Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
“Haan, sikhaya tha” bachaav jaisa lagta hai, aur “Nahi” bewafaai jaisa.
Dadi jo aate ki narmi haath pakadkar sikhati thin, badi didi jo school ki tie ki gaanth sudharti thin, seedhiyon mein padosi aunty jo hamesha dekhti thin ki kisne namaste kiya.
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Mujhe behtar pata hona chahiye tha,” ya “Ye meri hi galti hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Jaldi se maafi maangkar cheez theek kar dena, isse pehle ki kisi aur ko karna pade
- Halke se keh dena ki humare yahan aise hota tha
- Chup hokar kaam karte rehna, chehra sapaat rakhkar
- Apnon ke liye wafadari ka jhatka mehsoos karna aur jo kehna tha, nigal jaana
- Baad mein sawaal dohrana aur har baar use bure lehje mein sunna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Moti lauki, lamba saaya
Sunday ko Gurugram mein sasural ki rasoi. Aap lauki kaat rahe ho aur kuch tukde baakiyon se mote reh gaye. Partner ki Chachi sar tedha karke kehti hain: “Maa ne kuch sikhaya nahi kya?” Aap zaroorat se zyada chamakdar hansi hanskar chaaku phir uthate ho. Aapki Maa doosre shehar mein hain aur anjaane mein is rasoi mein bula li gayi hain.
Ek chook meri jadein batati hai
Pehle seedhi baat: moti kati lauki aapki Maa ke baare mein kuch nahi kehti. Par usse ek niyam ug sakta hai, aur wo aapka ho jaata hai: ‘Ek chook batati hai ki mujhe kaise pala gaya, isliye galti nahi honi chahiye.’ Ye saavdhaani jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: kadhai ka dhakkan do gharon ki pariksha lagne lagta hai, aur haath ka chaaku bhaari.
Hum apni jadein kyun bachate hain
Aisa niyam hum isliye pakadte hain kyunki hum apni jadon se pyaar karte hain. Zyadatar log iska koi roop dhote hain. Ye sabse aam wafadariyon mein se hai. Shayad aap chahte hain ki aapke ghar walon ko achha samjha jaye. Shayad darr hai ki kahin bura vigyapan na ban jaayein. Paalne walon ko bachana kamzori nahi. Ise narmi chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Rasoi ban gayi pariksha hall
Aisa har sawaal bojh mein thoda jod deta hai. Ye dheere-dheere hota hai, isliye pakadna mushkil hai. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par aap mehsoos karte ho. Har katai do baar jaanchte ho. Kisi ke kuch bolne se pehle hi maafi maang lete ho, aur phir ek baar aur. Saajhi rasoi pariksha hall jaisi lagne lagti hai.
Kya poore number ki keemat sukoon hai?
Khud se sach-sach poochhiye: kya sab kuch bilkul sahi karne se us rasoi mein aap kabhi apne jaise hue? Ya zyadatar bas jaanche jaane ka ehsaas hua? Ek chook bas ek chook ho sakti hai, aur aapki parvarish achhi reh sakti hai. Ek vaakya aapke parivaar ka paimana nahi hai. Narmi se poochhna theek hai: kya is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna uski keemat ke layak hai?
Bedhangi katai, achha ghar
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aapko behas karni hai, ya wo sawaal theek laga. Matlab ye hai ki galti ka har nishaan ab aapke parivaar ki report nahi rahega. Aap aise hi haath se paka sakte ho jaise aap pakate ho. Agar koi sachmuch neecha dikhaye, dhamkaye, daraye ya aapke kaam par qaabu rakhe, to wo gambhirta se lene layak hai, aur us ghar mein kitna dikhana hai ye aap tay karte hain.
