Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye zyada chubhta hai kyunki na jaanna sabse peeche reh jaane jaisa lag sakta hai, jabki bahut se bade log chalte-chalte hi seekh rahe hote hain.
Kuch logon ko ye tab saaf dikhi jab pehli baar ghar se door rahe: hostel, rent ka room, naya shehar.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “School ko life ke liye ready karna chahiye,” ya “Bade insaan ko ye pehle se aana chahiye.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Sab kuch internet par dhoondhna aur umeed karna ki sahi hai
- Kisi dost se chupke se pooch lena, taaki aur kisi ko pata na chale
- Kaam ko last date tak taal dena
- Samajhne ka dikhawa karna aur baad mein nipta lena
- School par jhunjhlana ki itna waqt bas ratta maarne mein gaya
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Table par padi ek chitthi
Shanivaar ki subah, Bhopal, Arera Colony ka rent ka room, akele rehne ka pehla saal. Table par ek chitthi padi hai, uske paas ek form jo samajh nahi aata aur kuch kagzon ka dher. Algebra, kavitayein aur purani ladaiyon ki dates padhin. Inmein se kuch bhi kisi ne nahi sikhaya. Nazar kagaz par tiki hai, mann mein ajeeb si jhenp aur thoda thage jaane jaisa ehsaas. Baat chhoti hai, par mann mein bas jaati hai.
School ko ready karna chahiye tha
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “School ko mujhe real life ke liye ready karna chahiye tha.” Ye jaayaz lagta hai. School ka kaam hi ready karna tha. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: badon wala har kaam is baat ka saboot ban jaata hai ki aapko naakaam kiya gaya. Har uljha form ek chhoti shikayat ban jaata hai, aur kuch naya seekhna kadam ke bajaye beizzati jaisa lagne lagta hai.
Humne school par bharosa kyun kiya
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki humne school par bharosa kiya ki wo humein wo dega jo chahiye tha. Bahut se log kisi roop mein ye niyam seekhte hain, aur tab ye aksar theek bhi lagta tha. Shayad wahan aapne mehnat ki aur umeed ki ki kaam aayegi. Jo bhi ho, ye chaahna ki school zyada sikhata, nashukri nahi. Ye ready feel karne ki chaah se aati hai, aur ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Har kaam mein purani jhunjhlahat
Har naya badon wala kaam purani jhunjhlahat lauta laata hai. Ye dheere-dheere hota hai, isliye pakadna mushkil hai. Aap doosron se peeche feel karte ho. Forms aur phone calls taalte ho. Aaj ki uljhan ka ilzaam beete kal par daalte ho. Rozmarra ke kaam apni asli se zyada bhaari lagne lagte hain, aur bina taiyaari ke hone ka halka ehsaas har nayi cheez mein saath chalta hai, unmein bhi jo aap jaldi seekh sakte the.
Kya school ko dosh dena sahi hai?
Imaandaari se khud se poochiye: kya school ko dosh dene se kabhi forms aasaan hue? Ya zyadatar har naya kaam bhaari lagne laga? Zyadatar bade log ye cheezein karke seekhte hain, dheere-dheere, aksar pehle thodi galti karke. Jo abhi nahi aata, wo aapki kaabiliyat ka paimana nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakde rakhna sahi hai?
Ab seekhna, kadam-kadam
Chhodne ka matlab ye maan lena nahi ki school ne sab sahi kiya. Matlab ye ki aaj ke kaam ko school ki kami ka hisaab nahi rehna hai. Aap inhein ab seekh sakte ho, ek-ek form, jaise zyadatar log seekhte hain. Shuruaat chhoti ho sakti hai, ek pal se. Yahin se kuch chain lautta hai: har naya hunar kuch paana banta hai, kisi kami ka saboot nahi.
If a teacher or anyone at school once hurt you, frightened you, touched you in a way that was wrong, or singled you out for who you are, that is not a hope to set down; it is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleSchool ko mujhe real life ke liye ready karna chahiye tha.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleIse ab seekha ja sakta hai, ek-ek kadam.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Badon wala ek chhota kaam chuniye aur bas wahi kijiye
- Din 2
Koi ek cheez dhoondhiye jise aap taalte aa rahe the
- Din 3
Gaur kijiye ki kaun si cheez aapne khud karna seekh li hai
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kisne aapko zindagi ka koi kaam ka hunar sikhaya, aur kaise?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Barah saal ki padhai, ek uljha form #
Nayi job ka pehla hafta hai, aur saamne joining form hai jiske kuch boxes samajh nahi aate. Circle ka area yaad hai, kisi mashhoor ladai ki date bhi. Par box number saat mein kya likhna hai, pata nahi. Pen haath mein, mann mein: “School ko mujhe real life ke liye ready karna chahiye tha.”
Kuch logon ke liye baat itni hai ki jo padha aur jo zindagi ne maanga, unke beech ek khai hai. School exam ke liye tayyar karta lag sakta hai, phir ek aisi duniya mein bhej deta hai jahan exams bilkul alag hain.
Koi badon wala kaam sochiye jo aapne khud seekha aur achhe se kiya.
