Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Routine kisi aur ke faisle se badal jaata hai.
Kuch logon mein ye us bachpan ke ghar se aati hai jahan sab kuch tay lay mein chalta tha: Sunday ka khana, shaam ki sair, wahi dost usi chabutre par.
Is khayal ke neeche koi niyam baitha hota hai, jaise: “Achhi cheezein tikni chahiye,” ya “Jo badla, usmein kuch chhin gaya.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Purani jagahon par baar-baar jaana, purana ehsaas dhoondhte hue
- Purane routine akele chalate rehna, bhale ab wo fit na baithein
- Har nayi cheez ki tulna “pehle aisa nahi tha” se karna
- Purani jagahon se katrana, kyunki wo bahut alag lagti hain
- Naye logon aur naye plan ko taalna, purane walon ke lautne ke intezaar mein
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Indore ki nukkad wali dukaan
Diwali ke baad ki ek Friday shaam, Indore. Usi nukkad se guzarna hota hai jahan purani toli har hafte poha-jalebi par jutti thi. Ab wahan naye maalik ki mobile dukaan hai, shutter ka rang bhi alag. Qadam zara der ruk jaate hain, kaanch ke paar ajnabi dikhte hain, aur mann purane dino ki or khinchta hai. Kuch pal ke liye baaki sab shaant ho jaata hai.
Sab pehle jaisa ho jaye
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Sab pehle jaisa ho jaana chahiye.” Ye swabhavik lagta hai. Purana waqt achha tha, aur uski yaad aati hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: ek pair beete kal mein reh jaata hai. Har nayi cheez ki tulna purani se hoti hai, aur aaj kisi behtar cheez ki naqal jaisa, kam padta lagta hai.
Jaani-pehchaani cheezein mahfooz kyun lagti hain
Hum ise isliye thaame rehte hain kyunki jaani-pehchaani cheezein mahfooz lagti hain. Bahut se log kisi na kisi roop mein aisa niyam lekar bade hote hain, aur tab ye theek bhi lagta tha. Shayad purana tareeka sach mein achha chal raha tha. Shayad badlaav bina poochhe achanak aaya. Jo bhi ho, pehle ko yaad karna zid nahi hai. Ye kisi cheez se pyaar karne se aata hai, aur ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Har badlaav ke saath badhti tadap
Har badlaav ke saath tadap thodi badhti jaati hai. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par mehsoos hota hai. Naye routine purane se taule jaate hain. Aaj ke saath qadam milana kathin lagta hai. Notice karne ki jagah yaad karne mein waqt jaata hai. Aaj ek aisi jagah ban jaata hai jahan se bas guzra jaata hai, uske intezaar mein jo shayad laute hi nahi.
Kya ye tadap keemat ke layak hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya cheezon ke laut aane ki chaah ne kabhi unhe lautaya? Ya zyadatar aaj ko kam apna bana diya? Badlaav lagbhag har cheez par aata hai, aksar bina kisi ke chune. Ye sirf aap hi jaanch sakte ho, aur koi galat jawab nahi. Jo bhi ho, beete waqt ka chala jaana ye nahi tay karta ki aaj mein kya sama sakta hai. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar thaamna iski keemat ke layak hai?
Achha waqt phir bhi gina jaata hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki jo achha tha use bhula diya jaye. Wo hua tha, aur ab bhi apna hai. Matlab ye ki beeta waqt aapke aur aaj ke beech deewar na bane. Achhi yaadein saath chal sakti hain, aur jo naya hai wo bhi dikh sakta hai. Ye ekdam se nahi hota, aur hona bhi nahi hai. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: aaj rehne ki jagah banta hai, sirf tulna ki nahi.
If a change came with being kept from people, controlled or frightened, that is something else; it is worth taking seriously, and staying careful can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleSab pehle jaisa ho jaana chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleAchha waqt gina jaata hai. Aaj bhi gina ja sakta hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Pehle ka ek achha pal muskurakar yaad kijiye
- Din 2
Aaj ki ek nayi cheez par gaur kijiye jo pasand aaye
- Din 3
Jab peeche ki khinchai aaye, ek dheemi saans lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Pehle ki zindagi ki sabse khushnuma yaad kaun si hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Gali ka poha wala ab mobile showroom hai #
Diwali par Indore jaana hua. Nukkad par jahan har Sunday poha-jalebi ki plate milti thi, ab mobile ki dukaan hai. Colony ki toli teen shehron mein bikhar gayi. Gaadi ki taraf lautte hue mann mein aaya: “Sab pehle jaisa ho jaana chahiye.”
Ye office ka badla routine bhi ho sakta hai, doston ki toli jo dheere-dheere chhoot gayi, ya ghar ka Sunday jo ab pehle jaisa nahi baithta. Agar jo badla wo koi chala gaya hai, ya aisi zindagi jo chhoot gayi, toh wo is deck se bahut badi baat hai; dheere chaliye, aur kisi apne ko sunne dijiye.
