Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Naam, system aur alikhit aadatein ek saath seekhna thaka deta hai, aur ek dostana chehra din ka kaafi bojh halka kar sakta hai.
Kuch logon ke liye ye school se shuru hui, nayi class ke pehle din se, aur us bachche se jisne bench par jagah banakar baithne ko kaha.
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Achhi jagah hogi to apnapan denge,” ya “Bhale log naye aaye ka dhyaan rakhte hain.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Khoob mehnati aur saath kaam karne mein aasaan dikhne ki koshish karna
- Har baat par haan keh dena, taaki mushkil na lagein
- Har rookhe pal ko anchaahe hone ka sanket maan lena
- Kam sawaal poochhna, ki kahin kamzori na lage
- Gaur karna ki kaun kisse baat karta hai, aur kahan doori hai
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Desk par pehla khamosh hafta
Noida ke naye daftar mein aapka pehla hafta. Aap apni mez par ho, aur team kisi weekend trip ki baat kar rahi hai jismein aap nahi the. Pehle din kisi ne kitchen dikha diya tha, bas. Ek baje doosri mezon par tiffin khulte hain aur aap phone mein padhne ka bahana karke akele khaate ho. Ghar lautte hue sochte ho ki purani naukri chhodna kahin galat toh nahi tha, aur shehar bahut bada lagta hai.
Naye insaan ko apnapan milna chahiye
Andar ek niyam baitha hai: “Nayi jagah par naye insaan ko apnapan milna chahiye.” Ye seedhi-si bhalmansahat lagti hai, aur hota toh achha lagta. Par dekhiye ye kya karta hai: aapke pehle hafte doosron ke dhyaan ke hawale kar deta hai. Aapko apna-sa lagega ya nahi, ye ab is par tik gaya ki kise “hello” yaad rehta hai, us busy daftar mein jahan sab apne din ki bhaagdaud mein hain.
Naya hona itna khula kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki naya hona khula hua-sa lagta hai, aur garm swagat hifazat jaisa. Shayad aapko koi naya school yaad hai jahan shuru mein kisi ne baat nahi ki. Shayad aap khud hamesha naye logon ko apnane mein aage rahe aur chahte the ki wahi lautkar aapko mile. Jo bhi ho, swagat ki chaah kamzori nahi hai. Ye apna banne ki chaah hai. Ise narmi milni chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Nayi jagah ka har khamosh din
Nayi jagah ka har khamosh din agle ko bhaari bana deta hai. Aap har band toli ko band darwaza samajhne lagte ho. Baatcheet mein shamil hone ki koshish chhod dete ho. Is naukri ki tulna purani se karte ho, jahan log aapka naam jaante the. Dheere-dheere aap apne hi daftar mein mehmaan jaise lagne lagte ho, aur jis nayi shuruaat ko lekar utsaah tha, wo akeli aur bojhil lagne lagti hai.
Kya swagat ka intezaar vajib hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochhiye: kya unke swagat ka intezaar karne se kabhi pehle hafte aasaan hue? Ya zyadatar akele hi lage? Log aksar apne kaam mein doobe hote hain, ya nahi jaante ki naye ko kaise shamil karein, ya khud sankochi hote hain. Jo bhi ho, ek khamosh pehla hafta iska paimana nahi ki aap kitna ghul-mil sakte ho. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna aapko deta kam hai, leta zyada hai.
Apnapan, ek namaste se shuru
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aap garm swagat ki chaah karna chhod dein. Iska matlab hai ki aapka apnapan ab doosron ke shuru karne ka intezaar nahi karta. Aap apne chhote-chhote kadam le sakte ho, ek namaste, ek sawaal, ek saajhi hansi, aur dosti ko dheere-dheere ugne dein. Yahin thoda sukoon lautta hai: nayi jagah thoda-thoda karke, apni raftaar se, apni ban sakti hai.