Where someone really does belittle you, threatens or frightens you, or controls what you do, that is worth taking seriously, and how much to show in that house is yours to judge.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleEk chook batati hai ki mujhe kaise pala gaya.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleChook bas chook hai, aur meri jadein achhi reh sakti hain.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Aaj kuch banaiye ya kijiye sirf isliye ki aapko achha lagta hai
- Kadam 2
Ek aisi cheez sochiye jo ghar par kisi ne sikhayi aur aapko pyaari hai
- Kadam 3
Apni Maa ko, ya jisne pala, ek chhota phone ya message kijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Jab kisi ne poochha ki Maa ne nahi sikhaya kya, tab aapke haath mein kya tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Ek giri chammach, aur poora khaandaan beech mein #
Gurugram mein sasural ka flat, Sunday ki rasoi. Chachi saas cooker ki seeti ke beech dekhti hain ki lauki barabar nahi kati, ya roti phooli nahi: “Maa ne kuch sikhaya nahi kya?” Baat ek chhoti chook ki thi, aur achanak ek poore ghar ki ho gayi, jo yahan hai bhi nahi.
Sunne mein ye bholaa-sa sawaal lag sakta hai, naram bhi. Par kuch logon ko isme sunayi deta hai ki chook ki jad wahan dhoondhi ja rahi hai jahan aap pale, aur jisne pala wo is baatcheet mein bin bulaye aa gaya.
Ek rasoi ek hi vaakya mein kadhai se poore bachpan tak pahunch sakti hai.
Aakhri baar jab kisi ne kaha “Maa ne kuch sikhaya nahi kya?”, tab aapke haath mein kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Wo second jab kadchhi abhi haath mein hai #
Kuch log batate hain ki pet mein kuch girta hai, phir apne hi kiye ko dekhte hain ki kya sachmuch itna galat tha. Kuch ko ek jhatke mein us insaan ke liye gussa-sa aata hai jo wahan apni taraf se bolne ke liye maujood hi nahi.
Parvarish par tippani sochne se pehle lagti hai. Wo kaam se aage nikalkar kisi aur ko chhoo leti hai, isiliye pratikriya chook se badi lag sakti hai. Sochna aksar baad mein aata hai, bartan dhote hue.
Kisi rishtedaar ki rasoi mein pehli pratikriya shayad hi aapki apni marzi ki hoti hai.
Us sawaal ke theek baad aapko sabse pehle kiska khayal aaya: apna, ya uska jisne sikhaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Chhoti chook, lamba saaya #
Rasoi ki chook rasoi ki baat hoti hai. Ye sawaal baat ko aapke mool tak le jaata hai. Ek kati lauki, ek kachchi roti, ek der se kiya namaste, aur chupchaap ise is faisle mein badal deta hai ki aapko kaise pala gaya.
Ye jawab ki jagah bhi kam chhodta hai. “Haan, sikhaya tha” bachaav jaisa lagta hai, aur “Nahi” bewafaai jaisa. Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki sawaal aisa darwaaza hai jisse sirf kisi baat par haami bharkar guzra ja sakta hai.
Rasoi mein haathon ke peechhe poora bachpan hota hai, uski aadatein aur tareeke.
Aapke kaam karne ke kaun se tareeke ghar se aaye, aur kaun se baad mein aapne khud seekhe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab sawaal andar se bolne lage #
Baar-baar suno to ye andar ghar kar leta hai. “Pata hona chahiye tha.” “Ye log meri parvarish ke baare mein kya sochenge?” “Kisi ke dekhne se pehle do baar dekh lo.” Kai baar ye cooker par dhakkan lagne se pehle hi shuru ho jaata hai.
Rishtedaar ghanton door hon, phir bhi jaanch chalti rehti hai: sabzi dobara banayi kyunki badrang dikhi, dhanyavaad wala message teen baar likha, mehmaan aane se pehle lift mein namaste ka rehearsal. Kyunki ye saavdhaani jaisi sunayi deti hai, ye tehzeeb jaisi bhi lag sakti hai.
Andar ki awaazein aksar kisi se lehja udhaar leti hain.
Jab ye jaanch kehti hai “Pata hona chahiye tha”, to kiski awaaz mein kehti hai, aur aapki zindagi ke kin kamron mein ye sunayi deti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch logon ke liye ghar wo jagah thi jahan qaayde seekhe #
Dadi jo aate ki narmi haath pakadkar sikhati thin, badi didi jo school ki tie ki gaanth sudharti thin, seedhiyon mein padosi aunty jo hamesha dekhti thin ki kisne namaste kiya. Kuch log aise gharon mein pale jahan saleeqe se kaam karna pyaar jatane ka tareeka tha.