Purane dino ki aisi kaun si ek cheez hai jo aaj bhi achhe dhang se aapke saath chal rahi hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Seene mein ek tees, tez aur chhoti #
Kuch logon ko achanak seene mein tees uthti hai, jaise kisi dukaan mein purana gaana baj utha ho. Kuch ko dheema bhaaripan lagta hai, jaise garm kamra zara thanda pad gaya ho.
Body ko aksar purani tasveer pehle yaad aati hai: poha ki mehak, gali ka shor, hafte ki apni chaal. Nayi tasveer ek pal baad aati hai, aur dono ke beech ka faasla hi chubhta hai.
Pichhli baar jab kuch bahut badla dikha, toh sabse pehle kya mehsoos hua, aur kahan?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Purane tareeke mein kuch achha tha #
Ye ummeed kisi asli cheez se judi hai. Purane waqt mein sukoon tha: jaane-pehchaane routine, jaane-pehchaane chehre, ye ehsaas ki apni jagah yahin hai. Use wapas chahna isi sukoon aur apnepan ko chahna hai.
Badlaav aksar bina poochhe aata hai. Routine kisi aur ke faisle se badal jaata hai. Doston ki toli bina kisi ek din ke bikhar jaati hai. Chunne ka mauka na milna badlaav ko aur bhaari kar deta hai.
Purane tareeke se roz kya milta tha, jo aaj thoda aur mile toh achha lage?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo purana waqt yaad dilati hai #
“Pehle kitna achha tha.” “Ab toh sab badal gaya.” “Cheezein jas ki tas kyun nahi rehtin?” Awaaz narm aur udaas ho sakti hai, ya adiyal, aur aksar tab bolti hai jab kuch naya nirash kare.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki ye awaaz beete hue ko sabse achhi roshni mein dikhati hai aur aaj ko sabse feeki mein. Ye jhooth nahi bolti, bas chunti hai ki kaun si yaadein saamne rakhni hain.
Jab purane waqt wali awaaz bolti hai, toh sabse pehle kaun si yaad aage rakhti hai, aur kya chhod deti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Purane waqt ki khinchai kahan se aati hai #
Kuch logon mein ye us bachpan ke ghar se aati hai jahan sab kuch tay lay mein chalta tha: Sunday ka khana, shaam ki sair, wahi dost usi chabutre par. Usi thehraav se tay hua ki zindagi kaisi lagni chahiye.
Kuch logon mein ye zindagi ke kisi ek daur se aati hai, kuch saal jab sab kuch theek baithta lagta tha. Wo daur mann mein ek garm jagah banakar reh jaata hai.
Zindagi ka kaun sa daur sabse zyada laut aane ko ji chahta hai, aur usmein achha kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Badlaav ke baare mein ek niyam #
Is khayal ke neeche koi niyam baitha hota hai, jaise: “Achhi cheezein tikni chahiye,” ya “Jo badla, usmein kuch chhin gaya.” Ye narm niyam hai. Par ye har badlaav ko nuksaan jaisa bana deta hai, use bhi jo kuch naya laya.
Kuch log is niyam ko baar-baar ghar badalne wale bachpan se jodte hain, kuch us daur se jab sab kuch ek saath badla. Wajah se kam farak padta hai; ise narmi se dekha ja sakta hai.
Cheezon ko jaisi thi waisi rakhne wala niyam kahan use bachata hai jo pyaara hai, aur kahan aaj ki cheezon ka maza lene se rokta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Purane ki raah dekhne ki keemat #
Nayi cheezein purani se taulin jaati hain, aur kam hi jeetti hain. Naye dost ko kam mauka milta hai. Naya routine aadhe mann se chalta hai. Aaj ek pratikshalay jaisa lagne lagta hai, uske liye jo shayad laute hi nahi.
Kuch log paate hain ki purane ko pakde rakhne se har badlaav aur bhaari lagta hai, kyunki har baar use ek aisi tasveer se taula jaata hai jo aur chamakti jaati hai.
Kaun si nayi jagah ya kaun sa naya insaan zindagi mein isliye kam khul paaya ki wo pehle jaisa nahi tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Purani jagah ke paas dheeme hona #
Ek aam hafte ki kalpana kijiye jismein “sab pehle jaisa ho jaana chahiye” tez hai. Naya routine, badli hui galiyan, purane doston ke phone par update. Use aise dekhiye jaise tasveer dekhte hain.
Shayad purani jagah ke paas se guzarte hue gaadi dheemi ho jaati hai, aur hafte ki har nayi cheez purane se taulin jaati hai.
Ye bas ek hafta hai, koi bhavishyavaani nahi, aur jab chahein isse bahar aaya ja sakta hai.
Us hafte mein aur kya hai, aur kise kam dhyan milta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Dekhte hue kya ubharta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Yaad garm hisse rakh leti hai #
Bahut se logon ki achhe waqt ki yaadein un dino se zyada garm hoti hain. Behes, boring dopaharein, fikrein dhundhli pad jaati hain, hansi bachi rehti hai. Ye yaad ki meharbaani hai, aur isse aaj feeka bhi lag sakta hai.
