Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Bhavishya wala insaan samjha jaana aaj ke ehsaas par bhi asar daalta hai.
Kuch logon mein ye us teacher se shuru hua jisne report card par aisi pankti likhi jo vaade jaisi lagi, ya us coach se jisne wo hunar pehchaana jiska kisi ne naam nahi liya tha.
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Agar kaam achha hai, to wo dekh lenge ki mujhmein kitna dum hai,” ya “Jo manager mujh par bharosa karta hai, wo mujhse kehta hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Zyada kaam uthana aur ummeed karna ki nazar padegi
- Bhavishya ki us baatcheet ka rehearsal karna jo kabhi hoti hi nahi
- Seedhe-saade review ke baad raat ko apne kaam ke notes sajaana
- Apna raasta unse milana jinhone saath hi shuruaat ki thi
- Niraasha se bachne ke liye khwaahishein chup rakhna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
“Reports mein humari pakki pakad”
Head office se aaye director se aapke manager team ka parichay kara rahe hain. Aapke baare mein kehte hain, “Aur ye reports mein humari pakki pakad hain.” Baakiyon ke liye “aage chalkar lead” aur “nazar rakhne laayak” jaise shabd aate hain. Aap muskuraakar haath milate hain. Phir mez par lautkar screen taakte reh jaate hain, us sabke baare mein sochte hue jo kar sakte hain aur kisi ko dikhta nahi.
Wo dekhein aap kya ban sakte hain
Andar ek niyam baitha hai: “Boss ko dikhna chahiye ki mujhmein kya banne ka dum hai.” Jaayaz ummeed lagti hai. Achhe manager pratibha pehchaante hain. Par dekhiye wo karta kya hai: aapka bhavishya kisi aur ki kalpana mein rakh deta hai. Apne raaste par aapka yakeen ab is par tika hai ki ek insaan aapko kaise bayaan karta hai, aksar ek jhatpat vaakya mein, bhare din, aate-jaate mehmaan se.
Bharosa milne se darwaze khulte hain
Hum ise isliye thaame rehte hain kyunki bharosa kiya jaana ek darwaza khulne jaisa lagta hai. Shayad kisi teacher ne aapmein kuch dekha tha, aapse pehle, aur sab badal gaya. Shayad kisi ne kabhi nahi dekha, aur aap tab se usi pal ka intezaar kar rahe hain. Jo bhi ho, chahna ki koi aapki qaabiliyat dekhe, ghamand nahi hai. Ye aage badhne ki chaah hai. Ise hamdardi chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Tasveer jo chhoti hoti gayi
Har anadekha pal tasveer ko thoda chhota kar deta hai. Aap “pakki pakad” wale label ko sach maanne lagte hain. Nayi cheezon ke liye haath uthana chhod dete hain. Unse apni tulna karne lagte hain jinki baat hoti hai. Apne baare mein aapka ehsaas ki aap kya kar sakte hain, chhota hota jaata hai, jab tak ki sach bas wahi roop na reh jaye jo kisi ki jhatpat pehchaan mein kaha gaya.
Kya dekhe jaane ka intezaar theek?
Khud se sachche dil se poochhiye: kya ye intezaar karne se ki wo aapki qaabiliyat dekhein, us tak pahunchne mein kabhi madad mili? Ya zyadatar bas chhota mehsoos hua? Ho sakta hai aapke manager ko bas wahi dikhta ho jo unki mez se guzarta hai, mez ke bahar aap kaun hain ye nahi. Jo bhi ho, unki tasveer aapke bhavishya ka paimana nahi hai. Is niyam ko itna kasakar thaamna deta kam hai aur cheenta zyada.
Apni qaabiliyat khud dekhna
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki bharosa kiye jaane ki chaah khatam. Matlab ye ki aap kya ban sakte hain iska ehsaas ab kisi aur ke kalpana karne ka intezaar nahi karta. Aap use khud dekh sakte hain, uski taraf chhote kadam badha sakte hain, aur apni shartein par aage badh sakte hain. Unka bharosa, agar aaye, bonus ban jaata hai. Yahin se kuch sukoon lautta hai: aapka bhavishya aapki kalpana ka hai.