Kuch parivaaron mein kaam kaise hota hai, isi se ghar apni pehchaan batata tha. Bachcha chupchaap ye seekh sakta hai ki har galti ghar par ya sikhane wale par asar daalti hai. Isse har tokne wali baat faisle jaisi sunayi dene ki aadat ban sakti hai.
Shuru ke ghar ye tay kar dete hain ki sudhaar kaisa sunayi deta hai.
Aapke bachpan mein aapko kaam ka tareeka kisne sikhaya, aur us ghar mein galti ka kya matlab tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Neeche-neeche banne wala ek chupchaap niyam #
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Mujhe behtar pata hona chahiye tha,” ya “Ye meri hi galti hai.” Kuch log iska daba roop dhote hain: “Mere kaam karne ka tareeka dikhata hai ki mujhe kaise pala gaya, isliye galti ki gunjaaish nahi.”
Aisi maanyata maanyata jaisi lagti hi nahi. Wo saavdhaani jaisi lagti hai, jaise kisi aur ke ghar mein har qadam sochkar rakhna bas izzat lagta hai. Isiliye ise kabhi-kabhi bahar nikaalkar dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Aaj ki zindagi ke kin kamron mein “Ek chook meri jadon ke baare mein kuch kehti hai” wala niyam ab bhi baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Har rasoi mein parivaar ka naam dhone ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai ek saal tak pakana, tah karna, namaste karna, aur aadha dhyaan is par ki kaisa dikhega. Kuch log dekhte hain ki us ghar mein pakane ka maza unhone chhodne ka faisla karne se bahut pehle chhod diya tha.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Jo maa-baap door hon ya ab na rahe hon, wo har parivaarik jamaave mein katghare mein aa jaate hain, aur rasoi mein khade insaan ko lagta hai ki use do logon ka bachaav karna hai. Baarah mahinon mein ye bahut se aam pal ho sakte hain, jo satarkta mein jiye gaye.
Ye kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Chaukanna rehna asli mehnat maangta hai.
Pichhle ek saal mein is sawaal ne aapko kya keemat chukayi: khaana banane ke maze mein, rishtedaar ki rasoi ke sukoon mein, ya apne parivaar ki baat aane par?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Usi rasoi mein paanch saal aur #
Kisi aam Saturday ki tasveer banaiye, aise din ki jab “Ek chook meri jadon ke baare mein kuch kehti hai” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad usme do baar bani sabzi hai, mehmaan ka saavdhaani se abhyaas ki hui muskaan ke saath swagat, Maa ko kiya phone jisme qissa chhod diya gaya, aur ek hansi jo second bhar der se aayi. Kuch fit baithega, kuch bilkul nahi.
Yahan abhi kisi cheez ka jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer jab chahein rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usme kya hai: pakana, namaste, baar-baar jaanchna?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Saturday ko dekhkar, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Aadat report card nahi hai #
Har ghar ka tauliye tah karne, mez lagane aur mehmaan ka swagat karne ka apna tareeka hota hai, aur zyadatar tareekon ki wajah kisi ko yaad nahi. Alag aadat bas alag aadat hai. Uska matlab ye nahi ki parvarish mein kuch chhoot gaya.
Aise dekhein to ek chook faisle se kam aur kadhai ke upar milti do aadaton ki tarah zyada lag sakti hai. Kuch logon ko rasoi ko aisi jagah ki tarah dekhna halka lagta hai jahan do tareeke saath-saath dikhte hain, ek tareeka aur ek kami nahi.
Aadatein ghar-ghar saath chalti hain.
Agar koi rishtedaar pehli baar aapke maayke ya peehar aaye, to uske kaun se chhote tareekon ko aap chahenge ki wo saamaanya samjhe, aur kin par muskurayenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #
Jab log us pal ko dheere-dheere dohrate hain, to kuch ko dikhta hai ki chook kitni maamooli thi: ek kadchhi, ek chaaku, ek second der se hua namaste. Chook aur us par kahe vaakya ka size bahut alag ho sakta hai.