Threats, shouting, harassment, humiliation, being singled out for who you are, pay or papers held back, or being frightened at work, are something else, and worth taking seriously; staying careful can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleKaam ki jagah par logon ko naye insaan ka swagat karna chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleApnapan dheere-dheere ugta hai, ek namaste se.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Daftar mein koi ek jagah chunein jo aapko achhi lage
- Din 2
Aaj koi muskuraye to jawab mein muskurayein
- Din 3
Ab tak ki nayi naukri ki ek achhi baat sochein
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kaun si nayi jagah par sabse jaldi ghar jaisa laga, aur unhone kya kiya?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Pehla Monday aur gale mein naya ID-card #
ID-card naya hai, login ab bhi aadha-adhoora chal raha hai, aur Noida ke is daftar mein aaspaas sabke paas aisa cup hai jaise barson se usi jagah rakha ho. Pehli subah mein hi kahin ye baat utarti hai: “Nayi jagah par naye insaan ko apnapan milna chahiye.”
Kuch logon ki chaah seedhi aur bhali hoti hai: ek naam yaad rakha jaye, printer kahan hai ye dikha diya jaye, aur koi keh de “Koi dikkat ho to bataiyega.” Nayi jagah aisi lag sakti hai jaise wo zubaan baaki sab pehle se bolte hon.
Aakhri baar aap kahin naye pahunche aur jaldi apna-sa laga, to wahan ke logon ne kya kiya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Naye galiyare mein ruki hui saans #
Kuch log naye daftar mein ghuste hue saans rok lete hain, ek sambhli-si muskaan, aur kandhe zara upar. Kuch ko ek utsaah bhara tanaav hota hai, jaise pehla hafta koi imtihaan ho jiske number nahi milenge.
Sochne se pehle hi body chhote ishaare pakad leti hai: khula chhoda gaya darwaza, pyaar se bola gaya naam, koi baatcheet jo ruk jaye ya chalti rahe. In ishaaron ka matlab chhaantna aksar shaam ko hota hai.
Kisi nayi jagah ke pehle dinon mein aapne mahaul ko body mein sabse pehle kahan mehsoos kiya, isse pehle ki mann ne bataya ki iska kya matlab hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Achhi shuruaat mayne rakhti hai #
Garmjoshi bhare swagat ki ummeed samajh mein aati hai. Naukri ke pehle hafte us jagah ki pehli tasveer banate hain, aur shuru mein hui ek chhoti-si bhalmansahat mahinon tak tay kar sakti hai ki sawaal poochhna kitna surakshit lage.
Naye pan mein taaqat bhi lagti hai. Naam, system aur alikhit aadatein ek saath seekhna thaka deta hai, aur ek dostana chehra din ka kaafi bojh halka kar sakta hai.
Aapke ateet mein kisi jagah achha swagat seedhe shabdon mein kaisa tha, aur use kisne diya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Swagat naapne wali awaaz #
“Ab tak kisi ne hello bhi nahi kaha.” “Sab ek-doosre ko pehle se jaante hain.” “Shayad mujhe hi pehle kuch bolna chahiye tha.” Ye awaaz aksar chai ki machine ke paas ya lunch ke pehle shaant minuton mein bolti hai.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki awaaz aadhi logon ke baare mein hoti hai aur aadhi is pakka karne ki chaah ke baare mein ki nayi jagah chunna theek raha. Wo ek ishaara chahti hai ki sahi darwaza khula tha.
Jab awaaz swagat naapti hai to kis line par baar-baar lautati hai, aur kya chahti hai ki koi kahe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Swagat ki tasveer kahan se aayi #
Kuch logon ke liye ye school se shuru hui, nayi class ke pehle din se, aur us bachche se jisne bench par jagah banakar baithne ko kaha. Aisa ek insaan umra bhar ke liye tay kar sakta hai ki naye aaye ke saath kaisa salook hona chahiye.
Kuch ke liye ye ghar se aayi: mehmaan ka darwaze par swagat, sawaal se pehle chai aur baithne ki jagah, “Pehle paani, phir baat.” Kai parivaron mein naye aaye ko apnana lagbhag fakhr ki baat thi.
Nayi jagah, chahe class ho, gali ho ya daftar, sabse pehle kisne aapka swagat kiya, aur unke kiye ki kaun si baat aapko yaad hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Swagat karne ka niyam #
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Achhi jagah hogi to apnapan denge,” ya “Bhale log naye aaye ka dhyaan rakhte hain.” Pehla vaakya wo hai jo sunayi deta hai; neeche wala niyam tay karta hai ki har khamosh galiyare ka kya matlab nikala jaye.
