Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Seekhna tab achha lagta hai jab kaam aasaan se zara upar ho.
Kuch logon mein ye pehli job se aati hai jahan har mahina kuch naya laata tha, aur unhone jaana ki apni samajh se thoda upar hona kitna achha lagta hai.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Achha boss mujhe badhata rehta hai,” ya “Kaam achha hoga toh behtar kaam apne aap aayega.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Kaam jaldi nipatana, is ummeed mein ki kuch naya karne ka waqt mile
- Shaam ko doosre role dekhna, phir tab band kar dena
- Upar se kaam le lena aur khud ko bahut faila hua paana
- Meeting mein chup ho jaana aur dopahar yun hi beh jaane dena
- Kisi course, project ya doosri seat ke baare mein sapne dekhna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Wo project jo aur kisi ko mila
Indore, Vijay Nagar ka office. Do saal se ek hi role. Naya dilchasp project aapke baad aaye kisi ko mil gaya. Aapko phir mahine ki reports milti hain, jo aap neend mein bhi bana dein. Boss kehte hain, “Aap jitna bharosemand koi nahi.” Aap muskurakar shukriya kehte ho. Par apni seat par wahi spreadsheet kholte hue bheetar kuch chupchaap aah bharta hai.
Boss ko badhane mein madad karni chahiye
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Boss ko aisa kaam dena chahiye jisse main aage badhun.” Ye jaayaz ummeed lagti hai. Aage badhna matlab rakhta hai. Par dekhiye ye kya karta hai: aage badhne ka ehsaas kisi aur ke haath mein de deta hai. Job kahin ja rahi hai ya nahi, ye us par tik jaata hai ki kaun sa kaam aapki mez par aata hai, jo apne dabaavon aur yojanaon wala koi aur tay karta hai.
Rukna peeche chhootna kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki ek jagah khade rehna peeche chhootne jaisa lag sakta hai. Shayad aapne bachpan se cousins aur classmates ke aage nikalne ki baatein suni hain. Shayad aapko hamesha se seekhna pasand hai, aur dohrav apni hi seat par aadha soya hua feel karata hai. Dono haal mein badhna chahna lalach nahi hai. Ye dinon ko matlab dene ki chaah se aata hai, aur aapke us hisse ko narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Wo hafte jo thame hue lagte hain
Har routine kaam jo thamaya jaata hai, ek aur hafta ek jagah khade rehne jaisa lagta hai. Aap naye project wale saathiyon se khud ki tulna karne lagte ho. Reports achhi banate ho, par bheetar kheej rehti hai. Der raat bina chahe jaagte ho, bechain. Jo kaam kabhi thos lagta tha, intezaar ke kamre jaisa lagne lagta hai, aur aapka hunar asal se chhota lagne lagta hai.
Kya badhne ka intezaar sahi hai?
Khud se sach-sach poochhiye: kya sahi project ke intezaar ne kabhi aapko teji se badhaya? Ya zyada-tar dinon ko bhaari kiya? Shayad aapke boss bharosemand logon par tikau kaam ke liye nirbhar rehte hain aur keemat nahi dekhte, ya unki aisi yojanayein hain jo aap nahi jaante. Jo bhi ho, aapki mez ke kaam aapke badhne ka paimana nahi hain. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna, isse milne wale se zyada leta hai.
Jahan hain, wahin badhna
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki dilchasp kaam ki chaah khatam. Matlab ye ki aapka badhna ab kisi aur ke thamane ka intezaar nahi karta. Jo kaam aapke paas hai uske bheetar kuch seekha ja sakta hai, ya uske bahar, apni sharton par. Naye project aayein toh bonus hain. Yahin se kuch sukoon lautta hai: jaani-pehchani seat par bhi aage badhne ka ehsaas paya ja sakta hai.
