Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Jab log koodkar aage nikalte hain, to intezaar bewakoofi jaisa lagne lagta hai, jaise saleeqa galti thi aur dhakka-mukki wo asli niyam thi jo kisi ne bataya nahi.
Kuch zindagiyon mein ye beech ke ya sabse chhote bachche hone se shuru hua, jab bade pehle jaate aur kaha jaata “teri bhi baari aayegi.”
Is khayal ke neeche koi niyam ho sakta hai: “Adab se rukunga toh chuna jaunga,” ya “Maangna badtameezi hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Chupchaap intezaar karte rehna, har baar thoda aur thakkar
- Tay karna ki agli baar aage badhkar lenge, bhale hi atpata lage
- Baras aur aage nikle log ginte jaana
- Baari mein dilchaspi hi chhod dena, taaki chookne par kam chubhe
- Khud se kehna ki wo kabhi apni thi hi nahi
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Team lead ki kursi, naye ko mili
Friday ki dopahar, Indore, Vijay Nagar ka office. Naye team lead ka naam ghoshit hota hai, aur wo aapke baad juda saathi hai. Aapne intezaar kiya, extra kaam nipataya, sir jhukaye rakha. Sab taali bajate hain, aap bhi. Phir desk par lautkar screen taakte ho, aur ek bhaari, khokhla ehsaas bheetar dhansta hai, jaise jis qatar mein aap the wo gaayab ho gayi.
Intezaar ka phal milna chahiye
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Sabr kiya hai, toh meri baari aani chahiye.” Sahi sa lagta hai. Intezaar ka phal milna chahiye. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapki zindagi ko qatar bana deta hai. Har achhi cheez aapke intezaar ke badle ki udhaari lagti hai, aur jab koi aur aage nikalta hai to lagta hai poora nizaam toot gaya, aur aap bhi uske saath.
Insaaf aur qaayda surakshit kyun lagte hain
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki insaaf aur qaayda surakshit lagte hain. Shayad aapko sikhaya gaya tha ki chup raho, achhe bano, “sabr ka phal meetha hota hai.” Shayad aapne mehnat aur intezaar ko pehle phalte dekha. Apni baari par yaqeen bholapan nahi hai. Wo duniya ko nyaaypoorn dekhne ki chaah se aata hai. Use dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Intezaar ka aur bhaari hona
Har baar jab kisi aur ki baari pehle aati hai, intezaar bhaari ho jaata hai. Aap ginne lagte ho ki kaun aage gaya. Thage jaane jaisa lagta hai, phir aisa lagne par hi sharm aati hai. Nayi cheezein aazmane se haath rukte hain, kahin qatar bigad na jaye. Jo intezaar kabhi taaqat lagta tha, atkaav lagne lagta hai, aur din chupchaap intezaar mein guzarte hain.
Kya qatar is keemat ke layak hai?
Khud se sach-sach puchhiye: kya baari ka intezaar karne se kabhi baari jaldi aayi? Ya zyada-tar intezaar lamba aur bhaari lagne laga? Zindagi hamesha saaf qatar nahi hoti, aur baariyan kisi ke liye bhi kram se nahi aatin, kitna bhi ruk lein. Kisi aur ki baari aapki keemat ka paimana nahi hai. Is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna us keemat ke layak hai jo ye aapse leta hai?
Qatar ke bahar ki zindagi
Chhodne ka matlab achhi cheezon ki ummeed ya intezaar ki taiyaari chhodna nahi. Matlab ye ki aapki zindagi ko shuru hone ke liye qatar mein khade rehna zaroori nahi. Jo abhi aapke paas hai, uska maza liya ja sakta hai, aur bulaave ka intezaar kiye bina kuch aazmaya ja sakta hai. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: aapke din intezaar ka kamra nahi rehte, aapke apne bante hain.
Being passed over again and again for your gender, caste, religion, colour, age, a disability or where you come from is not a queue to stand in quietly; it is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleSabr kiya hai, toh meri baari aani chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMeri zindagi ko qatar mein rukna zaroori nahi.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Aaj wo ek kaam kijiye jiska aap intezaar kar rahe the
- Kadam 2
Jo ek achhi cheez abhi aapke paas hai, use pehchaniye
- Kadam 3
Jab ginne lagein ki kaun aage gaya, to ek gehri saans lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kaun si baari aakhir milne par aapko sabse zyada khushi hui?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Barson ki qatar, aur aage koi naya #
Aapse kaha gaya tha: thoda rukiye, agli baari aapki hai. Aapne naye logon ko sikhaya, Diwali ki chhuttiyan doosron ko deen, dhakka nahi diya. Phir team lead ki kursi use mil gayi jo pichhle saal juda aur zor se bola. Awaaz gusse ki nahi, thaki hui nikalti hai: “Sabr kiya hai, toh meri baari aani chahiye.”
Ye baat bade kamre ke liye ho sakti hai, kaam mein agle paayadan ke liye, padhne ke mauke ke liye, ya us din ke liye jab ghar mein pehle aapki baat maani jaye. Chupchaap intezaar karna sharafat aur insaaf jaisa laga tha, aur bank ke counter par “number laga hua hai” sunne jaisa.