Aise niyam bhalmansahat se ugte hain, jo qadar ke qaabil hai. Inhein is daftar ke saath rakhkar dekha ja sakta hai, jaisa wo sach mein hai: koi team busy bhi hai aur garmjosh bhi, koi busy hai aur zara apne mein simti.
Ho sakta hai ye purane saalon se aaya ho, ya naya ho.
Swagat wala niyam is jagah par kahan ab bhi baithta hai, aur kahan kisi busy team se mann padhne ki maang karta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Rookhi shuruaat ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai ghadi dekhte hue guzra lunch, ek hafte tak na poochha gaya sawaal, aur ghar par shaam din ko ishaaron ke liye dohrati hui. Chhoti baatein, jo agli subah tak saath chalti hain.
Pehle mahinon mein anishchit shuruaat sab par rang chadha sakti hai. Kaam theek chal raha ho tab bhi wo asthayi lag sakta hai, jaise jagah ne ab tak aapko rakhne ki haami na bhari ho.
Pichhle kuch hafton mein daftar ka kaun sa pal sabse zyada apna laga, aur usmein kya ho raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Pehle hafte ke ehsaas ke paanch aur saal #
Nayi jagah ki ek aam subah sochiye, aisa din jab “naye insaan ko apnapan milna chahiye” tez sunayi de raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki ek tasveer hai.
Shayad kettle ke paas kisi chhoti cheez par baat khul jaati hai, jagah ke baare mein poochhe sawaal ka aasaan jawab milta hai, aur dopahar tak imarat zara aur jaani-pehchani lagne lagti hai.
Yahan kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi, aur tasveer jab chahein kinare rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usmein kya-kya hai: chai ki machine, aadha yaad hua naam, wo system jismein ab bhi dugna waqt lagta hai, kamre ke us paar se ek muskaan?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us subah mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapko usmein kya dikhta hai, agar kuch dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Teamein un tareeqon se busy hain jo naye ko nahi dikhte #
Deadline mein doobi team ke paas milwane ki fursat na ho, aur barson saath kaam kar chuki team bhool sakti hai ki unki shorthand kisi baahri ke liye alag zubaan hai. Inmein se kisi ka matlab ye nahi ki naye insaan ko chaha nahi gaya.
Ye dekh lene se rookha hafta garam nahi ho jaata, aur ye saabit nahi hota ki kuch kami nahi thi. Bas itna badhta hai ki khamosh galiyare ke aur kya matlab ho sakte hain, aur kyun wahi swagat aksar der se aur chhote tukdon mein pahunchta hai.
Agar swagat is hafte ki ek chhoti cheez hota jo aapke liye keemti ho, to wo kya hoti, aur kaun de sakta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jo jagah pehle hi de chuki hai #
Jis swagat ki aapne ummeed ki thi, uske baghal mein kuch chhoti cheezein aa bhi chuki hongi: bina kisi heel-hujjat ke theek hua login, doosre din yaad rakha gaya aapka naam, ek colleague jisne kaha “Kahin atak jayein to poochh lijiyega.”
Aisi ek baat dekh lene se garm shuruaat ki chaah wahin rehti hai jahan thi. Friday tak ek chhoti achhi baat aur ek jaayaz ummeed, dono sach ho sakti hain.
Ismein jaldi na karein.
Yahan kisi ne pehle se kya kiya hai jisse nayi jagah thodi aasaan hui, aur usmein se aap kya rakhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Apni raftaar se apni jagah dhoondhna #
Sukoon ka matlab ye nahi ki shuruaat theek thi, ya bhalmansahat ki ummeed zyada thi. Iska matlab hai ki pehle hafte roz ka imtihaan na rahein, aur ek rookha pal ek baar dekhkar chhoda ja sake. Agar jagah bahut der thandi rahe aur din bhaari lagein, to wo swagat se badi baat hai; kisi bharose ke insaan ko sunayein.