Threats, shouting, harassment, humiliation, being singled out for who you are, pay or papers held back, or being frightened at work, are something else, and worth taking seriously; staying careful can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleBoss ko aisa kaam dena chahiye jisse main aage badhun.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleJahan hoon, wahin seekhna aur badhna mere haath mein hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Jo kaam achhe se aata hai, usme seekhne ki nayi cheez dhoondhiye
- Din 2
Bees minute kuch aisa seekhiye jo sirf aapke liye ho
- Din 3
Aisa ek hunar sochiye jo ab aapke paas hai, pehle nahi tha
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kab koi kaam aapko is tarah kheench gaya ki aaj bhi achha lagta hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Wahi report, phir se #
Wahi weekly MIS report, wahi template, wahi bharne wale column. Kisi dopahar, ek jaani-pehchani cell mein cursor timtimata hai, aur ek vaakya aata hai: “Boss ko aisa kaam dena chahiye jisse main aage badhun.”
Kuch logon ke liye ye besabri nahi, ek chup-si bechaini hai, is ehsaas ke saath ki andar aur bhi dum hai jo kaam maangta hi nahi. Lambe samay tak kuch achha karna badhiya lag sakta hai, aur phir dheere-dheere, ek hi seedhi par khade rehne jaisa.
Aakhri baar kaun sa kaam aapko is tarah kheench gaya ki maza aaya, aur usme alag kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Kaam shuru hote hi baithta mann #
Kuch logon ko jaani-pehchani report inbox mein phir dikhte hi kandhon mein bhaaripan lagta hai. Kuch ko message mein kuch naya dhoondhne ki jhat se nazar daudti hai, aur na milne par chhoti-si giraawat.
Sochne se pehle sharir ekrasta bhaanp leta hai: lambi saans, nazar kisi aur khidki ki taraf, ek chai jo kisi ko chahiye hi nahi thi. Wajah wala hissa baad mein aata hai.
Pichhli baar jab koi jaana-pehchana kaam aaya, toh use shuru karne se pehle ke palon mein aapne kya feel kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Kaam jo saath-saath aage badhe #
Aise kaam ki ummeed rakhna swabhavik hai jo kheenche. Hamare hafte ka bahut bada hissa job mein jaata hai, aur ye chahna samajh mein aata hai ki ye ghante team ke saath-saath humein bhi kuch jodein.
Seekhna tab achha lagta hai jab kaam aasaan se zara upar ho. Bahut der tak bahut aasaan rahe, toh jo kaam kabhi tasalli deta tha wahi sapaat lagne lagta hai, bhale hi bilkul sahi ho raha ho.
Jab aap aise kaam ki tasveer banate ho jisse aage badha jaye, toh usme kya hai: ek badi samasya, koi naya hunar, ya koi alag tarah ka saathi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Seedhi naapne wali awaaz #
“Ye toh pichhle saal bhi kiya tha.” “Kolhu ke bail jaisa chakkar hai.” “Itne hi ghanton mein kitna kuch aur kar sakta tha koi.” Awaaz aksar tab bolti hai jab wahi spreadsheet khul rahi ho ya wahi meeting shuru ho rahi ho.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki is awaaz mein shikayat ke saath utsaah bhi hai. Ek hissa bade dhang se kaam aane ki chaah hai, aur ek hissa is fikr ka ki saal usi raftaar se beette ja rahe hain.
Jab ye awaaz seedhi naapti hai, toh kaun si line dohrati hai, aur asal mein kiski ummeed kar rahi hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Aage badhne ki chaah kahan se aati hai #
Kuch logon mein ye pehli job se aati hai jahan har mahina kuch naya laata tha, aur unhone jaana ki apni samajh se thoda upar hona kitna achha lagta hai. Wahi tasveer baad ki har job ka paimana ban jaati hai.
Kuch mein ye ghar se aati hai: koi maa-baap jo dashkon ek hi pad par rahe aur kuch aur chahte the, ya koi jo upar chadha aur usne ise mumkin dikhaya. Kuch gharon mein “growth” ko kaam karne ka maqsad hi maana jaata tha, aur cousins ke aage nikalne ka zikr har shaadi mein hota tha.