Kisi bhi cheez ke liye aapki baari aakhirkaar kab aayi thi, aur us pal kaisa laga tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Bhaari, chupchaap dhansta hua ehsaas #
Kuch logon ko dheema, bhaari dhansaav mahsoos hota hai, jaise kuen ki tah mein patthar baith raha ho. Kuch ko ek jhatke mein “phir se?” kaundhta hai, aur uske baad sunn si shaanti chha jaati hai.
Badan sharafat nibhata rehta hai: muskaan, badhai, haath milana. Andar intezaar ke saare baras ek saath dher laga dete hain.
Pichhli baar jab lambe intezaar ke baad koi aur aage nikal gaya, tab bahar sharafat nibhate hue andar kya chal raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Baari ka intezaar insaaf wali baat lagti hai #
Ye ummeed ek sahi soch par tiki hai. Baari-baari se milna wo tareeka hai jisse kam cheezein baanti jaati hain: promotion, mauka, aage ki seat. Chupchaap intezaar karne wale ki izzat honi chahiye, use laanga nahi jana chahiye.
Jab log koodkar aage nikalte hain, to intezaar bewakoofi jaisa lagne lagta hai, jaise saleeqa galti thi aur dhakka-mukki wo asli niyam thi jo kisi ne bataya nahi. “Bolne wale ka maal bikta hai” wali baat tab chubhti hai.
Intezaar karne se aapko kya mila, baari ke alawa, un dinon mein jab aapko achha laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Intezaar ke kamre ki awaaz #
“Maine sab sahi kiya.” “Unhone bas zor se manga.” “Aur kitne baras?” Awaaz bahar se shaant lag sakti hai aur andar se bahut thaki, jaise intezaar ke saare baras ek saath dho rahi ho.
Aksar ye awaaz yahan tak pahunch jaati hai ki baari chaahna bhi jaayaz tha ya nahi, aur nirasha ko chup rehne ki kahani bana deti hai.
Jab intezaar wali awaaz bolti hai, kaun si line sabse zyada chubhti hai, aur wo aapse is intezaar ke baare mein kya karwana chahti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Baari wala niyam kahan se seekha #
Kuch zindagiyon mein ye beech ke ya sabse chhote bachche hone se shuru hua, jab bade pehle jaate aur kaha jaata “teri bhi baari aayegi.” Kuch ne ise aise office mein paya jahan varishthta se kram banta tha aur kram chalta bhi tha.
Kai ghar aur school intezaar ko sharafat aur insaaf dono banakar sikhate hain. Ye achha sabak hai. Par yahi ek ummeed bhi ban sakta hai ki zindagi bhi insaaf ki qatar rakhti hai.
Sabse pehle kisne aapse kaha tha “sabr ka phal meetha hota hai”, aur tab aap kiska intezaar kar rahe the jabki koi aur pehle gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Baari ka niyam #
Is khayal ke neeche koi niyam ho sakta hai: “Adab se rukunga toh chuna jaunga,” ya “Maangna badtameezi hai.” Ye naram aur insaaf wala niyam hai. Par isse aapke jeevan ka samay doosron ke haath mein chala jaata hai.
Kuch log iska sira bachpan ke “ruk ja” tak le jaate hain, kuch aise office tak jahan maangne ko bura maana jaata tha. Dono mein ye niyam hai, tathya nahi, aur ise narmi se dekha ja sakta hai.
Baari ka niyam kahan aapko saleeqedaar aur izzatdaar rakhta hai, aur kahan aisi qatar ke aakhir mein khada rakhta hai jo badhti hi jaati hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Chupchaap intezaar ki keemat #
Waqt sabse saaf keemat hai: barson ek hi desk, wo mauke jo agle insaan ke paas chale gaye. Ek khamosh keemat intezaar mein hi hai, jo thehri hui zindagi jaisi lag sakti hai.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki wo apna agla kadam sochna hi chhod dete hain, kyunki agla kadam toh diya jaana hai. Unki apni chaahatein bhi intezaar ke kamre mein baith jaati hain.
Aap kis cheez ke diye jaane ka intezaar kar rahe ho jiski taraf khud ek chhota kadam badhaya ja sakta hai, aur wo kadam kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Ab bhi qatar mein, auron ko aage jaate dekhte #
Ek aam hafta lijiye jab “sabr kiya hai, toh meri baari aani chahiye” zor se baj rahi ho. Wahi desk, wahi list, wahi shisht muskaan. Yahan hal karne ko kuch nahi, bas dekhne ko kuch hai.
Shayad agle paayadan ki qatar mein khade rehna aur auron ko aage jaate dekhna, badhai keh di gayi, aur shaam ka sannata.
Ek hafta, kuch tay nahi kiya hua, aur jab chahein ise rakh sakte hain.
Usi hafte mein aur kya hai jo saath-saath intezaar karta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Dekhne par kya saamne aata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Kuch qataarein asal mein qataarein nahi hotin #
Kuch jagahein sachmuch baari se chalti hain: varishthta, list, saaf kram. Kai jagahein nahi chalti. Wahan jugaad se, dikhne se, maangne se, kamre mein maujood hone se baat banti hai. Aisi jagah intezaar karna chaahne ki kami jaisa dikh sakta hai.