Wo kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Phir se barah saal ke lagna #
Kuch logon ko jab badon wala koi kaam samajh nahi aata, to achanak bachche jaisa lagta hai, jaise board par mushkil sawaal hai aur wo phir se class mein hain. Kuch ko chehre par garmi chadhti hai, is umeed mein ki koi dekh na raha ho.
Sharir mann se pehle harkat kar sakta hai: pen kagaz ke upar ruka hua, bagal wale ki taraf ek jhatpat nazar, kahin aur hone ki achanak chaah. Shaant soch aksar tab aati hai jab koi samjha de.
Pichhli baar jab badon wala koi kaam atka, to sochne se pehle sharir mein aapne kya feel kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Zindagi ka apna syllabus hai #
Ye chaah ki school ne real life ke baare mein thoda aur sikhaya hota, samajh mein aati hai. Bahut se log school se nikal jaate hain bina ye seekhe ki simple khana kaise bante hai, achhi email kaise likhte hain, sarkari form kaise bharte hain, ya naye shehar mein raasta kaise dhoondhte hain.
Ye zyada chubhta hai kyunki na jaanna sabse peeche reh jaane jaisa lag sakta hai, jabki bahut se bade log chalte-chalte hi seekh rahe hote hain. Uljhan aam hai, bas chupchaap hoti hai.
Rozmarra ki kaun si aadat hai jo aap chahte ki koi chhoti umar mein kadam-kadam batata?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz: “Sabko sab pata hai” #
“Sabko ye karna aata hai.” “Humein kisi ne sikhaya kyun nahi?” “Main kitna peeche hoon.” Ye awaaz atakne ke theek pal mein bolti hai, jab form ya kaam bilkul saamne ho.
Kuch logon ko lagta hai ismein aadhi jhunjhlahat hai aur aadhi sharm. Jhunjhlahat jaayaz hai: school aur kar sakta tha. Sharm ki zaroorat aksar nahi: bahut se bade log ye cheezein ab bhi seekh rahe hain.
Jab awaaz kehti hai ki sabko ye aata hai, to asal mein kitne logon se pooch kar dekha gaya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Jahan ye khai pehli baar dikhi #
Kuch logon ko ye tab saaf dikhi jab pehli baar ghar se door rahe: hostel, rent ka room, naya shehar. Achanak sau chhote kaam saamne the jo kisi ne kabhi samjhaye nahi the.
Kabhi ye kisi cousin ya dost ko dekhkar dikhi jise sab pehle se aata lagta tha, kyunki mummy ne sikhaya tha. Kuch gharon mein ye sabak kitchen mein baithe-baithe mil jaate hain; kuch mein waqt hi nahi hota.
Aapki zindagi mein kisne aapko koi practical hunar sikhaya, aur unse seekhna kaisa tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Ready hone wala niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “School ko life ke liye ready karna chahiye,” ya “Bade insaan ko ye pehle se aana chahiye.” Pehla ek jaayaz umeed hai. Doosra har naye kaam ko aisa exam bana sakta hai jismein fail ho gaye.
Zyadatar bade log life ke hunar waise hi seekhte hain jaise cycle chalana: koshish karke, ladkhadakar, poochkar, phir koshish karke. Form bharna kisi ko janm se nahi aata.
“Pehle se aana chahiye” wala niyam kahan se aaya, aur kya aap ye niyam kisi seekhte dost par lagate?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Ye khai kya chheen sakti hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai kaam taalte jaana, offices mein chhota feel karna, ya naye kaamon se chupchaap bachna ki kahin pata na chal jaye kya nahi aata. Ek-ek karke ye badon ki zindagi ko zaroorat se zyada mushkil bana sakte hain.
Ye khud ko dekhne ka tareeka bhi badal sakta hai. Agar na jaanna fail hone jaisa lage, to nayi cheezein seekhne mein maza lena mushkil ho jaata hai, jabki seekhna hi to wo hai jo har koi kar raha hai.
Pichhle saal badon wali kaun si cheez aapne khud samjhi jo pehle nahi aati thi, aur tab kaisa laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Saalon baad, phir barah saal ke #
Ye dekhne ke liye ek drishya hai, bhavishyavaani nahi. Aage kahin ek aur form saamne hai, ek aur kaam jo kisi ne nahi sikhaya, aur wahi barah saal wala ehsaas.
Shayad form drawer mein pada rehta hai, ek last date khisak jaati hai, ek shaam aaram ki jagah chupchaap chinta mein jaati hai.
Ye tay nahi ki baat wahin jaayegi; ye bas ek tasveer hai, jise jab chahein kinare rakh dein.
Us tasveer mein aage kya hota hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ismein aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Sab chalte-chalte seekh rahe hain #
Jo bahut se bade log sab jaante lagte hain, unhone wo haal hi mein seekha hota hai, aksar kisi dost, video ya galti se. Real life hamesha raaste mein hi seekhi gayi hai, lagbhag har kisi se, lagbhag har desh mein.
Isse school ki kami theek nahi ho jaati, aur zyada practical sabak chaahna jaayaz hai. Ho sakta hai iska matlab ye ho ki ye khai saajhi hai, aur uljhan utni personal nahi jitni lagti hai.
