Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Jab nayi shuruaat dheemi ho, chhoti chookon aur uljhe dinon se bhari ho, to lag sakta hai ki faisla hi galat tha.
Kuch log ise un kahaniyon tak le ja sakte hain jinme koi shehar ya career badalta hai aur hafton mein paanv jama leta dikhta hai.
Shabdon ke neeche ek niyam rehta hai: “Agar main qaabil hoon, to nayi cheezein jaldi aani chahiye,” ya “Dheema hone ka matlab hai maine galat chuna.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Apne pehle mahine ki tulna doosron ke pehle salon se karna
- Pakadne ke liye har raat der tak kaam karna
- Purani dincharya ki ummeed se zyada yaad aana
- Koi haal poochhe to chhipa lena ki kitna kathin chal raha hai
- Ghar lautte hue har chhoti chook ko kuredna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Chhe mahine baad, anakhule dibbe
Pune mein naye sire se shuru karte chhe mahine ho gaye. Naya flat, naya kaam, nayi dincharya. Socha tha ab tak aasaan lagne lagega. Aaj raat farsh par, anakhule dibbon ke beech, patile se hi Maggi khayi ja rahi hai, aur baaki bacha saara kaam ek lehar ki tarah upar aa jaata hai. Thakaan aisi ki neend use theek nahi karti. Pal chhota hai, par tik jaata hai.
Nayi shuruaat aasaan honi chahiye
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Naye sire se shuruaat itni mushkil nahi honi chahiye.” Ye sahi lagta hai. Shuruaat karne ka kathin hissa toh ho chuka. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har dheeme hafte ko nakaami bana deta hai. Agar aasaan hona chahiye, to ab bhi joojhne ka matlab sab galat ho raha hai, aur har kathin din par doosra bojh chadh jaata hai.
Himmat ka phal jaldi kyun chahiye
Hum ise isliye thaamte hain kyunki ummeed rehti hai ki himmat bhare faislon ka phal jaldi milega. Bahut-se log bade hote-hote is niyam ka koi roop seekh lete hain, aur us waqt ye aksar theek bhi laga. Shayad ye nayi shuruaat barson socha gayi. Shayad aas-paas sabko yaqeen tha ki sab jam jaayega. Har haal mein aasaan ki ummeed bholapan nahi hai. Wo kathin hissa khatam hone ki chaah se aati hai. Use dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Dheeme hafton ki nirasha
Har dheema hafta thodi nirasha jodta hai. Ye dheere-dheere hota hai, isliye dikhta kam hai. Tulna unse hoti hai jo jaldi jam gaye lagte hain. Sawaal uthta hai ki chunav sahi tha ya nahi. Dibbe anakhule rehte hain, aur kuch ummeedein bhi. Jo shuruaat bahaduri lagi thi, bhaari lagne lagti hai, aur kuch shaamein lambi, chup.
Kya aasaan roop ka intezaar theek hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya aasaan hone ki ummeed ne kabhi use aasaan kiya? Ya zyadatar har kathin din ko nakaami jaisa banaya? Naye sire se shuru karne ka koi tay waqt nahi, aur lagbhag har kisi ko ye kathin lagta hai. Har haal mein ek dheema hafta aapki nayi shuruaat ka maap nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna iski keemat ke layak hai?
Ek baar mein ek chhota qadam
Chhodne ka matlab ye dikhana nahi ki sab aasaan hai. Matlab ye ki ek kathin hafte ka ye matlab nikalna zaroori nahi ki kuch galat hai. Ek dibba khola ja sakta hai, ek dhang ka khana ban sakta hai, nayi galiyon mein ek chakkar lag sakta hai. Chhote se shuru ho sakta hai, ek pal mein ek. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: nayi zindagi apni raftaar se badh sakti hai, aur har chhota qadam gina jaata hai.