Threats, shouting, harassment, humiliation, being singled out for who you are, pay or papers held back, or being frightened at work, are something else, and worth taking seriously; staying careful can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleBoss ko dikhna chahiye ki mujhmein kya banne ka dum hai.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMujhe dikhta hai ki mujhmein kya banne ka dum hai. Ye ek shuruaat hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Sochiye ki do saal baad aap kya karte hue hona chahenge
- Din 2
Aaj ek chhota kadam uthaiye us hunar ki taraf jo aap chahte hain
- Din 3
Aaj apne baare mein ek dayalu sachchi baat kahiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Shuru mein kisne aap par yakeen kiya, aur unhone kya kiya jo aapko aaj bhi yaad hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Wo review jo seedha-saada laga #
Review shisht shabdon par khatam hota hai: kaam achha hai, bharosemand hain, aise hi lage raho. Jo kaha gaya sab sach tha. Bhopal ke office mein apni mez tak lautte hue ek aur vaakya dabaav daalta hai: “Boss ko dikhna chahiye ki mujhmein kitna dum hai.”
Kuch logon ki chaah ye hoti hai ki koi unhein aaj jaise hain waise hi nahi, kuch kadam aage bhi soche. Aaj ke kaam ki qadr achhi baat hai, aur bhavishya mein kalpana kiya jaana ek alag tarah ki parwah lag sakta hai.
Zindagi mein kabhi kisne aapmein kuch dekha, isse pehle ki aapne khud dekha, aur unhone kya kaha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
“Aise hi lage raho” ke baad ki halki-si sikudan #
Kuch logon ko aise review ke baad jo ek saath bhala bhi tha aur feeka bhi, andar halki-si sikudan feel hoti hai. Kuch ke chehre par shisht muskaan ban jaati hai aur uske peeche kuch thahar jaata hai.
Body ek seedhe-se vaakya par bhi hairaan karne wale dhang se react kar sakti hai: dheemi saans, der se aata hua sar hilana, panne ko haath se seedha karna. Matlab baad mein aata hai, ghar lautte hue.
Pichhli baar jab koi review ya baatcheet seedhi-saadi lagi, to matlab tay karne se pehle sabse pehle kya feel hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Aage ki tasveer mein dekhe jaane ki chaah #
Ye ummeed samajh aati hai ki manager aapke vikaas ki kalpana kar sake. Career barson mein chalta hai, aur jo insaan dekh sake ki aap kahan tak ja sakte hain, wo raaste ko andaaze se kam bana deta hai.
Bhavishya wala insaan samjha jaana aaj ke ehsaas par bhi asar daalta hai. Kuch log paate hain ki manager ke bharose se roz ke kaam kisi badi cheez se jude lagne lagte hain.
Jab aap sochte hain ki aap kya ban sakte hain, to us tasveer mein kya hai: koi pad, koi hunar, ya kaam karne ka koi dhang?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Badi tasveer khinchne wali awaaz #
“Mujhse isse kahin zyada ho sakta hai.” “Kya inhein dikhta hai ki ye kahan tak ja sakta hai?” “Ek aur saal ‘theek-thaak’ ka.” Ye awaaz aksar review ke baad ki khamoshi mein aati hai, aur phir Sunday ki shaam ko.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki awaaz mein ummeed bhi hai aur besabri bhi. Uske paas bhavishya ki ek tasveer hai, aur wo chahti hai ki kam se kam ek aur insaan use saajha kare.
Jab awaaz badi tasveer khinchti hai, to kaun-sa hissa sabse saaf ubharta hai, aur wo maangti kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Aage dekhe jaane ki chaah kahan se shuru hui #
Kuch logon mein ye us teacher se shuru hua jisne report card par aisi pankti likhi jo vaade jaisi lagi, ya us coach se jisne wo hunar pehchaana jiska kisi ne naam nahi liya tha. Kisi aur ki dekhi hui tasveer dashakon saath rehti hai.
Kuch ke liye ye ghar se aaya, jahan Nani kehti thin, “Dekhna, ye bada naam karega.” Kai gharon mein bachche se kaha jaana ki wo aage kya banega, dhyaan dene ka ek aam aur garmjoshi bhara tareeka tha.
