Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye ummeed ki koi bina kahe samajh jaye, bahut insaani hai, aur saamne wale ke liye mushkil paheli bhi.
Kuch mein ye ghar ke andar se aati hai: ek ghar jahan parwah kate phal ki plate, pack kiye bag aur “pahunchkar phone karna” ke roop mein aati thi, aur ehsaas ke liye shabd kam istemaal hote the.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Agar wo mehsoos karte, to keh dete,” ya “Jo parwah zor se nahi kahi jaati wo poori nahi ginti.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Call ke aakhir mein khud pehle keh dena, phir kuch lautkar aane ka intezaar karna
- Parwah ke har roop ka hisaab rakhna, aur phir bhi khaali jagah mehsoos karna
- Zor dekar kehna ki is umar mein farq nahi padta, aur phir bhi padna
- Kisi aur parivaar ko aasaani se kehte sunna, aur shaam bhar chup ho jaana
- Call chhoti rakhna taaki aakhir ki chuppi jaldi aa jaye
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Departure hall ki wo vidaai
Bhopal airport par departure hall. Aapke paas ek dost ki mummy use gale lagakar bina soche kehti hain “I love you, pahunchkar phone karna.” Aaj subah aapki apni vidaai ek thapki aur “Khaana theek se khaana” thi. Parking tak lautte hue aankhein thodi chubhti hain, aur wo chaah, jo aap shaayad hi zor se kehte ho, wapas aa jaati hai.
Pyaar zor se kaha jaana chahiye
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Agar Mummy-Papa ko mujhse pyaar hai, to unhein zor se kehna chahiye.” Ye seedha lagta hai. Bas teen shabd, itna hi chahiye. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: pyaar ko darwaze par tab tak roke rakhta hai jab tak wo theek usi vaakya mein kaha na jaye. Baaki sab, khaana, fikr, neend par sawaal, bahar khada reh jaata hai, bina ginaa.
Wo shabd yakeen jaise kyun lagte hain
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki wo shabd sunna yakeen jaisa lag sakta hai, ek darwaza jo shak par aakhir band ho jaye. Shaayad aapne parivaaron ko har vidaai par, school ke gate par aur phone par kehte dekha. Shaayad filmon aur doston ne use akela saboot bana diya. Jo bhi ho, sunna chahna bachkana nahi. Ye pyaar ke pakke hone ki chaah se aata hai. Ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Har vidaai par chup daraar
Shabdon ke bina har vidaai darwaze par ek chhoti, chup daraar chhodti hai. Aap doosron ka gale lagna dekhte ho. Sochte ho kya kam hai. Jo halke sanket hain unhein ginna chhod dete ho kyunki wo kaafi nahi lagte. Callein khatam hoti hain aur aap phone ko ek pal thaame rakhte ho, kisi cheez ke intezaar mein. Chaah ek halka dard ban jaati hai jo har airport, har birthday aur har vidaai par laut aata hai.
Kya shabdon ki zaroorat itni bhaari hai?
Imaandaari se khud se poochhiye: kya shabdon ke intezaar ne kabhi aapko zyada chaha hua mehsoos karaya? Ya zyadatar baaki sanketon ko dekhna mushkil kar diya? Kai parivaar parwah ko khaane, fikr aur chhote kaamon se kehte hain, aur aise shabd unki bhasha mein kabhi the hi nahi. Jo bhi ho, kami wala vaakya iska paimana nahi ki wahan kya hai. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna iske laayak hai?
Doosre shabdon mein parwah
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki sunne ki chaah band ho jaye. Matlab ye ki parwah ko gine jaane ke liye ek hi vaakya mein aana zaroori nahi rehta. “Khaana theek se khaana” ko wo suna ja sakta hai jo wo shaayad hai. Aap pack kiye tiffin ko dekh sakte ho, der raat ki call ko. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: darwaze par intezaar chhootta hai, aur kamre mein jo pehle se hai us par nazar jaane lagti hai.
