ko kam imaandaar mehsoos karati hai. Aap company ki har baat par shak karne lagte ho. Bharosa karne par bewakoof lagta hai. Purani mail dobara padhte ho aur wahi chubhan phir laut aati hai. Dheere-dheere job ki chamak jaati hai, chunne ki wajahein dhundhli padti hain, aur unki jagah ek chup kadwahat aa jaati hai jo har meeting aur har baatcheet mein saath jaati hai.
Kya unhein yaad dilate rehna laayak hai?
Khud se sach-sach poochiye: kya unke vaade pakde rehne se wo kabhi laute? Ya zyada-tar kadwahat hi badhi? Companies badalti hain, log chale jaate hain, aur interview mein kahi baatein aksar bina kisi ke todne ka faisla kiye pheeki pad jaati hain. Jo bhi ho, unki tooti baatein aapke chunaav ya aapki samajh ka paimana nahi. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna jitna deta hai usse zyada leta hai.
Job, jaisi wo aaj hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki maan liya jaye wo baatein maayne nahi rakhti thin. Matlab ye ki aapki shanti ab purane shabdon par nahi tiki. Aap job ko aaj jaisi hai waisi dekh sakte ho, usme jo ab bhi achha hai use dhoondh sakte ho, aur wahin se apne faisle le sakte ho. Yahin se thodi shanti lautti hai: aap aaj mein ho, kisi purani mail mein nahi.
Threats, shouting, harassment, humiliation, being singled out for who you are, pay or papers held back, or being frightened at work, are something else, and worth taking seriously; staying careful can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleJoin karte waqt company ne jo kaha tha, use nibhana chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleIs job ko aaj jaisi hai, waisi dekha ja sakta hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Is job ki ek baat sochiye jo aapko ab bhi pasand hai
- Din 2
Purani offer mail chubhe to use archive kar dijiye
- Din 3
Kaam mein apne agle saal ki ek chhoti yojana banaiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Is job ki taraf aapko sabse pehle kya kheench laaya, aur wo kaisa laga tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Folder mein pada purana offer #
Ek purana attachment dhoondhte hue Noida ke aapke laptop mein usi saal ki offer mail nikal aati hai jab aapne join kiya tha, uski chamakdaar lines ke saath: growth, seekhna, tarah-tarah ka kaam. Usi ke saath khayal aata hai: “Join karte waqt jo kaha gaya tha, wo nibhna chahiye.”
Kuch logon ki chaah saude ke roop ki hoti hai: shuru mein jo bataya gaya, wahi kaam hona tay hua tha. Sunne mein dheemi lagti hai, phir bhi poori dopahar par mandra sakti hai.
Shuru mein bataayi gayi job ki kaun si baat thi jisne aapse halke dil se “haan” kahlwayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Jab kaam aaye to jhilmilahat #
Kuch logon ko halki jhilmilahat-si mehsoos hoti hai jab koi aisa kaam aaye jo shuru ki baatcheet se bahut bahar ho. Kuch ko ek doobti-si thakaan lagti hai, jo kandhon mein baith jaati hai.
Body soch se aage chal sakti hai: dheemi saans chhodna, nazar ka khidki ki or chale jaana, mouse haath mein par hilta nahi. Jo kaha gaya tha aur kab, wo lambi kahani aksar shaam ko apne aap se kahi jaati hai.
Pichhli baar jab kisi kaam ya badlaav ne shuruaati din yaad dilaye, to kahani shuru hone se pehle aapki body ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Shuruaat tasveer bana deti hai #
Ummeed rakhna ki shuru ki baatein nibhayi jayengi, samajh mein aata hai. Job ke pehle hafte wo waqt hote hain jab insaan tay karta hai ki apna kitna hissa dena hai, aur us waqt ki baatein sach mein wazan rakhti hain.
Yaaddaasht ka bhi apna version hota hai. Interview ki ummeed bhari baatein dimaag mein pakki zabaan ki tarah baith sakti hain, jabki desk ke us paar wo us mahine ki tasveer bhar rahi hon.
Peeche dekhein to un shuruaati hafton ka kaun sa vaakya aapko sabse saaf yaad hai, aur kisne kaha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo interview dohrati hai #
“Mujhse to ye kaha nahi gaya tha.” “Ye pata hota to haan hi na kehta.” “Wo sab kahan gaya?” Awaaz tab bolti hai jab koi nayi maang aaye jo asli tasveer se bahut door lage.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki awaaz do baatein ek saath dhoti hai: kaam se nirasha, aur ye chaah ki shuruaat ko koi ek baar bhi asli maane.