Kuch alag tab shuru hota hai jab koi boss, client ya colleague aapko dhamkaye, tang kare, beizzat kare, ya aapko aapki pehchan ki wajah se nishana banaye (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi disability ya aap kahan se aaye ho).
Yahi bina paise ka kaam karwane, tankhwah ya kaagazaat rokne, asurakshit kaam, ya darr ke baare mein bhi hai. Ise gambhirta se lena chahiye, aur saath chalna ya saavdhan rehna surakshit chunav ho sakta hai.
Daftar mein buniyadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi hoti, aapke liye bhi aur unke liye bhi.
Ek zyada shaant doosra mahina sochiye: aapke din mein kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Pehle hafton ke liye ek sachchi pankti #
“Nayi jagah par naye insaan ko apnapan milna chahiye” ke paas kuch log ek aisi pankti rakhte hain: “Mujhe garm shuruaat ki ummeed thi, aur apni jagah ki talaash ab bhi jaari hai.” Use purani pankti ko haraana nahi hai, bas uske baghal mein rehna hai.
Aisi pankti shuru mein udhaar ki lag sakti hai aur istemaal se apni ho jaati hai. Kuch logon ko apne seedhe-saade shabd zyada jamte hain, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachchi pankti kya hogi, jo swagat ki chaah ke baare mein imaandaar ho par aapke pehle hafte us par na tikaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Rookha pehla hafta jaisa tha waisa rah sakta hai #
Har khamosh galiyare ka nateeja Friday tak nahi nikalna hota. Use dekh liya jaye, pal bhar mehsoos kiya jaye, aur khoonti par tange naye coat ki tarah chhod diya jaye, jo abhi akda hai, pehanne se narm nahi hua.
Swagat ki chaah jab tak chahein nijee reh sakti hai. Dhamki, tang karna, beizzati, pehchan ki wajah se nishana banaya jaana, bina paise ka kaam, tankhwah ya kaagazaat roka jaana, asurakshit kaam ya darr alag baatein hain aur inhein gambhirta se lena chahiye; saavdhan rehna surakshit chunav ho sakta hai.
Aaj shaam ise taang dene ka matlab ye nahi ki shuruaat theek thi, ya baat suljh gayi. Bas itna ki aaj raat ko kisi faisle ki zaroorat nahi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar pakad ek paydaan dheeli pade #
Bas tasveer ke taur par sochiye ki ummeed ek paydaan shaant hai. Garm swagat ki chaah ab bhi hai, par jagah ke baare mein ek sawaal mann mein ek jigyasa ki tarah baitha hai jiska jawab chai ki machine par mile ya kahin aur.
Kuch log chhoti cheezein sochte hain, jaise mez par ek photo ya paudha rakhkar use apna bana lena, ek kaam ko chupchaap santosh se poora karna, ya din ko dohraye bina ghar ki taraf chal padna.
Isme se kuch bhi kisi se kehna nahi hai. Jo bhi ubhre, wo aapka hai. Aage: is ummeed se sulah ka kya matlab ho sakta hai, aur kya pehle se maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein, agar pasand aayein #
- Aaj ki ek chhoti bhalmansahat dekhein, chahe kitni bhi halki ho
- Ek saal baad ki jagah sochein, jahan naam aur dincharya jaani-pehchani ho
- Kisi naye aaye ko yaad karein jiska aapne swagat kiya tha, aur kitna kam laga tha
- Andar ghuste hue ek shabd mein ehsaas ko naam dein
- Dekhein ki kaun zyada tez hai, swagat ki chaah ya thehraav ki chaah
Chhoti, nijee aur apni marzi ki. Jo ho sake wahi aazmayein.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kaun si nayi jagah par sabse jaldi ghar jaisa laga, aur unhone kya kiya?
- Kahin pehle hafte mein aapke saath bhalayi kisne ki, aur kaise?
- Achha swagat kaisa hota hai, ye aapko sabse pehle kisne dikhaya?
- Agar garm swagat ki chaah thodi dheeli pade to aap sabse pehle kya dekhenge?
- Nayi jagah ne aapko pehle se kya diya hai, jise aap zyada dekhna chahenge?