If feelings at home are ever met with something that frightens you, that is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleAgar unhein pyaar hai, to unhein kehna chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleParwah doosre shabdon mein bhi aati hai, aur use suna ja sakta hai.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Is hafte ghar se parwah ka ek chhota sanket dekhiye
- Kadam 2
Mummy ya Papa ka koi kaam yaad kijiye jo parwah jaisa laga
- Kadam 3
Jab unhein sunna khale, to khud ke saath narm rahiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aakhri baar kisi ko aasaani se “I love you” kehte kab suna, aur usse aapke andar kya hila?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Call ke aakhir mein intezaar kiye teen shabd #
Airport ke gate par ek dost ki mummy bina soche keh deti hain “I love you, pahunchkar phone karna,” aur gaadi tak lautte hue ek chup-sa vaakya peechhe aata hai: “Mummy-Papa ko ‘I love you’ munh se kehna chahiye.”
Iske andar teen shabdon ki ek chhoti, theek-theek chaah hai, seedhe kahe hue, us awaaz mein jo aapne bade hote suni, jaise filmon mein aur doosron ke gharon mein kahe jaate hain, bina kisi ko iske liye himmat jutaye.
Aakhri baar kab aapne wo jagah mehsoos ki jahan wo teen shabd aa sakte the, aur aap kisse baat kar rahe the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
“Achha, chalo, rakhte hain” ke baad ka aadha second #
Kuch log ise call ke aakhir mein mehsoos karte hain: “Achha, chalo, rakhte hain” aa jaata hai, aadha second jismein kuch aur sama sakta tha, phir line chup, aur pasliyon ke neeche kahin halki giraavat, kisi soch se pehle.
Kuch ko bade dinon aur vidaai par: station par jaldi aur kaam-chalau gale lagna, birthday ka message jismein bas “Janmdin mubarak, beta” ho aur kuch nahi. Ehsaas isse pehle aa sakta hai ki socha jaye us pal ka matlab kya tha.
Pichhli baar jab Mummy-Papa ke saath koi vidaai bina un shabdon ke khatam hui, to uske theek baad, kisi soch se pehle, aapko kya laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Shabd rakhe ja sakte hain, dohraye ja sakte hain #
Pyaar ko zor se sunna chahna jaayaz hai. Shabd rakhe ja sakte hain, dohraye ja sakte hain, baad mein un par tika ja sakta hai, aur kuch logon ko lagta hai ki jo parwah sirf kaamon mein dikhe, use un dinon thaamna mushkil hota hai jab sabse zyada kuch thaamne ko chahiye hota hai.
Ye ummeed ki koi bina kahe samajh jaye, bahut insaani hai, aur saamne wale ke liye mushkil paheli bhi. Ho sakta hai Mummy-Papa ko pata hi na ho ki in shabdon ki aas hai; aur bada ho chuka bachcha kabhi na kahe ki aas hai. Chaah ek hi call ke dono siron par ankahi baithi reh sakti hai.
Agar Mummy-Papa mein se koi ye bilkul waise kahe jaisi aapko aas hai, to aapki jagah kahan hogi aur wo kya kar rahe honge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo dono taraf se behas karti hai #
“Kya kehne se kuch ghat jayega?” “Doosre gharon mein toh har waqt kehte hain.” “Ab toh mujhe ye sunne ki zaroorat nahi honi chahiye.” Ye awaaz aksar phone rakhne ke baad bolti hai, jab phone ab bhi garam ho, ya birthday ki shaam ko jab baaki har message do baar padha ja chuka ho.
Aisi chaah dono taraf se ek saath dabayi ja sakti hai: ek awaaz kehti hai ye zaroori hai, doosri kehti hai bura maanna bachkana hai. Kuch log dekhte hain ki ye behas unhein chaah se zyada thakati hai.
Jab awaaz kehti hai ki ab toh sunne ki zaroorat nahi honi chahiye, to wo kiski awaaz jaisi sunayi deti hai, aur pehli baar kahan suni thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Shabdon ki chaah kahan se aati hai #
Kuch logon mein ye tasveer ghar ke bahar se aati hai: ek dost ke Papa jo har baar school chhodte waqt kehte the, filmein jinmein har doosre scene mein parivaar kehta hai, ek roommate jo ghar ki har call “Hello” ki tarah aasaani se isi par khatam karta hai.
Kuch mein ye ghar ke andar se aati hai: ek ghar jahan parwah kate phal ki plate, pack kiye bag aur “pahunchkar phone karna” ke roop mein aati thi, aur ehsaas ke liye shabd kam istemaal hote the. Kuch log aisi chaah ko bachpan tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi.