Iska matlab ye nahi ki purana waqt achha nahi tha, aur use chahna jaayaz rehta hai. Bas tulna ek yaad aur ek asli din ke beech ho rahi hai, jo barabar ka muqabla nahi.
Purane dino ke baare mein imaandaari se sochein, toh kya mushkil tha jise yaad ne narm kar diya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Aaj kya achha hai jo tab nahi tha #
Shayad kuch pehle se maujood hain: koi hunar jo tab nahi tha, koi dost jo baad mein mila, koi aazaadi jo tab nahi thi, naye routine mein koi kona jo thoda apna lagta hai.
Inhe dekhne se purane waqt ki jagah nahi bharti, aur bharni bhi nahi hai. Ye aaj mein saath-saath maujood hain, peeche dekhte hue aasani se chhoot jaane wali.
Aaj ki zindagi mein aisi kaun si cheez hai jise jaankar purane dino wala mann khush ho jaata?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Purane ko rakhkar, naye mein jeena #
Baat ye nahi ki purana waqt matlab nahi rakhta tha. Uski yaad aana jaayaz hai. Matlab bas ye ki tab aur ab ke beech ka faasla roz ka hisaab na bane, aur aaj ko bhi ek mauka mile.
Buniyadi izzat aur hifazat maangna kabhi zyada nahi hai, apne liye bhi aur aas-paas ke logon ke liye bhi. Agar badlaav ke saath logon se milne se roka jaana, control ya darr juda tha, toh wo kuch aur hai; use seriously lena zaroori hai, aur saavdhaan rehna hi surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Agar badlaav koi maut, bimari ya utna bada nuksaan tha, toh ye deck uske liye bahut chhota hai; dheere chaliye, aur kisi bharosemand insaan ko sunne dijiye.
Ek saade din ki kalpana kijiye, is baar ummeed zara narmi se thaami hui: pehle ki koi baat yaad aati hai, aur nazar kis hisse par rukti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Purani jagah ke paas se guzarte hue ek line #
“Sab pehle jaisa ho jaana chahiye” ke saath kuch log ye line rakhte hain: “Pehle ka waqt achha tha, aur aaj bhi apni tarah achha ho sakta hai.” Ye pehli line se jhagadti nahi, uske paas baith jaati hai.
Ghar se lautne ke theek baad ye zyada aasaan lag sakti hai. Kuch logon ko apni bhasha mein apne shabd zyada kaam aate hain.
Apni line kya hogi, jo purane ko paas rakhe aur naye ke liye jagah chhode?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Purane din album mein reh sakte hain #
Har badlaav aaj raat hi palatna zaroori nahi. Purana waqt yaad kiya ja sakta hai, aur phir use wapas rakh diya ja sakta hai, jaise photo-album almirah mein laut jaata hai.
Pehle jaisa chahna apna reh sakta hai. Jis badlaav ke saath control ya darr aaya, wo is ummeed ka hissa nahi hai; use seriously lena zaroori hai.
Album rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki badlaav theek tha, ya kuch sulajh gaya. Bas itna ki aaj ki raat ji ja sakti hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar beeta waqt bina khinche garm reh sake #
Wahi safar phir sochiye, ummeed zara dheemi. Purani jagah ke paas se guzarna hota hai, aur ek cheez dikhti hai jo aaj behtar hai.
Yahan chhoti cheezein ginin jaati hain: tees ke bina ek garm yaad, koi naya chai ka thikaana jo pasand aane laga, kisi purane dost ko phone jo aaj ki baat par ho.
Ye private hai, ise kisi ko batana zaroori nahi. Agla card is ummeed se sulah ke baare mein hai, aur phir uske baare mein jo pehle se maujood hai.
Farak sabse pehle kahan mehsoos hota hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kaun si chuni jayegi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Chhoti cheezein, jo akele aazmayi ja sakti hain #
- Purane daur ka ek chhota tukda is hafte le aaiye, jaise koi pakwaan ya gaana
- Aaj ki ek baat par gaur kijiye jo pehle se behtar hai
- Jab tees uthe, use ek saade shabd mein naam dijiye
- Kisi nayi jagah, insaan ya routine ko ek aur mauka dijiye
- Purane dino ki ek mushkil bhi achhi baaton ke saath yaad kijiye
Jo narm lage wahi aazmaiye. Yahan kuch zaroori nahi hai.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Pehle ki zindagi ki sabse khushnuma yaad kaun si hai?
- Purane dino ka kaun sa insaan aaj bhi hansa deta hai, aur kaise?
- Purane dino ki kaun si baat yaad aate hi aaj bhi muskaan aa jaati hai?
- Agar purana waqt thoda kam khinche, toh aaj ki kis cheez ka maza aayega?
- Aaj ki zindagi mein kya achha hai jo tab wale mann ko pasand aata?