Agli baar badon wala koi kaam atke, to aap apni zindagi mein kisse poochne ki kalpana kar sakte ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jo aap pehle hi samajh chuke ho #
Khai ke paas kuch shaant cheezein pehle se maujood ho sakti hain: wo forms jo aapne samajh liye, koi dish jo seekhi, koi dost jo kaam ki baatein batata hai, aur zaroorat padne par jawab dhoondh lene ki aapki apni aadat.
Inmein se kuch school ke faislon ko sahi nahi thehraata, aur ye chaahna ki usne zyada sikhaya hota, ab bhi jaayaz hai. Ye bhi sach hain, aur dikhate hain ki aapne akele kitna seekha hai.
Badon ki duniya ke baare mein aapne khud kya samajh liya hai, jiska credit aap khud ko dena chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Chalte-chalte seekhna, aur uska theek hona #
Yahan sulah ka matlab ye maan lena nahi ki school kaafi tha. Badalta ye hai ki khai har naye kaam ko fail hone wala exam nahi banati. Abhi nahi aata, kamzori nahi hai; bade aise hi seekhte hain.
Agar school mein kisi teacher ya kisi ne aapko chot pahunchayi, daraya, galat tareeke se chhua, ya aap jo hain uski wajah se alag karke nishana banaya (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, koi disability, ya aap kahan se aaye), to wo chhodne wali umeed nahi hai; chahe kitna bhi waqt beet gaya, use gambhirta se lena zaroori hai.
Agar bahut lambe waqt se apni gehraai se bahar feel karna bhaari pad raha ho, to wo is card se zyada ka haqdaar hai; koi bharosemand insaan use sun sakta hai.
Buniyadi izzat aur suraksha, school mein aur bade hone ke baad bhi, kabhi “zyada umeed” nahi hote, aapke liye bhi aur sabke liye bhi.
Agle uljhe form ko is baat ke saath narmi se thaamne ki kalpana kijiye: us waqt aap kise apne paas chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Uljhe forms ke liye ek line #
“School ko mujhe real life ke liye ready karna chahiye tha” ke paas kuch log rakhte hain: “Ye mujhe sikhaya nahi gaya tha; ise ab ek-ek kadam seekha ja sakta hai.” Pehli line jaayaz rehti hai. Doosri khai ko shuruaat bana deti hai.
Shuru mein thoda banawati lag sakta hai. Kuch log ise simple kar lete hain, jaise “Ye kisi ko janm se nahi aata.” Kuch waqt ke saath apne shabd likh lete hain.
Aapka apna sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo jaayaz shikayat bhi rakhe aur seekhte rehne ki gunjaish bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Abhi nahi aata, aur wo reh sakta hai #
Har uljhe kaam ko aaj raat nipatana zaroori nahi. Use dekh liya jaye, table par chhod diya jaye, aur kal taaze dimaag se ya kisi dost ki madad se uthaya jaye.
Behtar padhai ki chaah reh sakti hai. School mein hua nuksaan, daraya jaana, galat tareeke se chhua jaana, sharminda kiya jaana, ya aap jo hain uski wajah se alag nishana banaya jaana, kuch aur hai, aur chahe kitna bhi waqt beet gaya ho, gambhirta se lene layak hai; koi bharosemand insaan use sun sakta hai.
Kaam kal par chhodne ka matlab nakaami nahi. Matlab ye ki aaj ki shaam aaram ki ho sakti hai.
Is shaam aap kya karna chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar khai thodi chhoti lage #
Wahi pal sochiye, par umeed ka paimana ek darja dheema. Jo bhar sakte hain, bhar lete hain, aur phir kisi se poochte hain jisne pehle kiya hai, koi dost ya bhai-behen.
Kuch logon ke liye ye form usi din poora kar dena hai. Kabhi ye is par hansna hai ki sab kitna uljha hua hai.
Yahan batane ko kuch nahi aur kisi ko kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Aage aana baaki hai: is umeed ke saath sulah kaisi dikh sakti hai, aur aapke dinon mein pehle se kya hai.
Kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapka pehla chhota sanket kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Is mahine badon wala ek kaam jo aapne achhe se nipta liya, uspar dhyaan dijiye
- Kisi aise dost ke baare mein sochiye jo practical kaamon mein tez hai, aur wo kya karta hai
- Notice kijiye kab awaaz kehti hai “sabko aata hai”
- Kaam ko aisi cheez ki tarah sochiye jo seekhni hai, pass nahi karni
- Chupchaap ek naya hunar chuniye jo aap seekhna chahoge
Shaant, nijee aur apni marzi se. Jo theek lage, chun lijiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kisne aapko zindagi ka koi kaam ka hunar sikhaya, aur kaise?
- Badon wala kaun sa kaam aapne khud samjha aur aapko us par garv hai?
- Agla kaun sa practical hunar aap seekhna chahoge?
- Agar na jaanna zyada normal lage, to aap bina chinta ke kya aazmaoge?
- Badon ki zindagi ke baare mein aap pehle se kya seekh chuke ho jiska aapko achha lagta hai?