Kaun-sa pal tha jab pehli baar pata chala ki zor se kaha gaya pyaar kaisa sunayi deta hai, aur wo awaaz kiski thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Chaah ke neeche ka chup niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Agar wo mehsoos karte, to keh dete,” ya “Jo parwah zor se nahi kahi jaati wo poori nahi ginti.” Pehla vaakya sunayi deta hai; neeche wala niyam tay karta hai ki har vidaai, har birthday, har chup call kaise padhi jaye.
Niyamon mein ye naram hai. Ye bataye jaane ki aam chaah jaisa lagta hai, aur chaah komal hai. Isiliye ise dekhna zaroori hai, Mummy-Papa jaise aaj hain aur aapke parivaar mein parwah jin raaston se chalti hai, unke saath.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi. Dono haal mein ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Aaj ki paarivarik zindagi ke kin hisson mein “zor se kehne” wala niyam ab bhi baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Saal bhar ka intezaar kya le jaata hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai har call ka usi chhote intezaar par khatam hona, ek birthday jo us ek message se taula gaya jismein ye nahi tha, departure gate par ek gale lagna jo gine jaane ke liye bahut chhota laga. Har pal chhota; saath milkar, ghar tak dhoya gaya ek tika hua wazan.
Kuch aur bhi mushkil ho sakta hai. Jab sirf shabd gine jaayein, to jo aur kuch aaya wo bina dekhe phisal sakta hai, aur kuch log paate hain ki unhein bina shabdon wali har vidaai ginwana uski jagah jo aaya use ginwane se zyada aasaan lagta hai.
Is poore saal mein, Mummy-Papa ke saath kaun-si vidaai ya birthday un shabdon ke intezaar mein sabse zyada ranga tha, aur usmein aur kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Thehraav ke paanch saal aur #
Ek aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab Mummy-Papa se “I love you” sunne ki chaah zor se baje. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shaayad office se lautte hue ghar ki call jo “Achha, rakhte hain” par khatam ho aur ek thehraav jahan shabd aa sakte the, kisi dost ke parivaar ko aasaani se kehte sun lena, Mummy ya Papa ke birthday ka reminder jo do baar dekha gaya.
Isme kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi, aur tasveer bas tasveer hai.
Usmein kya hai: callein, vidaaiyan, thehraav, jo nahi kaha gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din kya bhara hai, aur kya phisal jaata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din ko dekhkar, agar kuch, to aapki nazar kis par rukti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Shabd aur parwah alag-alag bhi chalte hain #
Kuch log paate hain ki ghar mein parwah doosre roopon mein dikhti hai: subah chaar baje airport tak chhodna, flight pahunchi ya nahi ye poochhne ki call, lautne ki pehli raat pasandida pakwan taiyaar. Kuch ko aisa bahut kam milta hai. Dono hota hai, aur koi bhi shabdon ki jagah nahi leta.
Shabd aur ehsaas alag-alag bhi chal sakte hain, aur parivaar ke bahar koi nahi keh sakta ki andar kya mehsoos hota hai. Ye card nahi keh sakta ki aapke Mummy-Papa kya mehsoos karte hain. Ye bas itna dekhta hai ki shabd chahna jaayaz hai, aur shabd ya unki kami kai sanketon mein se ek hai.
Agar wo shabd Mummy-Papa se aate, to wo aapke liye kya tay kar dete jo ab tak kisi aur cheez ne nahi kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jo pehle se aata hai, chahe bedhanga ho #
Jin shabdon ki aas hai, unke bagal mein kuch cheezein Mummy-Papa ki or se pehle se aa rahi ho sakti hain, chahe kitni bhi chhoti ya bedhangi: aapke shehar ke mausam ki chetavni jo aage bhej di gayi, kisi dost ka naam lekar poochha gaya sawaal, Amritsar ke suitcase mein chupke se rakha gaya namkeen ka ek aur packet.
Inmein se kisi ko shabdon ki jagah khada nahi hona hai, aur koi bill nahi hai jo chukana ho; chaah aur ye chhoti baatein dono asli ho sakti hain. Jo parwah bina maange aati hai, use kisi aur cheez ki aahat sunte hue laangh jaana aasaan hai.