Isse aage nikal jaana insaaf nahi ban jaata, aur ye matlab bhi nahi ki intezaar aapki galti thi. Bas itna ki kuch qataarein kabhi qatar thi hi nahi, aur ye jaanna ki ye kaun si line hai, intezaar ka ehsaas badal sakta hai.
Jahan aap intezaar kar rahe ho, wahan baariyan asal mein kaise tay hoti hain, jitna andar se dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Wo baariyan jo aayin #
Kuch shayad pehle hi maujood hon: wo course jisme aakhir daakhila mila, wo khidki wali seat jo aakhir aayi, wo mauka jab kisi ne kaha “aap pehle jaiye, aapne kaafi intezaar kiya.”
Inhein ginne se un baariyon ki bharpaayi nahi hoti jo kisi aur ko milin. Ye bhi isi zindagi ka hissa hain, jo taaza chook ke shor mein aasaani se bhool jaati hain.
Kaun si baari aakhir aapki aayi, badi ya chhoti, jise aap thoda aur yaad rakhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Intezaar jo zindagi ko rokkar na rakhe #
Iska matlab sahi baari ki chaah chhod dena nahi. Baari ka aana chaahna jaayaz hai. Matlab bas itna ki intezaar baaki zindagi ko thaamkar na rakhe.
Insaaf, izzat aur hifaazat “zyada ummeed” kabhi nahi hain, aapke liye bhi aur doosron ke liye bhi. Agar baar-baar is wajah se nazarandaaz kiya jaye ki aap kaun ho (ling, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi viklangta ya aap kahan se ho), to ye chupchaap khade rehne wali qatar nahi hai; ise gambhirta se lena zaroori hai.
Aage ke intezaar ki kalpana kijiye, is ummeed ko thoda dheela pakde hue: is beech aap kya karte ho, kya shuru karte ya seekhte ho, bas apne liye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Intezaar ke kamre ke liye ek pankti #
“Sabr kiya hai, toh meri baari aani chahiye” ke paas kuch log apni ek line rakh lete hain, jaise: “Mera rukna insaaf wala hai, par jeene ke liye rukna zaroori nahi.” Pehli line reh sakti hai; ye bas uske baghal mein khadi rehti hai.
Nirashajanak ghoshna ke baad ye zyada hi saji-sanwari lag sakti hai. Kuch log apni seedhi ya zyada khari line pasand karte hain.
Agar aap khud ek sachcha vaakya likhte, to kya hota, aisa jo aapki sharafat bhi rakhe aur aapki chaahaton ko bhi jagah de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Qatar aapke ghoore bina bhi intezaar kar sakti hai #
Har chooki hui baari par aaj raat faisla sunana zaroori nahi. Use ek pal mehsoos karke alag rakha ja sakta hai, jaise token number ki parchi purse mein rakh di ho.
Baari ki ummeed aapke saath reh sakti hai. Par is wajah se baar-baar nazarandaaz kiya jaana ki aap kaun ho, bilkul alag baat hai, aur use gambhirta se lena zaroori hai.
Aaj raat ise alag rakhne se ye nyaaypoorn nahi ho jaati, aur kuch suljh bhi nahi jaata. Bas itna ki shaam intezaar ka hissa nahi banti.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar intezaar mein kuch zindagi bhi ho #
Bas ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ye ummeed zara dheemi hai. Aap ab bhi rukte ho, aur rukte hue kuch pasand ka karte ho: koi course, koi shauq, apni koi yojana.
Shayad bas chhoti cheezein: aisa Sunday jo apna lage, koi hunar jo badhta jaye, Monday ko office ki taraf halka kadam.
Is tasveer ko kisi aur ko dikhana zaroori nahi. Aage: is ummeed se sulah ka kya matlab ho sakta hai, aur kya pehle se maujood hai.
Sabse pehle thoda sa kya badalta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Inmein se kaun si aapse zyada mel khaati hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Aazmaane ke liye kuch chhoti cheezein #
- Koi ek cheez sochiye jo aapko pasand hai aur intezaar ke waqt ko bhar sakti hai
- Mann hi mann kalpana kijiye ki aap jo chahte ho wo maang rahe ho, bas dekhne ko ki kaisa lagta hai
- Is saal aapki koi ek baari, chahe kitni bhi chhoti, pehchaniye
- Jab koi aage nikle to us ehsaas ke liye ek seedha shabd dhoondhiye
- Chupchaap khud se puchhiye ki us jagah baariyan asal mein kaise tay hoti hain
Chahein to koi ek chun lijiye. Ye sirf sujhaav hain.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kaun si baari aakhir milne par aapko sabse zyada khushi hui?
- Aapko baari ka intezaar karna kisne sikhaya, aur unki apni baariyan kaisi rahin?
- Aapko kya pasand hai jo intezaar ke kuch waqt ko bhar sakta hai?
- Agar intezaar kam chubhta, to aap abhi kya shuru karte?
- Intezaar ke dauraan kaun si achhi cheezein pehle se aapki hain?