Jab awaaz interview dohrati hai, to kaun sa vaakya wo baar-baar pakadti hai, aur chahti hai ki uska kya ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Pehli baaton par bharosa kahan se aaya #
Kuch logon mein ye us pehli job se shuru hua jo apne bayan par khari nikli, aur aage har offer usi se taula gaya. Ek imaandaar shuruaat aage ki har shuruaat ka paimana ooncha kar sakti hai.
Kuch mein ye aise ghar se aaya jahan ek baar kahi baat nibhti thi: Papa jo kehte the, kar ke dikhate the. Kai gharon mein “Zabaan di thi” kehna kaagaz par dastkhat jitna pakka hota tha, aur baat ka maan rakhna bhala insaan hone ki sabse saaf nishani.
Kisne sabse pehle aapko dikhaya ki jab koi wahi karta hai jo usne kaha tha, to wo kaisa lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Shuruaat kise baandhti hai, iska niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Join karte waqt jo bataya gaya, wahi sauda hai”, ya “Jagah badle to samjhana uska farz hai.” Pehla vaakya wo hai jo log sunte hain; neeche wala niyam tay karta hai ki har badlaav ko kaise padha jaye.
Aise niyam baaton ko gambhirta se lene se aate hain, jo achhi aadat hai. Unhein company ke saath rakhkar dekha ja sakta hai jaisi wo ab hai, badalti priorities aur aate-jaate logon ke saath.
Ho sakta hai ye purane barson se chala aa raha ho, ya haal ka ho.
Shuru ki baaton wala ye niyam kahan ab bhi baithta hai, aur kahan job waqt ke saath bas shakl badal leti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Purani tasveer dhone ki keemat #
Iska matlab padhne se pehle naye kaam par aah bharna ho sakta hai, aisa Sunday jo purani offer mail ke khayal se shuru ho, aur kisi dost se aisi baatcheet jo wahi vaakya phir se ghumati rahe. Inmein kuch bhi shor nahi karta, aur sab saath chalta hai.
Kaam aisi cheez se tulna jaisa lag sakta hai jo ab hai hi nahi. Achhe se karne ka santosh us khayal se dab jaata hai ki ye kya hona tha, aur wo khayal bahut jagah gherta hai.
Pichhle saal bhar mein job ka kaun sa hissa offer mein bataaye se behtar nikla, aur wo kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Aage ke paanch saal, offer folder mein #
Ek aam Tuesday sochiye, us din jab “Company ko jo kaha tha nibhana chahiye” zor se bol raha hai. Ye bas dekhne ke liye ek tasveer hai.
Shayad offer kholkar phir band kiya gaya, kaam achhe se hua, kisi saathi ne chalte-chalte kuch bhala kaha, aur shaam mein raat ke khaane ki jagah nikal aayi.
Yahan kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi, aur tasveer ko jab chahein rakh dijiye.
Usme kya hai: aisa kaam jo job description mein kabhi tha hi nahi, galti se mila purana attachment, keyboard ke paas thandi hoti chai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Tuesday mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske baare mein aapko, agar kuch bhi, kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Vaada, ya ek tasveer? #
Shuru ke bayan ek yojana ho sakte hain, ek ummeed, ek pitch ya ek pakki baat, aur bheetar se sab ek jaise mehsoos ho sakte hain. Unhein chupchaap, akele mein chhaantne se dikh sakta hai ki kaun si chaah job ki hai aur kaun si sach sune jaane ki.
Jobs aam tareeqon se shakl bhi badalti hain: teams badhti hain, priorities khisakti hain, role khinch jaata hai. Isse nirasha khatam nahi hoti, aur ye saabit bhi nahi hota ki kisi ne jaanbujhkar aisa kiya.
Agar pehle bayan se bas ek cheez aap rakh sakte, to aaj aapke liye kaun si sabse zyada maayne rakhti?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Job pehle se kya deti hai #
Jo vaade khisak gaye, unke saath kuch shayad chhoti shakl mein tike bhi hon: pehle hafte ka koi insaan jo ab bhi yahan hai, koi hunar jo seekha aur ummeed nahi thi, kaam ka koi kona jo sach mein waisa hi hai jaisa bataya gaya tha.
Inmein se kisi ko dekhne se doosri ummeed bilkul wahin rehti hai jahan thi. Jo garam hai wo chaah ko chhota nahi karta; bas uske saath baithta hai.