Aapne sabse pehle kise apne kaam se aage badhte dekha, aur bahar se wo kaisa dikhta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Aage badhaye jaane ka niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Achha boss mujhe badhata rehta hai,” ya “Kaam achha hoga toh behtar kaam apne aap aayega.” Pehla vaakya seedhi-saadi nishpakshta jaisa lagta hai; neeche ka niyam tay karta hai ki har dohraye gaye kaam ka matlab kya nikala jaye.
Aise niyam achha karne ki parwah se aate hain, jiski qadar honi chahiye. Inhe asli jobs ke bagal mein rakhkar dekha ja sakta hai, jahan jo kaam insaan ko kheenchta hai, wo hamesha list mein nahi hota.
Ye shayad purane saalon se judta ho, ya raaste mein bana ho.
“Achha kaam mujhe dhoondh lega” aaj kahan fit baithta hai, aur kahan bas intezaar mein chhod deta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Sapaat daur ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai Itwaar ki shaam ki halki bhanbhanahat, kaam jo theek se hua par bina maze ke, aur har mahine ko isse naapne ki badhti aadat ki use kya dena tha.
Saal bhar mein kuch log dekhte hain ki unhone khayal batana band kar diya, kyunki batana ab kisi cheez se juda nahi lagta. Ummeed nirasha se bachne ko khud ko samet leti hai, aur uske saath wo urja bhi jo use banati thi.
Pichhle saal ke baare mein sochiye, kaam ka kaun sa chhota pal aapko purani dilchaspi ki ek jhalak de gaya, aur tab kya ho raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Saalon tak wahi template #
Ek aam Guruvar ki tasveer banaiye jab “Boss ko aisa kaam dena chahiye jisse main aage badhun” zor se baj rahi ho. Ye bas dekhne ka drishya hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad template save ki gayi file se khulta hai, aankde aadat se bhare jaate hain, koi saathi chalte-chalte kisi naye project ka zikr karta hai, aur dopahar apni raftaar se aage badh jaati hai.
Yahan kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi, aur tasveer kabhi bhi rakhi ja sakti hai.
Screen par kya hai: report, wahi column, pichhle mahine ke version se bana jawab?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhkar, agar kuch, toh aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Badhna ek hi shakl mein nahi aata #
Badhna naya project ho sakta hai, par kisi jaani-pehchani cheez par gehri pakad bhi, use samjhane ka behtar dhang bhi, ya job ke kinare seekha koi hunar. Iska kuch hissa toh kaam ki list ke bahar hi hota hai.
Boss role ke alag-alag hisse dekhte hain, aur kuch jobs mein hilne-dulne ki jagah kam hoti hai. Ye kaam ki banawat ki baat hai, is baare mein faisla nahi ki koi kitna kar sakta hai.
Agar is mahine badhna ek chhoti, thos cheez hona ho, toh aap chahenge wo kaisi dikhe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Kaam pehle se kya sikha raha hai #
Jis aage badhne ki aapko chaah thi, uske saath shayad wo seekh bhi chupchaap aa chuki ho: ek kaam jo ab bina soche nipat jaata hai aur kabhi ghanta leta tha, koi saathi jiska tareeka aapne utha liya, koi client jise aapne achhe se sambhala.
Ise dekhne se aur ki chaah radd nahi hoti. Ek jaayaz ummeed aur ek chhoti sachchi pehchaan saath reh sakti hain, aur pehchaan kisi se kuch nahi maangti.
Pichhle saal mein job ne aapko aisa kya sikhaya hai jise aap thoda aur saaf dekhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Jahan mumkin ho, wahan badhna #
Is ummeed ke saath shaanti ka matlab ho sakta hai ki kisi kaam ki ekrasta hafte ka mood tay karna band kar de. Jo jaayaz hai wo rahe: kheenchne wale kaam ki chaah, aage badhaye jaane ki chaah. Jo dheela ho sakta hai wo hai pakad, aur badhne ki chaah un jagahon mein bhi beh sakti hai jo job ke qaabu mein nahi hain.
