Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Barson kisi jagah rehne ke baad use bahar se dekhna bahut mushkil ho jaata hai.
Kuch logon ke liye ye kisi jagah ke pehle din se shuru hui jahan sab achhe se hua: desk par naam ki parchi, saath ka lunch, aur ek hafte tak saath chalne wala koi senior.
Andar kahin ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Achhi jagah naye logon ka dhyaan rakhti hai,” ya “Main nayi jagah par hoon to koi mujhe dikhaye.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Jo samajh nahi aaya us par sir hila dena, aur baad mein Google karna
- Purane documents padhna, taaki wo seekh lein jo baaqi sabko pehle se pata lagta hai
- Intezaar karna ki koi samjhayega, aur phir chupchaap ummeed chhod dena
- Har chhote jawab ko aise padhna jaise aap bojh hon
- Un baaton ki ek nijee list rakhna jo kisi ne batayi nahi
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Laptop nahi, login nahi, plan nahi
Jaipur mein nayi job ka pehla din. Laptop abhi nahi mila, login nahi, koi plan nahi. Manager din bhar meeting mein hain. Koi aapko ek desk dikhakar kehta hai, “Baith jaiye, dheere-dheere log mil jayenge.” Aap website padhte ho, phir dobara padhte ho. Chaar baje tak aapko bekaar aur thoda bewakoof lagne lagta hai, aur lagta hai ki kya sach mein kisi ko aapka intezaar tha.
Naye logon ko theek shuruaat mile
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Naye aaye insaan ko theek se shuruaat milni chahiye.” Ye bilkul vaajib lagta hai, aur achhi shuruaat sabke kaam aati hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: nayi jagah mein aapka bharosa is baat se bandh jaata hai ki doosre kitne saleeqe wale hain. Aap ye kaam kar paoge ya nahi, iska ehsaas us swagat par tik jaata hai jo aise kaarano se adhoora ho sakta hai jinka aapse koi lena-dena nahi.
Shuruaatein nazuk kyun lagti hain
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki shuruaatein nazuk lagti hain aur achhi shuruaat hifaazat jaisi. Shayad aap har nayi cheez ki taiyaari bade dhyaan se karte ho, aur doosron se bhi wahi ummeed rakhte ho. Shayad aapko koi naya school ya naya shehar yaad hai jahan kisi ne raasta nahi dikhaya. Jo bhi ho, theek shuruaat chaahna zyada nahi hai. Ye achha karne ki chaahat se aati hai, aur use narmi chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Pehle hafte mein chunaav par shak
Har bikhra hua pehla hafta aatmavishwas ka thoda hissa le jaata hai. Aap apne chunaav par shak karne lagte ho. Har sawaal poochhte hue jhijhak hoti hai. Desk par chupchaap baithe rehte ho, koshish karte hue ki khoye hue na dikhein. Dheere-dheere wo utsaah jiske saath aap aaye the, fikar mein badal jaata hai, aur aap apne ko is par taulne lagte ho ki kitna kam kiya, jabki aur karne ke saadhan kisi ne diye hi nahi.
Kya perfect shuruaat ki raah laayak hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya theek shuruaat ki raah dekhne se kabhi pehle hafte aasaan hue? Ya zyada-tar bas apne par shak hi badha? Kai daftar bas busy aur bartarteeb hote hain, aur naye log bina kisi ke chahe daraaron mein gir jaate hain. Jo bhi ho, gadbad swagat aapki kaabiliyat ka paimana nahi hai. Is niyam ko itni kasakar pakde rehna aapko jitna deta hai, usse zyada le leta hai.
Apna raasta khud khojna
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki achhe swagat ki qadar kam ho jaye. Matlab ye ki aapka bharosa ab usi par tika na rahe. Aap apna raasta khud khoj sakte ho, dheere-dheere, tukdon mein: naam seekhna, chai ki jagah dhoondhna, seedhe-saade sawaal poochhna. Yahin kuch sukoon lautta hai: gadbad shuruaat bas ek gadbad shuruaat hai, aur job phir bhi aapki ban sakti hai.