If you started over to get away from someone who frightened, hurt or controlled you, that is something else, and worth taking seriously; staying safe comes first. If it came after a loss, go gently.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleNaye sire se shuruaat itni mushkil nahi honi chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMushkil hai, aur chal raha hai, ek baar mein ek chhota qadam.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Bas ek dibba kholiye
- Din 2
Nayi galiyon mein ek chakkar lagaiye
- Din 3
Apni pasand ka ek saada khana banaiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Naye sire se shuru karne ki himmat kis baat se mili?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Adtees ki umar mein phir shuruaat #
Ek hi line mein barah saal, aur ab nayi. Course ki class mein aapse aadhi umar ke log hain jo cheezein jaldi pakad lete hain. Pune ki buson ke route ab bhi uljha dete hain. Shaam-dar-shaam wahi khayal: “Naye sire se shuruaat itni mushkil nahi honi chahiye.”
Ye naya career ho sakta hai, naya shehar, ya kuch khatam hone ke baad dobara banti zindagi. Beech ka raasta dheema hota hai. Agar ye nayi shuruaat kisi nuksaan ke baad aayi, ya kisi se darr ke baad, to wo is deck se badi baat hai; narmi se chaliye, aur koi bharose ka insaan use sun sakta hai.
Aapki nayi shuruaat mein aisi kaun-si ek cheez hai jo ab aati hai aur shuruaat mein nahi aati thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Phir se naye hone ka bhaaripan #
Kuch logon ko baahon aur taangon mein bhaaripan lagta hai, jaise har kaam dugni mehnat maange. Kuch ko ek buniyaadi sawaal poochne par sharm ki garm lehar aati hai, un barson ke baad jab baaki sab unhin se poochte the.
Bade hokar naya hona bachpan ke nayepan se ajeeb lag sakta hai. Sharir ko qaabil hona yaad hai, aur ye dheemapan us yaad se mel nahi khata.
Apni nayi shuruaat mein aakhri baar jab shuruaati-sa feel hua, tab kaisa ehsaas tha, aur kab aaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Himmat ke badle aasaani ki chaah #
Ye ummeed poori tarah samajh aati hai. Naye sire se shuru karne mein himmat lagti hai. Jaana-pehchana chhodna hi kaafi mushkil hai. Ye sochna swaabhaavik hai ki bahaduri wala hissa sabse kathin tha, aur aage sab behta jaayega.
Jab nayi shuruaat dheemi ho, chhoti chookon aur uljhe dinon se bhari ho, to lag sakta hai ki faisla hi galat tha. Ye shuru karne ki aam mehnat ke upar ek doosra bojh jod deta hai.
Naye sire se shuru karne ki himmat aapko kahan se mili, aur sabse zyada kis baat ki ummeed thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Purani zindagi ki awaaz #
“Pehle toh mujhe sab aata tha.” “Baaki sabko ye jaldi samajh aata hai.” “Shayad maine galat faisla liya.” Ye awaaz aksar naye, dheeme insaan ki tulna purane, maahir insaan se karti hai, aur naya hamesha haar jaata hai.
Ye gaur karne mein madad kar sakta hai ki awaaz bhool jaati hai ki purane hunar banne mein kitna waqt laga tha. Use bas taiyaar roop yaad hai, pehle ke shuruaati baras nahi.
Aapke purane hunar seekhne mein kitna waqt laga tha, ye purani zindagi ki awaaz ko kya yaad nahi rehta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Jhatpat nayi shuruaat ki tasveer kahan se aayi #
Kuch log ise un kahaniyon tak le ja sakte hain jinme koi shehar ya career badalta hai aur hafton mein paanv jama leta dikhta hai. Kuch ke liye ye apni kam umar se aaya, jab har nayi cheez jaldi seekh li jaati thi.
Films aur posts aksar beech ka hissa chhod dete hain. Wo faisla dikhate hain, phir kaamyabi, beech ke lambe dheeme, bhatke, thake mahine shayad hi.