Aapke bhavishya ke baare mein kiske shabd aapne sambhalkar rakhe, aur us waqt unhone aapse apne shabdon mein kya kaha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Kalpana kiye jaane wala niyam #
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Agar kaam achha hai, to wo dekh lenge ki mujhmein kitna dum hai,” ya “Jo manager mujh par bharosa karta hai, wo mujhse kehta hai.” Pehla vaakya seedhe insaaf jaisa lagta hai; neeche ka niyam ek aam review ko sandesh bana deta hai.
Aise niyam aise bhavishya ki chaah se aate hain jo aaj se bada ho, jo izzat ke laayak hai. Unhein asli managers ke bagal mein rakhkar dekha ja sakta hai, jo aksar wahi bayaan karte hain jo wo aaj dekh rahe hain, kyunki usi ki gawaahi de sakte hain.
Ye purane saalon se chala aa raha ho sakta hai, ya raaste mein bana ho.
Kaam par “meri qaabiliyat dikh jayegi” kahan sahi baithta hai, aur kahan aisa andaaza maangta hai jo koi surakshit tareeke se de nahi sakta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Ek hi jagah atke mehsoos karna kya le jaata hai #
Ek review jo kai din chubhta rahe, aane-jaane ke raaste mein ek chup bechaini, aur har tippani ko bhavishya ke ishaare ki tarah jaanchne ki aadat.
Saal bhar mein kuch log paate hain ki wo kya ban sakte hain, iska unka apna ehsaas pushti par tikne laga hai. Bhavishya ki tasveer ko gawaah chahiye, aur bina uske wo chhoti lagne lagti hai.
Pichhle saal mein aapne kuch aisa seekha ya kiya jiska aapko khud ke baare mein andaaza nahi tha, wo kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
“Bharosemand, theek-thaak” ke baras #
Ek aam shaam sochiye, jisme “Boss ko dikhna chahiye ki mujhmein kya banne ka dum hai” oonchi awaaz mein hai. Dekhne bhar ka ek drishya.
Shayad der raat sajaaye gaye notes, us saal ke kaam ki chand panktiyan, kohni ke paas chai ka cup, agle saal ka ek khayal, aur kamre ki chuppi.
Isme kuch bhi theek karne ki zaroorat nahi, aur aap jab chahein tasveer se bahar aa sakte hain.
Usmein kya hai: mez ki lamp, saal bhar ke kaam ke notes, folder mein rakha review, abhi-abhi khatam hua din?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us shaam mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Usmein aapko, agar kuch dikhe, kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Qaabiliyat bahar se dikhni mushkil hai #
Qaabiliyat us cheez ki tasveer hai jo abhi hui nahi, aur use thaamne wala insaan bhi uske baare mein pakka nahi ho sakta. Manager aksar wahi bolte hain jo unhone hote dekha hai, jo poori kahani ka sirf ek hissa ho sakta hai.
Bhavishya ki tasveer kai logon se bhi aa sakti hai: koi saathi, koi dost, beete dinon ka koi teacher, aur aap khud. Uske asli hone ke liye zaroori nahi ki wo ek hi cabin se aaye.
Agar aapki qaabiliyat ko ek imaandaar vaakya mein kehna ho, apne shabdon mein, to wo kya kehta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jo pehle hi ug chuka hai #
Us review ke bagal mein jo seedha-saada laga, wo badhat bhi hogi jo aap dekh sakte hain: ek kaam jo ab sehajta se ho jaata hai, ek hunar jo pichhle saal naya tha, ek pal jab kisi ne aapki raay maangi kyunki aapko jawab aata tha.
Inhein yaad karne se aage ki kalpana ki chaah khatam nahi hoti. Dono saath reh sakte hain, aur ye dekhna kisi se kuch wapas nahi maangta.
Pichhle saal mein aapne kya seekha ya kya bankar ubhare, jise aap zyada saaf dekhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Bhavishya ki apni tasveer thaame rakhna #
Is ummeed se sulah ka matlab ho sakta hai ki ek aam review ye tay karna band kar de ki bhavishya kitna bada dikhta hai. Jo jaayaz hai wo rahe: bhavishya ki chaah, aur chaah ki koi us par yakeen kare. Dheeli pad sakti hai pakad, taaki feeka review bas wo review rahe, is baat par chhat nahi ki aap kya ban sakte hain.