Kuch mahino mein dikhane ko bahut kam hota hai, aur wo theek hai.
Mummy-Papa ki kaun-si ek chhoti baat, isi mahine ki, aap khud ko thoda aur saaf dekhne dena chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Isse sulah, shabdon ki chaah rehte hue #
Is ummeed se sulah ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki chaah bachkana thi, ya ki shabd haq hain. Matlab ye ki jin shabdon ki aas thi aur jo vidaai aayi, unke beech ka faasla poori call ka ehsaas tay karna band kar de.
Jo jaayaz hai wo reh sakta hai: parwah seedhe kahi jaye, us awaaz mein suni jaye jismein aap bade hue. Jo dheela ho sakta hai wo intezaar hai, taaki call ka aakhir bas call ka aakhir ho, aur usmein jo aaya wo apni keemat mein ginaa jaye.
Ghar mein buniyadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “bahut zyada ummeed” nahi hoti, sabke liye. Agar ghar mein ehsaason ka kabhi aisi cheez se saamna ho jisse darr lage, to use gambhirta se lena zaroori hai.
Is chaah se sulah wali ek call ka aakhir sochiye: agle das minute aap kya karenge, kya mehsoos karne denge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Call ke aakhir ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
“Mummy-Papa ko ‘I love you’ munh se kehna chahiye” se behas karne ki jagah, kuch log taiyaar rakhte hain: “Mujhe wo shabd sunna achha lagega, aur jo aata hai use dekha ja sakta hai.” Ise jeetna zaroori nahi, bas purane ke bagal mein baithna hai.
Kuch samay ye kisi aur ka vaakya lag sakta hai. Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki apni line dheere-dheere us jagah ka thoda hissa le leti hai jo purani chaah bharti thi; kuch ko nahi, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo shabdon ki chaah rakhe aur phir bhi vidaai ko vidaai rehne de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch chaahein cardon ki daraz mein reh sakti hain #
Mummy-Papa se judi har chaah ko isi saal nipatana zaroori nahi. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal thaama ja sakta hai aur kisi surakshit jagah rakha ja sakta hai, jaise daraz mein ek purana birthday ka card ya phone mein saheja gaya ek voice note.
Kuch ghar shaayad kabhi ye shabd istemaal na karein, aur aapko baar-baar jaanchna nahi hai. Agar ghar mein ehsaason ka kabhi aisi cheez se saamna ho jisse darr lage, to use gambhirta se lena zaroori hai. Chaah jitni der chahein aapki aur ankahi reh sakti hai, aur phir bhi ginti hai.
Aaj shaam ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki ye theek tha, ya baat sulajh gayi. Bas itna ki aaj ki call ko intezaar par khatam nahi hona.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar dheela ho, ek darja bhi #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ummeed ek darja dheemi hai. Shabdon ki chaah ab bhi hai, par call ka aakhir bas call ka aakhir hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: call khatam karke dekhna ki is baar parwah kis roop mein aayi, agar aayi, ek birthday jo un logon ke liye achha lage jo aaye, ya wahi shabd kisi kareebi dost ke saath garmjoshi se kahe jaayein.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne laayak hai. Aage, is ummeed se sulah ka kya matlab ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai, zara-sa bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Dekhiye ki aaj kisi bhi shakl mein, kisi se bhi, parwah kaise dikhi
- Call ke aakhir mein wo ek cheez dekhiye jo usmein aayi
- Aaj ki ek cheez par dhyaan dijiye jo aapne chahi, sirf apne liye
- Chupchaap khud se poochhiye: wo shabd mere liye kya tay kar dete?
- Dekhiye kaun zyada zor se bajta hai: na kahe gaye shabd, ya jo kaha gaya
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aakhri baar kisi ko aasaani se “I love you” kehte kab suna, aur usse aapke andar kya hila?
- Kaun-si vidaai aapko isliye yaad hai ki usmein kya nahi kaha gaya, aur aapki jagah kahan thi?
- Bachpan mein aapke ghar mein, shabdon ke bina, parwah kaisi sunayi deti thi?
- Agar Mummy-Papa se wo shabd sunne ki chaah thodi halki ho, to sabse pehle aap kya dekhenge?
- Is mahine Mummy-Papa ki kaun-si chhoti baat aap thoda aur dekhna chahenge?