Kiski nayi shuruaat ki kahani ne aapki tasveer banayi, aur aapko kya lagta hai uske kaun-se hisse chhoot gaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Naye sire se shuru karne ka niyam #
Shabdon ke neeche ek niyam rehta hai: “Agar main qaabil hoon, to nayi cheezein jaldi aani chahiye,” ya “Dheema hone ka matlab hai maine galat chuna.” Ye niyam samajh aata hai. Saath hi ye aam dheemepan ko poore chunav par faisla bana deta hai.
Kuch log ise school tak dhoondhte hain, jahan tez hone ki tareef hoti thi; kuch us job tak jahan aapko sab aata maana jaata tha. Kahin se bhi aaya ho, use narmi se dekha ja sakta hai.
Tez shuruaat wala ye niyam aapko kahan chalte rehne ki taaqat deta hai, aur kahan har dheeme hafte ko nakaami jaisa bana deta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Aasaani ki ummeed ki keemat #
Chhoti jeetein kisi ki nazar mein aaye bina nikal jaati hain kyunki abhi badi nahi hain. Shaamein aaram ki jagah fikr mein jaati hain. Nayi shuruaat ko badhne ka theek mauqa milne se pehle hi parakh liya jaata hai.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki jaldi hone ka dabaav unhe aur dheema kar deta hai: sawaal poochne ke liye bahut tanaav, abhyas ke liye bahut thakaan, kuch naya maze se dekhne ke liye tulna mein bahut vyast.
Aapki nayi shuruaat mein kaun-sa chhota qadam aapne anadekha kar diya, kyunki wo gine jaane layak bada nahi laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Pehla mahina, doosron ka paanchva saal #
Nayi shuruaat ki ek aam shaam lijiye, jab “Naye sire se shuruaat aasaan honi chahiye” zor se baj rahi ho. Course ke notes, naya shehar, purane colleagues ki khabron wala phone. Isme kuch bhi theek karne ko nahi.
Shayad pehle mahine ki tulna doosron ke pehle salon se ho rahi hai, notes khule hain, ek chhoti chook baar-baar chal rahi hai, shaam bhaari hoti ja rahi hai.
Sirf ek shaam, bhavishyavaani nahi, aur usse jab chahein hata ja sakta hai.
Us shaam mein aur kya bhara hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Wahan aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Apne kaam mein hum waqt kam aankte hain #
Zyadatar log apne projects is tarah plan karte hain maano sab aasaani se chalega, isliye hamari samay-seemayein aksar bahut tang hoti hain. Naye sire se shuru karna bada project hai. Isme aksar mann ki tasveer se zyada waqt lagta hai.
Pichhli baar kuch kitna lamba chala tha, ye dekhna aksar behtar raah dikhata hai. Aapke purane hunar barson mein bane the, hafton mein nahi. Isse dheema beech ka raasta aasaan nahi ho jaata, par shayad use faisla kam bana de.
Pichhli baar jo koi badi cheez seekhi thi, use sahaj lagne mein asal mein kitna waqt laga tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Shuruaat se ab tak kya uga hai #
Shayad jitna lagta hai usse zyada hai: nayi bhasha ka wo shabd jo bina soche aa jaata hai, wo route jise ab map ki zaroorat nahi, wo colleague jo ab aapse sawaal poochta hai, wo hunar jo ek mahine pehle rahasya tha.
Ye nayi shuruaat ko aasaan nahi banate. Ye bas hain, chupchaap badh rahe hain, aur aksar chhoot jaate hain kyunki agli kathin cheez hamesha saamne rehti hai.
Ab aisi kaun-si baat ho jaati hai jo ek-do mahine pehle nahi hoti thi, aur wo aasaan kaise hui?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Dheemi rehne ki chhoot wali nayi shuruaat #
Ye nayi shuruaat chhod dene ya ye tay kar lene ki baat nahi ki chunav galat tha. Uske aasaan hone ki chaah jaayaz hai. Matlab ye ki dheemepan ko nakaami ki tarah padhna band ho.