Kuch ko wo pal yaad aate hain jo ulte gaye: kisi rishtedaar ne recipe maangi, kisi ne kaha chai bilkul sahi bani, bhatiji ne dupatta aapki tarah tah karna seekha. Aise pal sawaal se dheeme the, ya kam the, aur dono ko saaf dekhna theek hai.
Teekhe sawaal ke baghal mein chhoti sarahna aasaani se chhoot jaati hai.
Us parivaar mein kab ghar se seekhi aapki koi cheez dekhi aur pasand ki gayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Choolhe par poore bachpan ka bachaav zaroori nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye maanna nahi ki sawaal sahi tha, na ye dikhana ki chubha nahi. Matlab bas itna ki rasoi ka ek vaakya is par kam chale ki aap apne paalne walon ke baare mein kya sochte hain, aur shaam ka kitna hissa khud ko jaanchne mein jaata hai.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo har rasoi ko imtihaan maanna chhod dete hain. Imtihaan mein ek number deta hai aur doosra number paata hai, aur beech mein koi sirf maze ke liye kuch nahi paka paata.
Agar koi sachmuch aapko ya aapke parivaar ko baar-baar neecha dikhaye, to wo gambhirta se lene layak hai, aur us ghar mein kitna dikhana hai ye aap tay karte hain.
Us sawaal ka asar kam ho to us rasoi mein ek aam ghanta kaisa lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “Mujhe behtar pata hona chahiye tha” pehli parivaarik visit ke baad se baj raha hai, to usse seedhe ladne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iske bajay ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Har ghar ke apne tareeke hote hain, aur ek chook bas ek chook hai.”
Shuru mein ye sach lagna zaroori nahi. Kuch log ise kisi visit ya lambe weekend se pehle mann mein aazmate hain, aur kehte hain ki chupchaap dohrane se purani line ki thodi jagah ye le leti hai.
Sachcha vaakya paksh liye bina bhi baat keh sakta hai.
Aapke apne ghar aur is ghar, dono ke apne tareeke hone ke baare mein, wo vaakya aapke apne shabdon mein kaisa hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein bas counter par chhodi ja sakti hain #
Rasoi ke baare mein har teekhe sawaal ko jawab, bachaav ya agli baar ka sabak nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal feel kiya ja sakta hai, aur din ke aakhir mein ponchhe ke saath counter par chhoda ja sakta hai.
Ye haar maanna nahi hai, na sehmati. Ye chunna hai ki aapki taaqat kahan lage, aur kuch log kehte hain isse un hisson ke liye zyada jagah bachti hai jo pehle se unke hain: jisne sachmuch sikhaya usse phone par baat, koi pasandida gaana, ek sair.
Aaj shaam is sawaal ko rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki baat sahi thi, ya sulajh gayi. Bas itna ki kadhai ke dhakkan par kahe kuch shabd raat ke baaki hisse tak na jaayein.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam thoda bhi dheela ho #
Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya hai. Chook chook rehti hai, aur aap jahan se aaye wo aane ke liye achhi jagah rehti hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: ghar ki recipe usi tarah banana jaise wahan banti thi, us rasoi mein apni Maa ka naam pyaar se lena, ya jali kinari par hans dena.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir parvarish wala sawaal”
- Chupchaap khud se poochhiye: ye kaam ki baat hai, ya mere mool ki?
- Gaur kijiye ki zyada zor se kya laga: shabd, ya lehja
- Ek aisi cheez sochiye jo aap achhi karte hain aur ghar par kisi ne sikhayi
- Aaj kuch banaiye ya kijiye sirf isliye ki aapko achha lagta hai
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Jab kisi ne poochha ki Maa ne nahi sikhaya kya, tab aapke haath mein kya tha?
- Aapki kaun si aadat ghar se aayi, aur us ghar mein use karna kaisa lagta hai?
- Kisne aapko kuch aisa sikhaya jis par aapko garv hai, aur galti hone par kya kaha?
- Galti ka matlab aapke parivaar ke baare mein kuch kehna kab se ho gaya?
- Agar is sawaal ka rasoi ke waqt par kam asar ho, to aapko sabse pehle kya dikhega?