Aadha-yaad pal bhi chalega.
Job aaj aisa kya deti hai jo kisi offer mein nahi tha, aur jise aap aur dekhna chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Jab job shakl badal leti hai #
Yahan sulah ka matlab ho sakta hai ki khisake hue vaade ko ek baar note kar liya jaye aur wapas uske folder mein rakh diya jaye. Agar koi badlaav aapki job, aamdani ya visa ko khatre mein daalta hai, to wo wazan asli hai aur is ummeed se alag hai; kisi bharose ke insaan ke saath baithkar socha ja sakta hai.
Agar kaam par koi aapko dhamkaye, pareshaan kare, beizzat kare, ya aap jo ho us wajah se (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi disability, ya aap kahan se ho) aapko nishana banaye, to wo kuch aur baat hai, aur gambhirta se lene laayak hai.
Waise hi bina paise ka kaam, roki gayi salary ya kaagzaat, asurakshit kaam aur darr lagna; savdhaan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai. Agar salary, kaagzaat ya chhod paane ki aazaadi roki gayi hai, to wo chhodne wali ummeed nahi hai; use gambhirta se lena theek hai.
Kaam ki jagah par buniyaadi izzat aur suraksha “bahut zyada ummeed” kabhi nahi hoti, aapke liye bhi aur unke liye bhi. Is ummeed ko dheela thaamkar ek aam Sunday shaam sochiye.
Jis ghante ko purani offer mail le leti thi, usme aap kya karoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Sunday shaam ke liye ek zyada sachchi pankti #
“Join karte waqt jo kaha gaya tha, wo nibhna chahiye” ke bagal mein kuch log aisi pankti taiyaar rakhte hain: “Maine socha tha shuruaat ki baatein tikengi, aur aage kya chahiye, ye ab bhi mere tay karne ki baat hai.” Use jeetna nahi hai, bas purani pankti ke bagal mein khada hona hai.
Aisi pankti shuru mein udhaar ki lag sakti hai aur bolte-bolte baith jaati hai. Kuch ko apne saade shabd zyada jamte hain, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein zyada sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo ummeed ke baare mein imaandaar ho aur din ko us par tikne na de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Purana offer apne folder mein reh sakta hai #
Har badlaav par Monday tak faisla zaroori nahi. Use dekha ja sakta hai, mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur drawer mein rakhe parche ki tarah chhoda ja sakta hai, chahein to wahin hai, desk par nahi.
Shuru ke vaadon wali ummeed jitni der chahein nijee reh sakti hai. Isme dhamki, pareshaan kiya jaana, beizzati, pehchaan ki wajah se nishana banna, bina paise ka kaam, roki salary ya kaagzaat, asurakshit kaam ya darr shaamil nahi hain. Unhein gambhirta se lena theek hai; savdhaan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Aaj raat ke liye chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki ye theek tha, ya kuch tay ho gaya. Bas itna ki shaam ko faisla nahi sunana hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar pakad zara dheeli ho jaye #
Bas tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ummeed ek paydaan dheemi hai. Shuru ki baatein ginti jayein, ye chaah ab bhi hai, aur purana offer ek baar padha jaata hai, is soch ke saath ki ab aapko job se kya chahiye.
Ho sakta hai aah ke bina shuru kiya koi kaam, ya waqt par shuru hoti shaam.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, aapka hai. Aage: is ummeed se sulah ka matlab kya ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein, jo log aazmaate hain #
- Dekhiye purani tasveer ka kaun sa hissa aap ab bhi sach mein chahte ho
- Job ki ek baat chuniye jo ummeed se behtar nikli
- Jo vaakya yaad hai, use us ehsaas se alag kijiye jo wo dhota hai
- Sochiye ab aap job se apne shabdon mein kya chahoge
- Gaur kijiye aaj pehle kya aata hai, nirasha ya kaam
Chhoti, nijee aur chahein to. Jo ho sake wahi aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Is job ki taraf aapko sabse pehle kya kheench laaya, aur wo kaisa laga tha?
- Kaam ka kaun sa hissa shuru ki baaton se behtar nikla?
- Kisne sabse pehle aapko dikhaya ki baat nibhana kaisa hota hai?
- Agar shuru ki baatein nibhwane ki chaah dheeli pade, to sabse pehle kya dikhega?
- Aam hafte mein kaam par ya bahar aapke paas pehle se kya hai jo madad karta hai?