Izzat aur suraksha chaahna kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi hoti, aapke liye ya kisi ke liye. Naye hone par mazaak udna, lehje ya naam par nishaana banna, logon se kaat diya jaana, paison se qaabu mein rakha jaana ya daraya jaana kuch aur hai; use gambhirta se lena chahiye, aur saavdhaani surakshit chunav ho sakti hai.
Agar shuruaat usse door jaane ki thi jo daraata ya qaabu mein rakhta tha, to wapas lautne ke khinchaav ko gambhirta se lena chahiye, kisi aise ke saath jo is baare mein jaanta ho. Agar ye kisi nuksaan ke baad aayi, to narmi se chaliye; koi bharose ka insaan use sun sakta hai.
Ek mushkil hafte ke ant ki tasveer banaiye, jisme ye ummeed zara dheeli pakdi hai: kaun-si ek chhoti cheez taraqqi mein gini jaa sakti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Dheeme beech ke liye ek pankti #
“Naye sire se shuruaat itni mushkil nahi honi chahiye” ke bagal mein kuch log doosri pankti rakhte hain: “Nayi shuruaat dheemi hoti hai, aur dheema bhi chalna hi hai.” Ye kisi ko badalne ke liye nahi hai.
Chookon wale din ye bahut saada lag sakta hai. Kuch log apni pankti pasand karte hain, shayad apni pehli bhasha mein.
Aapki apni sachchi pankti kya hogi, jo is baare mein imaandaar ho ki kitna kathin hai aur phir bhi gine ki kitna raasta poora hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Mushkil hafta shelf par aaram kar sakta hai #
Har dheeme hafte ka aaj raat faisla hona zaroori nahi. Use ek pal feel karke shelf par rakha ja sakta hai, jaise bookmark lagi band kitaab.
Aasaan shuruaat ki ummeed aapki reh sakti hai. Nayi jagah par mazaak banna ya qaabu mein rakha jaana alag shreni hai, jise gambhirta se lena chahiye.
Aaj raat kitaab band karne ka matlab ye nahi ki shuruaat achhi chal rahi hai ya buri, aur isse kuch tay nahi hota. Bas itna ki aaj ki raat aaram ki ho sakti hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar dheeme beech ki ginti ho #
Bas ek pal ke liye sochiye, wahi shaam, ummeed zara halki. Tulna ab bhi hoti hai, phir wo baatein gini jaati hain jo ek mahine pehle pata nahi thin.
Shayad bas chhoti cheezein: ummeed se lambi ek list, kathin hafte par thoda-sa garv, behtar neend wali ek raat.
Kisi aur ko ye tasveer dekhne ki zaroorat nahi. Aage do cards hain: ek sulah par, ek is par ki pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya khisakta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Inmein se kaun-si aapko sabse apni lagti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Nayi shuruaat ke liye chhoti baatein #
- Hafte ke aakhir mein ek aisi cheez sochiye jo shuruaat se aasaan ho gayi hai
- Yaad kijiye ki koi purana hunar seekhne mein kitna waqt laga tha
- Jab dheemapan chubhe, us ehsaas ke liye ek saada shabd dhoondhiye
- Khud ko doosron se nahi, apne pichhle mahine se taulaiye
- Nayi zindagi mein ek kaam bas isliye kijiye ki wo pasand hai
Zaroorat lage to ek aazmaiye. Ye bas sujhaav hain.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Naye sire se shuru karne ki himmat kis baat se mili?
- Nayi shuruaat mein aapka sabse zyada saath kisne diya, aur kaise?
- Nayi shuruaat mein aisa kya seekhne ko mila jisne hairaan kiya?
- Agar dheema hona kam chubhta, to is daur ki kaun-si baat achhi lagti?
- Ab aisa kya ho jaata hai jo shuruaat mein nahi hota tha?