Agar boss, ya kaam par koi bhi, aapko dhamkaye, pareshaan kare ya beizzat kare, ya aapki pehchaan (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, viklangta ya aap kahan se hain) ki wajah se nishaana banaye, to wo kuch aur baat hai aur gambhirta se lene laayak hai.
Yahi baat bina tankhwaah ke kaam, roki gayi tankhwaah ya kaagzaat, asurakshit kaam aur darr lagne par lagu hoti hai. Chupchaap saavdhaan rehna surakshit raasta ho sakta hai.
Kaam ki jagah par buniyaadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi hai, na aapke liye, na unke liye.
Is ummeed ko halke se thaame aane wale saal ki kalpana kijiye: ek cheez jisme aap behtar hona chahenge kaun-si hai, aur use badhte hue aur kaun dekh sakta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Aam review ke liye zyada sachchi pankti #
“Boss ko dikhna chahiye ki mujhmein kitna dum hai” ke bagal mein kuch log aisi pankti taiyaar rakhte hain: “Mujhe aage dekha jaana achha lagega, aur kuch mujhe khud bhi dikhta hai.” Use purani pankti se jeetna nahi hai, bas uske bagal mein khadi hona hai.
Aisa vaakya shuru mein udaar lag sakta hai aur istemaal se zyada swaabhaavik. Kuch logon ko apne saade shabd pasand aate hain, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein ek zyada sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo apne bhavishya ko dekhe jaane ki chaah ke baare mein imaandaar ho, par uski pehle pushti na chahe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Aam review aaram kar sakta hai #
Har review ko Friday tak padha jaana zaroori nahi. Use dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal feel kiya ja sakta hai, aur daraaz mein kisi panne ki tarah rakha ja sakta hai, kisi aur din nikaalne ke liye agar mann ho.
Aage dekhe jaane ki chaah jitne din chahein nijee reh sakti hai. Kaam par pareshaan kiya jaana, beizzat kiya jaana ya daraya jaana, boss ki taraf se ya kisi ki bhi, kuch aur baat hai aur gambhirta se lene laayak hai.
Aaj raat ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo jaayaz tha, ya tay ho gaya. Bas itna ki shaam ko koi andaaza thaamne ki zaroorat nahi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar chaah halki baithe #
Bas ek tasveer ki tarah dekhiye ki apeksha ek darja naram hai. Aage dekhe jaane ki chaah ab bhi hai, par aam review ko saal ka review samajhkar suna ja sakta hai, aur kuch nahi.
Shayad aap apne notes sajaate hain aur gaur karte hain ki is saal aapne kya seekha, apne shabdon mein, apne kram mein.
Isme se kuch bhi batana zaroori nahi; wo aapke paas rehta hai. Jo bhi uthe, aapka hai. Aage: is ummeed se sulah ka matlab kya ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us list mein pehli cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein, agar jachein #
- Dheeme se kahiye: “Mujhe aage dekha jaana achha lagega”, aur phir din mein lag jaaiye
- Ek hunar dekhiye jo ab aapke paas hai aur saal bhar pehle nahi tha
- Ek vaakya mein sochiye ki kaam mein aap kya banna chahenge
- Kaam ke bahar kisi aise ko sochiye jo aap par yakeen karta hai
- Dekhiye aaj ke kaam ka kaun-sa hissa badhat jaisa laga
Chhote, nijee aur zaroori nahi. Jo ho sake, wahi aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Shuru mein kisne aap par yakeen kiya, aur unhone kya kiya jo aapko aaj bhi yaad hai?
- Wo kya hai jiske baare mein aapko kabhi shak tha ki kar paayenge aur phir kar dikhaya?
- Kab kisi ne aapke bhavishya ke baare mein aisa vaakya kaha jo aapke saath reh gaya?
- Agar aage dekhe jaane ki chaah thodi dheeli ho, to aap sabse pehle kya feel karenge?
- Aap pehle se kya ban chuke hain, jise aap zyada saaf dekhna chahenge?