Agar aapka boss, ya kaam par koi bhi, aapko dhamkata hai, pareshaan karta hai ya beizzat karta hai, ya aap jo hain uski wajah se alag karta hai (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi disability ya aap kahan se aaye hain), toh wo kuch aur hai, aur gambhirta se lene layak hai.
Yahi baat bina paise ke kaam, roki gayi tankhwah ya kaagzaat, asurakshit kaam aur darr feel karne par lagu hoti hai. Aise mein chupchaap chalna ya saavdhan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Kaam ki jagah par buniyadi izzat aur suraksha maangna kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi hota, aapke liye bhi aur unke liye bhi.
Ek aise hafte ki tasveer banaiye jisme ye ummeed halke se thami hai: seekhne ka kaun sa chhota tukda aap saath rakhna chahenge, aur kahan rakhenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Jaane-pehchane kaam ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
“Boss ko aisa kaam dena chahiye jisse main aage badhun” ke bagal mein kuch log aisa vaakya taiyaar rakhte hain: “Mujhe aur seekhna hai, aur uska kuch hissa yahin mil sakta hai.” Ise purani line se jeetna nahi hai, bas uske bagal mein baithna hai.
Aisa vaakya shuru mein bahut saja hua lag sakta hai, aur istemaal se jaana-pehchana ho jaata hai. Kuch ko apne shabd zyada jamte hain, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo badhne ki chaah ke baare mein imaandaar ho aur ye na maange ki kaam ki list us se sehmat ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Bechain dopahar guzar sakti hai #
Har sapaat dopahar ko Shukravar tak yojana nahi chahiye. Use dekha ja sakta hai, ek minute feel kiya ja sakta hai, aur mez par rakhe mug ki tarah neeche rakha ja sakta hai, kisi aur din uthane ke liye.
Aage badhne ki chaah jab tak chahein nijee reh sakti hai. Agar aapko aap jo hain uski wajah se alag kiya jaata hai, bina paise ka kaam karaya jaata hai, ya kaam par koi daraata hai, toh wo kuch aur hai, aur gambhirta se lene layak hai.
Aaj raat ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki baat sahi thi, ya suljh gayi. Bas itna ki is shaam ko jawab nahi chahiye.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar seedhi kam khadi lage #
Bas ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ummeed ek darja naram hai. Aage badhne ki chaah ab bhi hai, par report ko sirf report rehne ki ijaazat hai.
Shayad aap report poori karte ho, phir das minute kisi dilchasp cheez mein lagate ho, koi aadha padha lekh ya koi sawaal jo kaafi waqt se mann mein tha.
Isme se kuch bhi aapke apne dimaag se bahar jaana zaroori nahi. Jo bhi aaye, use dekhna aapka hai. Aage, is ummeed ke saath shaant hone ka matlab, aur jo pehle se maujood hai, us par nazar.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapke pehle das minute kya honge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein, chahein toh #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi aur-chahiye wala ehsaas”
- Aaj ke kaam mein koi ek cheez dekhiye jo aap alag tarah se kar sakte ho
- Kaam ke bahar koi aisa hunar sochiye jise seekhne mein maza aaye
- Is hafte ka wo pal pakadiye jab waqt furti se beet gaya
- Jo badhna chahiye, use ek aam drishya ki tarah dekhiye
Chhoti, nijee aur apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo chuniye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kab koi kaam aapko is tarah kheench gaya ki aaj bhi achha lagta hai?
- Kisne aapko kuch aisa sikhaya jisse aapke kaam karne ka dhang badal gaya, aur kaise?
- Seekhi hui kaun si pehli cheez par aapko sach mein garv hua, aur kise pata tha?
- Agar aage badhane wale kaam ki chaah thodi halki ho, toh sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?
- Aapki job ne aapko pehle se kya sikhaya hai jise aap aur dekhna chahenge?