Threats, shouting, harassment, humiliation, being singled out for who you are, pay or papers held back, or being frightened at work, are something else, and worth taking seriously; staying careful can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleOffice mein naye insaan ko theek se shuruaat milni chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleGadbad shuruaat bas shuruaat hai. Raasta dheere-dheere milta hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Is hafte nayi jagah par teen logon ke naam seekhiye
- Din 2
Har din ke ant mein ek seekhi hui cheez sochiye
- Din 3
Khoya-khoya lagne par khud se narmi rakhiye, ye aam baat hai
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aakhri baar kab kisi nayi jagah par apnapan mehsoos hua, aur wo kaise hua?”
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Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Wo teen akshar jo kisi ne samjhaye nahi #
Jaipur ke naye office mein gyarahve din meeting chal rahi hai. Teen aksharon ka ek shabd aise bola jaata hai jaise sabko pata ho. Chehre par vinamra-si muskaan hai, aur uske neeche vaakya ban jaata hai: “Naye aaye insaan ko theek se shuruaat milni chahiye.”
Kuch logon ki chaahat ye hoti hai ki shuru ke hafton mein koi sambhal le: ek naksha, poochhne ke liye ek shakhs, dheemi-si chadhaai. Ye chhoti maang lag sakti hai, phir bhi poore mausam ka ehsaas isi se ban jaata hai.
Aakhri baar kab kuch naya shuru kiya aur sachmuch apnapan mila?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us waqt kisne kya kiya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Muskaan aage, dimaag peeche #
Kuch log dekhte hain ki chehre par ek khili-khili, madadgaar-si shakl aa jaati hai aur pet mein kuch dheere se baith jaata hai. Kuch ko paslion ke peeche dhukdhuki lagti hai, aur sir hilne ka ishaara ek pal pehle hi ho jaata hai.
Body soch banne se pehle bol deti hai: kalam khatkhatana, hatheli pant se ponchhna, darwaze ki taraf ek nazar. Kahani ka saleeqedaar roop to raat ko khaane ki table par banta hai.
Aakhri baar jab office mein kuch samajh nahi aaya, to poochhne ya na poochhne ka faisla karne se pehle aapki body ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Shuruaat aage ka rang tay karti hai #
Theek shuruaat ki ummeed samajh mein aati hai. Pehle hafton mein hi insaan jagah ki boli, raaste aur bina likhi aadatein seekhta hai, aur thodi rehnumaai ho to ye sab aasaan ho jaata hai.
Barson kisi jagah rehne ke baad use bahar se dekhna bahut mushkil ho jaata hai. Jo log use achhi tarah jaante hain, wo bhool jaate hain ki pehle din kitni chhoti-chhoti baatein chahiye thin, aur koi unhein zor se kehne ki sochta bhi nahi.
Agar aap apne liye pehla hafta khud banate, to usme kya-kya hota, ekdam shuru se?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo ankahi baatein ginti hai #
“Kisi ne bataya hi nahi.” “Sabko to pata hai.” “Iske liye koi guide to hoga hi.” Ye awaaz pehle mahine mein bolti hai, aksar tab jab aap screen par kuch padhne ka dikhawa kar rahe hon.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki awaaz aadhi chhooti hui jaankari ke baare mein hai aur aadhi is baare mein ki koi ishaara mile ki naye aaye ki raah dekhi ja rahi thi, uska intezaam kiya gaya tha, wo bojh nahi hai.
Jab ye awaaz ankahi baatein ginti hai, to kaun si baat sabse zyada chubhti hai, aur usse aapko kya chahiye tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Apnapan wali shuruaat ki tasveer kahan se aayi #
Kuch logon ke liye ye kisi jagah ke pehle din se shuru hui jahan sab achhe se hua: desk par naam ki parchi, saath ka lunch, aur ek hafte tak saath chalne wala koi senior. Aisa ek swagat baad ki har shuruaat ki tasveer bana deta hai.
Kuch ke liye ye ghar se aati hai: Nani jo dhyaan rakhti thin ki khaane par aane wale har naye mehmaan ke liye jagah aur thaali ho. Kai gharon mein naye aaye ki dekhbhaal hi dastoor hota tha.
