“mere khaas dinon mein partner ko mere saath hona chahiye” ka bojh itna bhaari kyun lagta hai?

Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka

Saath hona ek hi shakl mein nahi aata #

Kuch log khud aate hain; kuch theek usi pal phone karte hain, shuru se pehle message bhejte hain, ya baad ke liye jashn ki plan banate hain. Kuch ko sach mein samajh nahi aata ki koi din itna bada kyun hai, aur wo faasla asli hai.

Isse chaah zyada nahi ho jaati. Bas itna hai ki “mere khaas dinon mein saath raho” mein kai ummeedein ho sakti hain: khud aana, us pal ki khabar rakhna, sahi waqt par message, ya din ko bada maana jaana.

“Khaas dinon mein saath raho” mein kaun sa hissa sabse zyada maayne rakhega: maujoodgi, waqt, ya din ko bada maana jaana?Is par baat kijiye ›

Jo pehle se hai

Jo pehle se aapke paas hai #

Sawaaliya nishaan wale khaas dinon ke bagal mein kuch cheezein pehle se aapki hain: wo mehnat jo aapko is padaav tak laayi, dost jo sahi pal par message bhejte hain, aur apne liye maayne rakhne wale din ko khud manane ki aapki kshamta.

Inse koi ghairhaazri theek nahi ho jaati, aur ye uske badle mein bhi nahi. Jo aapne haasil kiya, aur jo aapka housla badhata hai, wo aapka hai, iska maza lene ke liye.

Aapka kaun sa haal ka padaav, chahe chhota ho, aapke apne jashn ka thoda aur haqdaar hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Sulah

Khaas din jo khaas bane rahein #

Is ummeed se sulah ka matlab hai ki ek chhoota din ye tay nahi karta ki aap kitne maayne rakhte ho. Buniyadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “bahut zyada ummeed” nahi hoti, aapke liye bhi aur unke liye bhi. Agar ghairhaazriyon ke saath aapko partner ki fikar ho, to wo alag baat hai, gambhirta se lene laayak.

Ekdam alag baat hai aap par nazar rakhi jaana, track kiya jaana ya password maanga jaana, phone ya messages khangaale jaana, paison par qabza, kaagzaat rakh liye jaana, doston, family, kaam ya padhai se door rakha jaana, neecha dikhaya jaana, chillana, ya mood ka dosh aap par daala jaana.

Aise hi dhamkiyan bhi, khud ko, aapko, doosron ko ya pet ko nuksaan pahunchane ya nijee photos share karne ki, dhakka dena, pakadna ya chot pahunchana, sex ya nazdeeki ke liye dabaav, ya unse darr lagna. Ye kuch aur hai, gambhirta se lene laayak; saath chalna ya satark rehna surakshit ho sakta hai.

Baar-baar bigaade gaye, ya jhagde mein badal diye gaye khaas din bhi isi list mein aate hain. Apne padaav baantne ki chaah jaayaz hai, aur reh sakti hai.

Ek aisa khaas din sochiye jiska poora maza liya gaya, un logon ke saath jo aapka housla badhate hain: aap kis baat ka jashn mana rahe ho?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ek zyada sachcha vaakya

Ek raat pehle ke liye pankti #

“Mere khaas dinon mein mere partner ko mere saath hona chahiye” ke bagal mein kuch log ye pankti rakhte hain: “Unka hona mujhe achha lagega, aur mere khaas din dono haal mein manane laayak hain.” Ise pehle vaakya ki jagah nahi leni padti.

Shuru mein thodi saahsi lag sakti hai. Kuch ko lagta hai ki aisi pankti se wo din ka hi maza le paate hain; kuch use tab tak badalte hain jab tak wo apni na lage. Koi bhi sachcha roop kaam karta hai.

Aapka apna roop kya hoga, jo din baantne ki chaah bhi rakhe aur din ko bada bhi rehne de?Is par baat kijiye ›

Kya rehne dein

Ek chhoota din bas ek chhoota din ho sakta hai #

Khaas din ki ghairhaazri ko rishte par faisla nahi banna padta. Kuch ko darj karke alag rakha ja sakta hai, daraaz mein rakhe program-card ki tarah: sambhalkar rakha, har hafte dobara nahi padha.

Isme ye sab nahi aata: jaanbujhkar bigaade gaye din, aap par nazar rakhi jaana, track kiya jaana ya password maanga jaana, phone ya messages khangaale jaana, paison par qabza, kaagzaat rakh liye jaana, doston, family, kaam ya padhai se door rakha jaana, neecha dikhaya jaana, chillana.

Yahi baat dhamkiyon par bhi laagu hai, khud ko, aapko, doosron ko ya pet ko nuksaan pahunchane ya nijee photos share karne ki, dhakka dena, pakadna ya chot pahunchana, sex ya nazdeeki ke liye dabaav, ya unse darr lagna. Ise gambhirta se lena chahiye, aur satark rehna surakshit ho sakta hai.

Ek din ko alag rakhna chaah ke baare mein kuch tay nahi karta. Bas itna ki wo padaav ab bhi poori tarah aapka reh sakta hai.

Agar yeh dheela pade

Agar maujoodgi par nazar thodi dheeli ho #

Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ummeed ek darja neeche hai. Din baantne ki chaah ab bhi hai, aur din ab bhi bada hai.

Shayad aisa khaas din jismein poora dhyaan us pal aur housla badhate logon par ho, ya baad mein apni pasand ka khaana aur koi dost jo jaanta ho ki iske peeche kya laga, uske saath chhota-sa jashn.

Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai. Aage, is ummeed se sulah ka matlab kya ho sakta hai, aur jo pehle se aapke paas hai.

Uska kaun sa hissa sabse pehle badalta hai, zara-sa bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›

Sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?Is par baat kijiye ›