Kisi nayi jagah par sabse pehle kisne aapko apna-sa mehsoos karaya, aur unhone aisa kaise kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Samjhane wale ke baare mein niyam #
Andar kahin ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Achhi jagah naye logon ka dhyaan rakhti hai,” ya “Main nayi jagah par hoon to koi mujhe dikhaye.” Pehla vaakya wo hai jo sunai deta hai; neeche wala niyam tay karta hai ki har ankahi baat ka matlab kya nikala jayega.
Aise niyam bhalmansahat se bante hain, aur uski izzat ki ja sakti hai. Inhein is jagah ke saath rakhkar dekha ja sakta hai, jaisi ye aaj hai: bhaagdaud wale season ke saath, aur un logon ke saath jo itne busy hain ki naya hona kaisa lagta hai, bhool chuke hain.
Ho sakta hai ye purane saalon se aaya ho, ya isi office se.
“Koi dikhaye” wala niyam yahan kahan ab bhi baithta hai, aur kahan ye jagah bas un aadaton par chalti hai jo kisi ne likhi nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Khurdari shuruaat ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai wo shaamein jo us sab ko pakadne mein gayin jo din maankar chala tha, ek sawaal jo poochha nahi gaya kyunki pichhle ka jawab rukha tha, ek galti jo sabke saamne hui aur jise saamaanya lagne mein hafta laga. Chhoti baatein, aur Friday tak jud jaati hain.
Khud seekhna dheere-dheere ek chup pariksha jaisa lagne lagta hai. Kuch seekh lene ki khushi par galat karne ka darr bhaari padta hai, ki koi dekh raha hoga, aur isme bahut dhyaan lag jaata hai.
Pichhle kuch mahino mein kaam ki kaun si cheez aapne achhe se seekhi, aur usme sabse zyada kisne ya kis cheez ne madad ki?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Andaaze se seekhte agle paanch saal #
Ek aam Monday sochiye, us din ka jab “Naye aaye insaan ko theek se shuruaat milni chahiye” zor se baj raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ke liye ek tasveer hai.
Shayad wo shabd seedha-sa nikle, koi saathi us par muskura de, dopahar kuch kaam ka nipatate beete, aur ghar ka raasta halka rahe.
Isme kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi, aur tasveer ko jab chahein hataya ja sakta hai.
Usme kya hai: koi shabd jo kisi ne samjhaya nahi, ek shishta-sa sir hilana, desk ke neeche jaldi se ek khoj?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Monday mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Usme aapko, agar kuch hai, to kya nazar aata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Shuruaat, doosri taraf se #
“Theek shuruaat” ka matlab ho sakta hai koi saath chalne wala, pehle hafte ka ek plan, poochhne ke liye ek shakhs, ya bas itna ki kaun kya karta hai uski list. Har ek alag aur chhoti ummeed hai, aur inmein se kuch wahan bhi mil jaati hain jahan poori cheez nahi milti.
Jo log barson se ek jagah kaam karte hain, unhein aksar yaad nahi rehta ki kaun si baatein kabhi likhi hi nahi gayin, aur kuch log seedha sawaal poochhe jaane par khush bhi hote hain. Jahan sab busy hon, wahan bhi ye ho sakta hai. Isme kisi ke seekhne ki raftaar ke baare mein kuch nahi kaha gaya hai.
Agar “theek shuruaat” ko ek hi cheez banna ho jo aap kal kisi saathi se maang sakein, to wo kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jo jagah pehle se de rahi hai #
Patli-si shuruaat ke saath-saath kuch chhote swagat bhi aaye honge: koi senior jisne bataya ki achhi chai kahan milti hai, koi jo rukkar system samjha gaya, ek message jisme likha tha “Atak jao to awaaz maar dena.”
Inmein se kisi ko dekh lene se bhari-poori shuruaat ki chaahat kam nahi hoti. Dono ko kamre se bahar bhejne ki zaroorat nahi hai.
Iska jawab chupchaap aane dijiye.
Is jagah ko kisne aapke liye aasaan banaya hai, aur kya aap unka kiya thoda aur dekhna chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Shuruaat jaisi bhi rahi #
Sulah ka matlab ho sakta hai ki jo shuruaat mili, uski chhaya baad ke hafton par na pade. Jo jaayaz hai wo reh sakta hai: theek shuruaat ki chaahat, aur ye chaahat ki sawaal poochhna swagat jaisa ho.
Ye ummeed ek cheez hai. Kaam par dhamki, pareshaan karna ya beizzati, ya aapko aapki pehchaan ki wajah se alag nishana banana (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi disability ya aap kahan se aaye ho), bilkul doosri baat hai, aur use gambhirta se lena chahiye.
Bina paise ka kaam karwana, salary ya kaagzaat rok lena, asurakshit kaam aur darr lagna bhi aise hi hain. Saath chalte rehna ya savdhaan rehna surakshit raasta ho sakta hai.
Kaam par buniyaadi izzat aur suraksha “zyada ummeed” kabhi nahi hoti, aapke liye bhi aur unke liye bhi. Ek aam subah sochiye, jab ye ummeed zara dheeli pakdi ho.
Pehle hafte ki fikar peeche chhoot jaye to is jagah mein aapko kya nazar aayega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Naye-dinon wala zyada sachcha vaakya #
“Naye aaye insaan ko theek se shuruaat milni chahiye” ke bagal mein kuch log aisa vaakya taiyaar rakhte hain: “Mujhe narm shuruaat ki aas thi, aur tab se maine bahut kuch seekha hai.” Use jeetna nahi hai, bas purane vaakya ke bagal mein khada hona hai.
Aisa vaakya shuru mein udhaar ka lag sakta hai aur istemaal se apna ho jaata hai. Kuch logon ko apne seedhe shabd zyada jamte hain, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein zyada sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo aas ke baare mein imaandaar ho aur jise jagah ko apna pehla mahina badalne ki zaroorat na pade?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Pehla mahina rakh diya ja sakta hai #
Har khurdari shuruaat par faisla sunana zaroori nahi. Ise dekha ja sakta hai, mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur purane I-card ki tarah drawer mein rakha ja sakta hai: zaroorat ho to wahin hai, gale mein latka nahi hai.
Theek shuruaat ki chaahat jab tak chahein nijee reh sakti hai. Isme dhamki, pareshaan karna, beizzati, pehchaan ki wajah se alag nishana banna, bina paise ka kaam, salary ya kaagzaat rokna, asurakshit kaam ya darr shaamil nahi hain. Unhein gambhirta se lena chahiye, aur savdhaan rehna surakshit raasta ho sakta hai.
Aaj raat ise rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki ye theek tha, ya ki baat tay ho gayi. Bas itna ki aaj ki shaam ko faisla sunane ki zaroorat nahi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar pakad zara dheeli hoti #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ummeed ek paydaan shaant hai. Theek shuruaat ki chaahat ab bhi hai, aur anjaana shabd dhoondh liya gaya hai aur agle aane wale ke liye yaad rakha gaya hai.
Ho sakta hai koi sawaal kam gaanth ke saath poochha jaye, ya subah desk ke neeche khojne ke bina shuru ho.
Isme kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi uthe wo aapka dekhne ke liye hai. Aage, ye dekhna ki is ummeed se sulah ka kya matlab ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti baat kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmaate hain #
- Ek baat ginie jo ab aapko pata hai aur pehle hafte mein nahi pata thi
- Chahe jo pehla hafta aap chahte, use kuch panktiyon mein sochiye
- Kisi aise saathi ko yaad kijiye jisse poochhna aasaan hai, aur wo ise aasaan kaise banata hai
- Dekhiye ki kaun zyada tez hai, gayab guide ya pakka hone ki chaahat
- Sochiye ki kisi naye aane wale ko uski pehli subah aap kya kahoge
Chhote, nijee aur optional. Jo ho sake, wahi aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aakhri baar kab kisi nayi jagah par apnapan mehsoos hua, aur wo kaise hua?
- Kaam mein aapne aisa kya seekha hai jis par chupchaap khushi hoti hai?
- Nayi jagah ko pehli baar apna ghar-sa kisne banaya?
- Agar theek shuruaat ki chaahat zara dheeli padti, to sabse pehle aapko kya nazar aata?
- Yahan kisne aapke din pehle se aasaan kiye hain, aur aapko ye kaise pata chalta hai?